#it's just sad and so fucking miserable
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I sometimes think about men have almost the same rights, body autonomy, freedom in every country while for women life looks so different from country to country or at least from region to region.
In some countries you're forced to cover your head, in others you're prohibited from covering your head and in other countries you can wear/not wear what you want. You can have an abortion in that country but not this one. You can get education, degrees and have paying jobs in most countries but not in others. You can go to a doctor if you need to but there you can't because women aren't allowed to become doctors and women aren't allowed to see a male doctor..
I sometimes think about how shitty the country i live in is but then i think well at least i can get an education and go to a doctor.. i shouldn't have to be grateful for those things..
#it's just sad and so fucking miserable#feminism#equality#freedom for iran#iran protests#arab women#womens rights#womens liberation#male privilege#taliban#just a rant#👑
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the tradwife movement is the same as it has always been - back in the kitchen, back to breeding - it just has better branding.
when i was younger, i hated pink. i was not like other girls. this is now something i'm embarrassed of - this was not me being a "girl's girl."
but it was expressing something many of us felt at the time: i literally wasn't what girlhood was supposed to be. this is a hard thing to explain, but you know when you're not performing girlhood correctly. it isn't as easy as "i liked x when girls liked y" - because there were other girls that liked x, too - but i never figured out exactly the correct way to like x, or to be interested in y.
now there is the divine feminine. this is the same rhetoric it has always been: women are biologically driven to like pink and ribbons and submitting to our husbands.
the problem is that the patriarchy found a better PR team. because yes, actually, i want every woman to have the choice to be a homemaker. i also want her taken seriously for her legitimate home-making labor. i want her to be recognized as also having a job, just unpaid. i want men to have this opportunity, too.
but it is no longer "i made this choice and I love it." instead it is a sixteen-paragraph rant about how selfish it is that my generation isn't having kids. instead it's long videos about how if you feed your children processed foods, you're going to kill them. instead it is "this is what womanhood is supposed to be. i feel bad for any other choices you're making."
the shame spiral is just prettier. it is large houses devoid of personality. it is the implication: if you don't have this, you aren't happy. the solid, everlasting assurance: women are actually supposed to be submitting. this is the default. this is the natural state of things. all other attempts inflict suffering.
but you can no longer say i'm not like other girls. you can no longer reject this image completely. you cannot find it revolting, even if you know that the underbelly is toxic and festering. sure, it is the same repackaged patriarchy. but the internet does not have shades of grey. you should support and reward other women! your disgust is actually internalized misogyny. not because you are seeing a vision of yourself the way they're trying to train you to be. not because you feel her ghost pass within an inch of your earlobe. not because your father will eventually ask you - why can't you be like her?
because they figured out how to make it beautiful: women will sell other women on this idea, and we will find the singular loophole in feminism. sure, she's shaming you in most of her videos. sure, she implies that a different life is obscene. but she just wants you to be happy! you'd be happier if you were listening!
and the whole time you're sitting there thinking: i'd actually just be happier if i had that kind of money.
#spilled ink#writeblr#warm up#this is an incredibly difficult idea to express#but i basically keep watching the same timelooped interaction:#someone makes tradwife content where she's like ''i think it's SO sad when ppl don't have kids EW''#and then the response is ''... go fuck yourself? i think ur life is miserable and bad ?"#and instead of being like ''oh we are all under capitalism huh''#the response is like ''you CANT say that. she made a CHOICE. she is ALLOWED to have KIDS and be HAPPY#unlike YOU who is UNHAPPY bc you don't have KIDS.''#like .... these are people who will throw the first stone. and then when you lob one back#they ask why you're so violent. they tell you that you're a bad activist.#and you're like. PARDON????? you implied being a woman meant i need to submit to my husband???#and they're like - well it's just my belief. so what if i'm invalidating your entire identity.
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but genuinely I will never stop thinking about the museum scene. like it's upsetting in all the obvious setup-to-the-plot-twist ways, but more than that: the quietness of Steve’s presence vs. the booming grandiosity of the exhibit itself. The question of whether he had been previously (my guess would be yes) and if so, what a morbid, ghost-like ritual to perform just in order to cling to your memory, to remind yourself that it was real. What a blunt, reductive manifestation of not only everything you’ve lost, but the fact that your life and memory have become so entrenched a part of the public domain to the point that you’re viewed as about as much of a person as any one dusty item in that exhibit; the fact that you can’t access any of your world outside of yourself unless it’s through about a dozen second-hand, funhouse mirror narratives not only entirely co-opted by war but also tailored to fit a certain purpose. This one very public fucking horrific way to keep torturing yourself is one of your only remaining tethers to what you remember of your life. I mean. jesus christ steve
#i am so fucking sad.#and also: does he ever get any of his stuff back? has anyone kept any of it even? would the smithsonian even allow him access considering#it might be labeled to have historic value and since there’s zero precedent or protocol for someone coming back from the dead?#but even just. the paperwork and hassle of all of that.#I don’t think anyone likes having to deal with a departed’s estate#let alone when it’s /your own/ estate seventy years in the fucking future AND in the possession of a museum or otherwise lost to time#anyway.#max.txt#max’s miserable marvel rewatch
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the wild symbrockiness of it all is absolutely not lost on me in venom the last dance trailer when we get that statement from venom that ends with ...has found us (following a spectacularly pregnant pause) coming after the beautiful: “eddie, MY HOME...”
#*inhuman screeching*#EDDIE IS HIS HOME GUYS#seriously#the noise i made#tom hardy#i fucking love you#symbrock#venom#venom the last dance#venom tld#venom trailer#venom spoilers#eddie brock#mcu#i'm honestly soso sad this is the last monsterfucker movie from thee most chaotic of all chaotic af duos#i just love them so much#ultimate pathetic miserable failure of a man × giant slimy cop killing handsy af alien boy#my beloved <3#eddie x venom#forever!#happy pride 🌈
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In my experience, Las Nevadas is more than just a city. it’s a stage, a test, and a trap all at once. The players may change, but the game stays the same. And as long as the lights stay on, there will always be someone willing to bet everything they have.
Never look desperate. Desperation is blood in the water. If you lose big at the casino, laugh it off. If someone powerful snubs you, act like you don’t care. If you want something—access, status, revenge—get it quietly. The second people see you scrambling, you’re done.
Las Nevadas is a performance. A high-wire act where every glance, every deal, every drink poured means something.
And at the center of it all, there sits a husk in a silk shirt, gold in its teeth, wings heavy with a past it won’t acknowledge. He is evidence that you don't play the game. No, no. You become it. And that is when you are well and truly lost.
sounds like you've fallen out of love with her. the lights are warmer than the snow coating the rooftops, y'know. you'll be back before you realise.
#quackitychirps#ask blog#ooc: anon you Get it. oh my gof#its so. las nevadas is so quietly miserable to me. with l'manburg you have so much reason to be sad. everyones fuckin sad ur ALLOWED to be#yk. but with LN it's distraction. denial. always moving onto the next big thing#pfff why would u be struggling or upset look look theres a new event. or another menu. or another slot open! amazing!!!#so many bright lights that you can't tell if ur crying or ur eyes are just watering#ugh. ughhhhhh stop im so. LN makes me so sad once i stop and think hard abt it all. its an extension of q. a river of golden denial.#you gotta sweep it all under the rug and convince people there isnt a dead body under there#that the dead body couldn't possibly be quackity's. that it isnt who he used to be. the aspiring hope. the fun despite all the sorrow#ijm going to fucking lose it sorry everyone im going apeshit
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i fucking hate winter i want to [remembers threatening suicide just harms my loved ones] take down a deer with my bare hands and rip its throat out with my teeth
#when the cycle goes angry-depressed-angry-depressed and theyre two sides of the same coin#the deer is me and i would cry over its dead body the second the anger left me#i wanted to go to bed EARLY tonight#god it's so fucking over#i wish there was therapy where you could say you wanted to kill yourself without being admitted/prevented from going to study abroad#im just so ANGRY for no reason and then im so fucking sad.#and i cant actually talk to friends about it because idk i just cant#boohoo it;s cold out so now im considering killing myself after we graduate but i realize i could never do that to my family#so now im just kinda sitting here miserable with no way out
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Hey, do you guys remember that agony//ghost thing the FNaF lore has? Yeah? Cool
Do you guys know any of the synonyms to agony there are? Like, suffering, torment, throes, and the like? Yeah? Cool
Are you guys familiar with my Quiet Throes au//fic thing? Yeah? Cool



Agony ghost Bloodmoon. They torment the hell out of the bastard, and hang around Solar sometimes. But mostly stick around Ruin, staring at him, messing with his things, throwing stuff at him, and generally making his life miserable (as it should be)
Tw for the images below: implied suicide attempt, referenced character death, and implied torture//sa


#this was genuinely fun to think through#is it tragic? yeah very much so#is it cathartic? a bit I guess#they get to torture the bastard so that’s a good thing#tsams#sams au#sams bloodmoon#sams bloodtwins#sams solar#sams ruin#tsams au#Quiet Throes in Pooling Oil#au variant#which by the way technically already existed? I have been thinking about the different ways the story could’ve gone in—#—and the twins dying was one of the first things that came to mind. it would be very fucking sad and tragic and definitely wreck Solar a bi#—but they’d get a nice tomb under a tree near that place the first ones saw that blood moon in#but just today I was thinking about classic FNaF when suddenly#agony ghosts#and throes *is* a synonym for agony…#tw sui attempt#tw character death#tw implied torture#get his fucking ass Bloodmoon#wreck his shit#*make him pay*#(and just imagined ghost BM and Jack 2v1ing Ruin in making his life miserable. how lovely ^w^)
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dennis needs a mental health day
#lil sketch#ngl in my head i wanted to make him look a lot sadder#but i can't figure out how#i will tho#i'll make him so sad and so miserable#just watch me#i love him so fucking much#iasip fanart#dennis reynolds#iasip s16#iasip
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started watching link click this is actually so sad i am actively losing my mind oh my gooooood wuaghgughguhrsklckmlak cheng xiaoshi and qiao ling siblingism is soooo important to me........
#i cant stop crying#literally just finished episode 5 im so miserable rn#cheng xiaoshi#link click#shiguang dailiren#theyre so siblings im losing my mind#these past few episodes r just so fucking sad#this is so sad#i hate time travel actually
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#im having such a miserable time dating in this city that I have actually thought about going back to my ex#not in like a genuinely considered way#just like. fuck. ugh. I am not having a good time#I’m tired lol#and I do miss the company I miss having someone around to cuddle and hug and be physical with#and she’d help me carry and open things…#ugh#and I’m not someone who like. gets something out of just cuddling friends rly#it’s nice sometimes but it by no means gives me what I’m looking for when I seek contact from someone I’m romantically into#whatever#I’m sad#👍🏼#batty posts#batwings#oh also disclaimer bc people love to be stupid:#yes Heather and I are still doing well and I love her like crazy#I also can’t really cuddle her while she’s 3000ish km away#so. Yknow
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Im loving the stories about your partner so much its been my fave soap opera xD
also just out of curiosity... would you be willing to describe what his sneeze is like 👀
Honestly thank god y'all like hearing about it bc I really don't shut up about it 😭
Anyway his sneezes are like kinda throaty and a little harsh. Not super loud but it's definitely not quiet. And his normal sneezes are super different from his sick sneezes, like it's crazy that there's such a noticeable difference. Idk if I've heard him sneeze enough to give a completely accurate spelling, but it's kinda like a hk'eRRshuu normally, but when he was sick it was more of a hngh'uTSCHOO, and they're both distinctly him so it doesn't feel as different as the spelling makes it seem, but it's still wild to me lmao
#snz#snz kink#oh and he sniffles like once or twice after his normal sneezes#but bro it was so fucking constant and wet when he was sick like i was horrified lmao#y'all remember how i was crying on here all day lmaoooo#like they sounded so utterly exhausted and miserable like it was a chore for him to get them out#and he soaked through several masks throughout the day so you know they were wet af#and he did like that sad little whine/groan every so often when he was sniffling#and the cough was Not Good lmao like that was definitely worse and way more frequent than the sneezing#he doesn't cough regularly tho like he was just really dying that day lmao#and then like i said he does sneeze a few times a day but i feel like that's somewhat normal#and he's unfazed by it like it's just a thing that happens and nothing more#partner posting
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Honest to god if your entire criticism to aang and his final decision to spare ozai is "it's boring!" then I think you should stop watching ATLA and better yet stop talking about aang character in general.
Because I know you'd whole argument just miserable to listen to, your whole point of view to the world is miserable, lack of whimsical and joy, may one day you found that again for now, shut up.
#aang#This fandom is almost 20 years old and people still don't know how to tag too like damn y'all just sad at this point#I hate fandom discourse but this argument just TIRING to listen to anymore cuz it's the same old bs#It's so old and repetitive like shut the fuck up!#If you can see the ending as something hopeful than I don't trust any of your judgement cuz you're miserable!#Anyway fuck you if you hate aang I'm so serious#*can't#atla#Pro aang#venus rant
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No you don't understand. Jack Skellington wrapped his bony hands around my heart with these parts of his lament:
Yet year after year, it's the same routine And I grow so weary of the sound of screams And I, Jack, the Pumpkin King Have grown so tired of the same old thing
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Oh, there's an empty place in my bones That calls out for something unknown The fame and praise come year after year Does nothing for these empty tears
#IT'S THE WAY HE SAYS IT#so much passion for ''and i jack!! the pumpkin king!!'' and then the weariness of ''have grown so tired of the same old thing''#GENIUS. RELATABLE AF.#and then he starts sounding really upset when he sings ''the fame and praise come year after year. does nothing for these empty tears''#and again relatable!! like without relating it to a desire for a change/something new (though that is also relatable!)#but yeah!! when people praise you but it doesn't touch you and you're just fuckin sad and miserable!! yeah!! fuck yeah skeleton man!!#Jack Skellington#Jack's Lament
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Cannot believe at this late stage of my life I'm becoming a Gabriel fucker. Local mean jock doesn't want to be evil now, he wants to be loved. I'm slightly annoyed they didn't make Beelzebub more unhinged because the "plot" should have been at least half about them fucking up shit on an absolute rampage trying to find Gabriel, a thing everyone assumes they are doing to fry him with hellfire so they can kick off the war in a way that's advantageous to hell, BUT ACTUALLY!!! true love.
#I do love evil love!#but more than that it's like... the terrible emptiness of heaven and hell?#absolutely no one has been having a good time!#they're just middle management admin suckers doing a soulless job no one else understands#they don't even care about earth! six thousand years of#mommy promised that if you all sit down and shut up we can have another war when the humans are dead#as a form of enrichment for their underlings#and they're just going along with it because that's the grind#incidentally I enjoyed how childish the angels were this season my pet theory is that they and the demons also have free will but no one#noticed so they've all just been making themselves miserable enforcing corporate culture and plotting each other's downfall because it#didn't occur to them to do anything else#gabriel and beelzebub realizing there's more to life and they can simply say fuck it and make something good between them#implies other angels and demons can do the same! as does Muriel obviously#like they are torturing each other. in much the same ways that humans are torturing each other#sad for Aziraphale and Crowley they care about earth & humans#which is a real problem they have that Gabzebub do not#and also that Crowley is in denial about how much he wants to be good and Aziraphale is in denial about just so many things and also#committed to being an ass about it.#these are problems that Gabriel and Beelzebub do NOT have because they are goal oriented and keep their eyes on the prize#good omens spoilers
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watching the fnaf movie with my family is so strange. like... they don't know what's going on, they don't get why Micheal makes me break down in tears with how hard I'm laughing at him, they don't get why I care so much.
#its like#look! my pookie! my silly little guy! my funky man! he's so sad and miserable and skrunkly and pathetic! I wanna kiss him and bully him!#they don't understand#they will never understand Micheal Afton the way *I* understand Michael Afton#they just want me to shut the fuck up and I'm not ok with it#this isn't just about Micheal. but just fnaf in general#its just the most obvious and jarring with Michael#fnaf#micheal afton#fnaf movie
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I'm actually devastated cause i woke up to an atrocious sore throat..
#im literally just a girl blogging#what the fuck#i literally just got over being sick two weeks ago AND MY GRANDMA LITERALLY DISINFECTED THE ENTIRE HOUSE WHEN MY FAMILY WAS AT THE MALL#im actually so sad#AND TO GET SICK BEFORE CHRISTMAS HAS NEVER HAPPENED TO ME#theres a first time for everything:(#im suffering#ranting#i absolutely hate getting sick#now idk if im gonna be able to go over and do early Christmas at a family members house#cause im sick AND she literally has a newborn baby and i dont want the baby getting sick#omg and on top of all that#im going back with said family for a few weeks and im gonna be miserable if IM FUCKING SICK#also doesn't help that my cousin and his gf sleep with fans on AND SO MY ROOM FAN IS ON AND ITS ALREADY COLD IN THIS HOUSE
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