#it would still be 100% kpop though 😳

[seungyeonn]

Thank god i didn’t use spotify much this year because if my wrapped was actually accurate that shit would’ve been embarrassing

[kfanopinions]

His, siiis! I send you my answer anonymous in cade someone get offended

For me, I think that ships are normal for fandoms, especially for kpop fans, something I've read a lot is that "It's better for them to have relationships with each other than other people" and I feel that it is a very toxic thought, if at all. Are you really a fan? Shouldn't you be happy because your idol is happy? I'm fine with ships where they don't involve +18 things, because at least I know people who consider their idols to have such a beautiful friendship that they don't consider that someone other than the other person in the ship can know them and treat them better, so I think it's not something bad, however, I also don't like the idea that they assume someone's sexuality because you don't know how the other person feels, of course, being a public figure they must be used to that kind of comments, making it uncomfortable but "bearable"? , but already, the comments +18 do make me uncomfortable and something that should not be mentioned because they are messing so much with the integrity, friendship, and sexuality of the idol.

Hope you are doing well! 💗, love you 🫂

i’m going to put this under a read more lol

omg…i hate that reasoning so much. why some fans find it more tolerable that their fav idols be in a relationship with each other than someone else is beyond me. i adore v of bts but if it’s true he’s dating jennie then i wish them a happy relationship. idc if they’re dating or if they get married. the only thing i care about like mentioned is their happiness. also jennie is my 2nd fav lisa being my fav so if taennie is real…. yay 😃🥰

thank you for saying about an idols sexuality. we as fans don’t know at all. this is why i don’t say ‘they’d want a girl who is…’ because how do i know? the one someone could be asking me about could be gay or bisexual or asexual 🤷🏽‍♀️ we just don’t know.

while most idols i don’t believe give a rats ass about the ships (you know part of the job description and if they’re okay they play that role well) there could be some that DO have a problem with it. if the idols are participating and show clear signs of not really caring that’s good they can have fun with their fans as long as both sides realize that it’s just all fun and games and not get their wires crossed. when i think about nct ships that seem to have fun it’s renhyuk and yumark. i want to say markhyuk but mark has shown clear signs that he does have boundaries lol sorry haechan 😂

i also wonder and this is through the words of my mom (which i never thought about till she said it) but i wonder if fans realize they are inadvertently obsessing (i wanted to say f*tishizing) over male x male relationships. i see this in both male kpop groups and with the anime community as well. ppl drawing pictures, writing stories about male characters and real life people acting in a sexual nature with each other. while i myself take part in fan fiction i don’t write bxb stuff at all. because that could really make someone super uncomfortable depending on their own personal beliefs. (but there was this one baekyeol story i read YEARS AGO that had me crying it was soooooo good!!!! 😭😭😭😭 don’t ask what it was called cuz i tried to hunt that story down but i think the person removed it 😩 it was soooo good….)

i see most of this behavior on twitter and not on tumblr. on tumblr it’s fans “claiming” an idol is theirs. though it’s for fun their words are still 😬😳😬😳 like if i were an idol i’d be scared of a few of them lol 😂 maybe i just end up on the perverse side of twitter and tumblr somehow 🤷🏽‍♀️😅 it is funny to read some of it🤣

but yeah i’m sure no one here would have been offended by your words sis but thanks for responding 🫂🥰

believe it or not i got sick again 😜 so i was taking it easy for a while. still not at 100% yet hope you’re doing well 🩵🩵🩵 love ya too 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

[ji-lixie]

Nooo because your gifs are so crisp and yet I went and posted the fuzziest one ever when I started, no shame, and still have it up for the occasional embarrassment 🤧 please teach me your ways 🙏🏼 but I love your attitude! 💜

I think when I have some time I should check them back out hahaha 🙈 and honestly agree that you don't have to like every song a group puts out but if you do then great! With different concepts and a huge discography, it can be hard to like EVERYTHING and that doesn't make you fake at all <3

Taemin really is just a king like that. I love that kpop has made this community where we can find really good friends and yessss manifesting more solo minho PLEASE

My bias might give me away hahaha because it's DK 😳 but Hoshi really got me 👀 sometimes and wow a tag 🤩 that'd be so cute, would 🔆 be okay? <3

omg nooo, my initial gifs were SO fuzzy when i started out!! i distrust anyone who says that theirs first gifs weren't bad. literally i think the left & right gifset i did was the first time they came out as crisp as i like <3 also ty!! i've been in creative things for Years (writing, acting, singing, etc) so i think it's just an attitude i eventually adapted when it comes to endeavors like this

oh absolutely! it's funny to me that someone got an ask once saying that skipping songs makes you a fake fan like lmao people with huge discographies aren't going to have songs you like. shout out by shinee is literally the worst song they've ever made imo and i am unafraid to say that i skip it every single time i come to it <3 same w ah yeah by svt

he truly is <3 i hate him because his stage presence is so much and then you see him being cute off stage like king... ur too much i can't...

ngl dk is one of the members i was initially lukewarm on (which like... was all of them aside from hoshi + vernon + shua dskfhdsf i warmed up very fast though) and then watched more things where he was more focused on and then i was like ohh i get it. sunshiney man i trust w my whole heart <3

also yes that's 100% okay! i'll go back and tag the previous asks with it as well <3

[creepweirdo]

hey again, emily! You can write as much as you like!! i just got into kpop too so *highfive* i’m trying not to spam about it but… oops? tell me about your bias i want to know it all! so you got into the untamed in august? how did you get into it, friends, tumblr, random? was it the live action first or have you read the book or any of the other adaptations? what are your favourite fics? your cc💜

hi classified cultivator!!!

omg twins! HAHAHA yesss, no wonder we’ve been partnered hahahah ❤️ omg literally LMAO sooooo so far i’ve been obsessed with blackpink, (g)i-dle, taemin, and nct - nct is honestly so scary though because they have 21 memebers LIKE ???? hello 💀 it’s giving me the same feeling from when i discovered mdzs and had to learn everyone’s name (which LMAO i’m already laughing about how i’m going to explain how i got into mdzs ,,, i never thought i would have to admit to my sins 💀) ANYWAY so far idk if i have a “bias” bias yet - maybe blackpink bc they were the first group i discovered after watching the netflix documentary hahaha and bc rose has an australian accent which was so crazy to discover

okay sooooo the way i got into the untamed was because someone i follow (sadly i don’t who to thank) kept reblogging gifs from the show and it was making me really curious!! so i ended up looking through to tags of the post to try and find the show and discovered the name. so the googled it - found out the show is GAY which OMG!! and googled to see if the gay relationship was even a main ship 💀 lmaooo. what happenes next will shock and disgust - i don’t know WHY i did this but i ended up searching wangxian on AO3 just to see if there was fanfiction and 😳 there was A LOT ,,,,, and ,,,, i ended up reading some before even WATCHING anything 💀💀 i literally sorted the fics by kudos and read the simplest way forward (which to my defence is a modern au so it didn’t really spoil anything). and it kind of was a good introduction because i got to know the characterisation of all the characters and learn their names but i was still soooooo confused HAHAHAHA

according to my bookmarks the next one i read was seldom all they see which LMAO confused me even more. by then i KNEW i had to watch something and ended up watching the donghua! which. not going to lie, it confused me even more. to be fair i should probably rewatch it because i will be able to fill in what i was confused about. hahaha then i watched the untamed on netflix which ahhhh changed my life - it also filled in all the weird plot points i had jumbled in my mind after reading so much fanfic without any CONTEXT lmaooo. i’m currently reading the novel but i got distracted by the ‘heaven official’s blessing’ novel. i’m up to like chapter 15 of mdzs which i feel so bad for abandoning but .... i WILL return it soon i promise lmao

ooooo favourite fics!! so i’m still kind of emotionally recovering from the last series i read which was called no new age 💔 it made me CRY so hard omg. there is this line that sizhui said which killed me, something like: “i don’t think people should be punished for who they love” and WOW it was so powerful and when it was said and who WHO - it’s so cathartic i recommend 100%.

other fic recs would have to be: i’ll be your girl, the boy with the sunshine smile, sweet chaos, and a place to hide (can’t find one here) ❤️ those are the ones that really stand out for me ahahah.

i really wanna know about you!! what kpop groups do you like? how did you get into the untamed? what other adaptations about you read/watched/heard? and what are your fic recs???

thank you for the questions ahhh ❤️❤️❤️