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Ending no fault divorce isn’t going to go the way men want it to. Every woman that’s not married atm that I’ve spoken to about this has said they’ll NEVER get married if it goes away. In fact, I even caution women not to get married currently now that the topic is a debate. What happens if they get married now and in two years time no fault divorce is struck down and the dude they married turns out to be a POS??? It’s better to be safe then sorry.
#it’s going to backfire so bad#what worries me is the backlash after they realize it isn’t going to pan out like they hoped#also my heart goes out to all the women that are currently married or are getting married in the near future#radblr#radical feminism#radical feminists do interact#radical feminists please interact#terfblr#anti men
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His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#tulu xuanwu#blood#Vomit on his sweater already; mom's spaghetti#I love drawing teenji because he gets to be a lot more expressive than Older Lan Wangji.#wwx is trying so hard to be supportive and it keeps backfiring for lwj.#“There's no way I would ever want you carnally ^_^” meanwhile the guy who wants him carnally is losing his mind in agony.#Hot tip if you keep finding yourself in Lan Zhan's shoes: consider being more obvious. Give up on trying to be subtle with an ADHDer.#His game is SO BAD. Abysmally bad rizz. I do not think it was possible for these to to have a chance to get together in this life.#He has no plan. He has no healthy outlet for his feelings. He is looking at his half naked crush and losing his shot.#F in the chat for Lan Zhan. He's just been accidently rejected and he is about to be accused of being straight.#Meta commentary moment: I am going to try very hard to be more consistent with outfits and details across comics#I have had some...difficulties in the past with forgetting details (COUGH the vermillion mark COUGH)#New year new goals! Wish my ADHD eyes and brain good luck!
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Grips my shirt and tears it apart so that all the buttons go flying and SCREAMS I love Law and Cora so much what the FUCK!!!!
#Shima speaks#SLAMS MY HEAD INTO THE WALL. BREAKING THE PLASTER. LEAVING A HOLE#AGHHH. AGHHFHF HELP#Cora who saw a kid so angry and bitter at the world decided to throw away everything to save him despite the whole WORLD saying he couldn’t#Law who finally realized there’s still hope left in the world and hope left for him and there’s someone willing to sacrifice EVERYTHING#Just to save him. Just to give him a fighting chance. Just to let him be FREE#Law who came to realize how much Cora meant to him and how much love and care Cora had for him. Then losing all that in an INSTANT#The one person he cared about more than anything sacrificed his LIFE for him#And Law spent the next 13 YEARS working to avenge Cora…naming his pirate crew getting tattoos fashioning his Jolly Roger ALL after Cora#TATTOOS!!! HE GOT PERMANENT MARKINGS ON HIS BODY SYMBOLIZING CORA#I’M. GOING TO FUCKING EXPLODE AND BLOW UP. WHAT THE FUCKKKKKK#Oda writing the most epic revenge quest in history#They mean so much to me I’m GOING to die. Right here and now#Cora giving up everything for Law and Law giving up everything for Cora…THAT’S TRUE LOVE BABEY#No matter what kind of form it comes in that’s TRUE. LOVE. PERIODT#One Piece#Do you think Law still would have gotten tattoos symbolizing Cora if Cora had lived. I wonder about that sometimes.#I feel like he would. I feel like he’d wear them proudly and Cora would be SO embarrassed about it#Law’s not shy about shit like that he’d be super smug about it too#Law: You saved me and gave my life meaning why WOULDN’T I want to permanently mark my body to honor that#Cora: Because it’s embarrassing! Lawwww!!! 😭#Law: Too bad doing it anyway <3#Cora: You know what. Fine. But I’m getting a tattoo that symbolizes YOU#Law: PLEASE???#Cora: WH. WAIT THAT BACKFIRED THAT IS NOT HOW YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO REACT#Cora you NEED to match his freak okay.#I heavily hc Law to be absolutely unhinged over the people he cares about#Like scarily possessive AND obsessive kind of unhinged#He and Cora can have an unhealthy codependent relationship. As a treat <3#Okay shutting up now SORRY I’m just. Unwell. Sighs dramatically
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tough pill i have to swallow is realizing that “getting better” doesn’t mean “getting to do more things,” getting better for me means taking better initiative in protecting myself. and THAT means making sure i do LESS things
#sounds kinda obvious but i only just realized it lmao#feels like i have to grieve a lot of my goals now but no one said the healing process would be easy#danbles#and for anyone else that has a disability that prevents them from doing smth#or trauma that makes certain triggers limit their opportunities#or neurotypes that make it harder for them to love smth like they used to#or whatever else#i don’t want to make it sound like you have to give up on the things that make you happy#I’M certainly not going to#but a huge value of mine has always been experiencing everything life had to offer#and everytime that backfires (whether it’s burnout; triggering a flashback; triggering an episode; putting strain on my body; etc)#i always just thought to myself ‘it was bad timing’ or ‘i haven’t gotten better yet’ bc the endgoal was to always get to that point where#i could experience it. i want to try new things all the time. i want to feel normal and be included in everything#but if smth keeps Making Me Feel Bad then maybe there isn’t a version of myself that can take it on#it’s not resilience to put yourself in harm’s way#idk how well i’ll be able to put this into practice tbh. i rly rly like exploring different experiences#even negative ones are valuable to me#but the least i can do for myself is recognize that i might not always be the problem#maybe i’ve already hit the limit on all the self-work i can do. maybe it’s the environment or situation itself that’s the problem#fuuck guys i feel like i’m going thru a stage of grief here why is this shit so hard 💀
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Wil watching as Tommy yells loudly to a large group of people "I fucking hate cops!!!!!!", clapping like a giddy child because he was the one to teach Tommy the joys of anarchy
#i think things no other has: punk ctommy#mainly made this post cuz i remembered the very early era of the van where Wil tells someone (i think tommy???) to go out and say acab to#sapnap and dream#very fuzzy memory i could be wrong but i know something similar happened maybe ill find the clip#i love the idea of Wil helping Tommy gain some punk ideals#backfires the day Tommy goes “hey wait why the fuck are we making a government if they suck so bad” and Wil starts shaking in his boots#dsmp#dream smp#c!tommy#c!wilbur#c!wil#ctommy#cwilbur#cwil
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every time i re-listen to epic the musical, i can’t help but think of an odyssey story during a zombie apocalypse
#‘Fluffy you have already made posts about this’ AND YET I AM STILL HAUNTED#IT SLEEPS IN MY HEAD GHEN BANGS ITS POTS ANS PANS WHENEVER I THINK ABOUT THE ODYSSEY#WHICH RIGHT NOW IS WHENEVER I LISTEN FO EPIC#EVERY FUCKING TIME#I HAVE AN ITCH TO WRITE A ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE ODYSSEY STORY#‘So fluffy how would it go down?’ easy. Zombie apocalypse is a result of biowarfare from the Trojan war#wouldn’t be called the Trojan was but basically the Trojan was ya know?#the win the war by proxy#but oh no! seems this biowarfare backfired really REALLY bad (who could have seen this coming?????) and spread at an incredible rate#now stock Odysseus character must venture back to his home without being eaten and it prolongs his journey#also they don’t know about the backfire until they arrive at a cave for shelter and find it’s previous occupants…..#but yeah#there ya go for a pitch
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trump posting a fake AI generated taylor swift endorsement is the funniest possible thing to happen this election cycle
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I love bullying my friends ❤️
#I love telling them they suck and should go die#I mean it in all good fun bc I’m mentally ill /j /j /j#they are such good people and I don’t wanna do something that’ll#backfire and do something bad like I don’t want any guilt so please remember I’m only joking ❤️
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Do you ever worry that the friendships you have made here will fade after everyone eventually moves on?
oh... um... I'M WORRYING NOW!!!!!
#hey 🥺 why- why would you ask me this 🥺#this is something that i truly want to be fully and completely naive and idealistic about#maybe thats not the smart way to go about things. but things are so lovely right now! & personally i latch on until i'm given reason not to#if i love you literally too bad. because i'm sticking around. but obviously that's just my side of things.#loving hard has backfired many a times#SO MAN ANON IDK OK OH GOD#guess i'll cry#anon#asks
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Luffy just going 😥 when the man starts to cry in the middle of fighting ahdkahdk
#he is prepared to fight not to empathize rn#robin looks so pretty with her hair done like that......#talking tag#episode 647#watching one piece#zoro just watching luffy fight instead of go and protect the sunny.... bc he wants to fight too... boy just wait.....#mingo saying losing in the coliseum is certain death and most of the losers are just injured lmao#episode 648#'well if you want to know...' 'i don't' 'so it was 30 years ago....'#so if this man was called drill... then electric tools are a thing in one piece....#'not even the marines can enter this!' *smash cut to the marines showing up*#*insert the to be continued jojo music*#i have been punching mountains as if they were punching bags... that goes hard asf.#garp was a stunter in his days....#well at least garp didnt steal the riches lmao#he said luffy wont be pirate king and teach will.... it's so over for him...#i said luffy slingshot that man out of the arena... and he kinda did.... on sync him and i#NOW BADMOUTHING ACE??? LUFFY. EXECUTE THIS MAN!!!!! HIT HIM SO BAD NOT ONLY HIS HEAD DISAPPEARS BUT THE IDEA OF HIM TOO#luffy saying all this over a punch? he hit me so many more times and i came out normal ajdkajska#he made him a new drill ahdkahdkadhjashjashjs well... that backfired....#maybe he calms down#the arena ahdkahs.... well he is in the water.... disqualified#now 4 hour intermission to fix the arena we'll be right back#cavendish callim him mugiwara with burgess beside him.... i can feel the tragedy already#luffy being so happy about winning now teach had to come and fuck it all up... and he is not even there....#episode 649#teach DIE CHALLENGE
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Hilarious that The Guardian published this and then like a week later the film was on the verge of completely dropping out of Netflix's top ten and it's audience score on RT sunk to 59%.
#“it's no 1 on netflix so it must be liked”#guys netflix counts like watching a minute as a full view#topping their charts is virtually meaningless#and it is really bad if a film then can't stay in the top ten after just two weeks of release#like all snyder's films this will generate a lot of talk online#because they are just catnip for clickbait sites#but the majority of people who watched it clearly just didn't like it and likely switched off before it finished#this is not going to be the start of some new mega popular fictional universe#which is partly why it failed#snyder and netflix clearly deluded themselves into think this was going to be some ip cash cow#and put so much focus on worldbuilding at the expense of what limited story they already had#its like making a new hope but three times as long so you shove in all the back story from the prequels#unsurprisingly that didn't click with audiences#the reason the first star wars worked so well is because it didn't get bogged down in lore and worldbuilding#and remained focused on the central plot and the character pulled into it#the story came first#the worldbuilding came later as the story unfolded#but like with the dceu there was a rush here to get to franchise asap#and as before it has clearly backfired#i doubt the second part will be any better#nor will the extended cuts make everyone massively re-evaluate these films
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I should play Yu-Gi-Oh Over the Nexus again <- intending to play with the same FIRE/Burn deck I've been using since I was 10
#antihibikase.txt#((I can't help it that Burning Land + Backfire + Dark Room of Nightmare is my go-to strategy especially for like-))#((-decks that specialize in summoning monsters or walling 😔))#((Story mode Team Satisfaction Jack Atlas was so bad that I had to swap to a Psychic deck momentarily to beat his ass))
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honwstly can't chalk up my issues to Childhood Trauma for the most part since im still living with my parents and going through the same bullshit. my dad doesn't scream at me anymore but like nothing else is different. everything is still my fault and I'm not allowed to have feelings and if i dare show them i am met with disgust, blame, or even just straight up ignored. i fucking hate it here and theyre always fucking patting themselves on the back about being good parents so i know they think that everything about me is completely my fault as if im choosing to be messed up because i HAVE TO BE cos look at my sister. shes married and shes got a good job and shes getting a phd. but im a fucking failure and im the only one to blame. who cares that im disabled its my fault for not having the strength to just push through and be normal. my feelings dont fucking matter and when things are bad enough that i cry in front of my mom she wont even look at me or address it and tries to just talk about something else but if my sister calls her and cries on the phone she talks all gentle and sweet. i seriously think im going to explode. i juat want to disappear. my sister will always be perfect and i will always be garbage and theres fucking nothing i can do about it.
#i have so much shit i need to talk abt but no one to talk to abt it#if only because like im so bad with words and like no one can help me with this situation#i want to get better and i want to heal my brain and my heart but while im still here in this house#im never going to be able to really DO it#like every time i try to stand up for myself with my family it backfires spectacularly#because having a backbone is the worst sin i can commit in their eyes#so then i just go through life collecting more hurt and brokenness cos i dont have a backbone and other ppl can see that#and then they trest me bad and then i try to stand up for myself with them and then its the same and i get punished for it#so then it feels like the whole world is like that and that me JUST ME im not allowed to have boundaries#so im either hurting because i let everyone steam roll me or im hurting because i tried to get someone to stop and they treated me like#im evil or abusive for asking them to just back off a little on constantly grinding me into dust#i dont know what to do
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A couple cautionary tales (or, why sometimes wording and ESPECIALLY intent really does not matter because the end goal would manifest the same way no matter what):
IMPORTANT NOTE. This post is not discouraging usage of any type of magic in any way or some fluffbunny bullshit asspat nonsense about “avoid anything that hurts you” (no pain, no gain, or in this case, no loss of what’s actually doing you more harm).
If you do ANYTHING that incites a total rebirth, you WILL lose things. You WILL be pissed about it. But you WILL be better off once the shit that’s been weighing you down has been stripped away, even by force. Sometimes it happens in the following weeks or months, sometimes it’s immediate. Make sure you’re ready to lose things, or have backups for what happens if parts of your material life could be shaken up or threatened.
If you work to eliminate toxicity in a group, situation, or person, be fully aware this can very easily take the form of things like losing your job, exposing fake friends and people who were just using you, and you will lose those people or those circumstances. This WILL suck. You WILL be upset. You can absolutely try to change things, but you WILL need to learn to cut your losses.
This is probably a bit of a controversial one and will potentially be hit-or-miss depending on the person and the spell/ritual/etc. but despite the fact that people seem to say “be careful, this is powerful” as an ego boost, in some cases it’s absolutely fucking correct. If the spell/ritual/etc. calls for or calls on tools, materials, elements, spirits, deities, and the like that you already have a connection and/or resonance with, take those warnings seriously.
Invocation and embodiment (especially of negative/destructive things) should be used with caution, especially if it’s a part of you. Silly and simple actions may do nothing for a normal person, or even someone who’s not meant to occupy certain roles or utilize certain forces as a part of their being. But if you do it and you have those roles and forces as part of your path and self, or as part of an agreement with someone or something, it’s not just playing at pressing a button because for some people the power’s just always on. Magic and invocation can be legitimately automatic and accidental.
Adding on to that, even the densest, most mundane, most disconnected moron humans are still able to sense (in some way, even if they themselves have no fucking clue what’s going on and are literally responding on instinct) a strong aura shift, invocation/assumption, or other considerable energy levels that ping as “otherworldly” and ESPECIALLY predatory. Be careful with that sort of thing. They may be in denial but there’s still some part of their evolutionary advantages active to sense unknown and unseen threats that’s online for their survival.
#the mad mage muses#magic tips and troubleshooting#second to last bullet point brought to you by local idiot despair elemental (us. sometimes) doing something as a joke#thinking it was a fluke last year and realizing this year it really was not#you think we would have known that taking a shitty paper crown and writing DESPAIR! on it would actually do something#but because it seemed so innocuous we let bad naughty debunker brain win#nope. it really is a fucking perfect way to literally bestow that ability on us again. and we don't control the outcome#so we won't be doing that anymore#on the other hand how fun and funny would it be to just invoke that before going somewhere or doing something JUST to mess it up#hm. now there's a thought. but on the other hand it may not work because both times it was spontaneous so like#it could just actually not work or backfire again at the worst time so who knows
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#extreme anti mcu supremacists do not interact#look i don't care about the em cee u at this point#but we've been known that attempting to connect all shows/movies was a bad idea#because they didn't do it for the purpose of story telling.. they did it so people would be forced to watch all mcu content to understand#but boy if that backfired enormously#you can't make a sequel of a title movie without explaining who are the characters involced in it#also you could argue 'if you're going to watch a fast&furious movie you should know the drill about those movies rather than being clueless#which makes sense but like.... you're supposed to do it right#idk man it was bound to happen to see this mess unfurl#rambless
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Ok, but like. The agent's Nar Shaddaa mission had to have been about 80% unsanctioned, right? Like, yeah, go find out about and dismantle any terror cell on Nar Shaddaa, by whatever means you deem best, yes. But the means being "collaborate with a former Watcher who so deeply traumatized the rest of the Agency that they can't even talk about what happened but they thank you if you kill him" can't have been like. "plan a."
#swtor imperial agent#i really deeply feel that watcher x and watcher two have a past together#even if she wasn't at all connected to the ops that Went Wrong and eventually got him 'retired'#i think there's hero-worship there and a fear of becoming him#and a need to prove that surely she doesn't actually have anything to worry about#and sure maybe he did one bad thing (or a series of bad things)#but the conditioning is still there and still right. and the empire is still right.... right?#agent narsh is just watcher two trying to prove to herself that Everything Is Okay#and then everything backfiring spectacularly#if you couldn't trust me why would imperial intelligence give us this assignment - i don't think they did#i think watcher two did because she wants so badly to believe that even though watcher x Went Wrong he's still the Watcher she admired#and yes yes i'm sure watchers are given a large degree of freedom in terms of what specific assignments they send their agents on#but as much as she likes what's proper and 'the rules' idk if she actually got the official go-ahead on this one#like. keeper's got his hands full anyway dealing with. yaknow. everything falling apart.#she can justify not getting his signature on every little thing if it's gonna cause him more hassle to make him sign off#so ask for forgiveness instead of permission when her brilliant plan works because surely it's going to work#watcher x makes her skin crawl but her cipher is Very Good#and he's the watcher she always dreamed of being#so it has to be the right call to pair them up. right?#sorry for writing a novel in the tags but you know it is with imperial agent replays
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