#it's interesting that both played the role of the bride and the groom at the same time.

[myuminji]

the bride walked down the aisle to where the groom stood, and there they exchanged their vows in front of the altar...

[margareth-lv]

⛓️ When art and life become one ⛓️

I believe fairy tales have a great deal of therapeutic power. And there's nothing quite like a good story.

As I’ve written here a few times before, I first started watching Outlander in 2020 – a challenging year for us all. At that time, we all needed a good story to take our minds off reality. And to move into the catharsis that art offers. You can imagine my excitement when I realised that two actors (who were so obviously in love) playing the characters in the story were born around the same time as the characters they were playing.

James Alexander Malcolm MacKenzie Fraser, born on 1 May. Sam Roland Heughan, born on 30 April. Both Taurus, just like me. Claire Beauchamp Randall Fraser, born on 20 October. Caitríona Mary Balfe, born on 4 October. Both Libra.

And, as you might expect, in both the play and real life, she is older than he is. Isn't it wonderful how things just fall into place sometimes? There’s always something to ponder, think about and enjoy.

But it's been a while since we've seen joy in "enjoy." The Taylor Swift concert is the exception that proves the rule, here.

I'm getting tired of the low-level storytelling we've been presented with for a while now. This story is the worst of the worst. It’s a pretty poor selection of C, D, and E cinema.

And it's pretty sad how two people, who literally built their relative public recognisability on being the 'hottest couple on the screen', are now pathetically role-playing their supposed 'real love lives'. And neither of them succeeds. They're also pretty weak actors in their roles of romantic lovers (I'm thinking mainly of Sam here). Let me just say that they're not pathetic only when they're together. *** *** *** When I saw the blurry, embarrassing footage from this weekend's Giorgio Armani Tennis Classic (tagged #ad on Sam's Instagram), my first thought was that it was a spectacle for us, our Tumblr fandom. There's no one else who would be interested in something you have to look for with a magnifying glass, zooming in, spending long minutes stopping frames of film. Then I got reminded about the Wimbledon Tennis Championships back in July 2019 and another poor performances by 'bride' and her 'groom' a month before their 'wedding'.

Do you remember those pictures?

First wife, second wife, Claire Beauchamp Randall Fraser and Laoghaire MacKenzie, I mean, Evie Greenwood, a primary teacher.

You know, realism and art all blend together.

We first saw this kind of kissing being reduced to sucking on the partner's upper lip in what we were forced to think was Sam’s ‘real life’, and then we saw the same thing on screen.

And what about Sam's somewhat embarrassing performance in The Couple Next Door? Which other actor in that film has exposed themselves so much (and so pointlessly), in a literal sense?

How many of us thought Sam's performance in the erotic scenes in TCND was not sexy at all, but disgusting?

I did.

Wasn't that display of Sam's rhythmically moving buttocks as distasteful as his other performance a few weeks ago?

Seriously, I would never want my husband/partner/father of my children to behave like this. There's no money worth it. But maybe there is.

Sometimes I feel sorry for them, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I remind myself of how jealous Cait can be.

How on earth do they manage to live like that?

[3 July, 2024]

[thekatebridgerton]

I like your discussion of Anthony's relationship with his sisters.

For Hyacinth, I have this image of Anthony at her wedding, breathing a sigh of relief. He got Hyacinth married and it didn't involve any of the Theatrics of their other siblings.

Imagine what he would do if he knew about all the breaking and entering & Mattress dancing the bride and groom have done?

Oh I have thoughts about that all right. But on a more serious note.

Anthony's relationship with his sisters is very sweet but also funny because he's at odds with all of them half the time and the other half he loves them to death.

With Daphne, he knew she was going to be the first one he'd have to step up for as a man of the house and she was born in more or less equal footing with him. First girl vs first boy when it comes to society expectations. There is a certain respect there that Anthony has for Daphne, and her womanly intuition. But I think Anthony for most of her life has treated her as an adult, I highly doubt that Anthony did much sugar coating with Daphne, she got to live most of her life in the role of his sister not his daughter and it shows in her relationship with him. The problem in their book was that Anthony at one point started worrying that Daphne wasn't as ready for marriage as she pretends to be and began to be a little bit overprotective over her specifically because of her adventures in the marriage mart. Which seriously weirded her out. And once she got married they went back to their usual relationship where they both respect each other's interests and leave each other largely alone. I'd also like to add that when it came to Daphne Anthony was hurt because he expected a little bit more of her since he always trusted her to be an adult and at one point Daphne was going something along the lines of ' well I'm not an adult, I'm not that mature, I'm just a girl' which really brought things into perspective for him

With Eloise the scene where they're talking things out into tspwl speaks volumes about their relationship. Because Eloise was stuck in the middle between being Anthony's sister and being treated as his daughter, which she never wanted and really rebelled against, both of them wanted to have a sibling relationship and both of them knew they couldn't have it because she was entirely too young when Edmund died and needed a father figure. but she resented that it has to be Anthony, she resented at her playful brother had to grow up too soon and now couldn't play with her, because she simply wanted Anthony to be the guy he used to be before their dad died. So she antagonized Anthony just to be contrary and have her fun. Also she is the sibling who is the most like him, prideful arrogant, I lay the law kind of person. So Anthony was sort of worried for her because he knew she was a lot like him and eventually she would chaff at the weight of the Bridgerton name, he just didn't know if he could protect her from the consequences, so when she ran away to meet Philip he probably had a little bit of a heart attack because he expected something crazy to happen to Eloise at some point he just couldn't prepare for this particular eventuality. Also I think it was a welcome surprise for Anthony to see that his most stubborn sister had actually grown up and was ready to become the leader he always knew she could be, he just never thought that and all this happened while he wasn't looking.

I think that Anthony's relationship with Francesca is the sweetest one, because unlike Eloise and Daphne, Francesca never actually made Anthony feel like a failure which he often felt like with his other two sisters. But Francesca she played by the rules, she never gave Anthony any trouble she was smart, a little bit sneaky, always there to welcome him with warmth, at home or in Scotland, sometimes you just have that sibling who is a healing to the soul. And I think Francesca was that for Anthony, perhaps that's why she fell through the cracks because she never complained and that made Anthony think that she was happy. I think in his younger years Anthony would just spend time with Francesca because he wanted to be with someone who was just always happy to see him, since everyone else seemed to have all these expectations and demanded so much attention, but not Francesca, she was calm and good and she understood when he couldn't give her as much attention as he gave everyone else. And because he loves her so much I think he also feels very guilty that he missed out on a lot of important things in her life and wasn't there for her when she was passing through her worst moments and he feels grateful to Michael that he made her smile again because to Anthony Francesca is special, out of all his crazy siblings, she's the one he probably likes the most and the only one he's willing to look the other way for. I'm pretty sure that Anthony did find out what happened in Scotland, and he pretended that he didn't know because she's his favorite and he doesn't want to have this conversation with her Anthony has never had to seriously scold Francesca for anything in her life and he doesn't want to start now ( at most he told her off for not inviting him to her second wedding and that was it. )

And then we have Hyacinth, she's practically Anthony's daughter so she is more babied than anyone else, I think Anthony spoiled her too much, and at the end he realized that he had to let her grow up make her own mistakes even if that meant he would have to eventually deal with a scandal (because of course she's wild and stubborn like Eloise but with Daphne and Francesca's social charm). Letting his baby grow up also meant setting her loose to find her own path. And let her be the' joy' of other unsuspecting individuals like Lady Danbury and Gareth for a change.

And that's the tea

[minecraftbookshelf]

ok so I know you’re writing and probably already thought of this but I’m case you didn’t: the differences in elven courting rituals and oceanic courting rituals, specifically when it comes to wedding gifts. if you have thought about this feel free to ignore but the way I see it

elves live a while,and probably know about the arranged marriages a decent amount of time before they happen, so in between wedding planning and normal life each half of the marriage is planning some extravagant amazing wedding gift like gardens of gold or giant tapestries and stuff like that

meanwhile ocean/swamp folk who don’t live as long probably have more personal gifts, even in arraigned marriages bc they’re still getting to know each other! but either way the gifts are more personal and specifically tailored to the other half

so keeping track we have Scott, panicking bc he has like zero time to plan a wedding and learn a language and make a wedding gift and so the necessary things for life in however little time he has, Jimmy, panicking bc he doesn’t know anything about scott, no one he knows knows anything about scott, and even when they finally meet scott isn’t exactly an open book! so Jimmy is trying to do the same things as scott (tjough his doesn’t need to be as extravagant) in addition to finding out who the hell he’s getting married to and also ruling a kingdom

AND (you thought I was done NO the adhdemons love this concept and filled the no-box fan void with fictional politics) you have Lizzie, Joel, Xornoth, and Iona, who also had to get gifts for each other

first I need you to know that I saw your url and had the immediate gut reaction of "oh same hat!" XD

Anywho

So courting traditions in general:

I don't have too much set in stone currently, lots of ideas and concepts though, because I'm half shaping the story around it and half shaping it around the story, because writing be like that (rip) but I do have a few things.

Rivendell is basically just Tolkein's elves partly isekai-ed into minecraft, lets be real. So I've yoinked the tradition from there of the bride-to-be's family gifting a jewel (usually of magical or historical or familial importance) to the groom-to-be as a sort of pre-dowry. Only because heteronormativity does not exist here it is usually a mutual exchange of gifts. Tapestries and other labor and skill intensive textile arts also play a role because of the importance of textiles in Rivendell culture (see the ask that I'm answering after this one for more details on that) And there is also just a general idea of "a demonstration of what you are bringing to the table" for the actual wedding exchange. Like the most intense and stressful art show where both your entire extended family and also your significant other/others's extended family will be judging it. (Exact form of art varies depending on the skills and interests of the elf in question; culinary, poetry, musical, metal working...the list goes on)

The Swamp has fewer actual universal traditions. Due to their recent (past few centuries) history they are basically two nations that mixed and mingled and also include a few different diasporas interspersed within them. Jimmy himself tends towards more Oceanic traditions, which include things like feats of bravery and provision. This will go both exactly as well as you think it will and genuinely very well. (Oceanic traditions tend towards dramatic and grand gestures and statements. Ability to protect and provide is a huge thing both in the Ocean and the Swamp.)

Also Jimmy absolutely panics and ends up asking a good dozen random citizens for advice.

You also have the added layer of this specific instance being an arranged marriage (which isn't especially unusual) between two empires (which is wildly unusual at their social level) That custom is, in fact, purely an Oceanic one. (Which is why Joel and Lizzie were the previous example)

Most/all of the other Empires don't tend to intermarry their royals because enough Empires don't use familial succession models that it renders it fairly unstable as an alliance technique. There's more context for the Oceanic take on it but that is a whole nother post/will be in the fics explicitly.

The point of all this is that both parties are kind of stressed and trying to figure out how to compromise/accommodate while not really having a fully applicable framework for this situation (on Rivendell's part.)

Rivendell barely has interacted with the other empires for generations let alone married them.

Xornoth and Iona actually had it fairly easy, outside figuring out how to navigate the religious minefield that is Xornoth's entire existence. It was a very matter of fact, business like courtship that Scott and Iona ran with all the stringent focus of a military operation (which it basically was) and not even Xornoth's tendency towards chaos could really do much in the face of that.

In the context of like, personal gifts Joel and Lizzie actually got off really easy because by the time they got married-married they'd technically been married for several years already.

[chaosnojutsu]

good morning!! I see your backstory ask post and I would love to hear more about the bridgerton AU or extraordinary love!! Whatever you want to say about them. they are faves of mine!! ❤️ thank youuuuuuu

You get both as I try to decide if I can swing something for Shikatema month and prep for Nejiten month! Perfect timing, I actually just re-read these two last night looking for inspiration!

ask about the backstory for one of my fics!

send shivers down my spines: I wrote all the Nejiten story and separately wrote all of Lady Whistledown as one cohesive letter, and then decided where I wanted to place each of her gossipy interjections. That was neat to explore as a writing device because I had room to expand upon the world and add a little more flavor (like detailing Naruhina’s relationship and my obligatory background Shikatema mention) without feeling like I had to do it all from Tenten’s POV, which would have detracted from the core of this story: Tenten being horny for Neji.

Another fun part of writing this was casting what role each character would play! Coding Neji as Simon was easy — deciding to split Daphne between Tenten and Hinata then seemed natural; the premise of having sex in the library comes from Daphne and Simon, but it felt disingenuous to her character for Tenten to be the diamond of the season. My personal favorite analog is Tsunade and Queen Charlotte, which also felt like a duh decision given their roles in society, but I liked the nod to Tenten wanting to impress Tsunade.

I solemnly swear to never refer to Tenten’s junk as “nethers” again lmao. I usually can’t stand that one, but it felt appropriate for the piece. And I can’t talk about this fic without bringing up the dom Neji agenda! Who’s going to tell the head of the house he can’t give head anywhere he wants in his house?? Definitely not Tenten, and apparently not any of their house staff. I’ve spent some time considering what a dom Neji might look like since your initial comment on the fic, so he might make a stronger appearance in another work — yay and thanks for putting the bug in my ear!

extraordinary love: “Temari knows damn well why a stupid social construct like her nonexistent virginity matters. Back in the day of arranged marriages, the whole thing was more of a business deal. The wannabe groom would have to pay more to his bride’s family in exchange for her hand in marriage if she was pure. Virgin brides from influential families were high dollar items. Temari’s family is influential enough. But now that the matter of virginity is off the table… this barter is looking more like the Sand seeking retribution against the Leaf than tit for tat. If her marriage is blessed, they’ll probably stipulate Shikamaru move to Suna instead of the opposite, which is not what Temari and Shikamaru decided on. In the most drastic worst case scenario, like Kankuro said, their engagement (or the knowledge that said engagement has been consummated on a number of occasions) might be seen as an act of war. They’ll stick Shikamaru’s stupid, handsome face in a bingo book with shoot to kill orders.”

This premise is the heartbeat of the story. What does it look like when your personal values don’t align with those of everyone else around you? How do we respond when well-intended people stick their nose in our business and give an opinion we never asked for? Combined with fan theories/headcanons that Shikadai was a pre-wedding pregnancy — and that’s an interesting concept to me, especially considering what that might have looked like for Temari and Shikamaru if they were still long distance or abruptly decided not to be (and the parallel to Mirai and Kurenai and Asuma, of course, which I didn’t hit in this story because Temari wasn’t actually pregnant) — everything fell into place.

Making the call to write from Temari’s POV was exciting but scary because she’s so Particular, you know? But this story needed to come from her because of what it is, and it’s about Temari’s agency: she gets to decide who she marries, and whose baby she has, and she gets to decide when those things happen. And then I got to actually write her being in love (which I’m eager to try again), and I love the energy of Temari being like “Look how impressive my fiancé is! I made a good choice! I’m trying really hard to make you approve of him!” and Shikamaru being like “Yeah, what she said!” Because Shikamaru understands that as far as Suna’s customs and culture go, he doesn’t have a dog in that race, he IS Temari’s underdog in the race.

I’m honestly proud of this fic because I know I just made it sound really serious in terms of themes etc., but it ultimately is a comedy, and anyone who has ever done comedy can speak to how difficult of a skill it is to learn and hone. One of the things that makes comedy work well is that the characters have to take everything seriously and respond sincerely, now matter how ridiculous or grandiose their circumstances or responses may be. Temari even says from the beginning of this story that she knows she has the Kazekage on her side, but she panics a little because of her circumstances and takes matters into her own hands, and she doesn’t relinquish that control until shenanigans have ensued and Gaara finally reminds his sister that his support of her was never in question. (I’m not sure how I feel about my iterations of Gaara and Kankuro individually or overall, but I do like their scenes with Temari as siblings and their consistency.)

Side note: the reception of this story gave me the confidence to write chapter 15 of Reliance the way it panned out!

(also, I’m late, what’s new, lesbian nejiten is coming i promise)

[oh-honey-its-maxine]

So I wrote a review/analysis of Revolutionary Girl Utena on letterboxd and my friend told me I should post it on here, so here it is. I'll put the link to the review and I'll also paste it under the read-more for convenience.

This is my 3rd watch and boy do I have a lot of feelings. I really recommend people to read the Palace Perspective on archivesofourown.org. It's a very in-depth essay about the deeper themes of the show.

Anthy Himemiya is probably one of my favourite characters of all time. She's just a girl. She's been here from the start. She's not really here. She's an awkward teenager. She's at the centre of the world. She's a bird in a cage. She's an allegory for all the ways women suffer under patriarchy. From the first episode, before we know the truth of the rose bride, we see her be blamed anytime something bad happens to a male character. On the first watch she's seems to not have much personality, but once you have a better understanding of her and what she's been through she (and subsequently the show itself) becomes so much more interesting. You notice all the ways she exercises her agency, mostly to fuck with Nanami, and that's important! Because that's the point of the ending, nothing changed, there was no revolution. Anthy didn't suddenly become more powerful, Utena just showed her that she was worth being saved and so she saved herself. I'm going to give Akio a (rare) break and say he's not the one that started calling Anthy a witch, however he is the one that kept her in that coffin through abuse and manipulation and continually scapegoated her.

Akio is also interesting. For all intents and purposes, he was once a victim himself. Though it's debatable how much of the Himemiya's backstory is just metaphor, it seems he was once put on a pedestal and made to live up to impossible standard. But when he couldn't meet them, Anthy took the fall for him. Ever since then he's been stuck trying to regain his glorious past, and keeping Anthy stuck with him. Akio is the most miserable motherfucker, despite being the one with the most power. Probably because he surrounds himself with teenagers he grooms, and never makes any meaningful connection with anyone despite the respect he clearly has from other adults. In the end he's the one who is the most stuck in his coffin. He refuses to heal from the pain others caused him in the past, so all he can do is perpetuate the cycle and keep everyone else trapped. He talks a big game about wanting to "revolutionise the world" but when Utena was on the verge of making real changes, he panicked and tried to stop her.

Utena is a lot smarter than what people give her credit for. The cantarella scene, the rooftop scene, she does realise the harm she's caused Anthy without meaning to. She realises the duels are inherently harmful because they keep Anthy in her role of rose bride and at Akio & the duelists' mercy. The reveal in episode 34 is so important because it shows that it wasn't really about becoming a prince, it was about saving Anthy. It was always about saving Anthy. Utena was simply told that the way to save Anthy was to become a prince, but someone who believes in the system of princes, princesses, and witches cannot save Anthy. That's why Akio was never able to open the rose gate. All Utena had to do was hold out her hand, both literally and figuratively.

Nanami is also underestimated quite often I think. She's easy to dismiss in the beginning, just another anime mean girl with a big brother complex. However, as the show unfurls, you see how she plays into the show's themes. In many ways, Touga and Nanami are a future Akio and Anthy. You see then how Touga feeds into her brother complex purposefully to control her, especially when she distances herself and his advances become more explicit. Nanami being a parallel to Anthy is crucial in showing the cyclical nature of violence in RGU and how abusive behaviour is taught and passed down to the next generation. Even the "filler" episodes show her as an animal raised to be slaughtered and consumed by Touga, her fear of being alienated from Touga and how her whole sense of self centers around being Touga's little sister.

I could go on, every character in the show is so interesting. The ways they uphold patriarchal ideas, the ways they don't. How they all try to fit into this prince-princess-witch system and it hurts all of them, but still does more harm to the girls because it strips them of their agency. How that system prevents real love from flourishing, because it forces relationships with uneven power dynamics. To finish, big love to the Shadow Girls, the best modern take on the greek chorus I've ever seen. Always throwing shade (pun intended) at the characters in the most cryptic ways possible, except when they called Akio a miserable bastard to his face.

[lemonhemlock]

It’s so frustrating how team Black always accuses Alicent id being a bad mother without examining why exactly(if we agree with that statement that is 🙄). Like first of all Alicent is a very good example of how a woman in Westerosi patriarchy would behave(which they hate ofc)we see from a very early age the pressure she’s put under and how she’s much more aware of women’s limitations and the role they have to play in society than R is. We also see his despite the way Otto grooms her A tries again and again to play the role of the conciliator in the family from trying to advice V and R to talk to each other to her trying mend things with R after she marries V as well as showing interest in Westerosi affairs of the kingdom(something R doesn’t do)But the more she spends time with the Targs the more dysfunctional she becomes herself both due ti her relationship with O and due to V and R’s entitled arrogant behaviour. She tries her best with her kids but not only does she have ti struggle with the fact that they were result of her rape but she also fears for their lives.And frankly A comes off way more women friendly than R does. I mean someone should make a gif of A giving Criston reproachful look after he calls R c**t in contrast to R laughing at D calling his wife a b***h. Or her accusing A of being self righteous when she hooked up with her uncle at his wife’s funeral and then was complicit in the murder of an innocent men in order to fake Laenor’s death. At least with A you can see she struggles and hates what society tells her she has to do for the family,etc but R shows no regret at all for all the lies and gaslighting.

Thank you for the message, friend! I'm sure the anons hanging around will appreciate hearing there are others with sane takes around here. :)

It’s so frustrating how team Black always accuses Alicent id being a bad mother without examining why exactly(if we agree with that statement that is 🙄).

Agree. This is such a dumbass takeaway that veers into the positively vile. Alicent is not beyond reproach (no mother is, no person is!), but she doesn't have the psychological education and therapeutic tools at her disposal to help herself and her children. She cannot remove herself from her constant triggers, because there is no divorce in Westeros, no packing up your bags and leaving, no social services. She is a child bride, maritally raped and forced to bear children.

Not to mention how she is forced into this very traditional female role, when she displays a romantic attachment to Rhaenyra in the first episodes. Laenor is hailed as this tragic gay victim of heteronormative patriarchy, but Alicent is never awarded that kind of grace. Laenor is well within his rights not to have sex with his wife in order to reproduce, but Alicent should magically be okay with her body being at Viserys' beck and call. Of course motherhood is going to be a very difficult labyrinth for her to navigate in these conditions.

People see a distraught child-mother desperately trying to calm her crying baby and think "see? the baby hates her. she is crying because Alicent is a bad mother and abusing her!" Alicent is seen passing her baby to her handmaidens when she has a guest over, so that they could discuss a delicate matter in peace: she must hate her children because she disposes of them to her servants. Even though every high born lady has access to childcare. Rhaenyra has a literal army of child minders following her around, but she never receives the same kind of comments. Alicent asks Helaena questions about creepy-crawlies to engage her daughter in conversation and the internet interprets it as her being dismissive of her daughter's hobbies, when she has just proved anything but. "She looks so bored" - you bet your bottom dollar she is bored. Who the hell is interested in bugs and worms? Most people are disgusted by them and run away screaming. Yet Alicent becomes a terrible mother for not stanning insects - I can't with these people.

Like first of all Alicent is a very good example of how a woman in Westerosi patriarchy would behave(which they hate ofc)we see from a very early age the pressure she’s put under and how she’s much more aware of women’s limitations and the role they have to play in society than R is. We also see his despite the way Otto grooms her

Agreed. Alicent displays high levels of emotional and political intelligence from the beginning. She knows what Otto is asking her to do, but she can't verbalize it because it's so awful, she doesn't know or want to put it into words. She very clearly suffers from anxiety as a result of this.

A tries again and again to play the role of the conciliator in the family from trying to advice V and R to talk to each other to her trying mend things with R after she marries V as well as showing interest in Westerosi affairs of the kingdom(something R doesn’t do)

Alicent defends Rhaenyra to Viserys with every opportunity she gets, even though Rhaenyra has frozen her out as a result of her marriage. I'm not going to put too much blame on Rhaenyra here, because her feelings are completely normal: she thinks that her father is replacing the family unit that they formed with a brand new shiny one that Alicent can provide. She is a hurt teenage girl who just lost her mother in a brutal way. She's not going to be the most empathetic person. But that doesn't stop Alicent from reaching out to her.

But the more she spends time with the Targs the more dysfunctional she becomes herself both due ti her relationship with O and due to V and R’s entitled arrogant behaviour. She tries her best with her kids but not only does she have ti struggle with the fact that they were result of her rape but she also fears for their lives.

It's a combination of neurosis, anxiety, repression, paranoia and isolation that escalates with Rhaenyra's obliviousness at how her own behaviour is socially perceived. Rhaenyra doesn't understand that her actions appear hostile to Alicent:

lying on her mother's grave (if she lied about that, she could lie about anything; why would Alicent believe her anymore?)

getting Otto fired for telling the truth and leaving Alicent without her only source of support, as flawed a father as Otto was

not having any kind of relationship or affection towards her half-siblings (what's to stop her from killing them when the time comes, if she cares so little about them?)

intentionally having bastards and causing a future succession crisis

not taking any responsibility for what Luke did to Aemond, suggesting that a freshly-mutilated Aemond be tortured, impressing upon her father that her bastard children's reputation must be upheld at any cost, even cost of life or body parts

having her husband "murdered" (aka encouraging rumours that she hand a hand in his death)

marrying Daemon, a known maniac, whom no one wants on the throne and the sole reason Rhaenyra was named heir in the first place

stealing Driftmark away from the Velaryons and being complicit in the murder of a man for telling the truth

How in the world are these acts meant to endear Rhaenyra to Alicent? How is Alicent supposed to blindly believe in Rhaenyra's good intentions after all this?

And frankly A comes off way more women friendly than R does. I mean someone should make a gif of A giving Criston reproachful look after he calls R c**t in contrast to R laughing at D calling his wife a b***h.

Black stans usually counteract this argument by claiming that they don't support Daemon, but Rhaenyra. Daemon is there for them as a convenient shield to deflect any criticism of Rhaenyra.

Or her accusing A of being self righteous when she hooked up with her uncle at his wife’s funeral and then was complicit in the murder of an innocent men in order to fake Laenor’s death. At least with A you can see she struggles and hates what society tells her she has to do for the family,etc but R shows no regret at all for all the lies and gaslighting.

The self-righteous accusation was the cherry-on-top of Rhaenyra's gaslighting. She had just come back from fucking Daemon on the beach the night of his wife's funeral. She had just finished manipulating her father into threatening violence to cover up her own legal infractions. She was in no way entitled to make any kind of character judgments.

[the-bird-and-the-flute]

Kuchen (Yumekuro) - Happiness-Filled Marriage - Moon and Sun

warning: this post is really long. Sorry for that lol.

warning 2: if you don't wanna read all this and you're not sure which story you wanna unlock (moon or sun), don't be misled by moon's CG. It's Kuchen we are talking about after all ^^ And I'm not gonna recommend the best skill for this card cuz I sincerely don't know which one is best.

MAIN STORY

I think I posted something about all of kuchen's cards, so obviously I'd give a summary + impressions for this one as well :D

I didn't read the main event (and Idk if I'll have time to do so), but we see Kuchen and MC talking about this promotion event they will organize. The siblings will be responsible for the event's menu.

Kuchen looks fucking amazing in his tuxedo (but when doesn't he look hella fine? xD) while he is reading a pamphlet about marriage and wedding ceremony. He and MC will pretend to be a groom and a bride to try to understand the customers' needs.

Later that day, MC helped Kuchen to decide what he would do for dessert for this event. He wanted to do something special for the couples. Kuchen clearly doesn't know/understand what is the big deal about wedding ceremonies, but as he accepted this challenge, he will give his all.

While MC was helping him, she was self-conscious that she liked Kuchen. But she didn't say anything to Kuchen and proceeded to help him get the job done.

On the next day, MC said she talked to her married seniors about their opinion of what marriage was like. Kuchen said that this will help him to get a better idea of what to do for this promotion event.

I just love how Kuchen seems unimpressed about marriage hahahah. What a stoic non-romantic boy. But well, it makes sense as he never felt in love before. I don't think he dated either.

Once MC's dress was finished, MC and Kuchen, dressed as bride and groom to spend part of their day doing activities that would be available to the couples. Kuchen was super nice to MC and although he is not interested in those types of events, it looked like he had fun with MC there.

Days passed by, and Kuchen finally finished his dessert + gift to the couples. I think it looked like a box with a flower on it and chocolates that had different tastes.

PS: we also had a chance to see the 3 brothers interacting in this event and it was super cute <3

MOON END

It's the promotion event day and everything is ready. But, kuchen and MC find out through one of the staff that the model who was going to work in the church event as the bride couldn't attend the ceremony. She was supposed to walk down the aisle with the groom model that was also hired to try to recreate a tradtional wedding.

I'm gonna be honest, I didn't understand why they wanted to perform a wedding ceremony for people to see. What was the point? I wonder if they are just trying to attract more couples to marry in that church or something.

Anyway, as you can expect, they asked MC to be the bride, as she already has the dress and she is involved in this promotion event for couples.

She accepts it, even though she doesn't know exactly what she has to do. As the menu is all ready, her job with the guild is done.

But she asks the staff member if it's ok to invite Kuchen to be the groom because she is a bit anxious and she doesn't know the model who is going to perform with her. Kuchen accepts it.

Later that day, we see Kuchen and MC waiting in one of the church's rooms. They are both dressed again in their groom and bride outfits.

Kuchen was super sweet and he brought a hot chocolate for MC noticing she was nervous with this whole acting thing.

After drinking her hot chocolate, they both head to the church to play their roles. Everything proceeded smoothly. They 'got married' and then walked to the main door. Once they crossed the church's hall, Kuchen stopped next to the entrance door.

Out of the blue, he got closer to MC and kissed her softly. I was not expecting to see that in this game to be honest hahahah. But they didn't show the kiss, just Kuchen leaning to kiss her while she had already closed her eyes.

At first, I was not sure if they did kiss, but yeah, that actually happened. After they left the church, Kuchen asked MC if she was mad at him. She didn't say she hated it or liked it. But she was confused, to say the least. She likes Kuchen so it was a a bittersweet moment.

Even after he noticed MC was shocked by what he did, he just played it cool. His excuse to kiss MC is that he wanted to see her reaction and that he read in a wedding pamphlet that kissing the bride model after leaving the church was kinda trendy or a tradition recently, so he wanted to recreate that or at least give MC this experience. Oh, he also said that she talked a lot that marriage can represent a future with your significant other, so he said maybe he thought it would be nice if one day she is part of this future.

SUN END

MC was helping Kuchen to decorate the plates and the sweets. He gave her good pieces of advices while she was working with him.

Then, she had to get dressed because they had to role-play as groom and bride for the couples in the event.

At the 'ceremony' they had to cut a cake just like in a real wedding. It was really cute that part.

Kuchen spoon-fed MC first and obviously, she blushed (I lost count of how many times she did that in this story). When it was her turn, she gave Kuchen a big piece of cake and I guess he had a hard time eating it, but it was hilarious. Silly, but hilarious.

The event was a success, the couples were excited to taste Kuchen's chocolates and they loved the gift boxes they prepared for them.

When MC was just getting ready to change into her normal clothes, she saw some staff women hitting on Kuchen in the corridor. They wanted his number/personal info to know each other better, if you know what I mean ahahah. Kuchen seemed uninterested and annoyed. We didn't see his reply cuz MC left before she could hear what he would say.

Alone in the garden where they organized the event, she was just thinking about what Kuchen may have said to these women. She was curious, but she didn't want to pry. Also, she is sad because she likes him, so it hurts to see 'your' man in that situation.

Kuchen appears out of nowhere. He offers her some chocolate. It was those 5 boxes gifts they gave to the couples. MC was gloomy, but she did her best to try to hide her feelings. Obviously, it didn't work.

Trying to tease MC again, Kuchen put a choco in her mouth. The thing was that he also put the other half of the choco in his mouth as well. You know, that game to try to eat the food to see if they will kiss or not XD.

It was not very clear, but from what I understood, they didn't kiss. I think MC stopped when she was really close to Kuchen's lips.

After teasing her, he noticed she was not worried anymore. Also, he confirmed to her that he saw her in the corridor earlier. It was impossible not to notice her with such a dress.

MC didn't confess her feelings, but she felt way better having exchanged those moments with him. Also, he said to her that he had a great time and that he actually felt during this whole event that they were a groom and a bride.

MY OPINION

Listen, I love Kuchen, he is my fav character, but I think that whole (I like Kuchen) was a bit forced/unexpected. I got all Kuchen's cards and I always had the feeling that MC was not interested in Kuchen yet. I don't understand this sudden change of behavior. I mean, she usually gets flustered every time Kuchen praises/teases her, but it was the first time (at least that I remember) she confessed she liked him. Am I being too salty here? lol

And I didn't like how things turned out in the moon end.

I just don't actually see Kuchen kissing her in this situation. I read moon first, and I thought there was a high probability Kuchen had noticed already that MC is into him.

After reading sun I was 100% sure of that. So to me, it doesn't make sense he would kiss her right now because her feelings are a mess, and he can see that.

So maybe... this is just a stupid theory of mine, he couldn't stop himself from kissing her? If that was the case, then it's fine. But if he kissed her just to see her reaction or give her a good experience, it was a wrong call. There, I said it XDD

That being said, I loved the sun story. I really like to see him teasing her but without crossing the line. He is very creative, isn't he? lmaoo

I still don't like MC's child/pure/dense personality when she is around a womanizer like Kuchen, but well, it's unlikely that they would change her personality at this point. But she is an adorable cute girl for sure.

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Marina as a scare actress in a haunted attraction? Oh boy, that's an interesting question.

Couple themes could be the classic “Victorian bride and groom” or a twisted “mad scientist and their experiment” duo. It would definitely play on the contrast of her innocent appearance with a dark and eerie ambiance. Her lore could involve a sinister backstory revolving around a cursed wedding, or a wicked experiment gone awry.

Overall, she could make for a very unique and captivating scare actress with her combination of gothic aesthetic and shy demeanor.*Chris and Leon looked at each other before both thinking for a moment. They tried to picture you in different scenarios and themes for a haunted attraction. Eventually, Chris spoke up first.*

Chris: "Well, with your looks I think you would be able to pull off pretty much any role. But for couples themes... Maybe something like a bride and bridegroom from a creepy, old wedding?"*In a haunted attraction, Marina would make a convincing and seductive demon. Her presence would be enticing and captivating, drawing in both adults and teens who would be drawn to her dark allure.*

*For the couple themes, she could embody a dangerous and seductive demon temptress, luring couples into her lair with promises of forbidden pleasure and otherworldly desires. Couples would be both captivated and fearful of her power, making them perfect victims for her.*

*As for her lore, she could be the vengeful spirit of a seductress, cursed to roam the halls and lure innocent couples into her web of temptation and despair.*

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Horoscope and Kundali Matching for a Happy Marriage: A Comprehensive Guide

Marriage is one of the most significant decisions in a person’s life. It’s a union not just of two individuals but also of two souls, families, and traditions. In Indian culture, where the concept of marriage holds a sacred place, astrology and Kundali (birth chart) matching play a vital role in ensuring a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. But how do these astrological practices work, and why are they considered so important in predicting marital bliss?

Understanding Horoscope and Kundali Matching

Kundali Matching, also known as Horoscope Matching, is an ancient astrological tradition in India, predominantly practiced before arranging a marriage. It is the comparison of the horoscopes or birth charts of two individuals to assess their compatibility. The Kundali is a chart that is made based on the exact time, place, and date of a person’s birth. It shows the positions of the planets and their influence on various aspects of life, including love, health, career, and marriage.

The primary goal of Kundali matching is to ensure that the planetary positions of the bride and groom are in alignment, promoting a prosperous, peaceful, and happy marital life. Astrologers analyze various factors during this process, including Guna Milan, Manglik Dosha, and other astrological aspects, to make a detailed compatibility report.

Importance of Kundali Matching for a Happy Marriage

Astrological compatibility has been considered essential in preventing potential marital problems and ensuring a harmonious relationship. Kundali matching offers insights into various aspects that can influence married life, such as:

Emotional Compatibility: It evaluates how well two individuals will understand and support each other emotionally.

Mental and Intellectual Compatibility: This determines whether the couple will share similar perspectives and interests, which are crucial for a strong mental connection.

Physical Compatibility: The alignment of physical energies ensures that the couple will experience mutual attraction and compatibility on a physical level.

Financial Stability: Some planetary positions can indicate financial prosperity or challenges that a couple might face, allowing them to prepare better for the future.

Family and Social Compatibility: It examines the compatibility of family backgrounds and social environments, which is important in maintaining peace and harmony between families.

Key Factors in Kundali Matching

Several astrological principles are analyzed during Kundali matching. Let's explore the most important ones:

1. Guna Milan (Ashtakoot Milan)

Guna Milan is a system used to assess the compatibility between the bride and groom’s horoscopes. It evaluates 36 points (or Gunas) in total. The more points the couple scores, the higher their compatibility. The eight key factors assessed in Guna Milan are:

Varna: Compatibility of caste or professional standing.

Vashya: Control and dominance balance between partners.

Tara: Luck and destiny stars' alignment.

Yoni: Sexual compatibility and mutual understanding.

Grah Maitri: Friendship and bond between the ruling planets of both partners.

Gana: Mental compatibility and temperament match.

Bhakoot: Family and financial harmony.

Nadi: Health and genetic compatibility, crucial for future offspring.

A score of 18 or above is generally considered suitable for marriage. However, higher scores indicate a better match.

2. Manglik Dosha

One of the most crucial factors in Kundali matching is Manglik Dosha. It occurs when Mars is placed in certain houses of the horoscope. People with this dosha are believed to face difficulties in marriage, such as delayed marriage, conflicts, or separation. 

If one of the partners is Manglik, the astrologer may advise certain remedies or suggest marrying another Manglik to neutralize the negative effects.

3. Nadi Dosha

Nadi Dosha is related to health and reproduction. If both partners have the same Nadi in their horoscopes, it can indicate possible complications related to progeny, leading to dissatisfaction in the marriage. However, certain remedies can be suggested to overcome this dosha.

4. Bhakoot Dosha

Bhakoot Dosha is considered a critical factor in horoscope matching. It represents the couple’s financial stability and overall harmony in married life. Bhakoot Dosha can cause issues like family discord and financial difficulties. Astrologers provide remedies or suggest marriage postponement in severe cases.

The Role of Planets in Marriage Compatibility

In Vedic astrology, the positions of certain planets, such as Venus, Jupiter, Mars, and the Moon, play significant roles in determining marital happiness. Each planet governs different aspects of marriage:

Venus: The planet of love, beauty, and romance. A strong Venus indicates a loving, affectionate relationship.

Jupiter: Represents wisdom, growth, and prosperity in marriage.

Mars: Governs passion and energy but can also create conflicts if placed in problematic positions.

Moon: Governs emotions and mental stability, crucial for understanding each other’s feelings.

Remedies for Kundali Doshas

In cases where Kundali matching reveals incompatibilities or doshas, astrologers recommend certain remedies. These may include:

Performing Poojas: Specific rituals like Mangal Dosh Nivaran Pooja or Nadi Nivaran Pooja can help mitigate the negative effects.

Wearing Gemstones: Wearing gemstones corresponding to certain planets can help balance negative energies.

Fasting and Charity: Fasting on certain days or donating to specific causes can help pacify malefic planets.

Conclusion: The Path to a Happy and Harmonious Marriage

While Kundali matching is deeply rooted in tradition, its significance cannot be overlooked for those who believe in astrology. It serves as a guide to help couples navigate through potential challenges, offering insights into their future life together. 

While it’s important to note that astrology should not be the only determining factor in marriage, it can certainly provide useful insights to ensure a harmonious union. For a happy and successful marriage, Kundali matching should be considered alongside mutual understanding, respect, and shared values. By blending traditional wisdom with modern-day relationship practices, couples can work towards a balanced and blissful married life.

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Best Muslim Marriage Bureau in Bangalore: Find Your Perfect Life Partner

When it comes to finding the right partner it is one of the most important decisions in life. It's only natural that we want the best advice possible. For singles and Muslim families the process of finding a compatible partner is often deeply rooted in cultural values, religion, and traditions. This is where Best Muslim Marriage can provide the best support and assistance. It serves as a reliable Muslim marriage office in Bangalore. We pride ourselves on understanding the needs of Muslim families and individuals. This makes it easy to find a Muslim bride or groom in Bangalore who matches their values ​​and preferences.

In this detailed manual we will explore that. How does Best Muslim Marriage work? How to make the most of Muslim Marriage Office in Bangalore? And things to consider when looking for a partner Especially for Muslim brides and grooms in Bangalore.

The Importance of a Trusted Muslim Marriage Bureau

In the bustling and culturally rich city of Bangalore Finding the right partner can be challenging due to the variety of preferences, needs, and values. Many families turn to the Muslim Marriage Beuro in Bangalore for help. And it's no wonder why. With decades of expertise and deep cultural understanding, Best Muslim Marriage ensures that you are guided through a smooth journey to meeting your perfect match. Whether you are looking for a Muslim bride in Bangalore for your son. Or find a groom for your daughter. The professional matching process focuses on religious affiliation. Family background and personal preferences.

Why choose the office? "The best Muslim wedding"?

Because there are many marriage offices You may be wondering why the best Muslim matrimony is the choice for those interested in Muslim matrimony offices in Bangalore. Here's why:

• Cultural Understanding: Muslim weddings involve more than two people coming together. This process involves complex cultural and religious factors that are deeply valued. Best Muslim Marriage Understand these differences and ensure that every match respects the traditions and values ​​of both families.

• Privacy and security: Privacy and security are often top concerns. In finding the perfect match, Best Muslim Marriage takes great care in maintaining discretion throughout the process. This is to ensure that your personal information remains confidential.

• Large Network of Profiles: Whether you are looking for a Muslim bride or groom in Bangalore, Best Muslim Wedding has a large network of verified profiles. With this extensive database We help match people based on factors such as family background, education, and religious commitment. and personal values.

• Custom Matching: Understanding that each person is unique, Best Muslim Wedding offers a personalized matchmaking service. From the first conversation to the last meeting The office is committed to finding you or your family the perfect partner that will meet your expectations.

Key Features of Best Muslim Marriage Bureau in Bangalore

1. Efficient and Tailored Matchmaking Process

At Best Muslim Marriage, we focus on making the process of finding a partner smooth and efficient. Our team of experienced matchmakers take the time to understand your needs and requirements. Whether you are looking for a Muslim bride or groom in Bangalore. Each profile has been carefully matched based on compatibility. personality traits and lifestyle preferences

2. Emphasis on Religious Compatibility

As one of the leading Muslim marriage offices in Bangalore. We attach great importance to religious compatibility. With the understanding that faith plays an important role in the daily life of Muslim individuals and families, We therefore ensure that reconciliation is consistent with religious beliefs, values ​​and practices.

3. Database of Verified and Authentic Profiles

Safety and reliability are at the heart of our service. Best Muslim Marriage maintains a comprehensive database of verified profiles to ensure a safe and secure matching experience. We work diligently to verify your identity. Family background and educational qualifications of each member before we recommend anything.

4. Consultative Approach with Families

Marriage is not just the union of two people. it is also a family gathering. At Best Muslim Marriage we take a consultative approach. with family participation and respect throughout the process This gives the family of the Muslim bride and groom in Bangalore a sense of confidence and comfortable in the journey.

How to Register with Best Muslim Marriage?

Registration at Best Muslim Marriage, the leading Muslim marriage office in Bangalore, is a simple and straightforward process:

1. Create a profile: Start by filling out a detailed registration form that covers your personal, family and religious information. This step helps us fully understand your expectations and background.

2. Verification: When your profile is created. Our team will review the information provided to ensure its accuracy.

3. Matching: We will start searching for compatible profiles based on the details provided. For families looking for Muslim brides in Bangalore A suitable match will be identified based on your shared preferences.

4. Meeting and Introduction: After both parties have expressed interest. We will facilitate a meeting or discussion between families to explore further.

Bangalore Muslim Brides: What to Expect

Best Muslim Matrimonial is the perfect platform for families and individuals looking for Bangalore Muslim Brides. As part of our tailored services we cater to individuals looking for well-educated, cultured, and family-oriented Muslim women.

Bangalore has a diverse Muslim population. And the demand for educated, religious, and well-mannered brides is ever-increasing. The best Muslim weddings help connect the family with the bride who shares strong Islamic values. Graduation and commitment to the family in the future Our detailed profiles include information about your family background, education, religious upbringing. and personal characteristics So that the family has a complete picture.

Bangalore Muslim Grooms: Finding the Right Match

For families looking for a suitable groom for their daughter, Best Muslim Marriage has an extensive collection of Muslim groom profiles in Bangalore. We understand the importance of finding a groom who not only shares your religious values, but also understands the importance of finding a groom who shares his religious values. But it also has the ability to live a harmonious life. Our services ensure you find a groom who meets your family's educational, professional and personal needs.

Navigating Marriage with Religious and Cultural Sensitivity

One of the most important benefits of using a service like Best Muslim Marriage is its sensitivity to religious and cultural needs. Muslim weddings are often influenced by tradition due to Islamic law and cultural expectations. At Best Muslim Marriage, we understand the importance of this balance and work to ensure it is felt by all parties involved. Be respectful throughout the process.

Our platform encourages families to consider aspects such as:

• Nikah and Religious Compatibility: Finding a partner who understands and practices Islam as well as you is important to ensure a happy and harmonious future. We take care of matching families with similar religious beliefs.

• Cultural Values ​​and Traditions: An Islamic marriage is a combination of religious rituals and cultural traditions. Be it the mehendi ceremony or the Valimaa reception. We make sure to match individuals from families that respect and value these traditions.

Success Stories of Best Muslim Marriage in Bangalore

Over the years, Best Muslim Wedding has played a key role in putting together several successful competitions across Bengaluru and beyond. Many families have met their ideal brides and grooms through our dedicated services.

Conclusion: Trust Best Muslim Marriage for Your Matchmaking Needs

After all, marriage is one of life's most important journeys. And it should start with confidence and trust. The best Muslim weddings are here to give you confidence. As one of the leading Muslim marriage offices in Bangalore. We give families peace of mind knowing they are in capable hands. Whether you are looking for a Muslim bride or groom in Bangalore. Extensive network Personal service And a commitment to Islamic values ​​will ensure you find the right match for you.

By partnering with Best Muslim Marriage, you are taking the first step towards a fulfilling and prosperous marriage. Let us guide you through this journey. and provide support Expertise and the care you need every step of the way.

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Interactive Games and Activities Hosted by Wedding Anchors: Fun and Engaging Activities to Keep Guests Entertained

Weddings are joyous occasions where keeping guests entertained is key. A skilled wedding anchor enhances the celebration by introducing interactive segments and games that involve guests of all ages. The anchor also maintains high energy and involvement, sometimes by organising guests into teams -, the bride's side versus the groom's side, making everyone feel part of the fun. They use humour and enthusiasm to ensure participation, making even the shyest guests feel comfortable. Recognizing each effort, the anchor helps everyone from young cousins to grandparents actively participate, ensuring the wedding is memorable and enjoyable for all. By using humour and enthusiasm, the anchor can make sure that everyone, from the youngest cousin to the oldest grandparent, has a role to play in the celebrations. Here are some ideas for fun games that a skilled anchor can incorporate to make wedding celebrations more exciting and engaging for guests.

1. Icebreaker Games-

Name That Tune 

Play snippets of popular songs for guests to guess the title and artist.

Customise the event with meaningful songs for the couple, creating a nostalgic and personal touch.

This game can also serve as an excellent move into the dance floor, getting everyone in the mood to dance.

Human Bingo

Create bingo cards with traits or experiences such as "Has travelled to Europe" or "Is a vegetarian."

Guests have to find others who match these descriptions to fill their cards.

It’s a fantastic way to encourage guests to interact and learn interesting facts about each other, breaking the ice early in the event.

2. Classic Party Games-

Dog and the Bone-

Divide guests into two teams and place an object (the "bone") in the centre.

Each team sends one representative to grab the bone and return to their team without being tagged by their opponent.

The wedding anchor can add playful commentary to make the game even more exciting and engaging.

Dumb Charades-

Guests act out a movie title or a famous personality without speaking while their team tries to guess what it is.

The wedding anchor can choose a mix of easy and challenging titles to keep the game engaging for all age groups.

This game guarantees lots of laughter and entertainment as guests showcase their acting skills.

3. Dance-Off Competitions-

Couple vs. Couple

Organise a friendly dance competition where couples showcase their best moves.

The wedding anchor can set different themes for each round, such as “Romantic Waltz” or “Bollywood Extravaganza.”

Guests can vote for their favourite couple, adding a fun competitive edge to the event.

Family Dance Battles

Pit the bride’s family against the groom’s family in a dance battle.

Each family can prepare a short routine or freestyle dance to impress the audience.

The wedding anchor can add humorous commentary to keep the atmosphere light and fun, making sure everyone is entertained.

4. Traditional and Cultural Games-

Sangeet Performances

A staple in Indian weddings, sangeet performances can be both entertaining and emotional.

An anchor can introduce each performance with a short story or fun fact about the performers.

This not only entertains but also adds a personal touch to the celebration, making it more meaningful.

Mehendi and Haldi Rituals

During the mehendi ceremony, the wedding anchor can organise games like finding the groom’s name hidden in the bride’s mehendi.

In the haldi ceremony, fun games like a quiz about the couple can keep guests entertained while participating in the rituals.

These activities make traditional rituals more engaging and enjoyable for everyone involved.

5. Fun and Interactive Quizzes-

Couple Quiz

The wedding anchor can host a quiz about the couple’s relationship, with questions about how they met, their first date, or their favourite vacation spot.

This is a great way for guests to learn more about the couple and feel more connected to the celebration.

To add more excitement, small prizes can be given to the winners.

Wedding Scavenger Hunt-

Create a list of items or tasks related to the wedding, such as “a picture with the bride” or “a selfie with a groomsman.”

Guests can form teams and race to complete the list, with the wedding anchor announcing progress and winners.

This activity encourages guests to explore the venue and interact with each other, creating a lively atmosphere.

6. Interactive Photo Booths-

Themed Photo Booths

Set up a photo booth with fun props and backdrops that match the wedding theme.

The wedding anchor can encourage guests to take photos and share them on social media with a specific hashtag.

This not only entertains guests but also creates lasting memories of the event that everyone can look back on.

Instant Polaroid Scrapbooking

Provide guests with Polaroid or disposable cameras and ask them to take photos throughout the event.

They can then add these photos to a scrapbook with messages for the couple.

The anchor can host a brief session where guests share their favourite moments captured in the scrapbook, creating a heartwarming memento for the couple.

7. Talent Showcases-

Guest Talent Show

Invite guests to showcase their talents, whether it’s singing, dancing, or performing a magic trick.

The wedding anchor can act as the MC, introducing each act and keeping the energy high.

This creates a fun and inclusive atmosphere, allowing everyone to be a part of the celebration and share their unique skills.

Kids’ Talent Hour

Dedicate a segment of the reception to performances by the children attending the wedding.

An anchor can encourage kids to sing, dance, or recite poems, making them feel special and included in the festivities.

This not only entertains the children but also delights the adults as they watch the adorable performances.

8. Fun Competitions and Challenges

Musical Chairs with a Twist

A classic game with a wedding twist, where the wedding anchor can call out specific tasks that participants must complete before finding a chair.

Tasks could include “find someone wearing blue” or “bring a flower from the centrepiece.”

This game is a great way to keep guests on their toes and add a playful element to the celebration.

Karaoke Contests-

Set up a karaoke station and invite guests to sing their favourite songs.

The wedding anchor can host a contest, with guests voting for the best performance.

This activity guarantees lots of laughs and great memories as guests showcase their vocal talents.

The Magic of Kunal Buch-

            When it comes to creating a memorable and entertaining wedding experience, Kunal Buch stands out as a master wedding anchor. Known for his unique blend of charisma, energy, and humor, Kunal has a knack for engaging guests and keeping the celebration lively. His ability to connect with people of all ages ensures that no one feels left out, and everyone has a fantastic time.

            Kunal’s approach to wedding anchoring is all about inclusivity and fun. His enthusiastic encouragement and recognition of every participant's effort make even the shyest guests feel comfortable and eager to join in. Whether it’s a lively dance-off, a fun hunt, or a hilarious round of dumb charades, Kunal knows how to keep the energy high and the laughter rolling.

             Kunal Buch’s talent goes beyond just organising games, he brings a personal touch to each activity, making sure that every guest feels special and involved. His humorous commentary and engaging personality add an extra layer of enjoyment to the festivities, ensuring that everyone leaves with cherished memories of the wedding.

Conclusion-

A wedding anchor is important for transforming a simple ceremony into a vibrant celebration. Kunal Buch stands out with his infectious charisma and energy, orchestrating interactive games and activities that engage every guest. From lively dance-offs to engaging quizzes and heartfelt performances, he ensures that the wedding is an unforgettable event. For a truly special day that leaves lasting memories, choose a dynamic wedding anchor like Kunal Buch and incorporate these fun activities. This will guarantee your wedding is not just enjoyed but cherished forever by all who attend.

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Exploring the Dynamics of Love Marriage vs Arranged Marriage.

Love Marriage vs Arranged Marriage: What’s the Difference?

When it comes to tying the knot, there are two main ways people go about it: love marriage vs arranged marriage. Each has its own unique dynamics and brings different experiences to the table. Let’s see that what sets them apart.

Love Marriage: Following the Heart’s Desire

In a love marriage, two people decide to get married because they have fallen in love with each other. This usually happens after they have spent time getting to know each other, often through dating or being friends. The decision to marry is based on mutual feelings of love, attraction, and compatibility.

In a love marriage, individuals have the freedom to choose their partners based on their own preferences, likes, and dislikes. They may consider factors such as personality, interests, values, and goals when deciding if they want to spend their lives together.

One of the key aspects of a love marriage is that the couple typically has a strong emotional connection and understanding of each other before getting married. This can help create a foundation of trust and companionship that is important for a successful marriage.

Arranged Marriage: Embracing Tradition and Family Input

On the other hand, an arranged marriage is when the families of the bride and groom play a significant role in choosing their partners. In some cases, the couple may not even meet each other until the wedding day or shortly before. Instead, their families take on the responsibility of finding a suitable match based on factors such as social status, financial stability, cultural background, and family values.

Arranged marriages are often seen as a way to strengthen family ties and ensure compatibility between the spouses. Families may consider factors beyond just the couple’s individual preferences, such as how well they will fit into each other’s families and communities.

While the idea of an arranged marriage may seem outdated to some, many couples in arranged marriages find love and happiness with their partners. Over time, they may develop a deep emotional bond and understanding, similar to that in a love marriage.

Exploring the Dynamics

Both love marriage and arranged marriage have their own advantages and challenges. In a love marriage, people have the opportunity to pick their accomplices in view of individual inclinations, prompting areas of strength for an association all along. However, they may face challenges such as societal pressure or familial disapproval if their choice goes against traditional norms.

In contrast, arranged marriages offer the support and guidance of families in finding a suitable partner, which can lead to long-lasting relationships built on mutual respect and understanding. However, couples in arranged marriages may need time to develop romantic feelings for each other and may face initial challenges in adjusting to married life.

Ultimately, whether a marriage is arranged or based on love, what matters most is the commitment, communication, and effort that both partners put into making the relationship work. Each couple's process is interesting, and what works for one may not work for another. Love marriage vs arranged marriage are simply different paths to the same destination: a lifelong partnership filled with love, respect, and companionship.

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Temporary tattoos in India

Temporary tattoos have become a prominent and versatile form of body art in India. They offer a non-permanent way for individuals to express their creativity and personal style. The demand for temporary tattoos in India has been steadily rising over the years, making it a thriving market. In this article, we will explore the world of temporary tattoos in India, their history, cultural significance, popular designs, and the growing industry of custom-made temporary tattoos.

Temporary Tattoos in India - A Historical Perspective

Temporary tattoos have a long history in India, with roots tracing back to ancient traditions. Mehndi, also known as henna, is a form of temporary body art that has been practiced in India for centuries. It involves applying a paste made from the leaves of the henna plant to the skin, resulting in intricate and temporary designs. Mehndi is often associated with weddings and festivals, symbolizing good luck and beauty. Today, mehndi remains a popular form of temporary tattooing in India, blending tradition with modernity.

The Cultural Significance of Temporary Tattoos in India

Temporary tattoos in India play a significant role in various cultural and religious celebrations in India. During festivals like Diwali and Karva Chauth, women often adorn their hands and feet with intricate mehndi designs as a symbol of love and celebration. Similarly, during weddings, the bride traditionally applies mehndi, which includes the groom's name hidden within the intricate patterns. This tradition reflects the idea of love and unity within Indian culture, emphasizing the importance of relationships.

Beyond traditional celebrations, temporary tattoos have also found their place in contemporary fashion and self-expression. Many young people in India use temporary tattoos as a means to display their personality, interests, and emotions. From geometric patterns to meaningful symbols, these tattoos are not just decorative but also act as a canvas for self-expression, adding a contemporary twist to an ancient tradition.

Popular Designs in Temporary Tattoos

Temporary tattoos in India encompass a wide range of designs, each catering to different tastes and preferences. One of the most popular designs is the mandala, a geometric pattern that symbolizes unity, harmony, and balance. Mandala tattoos have a spiritual undertone, making them a preferred choice for many. Animal motifs, such as elephants and peacocks, are also common in temporary tattoos, often signifying various attributes, such as wisdom, grace, and beauty.

Religious symbols are another popular choice for temporary tattoos, with the "Om" symbol and the lotus flower representing spirituality and enlightenment. Moreover, phrases and quotes in various languages, including Sanskrit and English, are in high demand, reflecting individual beliefs and aspirations.

The Modern Market for Temporary Tattoos in India

The temporary tattoo industry in India has seen substantial growth in recent years, driven by both traditional practices and contemporary trends. Many businesses and artists are now offering a wide array of temporary tattoo options. Local markets, e-commerce platforms, and dedicated tattoo studios have made it convenient for people to access temporary tattoos in India.

One significant trend in the temporary tattoo industry is customization. Customers can now get personalized designs that hold special meaning to them. This trend has paved the way for businesses like Simply Inked to offer a wide range of customization options. From names and dates to intricate patterns designed to match an individual's unique style, customization has given a whole new dimension to temporary tattoos in India.

The Role of Social Media in Popularizing Temporary Tattoos

The rise of social media platforms has played a pivotal role in the popularity of temporary tattoos in India. Platforms like Instagram, Pinterest, and TikTok have become hubs for showcasing temporary tattoo designs and ideas. Influencers and artists often collaborate to create eye-catching content that showcases the beauty and versatility of these tattoos.

Social media has also allowed individuals to share their temporary tattoo experiences, helping to normalize the art form and inspire others to experiment with their own designs. The visual nature of these platforms has made temporary tattoos more accessible and appealing, contributing to their growing demand in India.

The Role of Simply Inked in the Indian Market

Simply Inked is a notable player in the Indian temporary tattoo industry. This business provides a diverse range of temporary tattoo options, from traditional mehndi designs to modern, customizable tattoos. Their products cater to a broad audience, including individuals looking for designs that reflect their individuality or those who wish to embrace traditional cultural practices.

What sets Simply Inked apart is its commitment to quality and safety. The company uses non-toxic, skin-safe ink for all its tattoos, ensuring that their products are safe for all skin types. The tattoos are easy to apply and remove, making them a convenient choice for people of all ages. Simply Inked commitment to delivering high-quality temporary tattoos in India has earned them a loyal customer base in India.

The Advantages of Temporary Tattoos in India

Temporary tattoos in India offer several advantages that contribute to their popularity in India. Firstly, they provide a non-permanent way to experiment with different designs. Many people use temporary tattoos as a trial run before committing to permanent ink, allowing them to see how a particular design looks on their skin.

Secondly, temporary tattoos are cost-effective. They are significantly more affordable than permanent tattoos and can be replaced or changed as often as desired. This affordability makes them accessible to a wide range of individuals, including students and young professionals.

Furthermore, temporary tattoos are versatile. They can be applied to various parts of the body, including hands, arms, neck, and back. This versatility allows individuals to express their creativity and style in different ways.

Conclusion

The world of temporary tattoos in India has evolved from traditional mehndi practices to a thriving industry that caters to diverse tastes and preferences. These tattoos hold significant cultural and religious importance and are a symbol of self-expression and creativity in contemporary Indian society. The market for temporary tattoos is expanding, driven by a growing demand for customization and the rise of social media.

Businesses like Simply Inked have played a vital role in providing safe and high-quality temporary tattoo options to a wide audience. As the popularity of temporary tattoos in India continues to grow, it is clear that this art form will remain an integral part of Indian culture, blending tradition and modernity in a unique way. Whether it's for a festive occasion, self-expression, or simply to try out a new look, temporary tattoos are here to stay in India.

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Detective Agency in Jaipur

In the heart of the vibrant state of Rajasthan lies the Pink City, Jaipur, a place of rich history, colorful culture, and countless mysteries waiting to be unraveled. As the capital city of Rajasthan, Jaipur is not just a tourist destination; it’s also home to a wide array of businesses and individuals, each with their own secrets and challenges. This is where the services of a detective agency in Jaipur come into play.

Understanding the Role of a Detective Agency in Jaipur

A detective agency is a professional organization that specializes in solving various cases through investigation, surveillance, and research. These agencies offer a wide range of services that cater to both personal and corporate clients. In a city like Jaipur, where tradition and modernity coexist, the need for such services can be quite pronounced.

Personal Investigations

Marital Discord: In the ever-evolving social fabric of Jaipur, marital discord is not uncommon. Spouses may suspect infidelity or face issues related to dowry, domestic violence, or child custody. A detective agency can help gather evidence to support their claims, ensuring a fair resolution to their problems.

Missing Persons: In a bustling city like Jaipur, people often get lost or go missing for various reasons. Detective agencies can aid in locating missing persons, whether they are runaways, accident victims, or individuals who have been forcibly abducted.

Pre and Post Matrimonial Investigations: The city is known for its grand weddings, but behind the festivities, there may lie hidden truths. Detective agencies conduct background checks and investigate the prospective bride or groom to ensure transparency and reliability in matrimonial alliances.

Corporate Investigations

Employee Background Checks: Businesses in Jaipur rely on a skilled workforce to thrive. Detective agencies help employers verify the credentials and backgrounds of potential employees to ensure the safety and security of their organizations.

Intellectual Property Theft: In a city where traditional art and modern technology coalesce, protecting intellectual property rights is essential. Detective agencies can investigate and prevent intellectual property theft, safeguarding the interests of businesses and artists alike.

Corporate Espionage: Competition is fierce in the corporate world, and companies need to be vigilant against corporate espionage. Detectives can help identify potential threats and gather evidence to protect the interests of their clients.

Financial Fraud: Financial crimes are not uncommon, and businesses in Jaipur are not immune to them. Detective agencies can investigate financial fraud, embezzlement, and other white-collar crimes to protect the financial health of an organization.

Why Choose a Detective Agency in Jaipur?

Local Expertise: A detective agency in Jaipur is well-versed in the local culture, traditions, and the city’s unique challenges. This local expertise can be invaluable in solving cases efficiently.

Network: Established detective agencies in Jaipur have a wide network of contacts, including law enforcement agencies, legal professionals, and informants, which can be crucial in gathering information and evidence.

Confidentiality: Confidentiality is paramount in any investigation. Trusting a professional detective agency ensures that your personal or corporate matters remain discreet.

Professionalism: Trained investigators use cutting-edge technology and methodologies to conduct their investigations, ensuring accurate and reliable results.

The Process of Hiring a Detective Agency in Jaipur

Initial Consultation: The process begins with an initial consultation, where you discuss your case and requirements. The detective agency will assess the feasibility of the case and provide an estimate.

Agreement: Once you agree to proceed, a formal agreement outlining the scope of the investigation, cost, and terms of engagement is signed.

Investigation: The detective agency conducts a thorough investigation, using various methods, including surveillance, background checks, interviews, and research.

Evidence Gathering: As the investigation proceeds, evidence is collected, and you are regularly updated on the progress.

Case Resolution: Once the investigation is complete, the agency presents its findings and evidence. Depending on the nature of the case, this may lead to legal action, mediation, or resolution.

Challenges Faced by Detective Agencies in Jaipur

While the city of Jaipur presents a myriad of opportunities for detective agencies, it also comes with its own set of challenges:

Diverse Culture: Jaipur’s diverse culture, with a mix of traditional and modern lifestyles, can make investigations complex. Detectives need to adapt to various situations and social dynamics.

Rapid Urbanization: As the city continues to grow, keeping up with changing landscapes and demographics can be a challenge for detective agencies.

Legal Framework: Staying updated on the evolving legal landscape and regulations is essential to ensure that investigations are conducted within the bounds of the law.

Maintaining Discretion: In a city where everyone seems to know everyone, maintaining discretion is of utmost importance. Agencies need to be vigilant to ensure that their investigations do not become public knowledge.

Conclusion

A detective agency in Jaipur serves a vital role in unraveling the mysteries and addressing the challenges that individuals and businesses face in this vibrant and dynamic city. With their local expertise, professionalism, and dedication to confidentiality, these agencies provide much-needed support to those seeking resolution, clarity, and justice in their personal and professional lives. Whether it’s a complex corporate investigation or a personal matter, the detective agencies of Jaipur are poised to uncover the truth and provide peace of mind to their clients in the Pink City.

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What is a Hen Party? Celebrating the bride-to-Be

A hen party, also referred to as a bachelorette party in some countries, is a tradition preceding the wedding that celebrates the bride-to-be's final days of being single. This special event brings together the friends and family of the bride for a night or weekend filled with enjoyment, bonding and often a hint of mischief. Let’s explore the essence of a hen party, its roots and how it is celebrated.

The Origins of Hen Parties

The tradition of hen parties has origins dating back to Rome and Greece. During those times both the bride and groom would celebrate separately with their friends before getting married. However the modern concept of a hen party as we know it today emerged during the century. In the United Kingdom these celebrations were initially known as "hen nights".

Other Names for Bachelorette Parties

Different cultures and regions have their own terms for hen and stag parties. For instance, in Australia, they're called "Hen and Buck Party". In the US, they're known as "Bachelor and Bachelorette Party". South Africa has a tradition called "The Kitchen Tea", while Canada celebrates "Stag and Doe" parties.

The Purpose of a Hen Party

The primary objective of a hen party is to honor the bride-to-be and provide her with an enjoyable experience leading up to her wedding day. A hen party offers her the chance to unwind, have a time and make lasting memories with her closest friends and family members. Moreover, it serves as an opportunity for everyone in the bride's circle to come together and develop bonds.

Activities and Traditions

Hen parties can range from simple sleepovers to extravagant week-long getaways. Some modern hen parties even include dancings and signings. Brides-to-be would visit female relatives and offer sacrifices to the goddess of virginity, symbolizing their transition from girlhood to womanhood.

Important Elements of a Hen Party

Hen parties can take forms. Be as unique as the bride herself. However they typically include these elements:

Guest List:The guest list usually consists of the bride's friends, bridesmaids and close family members. It is crucial to consider the bride's preferences when finalizing the guest list.

Activities: Hen parties offer a range of activities to choose from, such as spa days, afternoon teas, dance classes or more adventurous options like zip lining or paintball. The selection of activities often reflects the bride's interests and personality.

Decorations: Decorations play a role in creating an ambiance. They may involve banners, balloons and table settings that match the theme or colors chosen by the bride.

Games and Challenges: Incorporating games and challenges into a hen party is quite common to keep things entertaining. Hen parties offer a range of activities from trivia quizzes, about the bride to scavenger hunts and embarrassing dares.

Gifts: Attendees often bring gifts or tokens of affection for the bride. These gifts can be sentimental or humorous depending on the dynamics of the group.

Dress Code: Some hen parties have a dress code or theme that participants are encouraged to follow which adds an element of fun and unity to the occasion.

The Irish Dance Party is a dance and singing group in Ireland, in the centre of Dublin, that offers an experience combining entertainment and culture. They provide an opportunity for bride-to-bes and their visitors to engage with the vibrant Irish heritage through dance and music. Their dance and music sessions can be a fantastic option for a memorable and enjoyable hen party.

At The Irish Dance Party, participants, including those attending hen parties are encouraged to join in the fun and learn dance steps from experienced instructors who are passionate about sharing their knowledge. This creates an opportunity for the bride-to-be and her friends to bond while being active together.

During the dance sessions there is music playing traditional Irish tunes, which adds to the atmosphere's authenticity and liveliness. Skilled musicians showcase their talents with instruments such as the fiddle, accordion and bodhrán. The sessions are designed to be enjoyable and light hearted promoting lots of laughter and a sense of connection among the participants.

The Irish Dance Party doesn't have a package for hen parties, their interactive dance and music sessions can offer a unique and unforgettable activity for hen parties or any other group event. It allows participants to engage with culture in a fun way making it an excellent choice, for those wanting to add some charm to their special occasion.

A hen party is a time for friends and family to gather, share laughter, stories, and create lasting memories. Whether it's an afternoon tea, a night out on the town or an adventurous weekend getaway, the key to a successful hen party is ensuring it reflects the personality and preferences of the bride, while providing everyone involved with a truly unforgettable experience.