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slow-burn-sally · 6 months ago

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Fuck your fucking funeral

Fuck your fucking wedding

Fuck your fucking weekend away

Fuck your fucking camping trip

Fuck your fucking awards ceremony

Stop inviting me to things that might cause meltdowns or burnouts and then nagging at me and guilting me when I say no.

No, I don't care if this funeral is my "last chance to say goodbye".

No, I don't care that it's my cousin's wedding, and I "should be there to support him".

Family reunion? I don't fucking care. They can email me if they want to stay in touch. I can see them separately in quiet little coffee shops on un-crowded weekdays.

If you're fine with pressuring me into activities and behaviors that harm me, then I'm fine with telling you to

JUST FUCK OFF

sincerely, your autistic friend.

#autism #actually autistic #sensory overload #meltdown #burnout #guilt #shame #neurotypical standards can die in a fire #not sure why i'm so feisty today #suppose I just get asked to go places a lot and its never to a quiet library to have a discussion about the franklin expedition #it's never to a small gathering in a quiet place that's easy to get to #it's always to some adventurous crowded hot hellscape that someone else wants me to 'experience'

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