#it’s going to backfire so bad
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Ending no fault divorce isn’t going to go the way men want it to. Every woman that’s not married atm that I’ve spoken to about this has said they’ll NEVER get married if it goes away. In fact, I even caution women not to get married currently now that the topic is a debate. What happens if they get married now and in two years time no fault divorce is struck down and the dude they married turns out to be a POS??? It’s better to be safe then sorry.
#it’s going to backfire so bad#what worries me is the backlash after they realize it isn’t going to pan out like they hoped#also my heart goes out to all the women that are currently married or are getting married in the near future#radblr#radical feminism#radical feminists do interact#radical feminists please interact#terfblr#anti men
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His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#tulu xuanwu#blood#Vomit on his sweater already; mom's spaghetti#I love drawing teenji because he gets to be a lot more expressive than Older Lan Wangji.#wwx is trying so hard to be supportive and it keeps backfiring for lwj.#“There's no way I would ever want you carnally ^_^” meanwhile the guy who wants him carnally is losing his mind in agony.#Hot tip if you keep finding yourself in Lan Zhan's shoes: consider being more obvious. Give up on trying to be subtle with an ADHDer.#His game is SO BAD. Abysmally bad rizz. I do not think it was possible for these to to have a chance to get together in this life.#He has no plan. He has no healthy outlet for his feelings. He is looking at his half naked crush and losing his shot.#F in the chat for Lan Zhan. He's just been accidently rejected and he is about to be accused of being straight.#Meta commentary moment: I am going to try very hard to be more consistent with outfits and details across comics#I have had some...difficulties in the past with forgetting details (COUGH the vermillion mark COUGH)#New year new goals! Wish my ADHD eyes and brain good luck!
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Grips my shirt and tears it apart so that all the buttons go flying and SCREAMS I love Law and Cora so much what the FUCK!!!!
#Shima speaks#SLAMS MY HEAD INTO THE WALL. BREAKING THE PLASTER. LEAVING A HOLE#AGHHH. AGHHFHF HELP#Cora who saw a kid so angry and bitter at the world decided to throw away everything to save him despite the whole WORLD saying he couldn’t#Law who finally realized there’s still hope left in the world and hope left for him and there’s someone willing to sacrifice EVERYTHING#Just to save him. Just to give him a fighting chance. Just to let him be FREE#Law who came to realize how much Cora meant to him and how much love and care Cora had for him. Then losing all that in an INSTANT#The one person he cared about more than anything sacrificed his LIFE for him#And Law spent the next 13 YEARS working to avenge Cora…naming his pirate crew getting tattoos fashioning his Jolly Roger ALL after Cora#TATTOOS!!! HE GOT PERMANENT MARKINGS ON HIS BODY SYMBOLIZING CORA#I’M. GOING TO FUCKING EXPLODE AND BLOW UP. WHAT THE FUCKKKKKK#Oda writing the most epic revenge quest in history#They mean so much to me I’m GOING to die. Right here and now#Cora giving up everything for Law and Law giving up everything for Cora…THAT’S TRUE LOVE BABEY#No matter what kind of form it comes in that’s TRUE. LOVE. PERIODT#One Piece#Do you think Law still would have gotten tattoos symbolizing Cora if Cora had lived. I wonder about that sometimes.#I feel like he would. I feel like he’d wear them proudly and Cora would be SO embarrassed about it#Law’s not shy about shit like that he’d be super smug about it too#Law: You saved me and gave my life meaning why WOULDN’T I want to permanently mark my body to honor that#Cora: Because it’s embarrassing! Lawwww!!! 😭#Law: Too bad doing it anyway <3#Cora: You know what. Fine. But I’m getting a tattoo that symbolizes YOU#Law: PLEASE???#Cora: WH. WAIT THAT BACKFIRED THAT IS NOT HOW YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO REACT#Cora you NEED to match his freak okay.#I heavily hc Law to be absolutely unhinged over the people he cares about#Like scarily possessive AND obsessive kind of unhinged#He and Cora can have an unhealthy codependent relationship. As a treat <3#Okay shutting up now SORRY I’m just. Unwell. Sighs dramatically
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tough pill i have to swallow is realizing that “getting better” doesn’t mean “getting to do more things,” getting better for me means taking better initiative in protecting myself. and THAT means making sure i do LESS things
#sounds kinda obvious but i only just realized it lmao#feels like i have to grieve a lot of my goals now but no one said the healing process would be easy#danbles#and for anyone else that has a disability that prevents them from doing smth#or trauma that makes certain triggers limit their opportunities#or neurotypes that make it harder for them to love smth like they used to#or whatever else#i don’t want to make it sound like you have to give up on the things that make you happy#I’M certainly not going to#but a huge value of mine has always been experiencing everything life had to offer#and everytime that backfires (whether it’s burnout; triggering a flashback; triggering an episode; putting strain on my body; etc)#i always just thought to myself ‘it was bad timing’ or ‘i haven’t gotten better yet’ bc the endgoal was to always get to that point where#i could experience it. i want to try new things all the time. i want to feel normal and be included in everything#but if smth keeps Making Me Feel Bad then maybe there isn’t a version of myself that can take it on#it’s not resilience to put yourself in harm’s way#idk how well i’ll be able to put this into practice tbh. i rly rly like exploring different experiences#even negative ones are valuable to me#but the least i can do for myself is recognize that i might not always be the problem#maybe i’ve already hit the limit on all the self-work i can do. maybe it’s the environment or situation itself that’s the problem#fuuck guys i feel like i’m going thru a stage of grief here why is this shit so hard 💀
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Wil watching as Tommy yells loudly to a large group of people "I fucking hate cops!!!!!!", clapping like a giddy child because he was the one to teach Tommy the joys of anarchy
#i think things no other has: punk ctommy#mainly made this post cuz i remembered the very early era of the van where Wil tells someone (i think tommy???) to go out and say acab to#sapnap and dream#very fuzzy memory i could be wrong but i know something similar happened maybe ill find the clip#i love the idea of Wil helping Tommy gain some punk ideals#backfires the day Tommy goes “hey wait why the fuck are we making a government if they suck so bad” and Wil starts shaking in his boots#dsmp#dream smp#c!tommy#c!wilbur#c!wil#ctommy#cwilbur#cwil
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Thinking about ScarVi's overarching theme being The Truth Shall Set You Free. I am so normal about this
#spoilers in tags#pokémon#pokemon sv#Arven initially being closed off and not trusting you because he was neglected by his parent and learned to only rely on himself#realizing very early on that being honest is the best chance he has at healing his Mabostiff#but still not opening up about his bigger issues until it was absolutely necessary which pushes the story forward into endgame#Penny hiding herself behind Cassiopeia to protect herself from bullying#getting an entire group of outcast kids into a team to scare their bullies off#only for the plan to backfire splendously when they're mistaken for the bullies#and Clavell in a rare display of clarity ffrom an adult in a position of authority#rather than simply punishing them for it opted to team up with us to understand what was really going on#and that made him much more lenient in punishing them (because they did still cause trouble!)#the truth of Turo/Sada spiraling into their work and refusing to see the damage it was doing to EVERYTHING including themselves#to the point that they DIED#and the AI they built explicitly for the purpose of continuing their work ran the calculations and realized said work was Bad#and that truth made it go against its own programming which is what kickstarts the main story to begin with#and may I contrast all that with NEMONA whose sheer energy and eagerness is 1000% GENUINE#I've seen so many people say they thought she was going to eventually be angry for losing to us all the time#but the whole point of her character is that she's free to do whatever the fuck she wants and she's pretty happy with her life#she has no reason to fake happiness. she's just like that. she is free from the beginning and she's always be free and that's the point#in a story where no one else is!!! everyone else is bound by some complication or another that holds them back from being honest#i changed my mind i'm insane about this. no longer normal#pokemon sv spoilers#babbles
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I should be writing my thesis but Im feeling so lazy
#personal#i managed to get some sleep so thats good#but it still feels like yesterday's super hot super humid weather seeped any and All possible energy out of me#and I can barely think straight today#its cooler today at least#but its also raining outside so the humidity and grayness is also not doing me favors#so Im thinking#maybe I should just take this day for myself#I do have to do some cooking#for dinner and to prep the tofu so it doesn’t go bad#I have a recipe I wanna try and tbh whenever I do a lot of 'brain work' before in the day I have zero energy to cook#so this might be a good day try making a new thing#spend some time playing cyberpunk and stocking up on some good feels#I plan to go to the grocery store too (in the rain ughh) to grab smth sweet for my dad for tomorrow#cause I forgot to buy it yesterday when I was in town#oh and then there's the game in the afternoon!#our boy's playing in the vnl and its always nice to watch them play with the fam#so yeah#maybe today is for charging the batteries#and then tomorrow Im gonna push to write as much as I can in one day#hopefully this plan will work and not backfire on me 🙈🙈
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every time i re-listen to epic the musical, i can’t help but think of an odyssey story during a zombie apocalypse
#‘Fluffy you have already made posts about this’ AND YET I AM STILL HAUNTED#IT SLEEPS IN MY HEAD GHEN BANGS ITS POTS ANS PANS WHENEVER I THINK ABOUT THE ODYSSEY#WHICH RIGHT NOW IS WHENEVER I LISTEN FO EPIC#EVERY FUCKING TIME#I HAVE AN ITCH TO WRITE A ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE ODYSSEY STORY#‘So fluffy how would it go down?’ easy. Zombie apocalypse is a result of biowarfare from the Trojan war#wouldn’t be called the Trojan was but basically the Trojan was ya know?#the win the war by proxy#but oh no! seems this biowarfare backfired really REALLY bad (who could have seen this coming?????) and spread at an incredible rate#now stock Odysseus character must venture back to his home without being eaten and it prolongs his journey#also they don’t know about the backfire until they arrive at a cave for shelter and find it’s previous occupants…..#but yeah#there ya go for a pitch
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trump posting a fake AI generated taylor swift endorsement is the funniest possible thing to happen this election cycle
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when you make fun of Scar's plan because it worked as well as Janja's and you think it's the most hilarious thing but then Ushari appears to tell you that Scar wishes to see you and that he is not happy because the plan failed.
#;spotted mischief (cheezi)#sorry that backfired so hard on him and I feel bad for laughing#he went from making fun of it and cackling#to a whine and hiding behind Janja#all while grinning nervously#like he just realized he screwed up there#and in another episode he is worried Scar is going to be mad#so it does make you wonder#what happens off screen#;the waiting game (queue)
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I love bullying my friends ❤️
#I love telling them they suck and should go die#I mean it in all good fun bc I’m mentally ill /j /j /j#they are such good people and I don’t wanna do something that’ll#backfire and do something bad like I don’t want any guilt so please remember I’m only joking ❤️
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Do you ever worry that the friendships you have made here will fade after everyone eventually moves on?
oh... um... I'M WORRYING NOW!!!!!
#hey 🥺 why- why would you ask me this 🥺#this is something that i truly want to be fully and completely naive and idealistic about#maybe thats not the smart way to go about things. but things are so lovely right now! & personally i latch on until i'm given reason not to#if i love you literally too bad. because i'm sticking around. but obviously that's just my side of things.#loving hard has backfired many a times#SO MAN ANON IDK OK OH GOD#guess i'll cry#anon#asks
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Luffy just going 😥 when the man starts to cry in the middle of fighting ahdkahdk
#he is prepared to fight not to empathize rn#robin looks so pretty with her hair done like that......#talking tag#episode 647#watching one piece#zoro just watching luffy fight instead of go and protect the sunny.... bc he wants to fight too... boy just wait.....#mingo saying losing in the coliseum is certain death and most of the losers are just injured lmao#episode 648#'well if you want to know...' 'i don't' 'so it was 30 years ago....'#so if this man was called drill... then electric tools are a thing in one piece....#'not even the marines can enter this!' *smash cut to the marines showing up*#*insert the to be continued jojo music*#i have been punching mountains as if they were punching bags... that goes hard asf.#garp was a stunter in his days....#well at least garp didnt steal the riches lmao#he said luffy wont be pirate king and teach will.... it's so over for him...#i said luffy slingshot that man out of the arena... and he kinda did.... on sync him and i#NOW BADMOUTHING ACE??? LUFFY. EXECUTE THIS MAN!!!!! HIT HIM SO BAD NOT ONLY HIS HEAD DISAPPEARS BUT THE IDEA OF HIM TOO#luffy saying all this over a punch? he hit me so many more times and i came out normal ajdkajska#he made him a new drill ahdkahdkadhjashjashjs well... that backfired....#maybe he calms down#the arena ahdkahs.... well he is in the water.... disqualified#now 4 hour intermission to fix the arena we'll be right back#cavendish callim him mugiwara with burgess beside him.... i can feel the tragedy already#luffy being so happy about winning now teach had to come and fuck it all up... and he is not even there....#episode 649#teach DIE CHALLENGE
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Hilarious that The Guardian published this and then like a week later the film was on the verge of completely dropping out of Netflix's top ten and it's audience score on RT sunk to 59%.
#“it's no 1 on netflix so it must be liked”#guys netflix counts like watching a minute as a full view#topping their charts is virtually meaningless#and it is really bad if a film then can't stay in the top ten after just two weeks of release#like all snyder's films this will generate a lot of talk online#because they are just catnip for clickbait sites#but the majority of people who watched it clearly just didn't like it and likely switched off before it finished#this is not going to be the start of some new mega popular fictional universe#which is partly why it failed#snyder and netflix clearly deluded themselves into think this was going to be some ip cash cow#and put so much focus on worldbuilding at the expense of what limited story they already had#its like making a new hope but three times as long so you shove in all the back story from the prequels#unsurprisingly that didn't click with audiences#the reason the first star wars worked so well is because it didn't get bogged down in lore and worldbuilding#and remained focused on the central plot and the character pulled into it#the story came first#the worldbuilding came later as the story unfolded#but like with the dceu there was a rush here to get to franchise asap#and as before it has clearly backfired#i doubt the second part will be any better#nor will the extended cuts make everyone massively re-evaluate these films
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Real talk the thing about making extremely complicated/complex and flawed characters (especially those greatly based off yourself to the point they're your self-created comfort character) that you've grown to be extremely proud of thinking of their stories, is that you also know that there are people out there that will absolutely villainize the fuck out of them or try to 'reason' that they are completely irredeemable even in instances where they have no control over their life and act accordingly or even are pushed into situations where they didn't want to be to begin with or are even trying to be better than they were before even when they have gone through and still go through moments of relapse like any troubled character would in an attempt to make them feel real and it actually really fucking scares me.
I can't give details, but it's like. It's obvious they, the character, aren't a good person, not as a whole anyways and aren't meant to be, in fact said character sees themselves as the worst to exist because in their eyes they deserve every bit of punishment after everything they've done because they are forced to be stuck in the past and mask themselves unhealthily due to repeated mistakes and not wanting to do them again despite making achievements to move on and be happy and despite some telling them that they're doing a good job despite everything and that they deserve to be happy and meaning it rather than trying to placate them, it's obviously up for people to decide their own perception OF that OC from what they read of their story bits to decide whether they like the character based on what they read of them or not, because flaws and shit like this is very compelling to many, myself included.
But at the same time I'm super nervous about the idea of expanding on said character and showing their maladaptive coping mechanisms and behaviors and bad moments alongside their good moments because a lot of people on the internet, especially the very loud ones have no fucking concept of the varying shades of grey morality in the slightest. Even in cases where they are in fandoms with characters with many different forms of grey morality, like it terrifies me that someone could potentially misread everything and ruin my desire to make this OC I'm vagueing about want to not only move on and be better, even if they have to start from the bottom again sometimes, but redeem and even forgive themselves in their own eyes in the process and start anew, just because people have a black/white mentality that they force onto at the expense of others doing so. It really ruins character exploration and growth.
#Wow RANT Alert#''Emerald what stemmed this?'' I was making an extremely complex and complicated sona's story (Not Sapphire's)#which is something I haven't tried to do ever since I abandoned Emi as one given the bleh I had to go through making hers work#due to outside forces making me feel like shit and like it's not a good idea#so I've finally got the balls to do it again. And even intend on being open about it or at least trying to be#but I'm scared to because people don't know how to read between the lines of what makes a good or bad character#they just automatically assume and don't try to dig or even try to understand that the character's grey for a reason#and that its their actions in the now that define whether they are capable of doing better. Not the past ones#I definitely don't want another fandom sona's story loosely based off of myself to be ruined because of bullshit like that.#since it's now turned into a story of self forgiveness and catharsis for myself which is why I'm so banged up about this#But man does it feel like a huge ticking timebomb#which is a shame because I've literally NOT done complex characters in for fucking ever since last year#I want mess and imperfection and to feel like I did a good job making said character's personal growth and backfires feel real#not feel bad for making them extremely messy and imperfect to begin with just because others don't like it#which is ironic because this character started as my ''ideal'' self. Or about as ''ideal'' as they can be in that world#only to not be and instead be more relatable to me as time went on brainstorming them#I want a character who's life closely mirrors mine. only they actually get their happy ending and can keep going with it.
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I should play Yu-Gi-Oh Over the Nexus again <- intending to play with the same FIRE/Burn deck I've been using since I was 10
#antihibikase.txt#((I can't help it that Burning Land + Backfire + Dark Room of Nightmare is my go-to strategy especially for like-))#((-decks that specialize in summoning monsters or walling 😔))#((Story mode Team Satisfaction Jack Atlas was so bad that I had to swap to a Psychic deck momentarily to beat his ass))
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