#it’s so ucomfortable

[skeleton-monarch]

worst part of season depression is the defrosting i think

[redysetdare]

Y'all listen just because you learned something in school doesn't mean everyone else did. idk how y'all got this idea in ur heads that we all learned the same shit when literal book bans are happening in schools across the united states and certain subjects are being banned from ever being talked about. (do not even get me started on the fact different countries have different curriculum too) Like you cannot say "You guys obviously just didn't pay attention in school and are stupid because we all learned this" like you are ignoring like 50 other options as to why people may not have learned this ranging from poorly funded school to disabled kid getting shoved into special ed classes which are often notorious for mistreating their disabled students. I'm begging you all to understand the nuance of why certain skills and abilities aren't as widely spread as you assume they should be.

[starless-nightz]

Hey can you maybe do a Zartemis one where everyone except Zoë and Artemis knows they like each other and all the gods are trying to get them to figure out that they like each other until Aphrodite gets annoyed and just tells them directly that she can sense their in love.

Artemis and Zoe not realising they like each other

note -> I LOVE ZARTEMIS MY BABYS!!

warnings -> none.

content includes -> fluff, oblivious Artemis and Zoe, confession, jealousy.

Artemis and Zoe have been companions of centuries now, Artemis trusts Zoe more then anyone else, even more then her twin brother, and Zoe trusted Artemis more then herself, Artemis made her feel alive, the only reason that she was still alive

Artemis knew that she was smitten, no, in love with Zoe, but she did not want to ruin their friendship, and she didnt want to put Zoe in danger, knowing how much Zeus did not like Zoe, after all she was the daughter of Atlas, but Artemis knew that Zoe would never betray the gods, betray her

It took a long time for Zoe to realize that she was completely in love with Artemis, but she never said anything, she could never be more then a companion to the goddess, Zoe thinks that she does not deserve the love of her mistress, even if it pains her to love her from afar

Everyone knew that the two were madly in love, all of the hunters knew and even tried to help them out a few times, failing ever time, even the gods and goddesses knew, Aphrodite growing impatient and frusturated, it has been centuries and yet neither of them made a move

Aphrodite knew Artemis didnt like her, so she knew the only way Artemis would reveal her feelings for Zoe was to make her jealous, so one night while Artemis and Zoe were away from the hunt during a more dangerous mission, Aphrodite made sure to appear while Zoe away from Artemis

Zoe was ucomfortable around the love goddess, the Aphrodites flirting didnt help, Zoe tried to tell her to stop and the goddess continued until Artemis appeared, who was pissed and was ready to attack the goddes, who just smirks and left

Zoe was slightly confused as to why Artemis was so angry until Artemis finally confessed that she was in love with her, it took Zoe a few seconds to register what her goddess said before confessing that she too was in love with her

[skz4thgenleaders14]

I'm 14 and my family treats me like sht. am I overreacting?

TW!!! mentions of $h, su!c!de and mental health.

Okay so im 13 turning 14 in 20 days so basically 14. Me and my family have had issues in the past but it seems like they make fun of me for a hobby. First of all, im extremely interested in kpop especially the popular groups such as skz, bts, txt and my family constantly makes fun of me and calls me an asian lover which makes me super uncomfortable because im trying to just enjoy the music and support the idols and they call me severely nasty names on a daily basis that i will not being saying here. Since i was 12 turning 13 so back in 2022 i struggled with self harm, ed and looking after myself. My siblings would call me an emo lesbian that cuts and they also made comments like "shut up you'll kill yourself before you even make it to year 10" (im in year 8 as of right now). it hurts because they know what im going through and one of my siblings who says it even has experienced the same thing but thats no excuse to call me horrendous names. My parents are as equally bad they tell me im attention seeking and i just needa snap out of it. I attemped to end my life twice and haven't opened up to anybody about it because whenever i would ask to have a chat they would say "dont start this shit again" or "here we go again" and simply brush it off. The thing that affected me the most was when i start to have good days and feel comfortable about my body and scars my parents would point out my self harm and when I would politely tell them to stop they would say "well thats your fault for doing it where people can see maybe next time you should do it where we cant see" and I'd get called a cow, bitch, brat etc. This also overlaps on my drama at school. Im in the process of moving schools but its not definent. at my current school my friend tries to compete w me w mental health, she even admits she tries to act 'depressed' and 'emo'. she brushes off my feelings and acts as if shes the 'left out' main character yet i follow her everywhere,hangout with her, defend her, help her out yet its not enough for her. one day i decided to hang w one of my friends in class bc ive had enough of doing stuff for her without appreciation and she got mad and avoided me and started victim playing so i attempted to run away at snack break but when the attendence got taken the email went thru to my parents and they called me telling me to get back in class. everyone at school hates me because my bully moved schools after bullying me in year 6 and said some nasty shit about me. i also struggle from an ed and i have severe body dysmorphia but my parents tell me to 'just eat' or to 'just stop eating' depending if its a binge day or the opposite. my so called friend makes me ucomfortable and thinks mental health is enjoyable aswell as self diagnosing herself. i want to run away from everything but im lost and i dont know what to do. am i overreacting or is my family and friends actual assholes??

[loveregrown]

I've felt like shit all morning not mentally but Im so tired and my alleryies beat my shit for an hour and made me more tired ..andalso my leg knee still hurts from yesterday and idk why...and also my arm hurts caude the most ucomfortable looking ways to sleep are modt comfotable for me

[mylittlesecrethaven]

My Parents Are Fucking Weird

And they make me fucking ucomfortable a lot.

And I know that people refer to each other as pet names and all that.

So it's not strange that my parents don't use each others names.

But I just don't like the fact that they still call each other "mommy" and "daddy."

Like, I'll ask my dad something, and he'll say "Go ask mommy."

Or my mom with be trying to find my dad and shout out "Daddy!"

And I just.....

I don't like it.

I don't know if it's a thing for them, but if it is, I wish they'd keep that to themselves.

And if it's not, then why do they keep doing that?

(I love my parents sometimes, but this always annoys the fuck out of me and I refuse to ask about it cause it's a weird subject to me)

[fnfdistrust]

Hello, people of tumblr, me and my team decidded to make an account on tumblr due to recent uhh... ucomfortable uses of such social media as X, formerly known as Twitter. So, make yourself comfortable. we'll post a lot! I'll answer as many questions as possible if you will have any.

Art by Keanechiii

[islandsaoirse]

I’m figuring out how to interact with people again after what happened a few days back, how do I do it yknow? It feels so ucomfortable it feels so awkward and strange

[burnthybread]

im acrually going to SCREAM I know NO cool gay people

[girlbr0thers]

i am the only transsexual in the workplace.

[honeybellexox]

Khushi’s Childhood and Trauma (continued discussion)

This is just my continued hypothesis from the last post and discussion with @jalebi-weds-bluetooth in regards to Khushi’s childhood, my hypothesis being that Khushi was probably left alone a lot as a child (physically and/or emotionally).

I don’t believe she had adequate support to deal with the grief of losing her family (as kind and loving as Shashi, Garima and Buaji are, I doubt they had the proper tools to support her healing). Maybe, that’s why she fears silences and the dark so much, because that’s when she feels the loneliest and most vulnerable. Being alone or around silence takes her back to her traumatised 8 year old self, you can see how ucomfortable she is when Arnav is quiet around her so she fills it up with a lot of chatter and chirpiness but when she’s upset and succumbs to silence, her hidden vulnerability comes forth (and Arnav is always visibly disturbed when she’s silent) . I wonder if this is the reason why she’s such a loud, extroverted and even, at times, an attention seeking individual, because she’s so afraid to be neglected and ignored (this breaks my heart for her even more, considering all the times Arnav ignores her!🙄) .

I just quickly want to clarify what I meant by saying she’s attention seeking, I personally don’t think being attention seeking is a flaw or a bad thing, in fact I’ve been accused of being attention seeking at times too!

What I’ve learnt though, is that most people try to attention seek when they’re in a lot of pain but don’t know how to verbalise it. Khushi’s whole character is attention grabbing like the way she talks to people (she’s very upbeat and joyous), her dramatic personality and even her fashion sense; she’s so colourful and sparkly, she’s literally given the nickname, Chamkili! I think all of this is a culmination of possible childhood neglect. She doesn’t want to be forgotten or ignored, she just simply wants to be seen.

This is just my personal head cannon but if anyone has any head cannons to share, I would sooo love that!! I would love to read your thoughts and theories on Khushi’s childhood!

Sending you lots of love!,

Honey xx

[loosiap]

are you okay with they/them pronouns? somehow that’s how I’ve been calling you in my head but can try harder to change that if it’s not for your

Hi, thank you for this question, I apreciate that you care about it 💕

I use she/he since I was a child and it since I learned that thats what most of nonbinary community in my country is using. I understand that using it/its might be ucomfortable for native english speakers so when someone is using they/them on me I don't usually correct them. However I always apreciate anyone who is using one of my preffered pronouns

[the-starset-system]

im really curious about how systems work, is it ok if i ask some questions? if that might make you ucomfortable then dw about it

Yeah, go on and ask away! We made this blog to show daily life of being a system anyway! We're not a professional though, so we can only tell you what we've learned from research (which take that with a grain of salt cause misinformation is a thing), our experiences, and other systems we've talked to experiences

But this is a reminder that we're happy to answer anything, if it oversteps boundaries we'll just tell and move on, nothing to worry about :]

[roboraindrop]

omg happy birthday!! i know we never have rly spoken but seeing u on my dash is always nice. its like a schedule to see you postin about the characters who give yo ucomfort and im always happy to see it regardless of which character it is!! i hope ur day goes well!!

This is so sweet 🥺💕 Thank you so much!! I also love getting to see you on my dash! I hope your day is full of wonderful things!!

[makotoscoffee]

some thoughts

I don’t want to point fingers or be mean to anyone but please grepre fandom I am BEGGING you to stop being SO in mlm’s business. Occasionally I have come across fujoshis, I just block them, and most of you don’t interact with them as far as I know (which is good!) but it’s still concerning that they’re present. 

1. As a gay person, it makes me incredibly uncomfortable when people talk about things like sexual position headcanons etcetera just like that so casually and explicitly. It GENUINELY sends me into a full body cringe and I feel bad. there's a time and place for everything, and this isnt 100% bad, but sometimes its so blatantly obvious whether someone is interested in the characters or just interested in being crass.

2. Makoto is often made out to be extremely feminine, and while it’s okay to have headcanons obviously I feel like some of it is very out of character and only serves to make him “Laurent’s tiny submissive effeminate younger Asian boyfriend.” 

3. If Makoto is gay, he is a twink. Yes this is about a specific post but again I am trying to educate, not hate. The definition of a twink is a young, slender, hairless, often boy-ish looking gay man. That pretty much sums up Makoto’s looks. It is a term for and by gay men. 

A “himbo” started as a meme trying to find the male equivalent to a bimbo (misogynist idea of a dumb ditzy hot woman that women and girls have started reclaiming as a beautiful kind and emotionally intelligent woman.) George of the Jungle is considered the posterboy for himbos, they must be 1. beefy/muscular and dashingly handsome 2. Respect women, usually out of a lack of intelligence 3. Dumb and kind. I AM NOT IN ANY WAY ACCUSING SOMEONE OF RACISM, BUT THERE IS A TENDENCY ACROSS ALL FANDOM CULTURE TO MISCATEGORIZE POC AND DARKERSKINNED CHARACTERS AS HIMBOS. Here is an example: https://twitter.com/kurog3c/status/1348779792049569793?s=20 

4. PLEASE DO NOT CALL EDAURENT OR ANY MLM SHIP A YAOI SHIP IT IS OUTDATED AND HOMOPHOBIC do not tag your fanfics or ship art with the term, mlm are begging people to stop using it and as a gay person it makes me ucomfortable too

5. None of my mutuals are guilty of this but occasionally I will see a post from someone who just finished great pretender saying that it queerbaits. This is literally just factually wrong, nothing in great pretender fits the quota for queerbaiting and Laurent is even canonically bisexual. I personally think grepre is one of the greatest crime shows of all time and romance very much comes (not even second) it comes like FOURTH in line. Here is a great post from @shirodevorak​ about it https://shirodevorak.tumblr.com/post/639298838403874816/today-im-thinking-about-the-biphobia-surrounding and some examples

and ofc you know my thoughts:

I am writing this out of love because seriously you guys mean so much to me and this fandom is so sweet I just want to protect it and keep it healthy you know? If you EVER feel I am being hypocritical, please! tell me! let’s talk it out and discuss it maturely :)

[diaryofanangryasianguy]

YouTube keeps recommending me these “white person speaks perfect (insert Asian language) and shocks locals” type videos, and they make me super uncomfortable but I can never pinpoint why. I know you can’t tell me why I personally feel ucomfortable, but what do you think about these types of videos and is there actually something wrong with them?

Hells yeah I think those videos are freaking annoying.

When a white person speaks an Asian language, they get praised for it. But when an Asian person speaks proper English or whatever, white people be like “oh wow. So you don’t only speak ch*ng ch*ng.” It’s always some racist shit or some racist expectation when an Asian person speaks English well. White people have such a low ass bar for everything that doing a bare minimum gets them praise, let alone doing anything perfect lol

Angry Asian Guy