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So there's something I want to say re: intentionally withholding your vote, and I want to do it without coming across as condescending or dismissive.
I've worked as a field organizer in two campaigns, 2010 and 2012, and my job was to help turnout the vote for Democratic candidates up and down the ticket. Technology may have changed, but people are still knocking on doors for specific voters the way they were 12 years ago.
If you say you're not voting/voting 3rd party, the campaign volunteer is supposed to mark that and move on. Their job, in the final month of the election, is to make sure the campaign's supporters have all the information and resources they need to cast a vote.
They aren't collecting data on why you're withholding your vote. They aren't submitting opinion polling results to the campaign. Something like 155 million people voted in the 2020 election, and if you say you're not voting, the campaign is not going to waste a volunteer's time and morale begging you to vote when there are literally millions of other voters to turn out.
Let me repeat that: The campaign does not track why you're not voting. They simply note your vote is not a priority for turnout and move on.
I say this because I see a lot of promotion of non-voting like that's a boycott, when the function is not the same. A boycott is a coordinated mass refusal to engage with an institution—which sounds similar if you see a vote as a good or service to withhold. Unfortunately, it's not.
A vote is a choice you're making as part of a community hiring committee. Your abstention doesn't prevent someone from being hired. It just lowers the threshold for the worst candidate to succeed.
All this to say: In my direct experience as an organizer, abstaining from the vote sends a message. That message is not "You need to try harder to win my vote." It's "Don't waste time on me."
#voteposting 2024#this *is* condescending but#sometimes I need people to ask themselves if they really think joe biden is reading their insta stories
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Am i the only one who imagined the first meet like this?? *swooon*
#sebastian sdv#sdv sebastian#sdv#stardew valley#stardew valley sebastian#i cant marry anyone else guys#its the dark circles around his eyes#the tiredness behind that crooked smile#keep talking in that aloof and condescending tone#I WILL MARRY THIS EMO
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Honestly pokemon is the ideal universe not just because there’s cute animals that are your life companions, but because they have walkable cities and adequate biking infrastructure
#texting my patience#pokemon#edit: I’m not American sorry guys#<just bc people have mentioned the healthcare 😔 (not meant in a condescending way)#I have all of these in my area I just like thinking if everywhere was like this
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the vulture.
a comic about cycles.
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#cw: death mention#learnt about phillip mainlander's theory from a friend. im not normally very well read in deep-cut german philosophers#the mental image of his “earth is god's rotting corpse” was just very striking#i havent been able to make comics like this for a while now. mostly for mental reasons#but this felt good to complete#also i know some people find the creative notes annoying or condescending and i kinda dont care#i like making them if only for myself#thank you tumblr for always being here for me to be my most authentic self (annoying about media analysis)#thank you for reading#comic art#daughter of the birch tree#dotbt#stillindigo comics#stillindigo art
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Batman and Robin!Jason, who are getting to interrogate some criminal (they need his confession and he just won't budge) for the first time together, and Jason begs Bruce to allow him to be a bad cop. That's like, a total opposite of Dick, who loved being good cop, while B interrogated the hell out of them.
But Jason? Bad Cop? It is... funny.
Jaybin. In these cutest shorts, toothy smirk, and overexcitment?
But Bruce can't say no, so he just nods along, thinking that criminal would probably be too scared of his presence anyway to not confess. Expect, criminal isn't, and Jason is grilling his ass in a surprising manner that makes Gordon whistle in another room.
Criminal: Ha, as if I am going to say anything to a kid. How old are you, ten?
Jaybin, scoffing: Was it how old were you when your daddy threw you on the streets?
Criminal, pausing: W-what. How did you...
Jaybin, casually: Oh, I know everything, buddy. You were always stealing, weren't you? Almost made your daddy lose his job... Eh, you would think that with all these years under your belt, you would at least learn how to be discreet. But, nope, same old disappointment.
Criminal, flaring up protectively: I am discreet! I am very discreet!
Jaybin: Discreet my ass! Your attempt to break into the house was caught within five minutes because your ass forgot to turn the security on! And you left your pliers that you used to break the fence on the roadside! How is that discreet?!
Criminal, hitting his hand against the table: Listen here, you pipsqueak, first of all — how could I know that there is a security?!
Jaybin, rolling his eyes: You didn't even do research. Wonderful.
Criminal, stuttering: A-and, second of all, I threw it away in panic. I left no fingertips, so now what?! Huh?!
Jaybin, disappointingly shaking his head: All of these troubles, and you barely got to steal stuff. That's, like, super lever embarrassing, my dude.
Criminal: IT IS NOT MY FAULT. I GOT DISTRACTED BY A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN LIVING THERE!!!! I WOULD RETURN FOR MORE, YOU LITTLE JACKASS.
Jaybin, blinking: Woah. No surprise, Daddy kicked you out, dude. You are kinda dumb.
Jaybin, returning to his beaming mode: Hey, B, I think, we have a confession!
Batman, flabbergasted: G-good work, chump.
Jaybin: (bashful giglging)
Bruce, in the car: So... How did you know his family history?
Jason, shrugging: Oh, streets talk. Also, that jackass stole food when I was nine. Always wanted to make him pay for that.
Bruce: Aren't you very... revengeful...
Jason: Hehe.
#Jason Petty Todd#it is his actual middle name trust#also I think Dick just loved being a good cop and being so condescending and manipulative when B was interrogating#he gets off on that so he didn’t even try to be a bad cop — being good cop is funnier#jason todd#red hood#batman#dcu comics#dcu#dc universe#batfamily#bruce wayne#batfam#dick grayson
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oh, look, you're finally awake. i was wondering how long you'd be out, 'cause i can't say i measured the dosage real exactly. sorry about that.
hey, do you know where we are? c'mon, open those pretty eyes of yours and look. uh-huh, exactly. we're just at the edge of this very pretty forest, and it looks a little dark in there, doesn't it? there's probably bears in it.
no no no, hey, don't cry yet. i haven't even told you what we're doing here. see, i wanna play a game, alright? it's like hide and seek. i'm gonna untie you in just a second and let you go in there, and then i'll come looking for you! doesn't that sound fun? and because i'm feeling nice, i'll even give you a five minute head start.
(ah ah- don't be rude. what do you say when someone does something nice for you? there we go, that's a good little lamb.)
now, in the interest of being open and truthful with each other: i'm going to find you. i mean, honey, you don't even know where we are. i've been in and out of this forest my whole life. it's really a non-starter. so when i find you, i'm going to spread those pretty legs open and fuck your tight little hole until you're just screaming and crying and god, it's going to feel good. for me, mostly. but who knows? maybe you're a little more sick in the head than i thought you were. wouldn't that be interesting?
let's get you out of this rope now, hm? ready? alright, poppet. run.
#i love being condescending. anyway#trying out dom posting for the first time!! howd i do lads#jay speaks#[cnc.]#primal play#switchposting#ftm cnc#trans cnc#cnc brat#bd/sm community#t4t cnc#bd/sm blog#bd/sm kink#primal kink#queer nsft#transmasc nsft#ftm nsft#t4t nsft#trans nsft#mlm nsft#rough cnc#feral#dom posting
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If canon verse Dick tried the 5 senses thing on Jason to get him out of a panic spiral it would work but only because it would irritate Jason so much he would immediately snap out of it
#Dick: What are 5 things you can see#Jason: *pauses freak out* don’t fucking condescend to me right now#Dick: ok but it WORKED didn’t it 😏#Jason Todd#Dick Grayson#dc
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that one scene in the raven king where henry wants blue to go with him somewhere in a car but she's like "no i have a strong hating-rich-boys-especially-raven-ones reputation here and people are looking at me", so he's like "fair enough" and pretends to dramatically have a fight with her so her reputation upholds, and drives away. and then equally rich and equally raven boy gansey arrives and stops right next to her. easily top 10 funniest scenes in the entire series
#reading it for a 3rd time rn and i always forget this scene is here so it makes me equally laugh every time#and right before that there's a very real scene with blue being like#“i feel like a 1000 yo condescending brat. i love my 1000 yo condescending brat friends.”#the raven cycle
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the way outiemark says “ms. cobel says you like someone down there :)” with that little smile like he’s talking to his 7 y/o son whose teacher said he has a crush on his classmate. didn’t even bother to remember her name because it is so frivolous and insignificant to him
#these people need the equivalent of media training for recording videos for their innies#severance#going into it lying and being condescending… who’s idea was that
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#trans rights#skin is skin#that's the dream#to have someone slavic complement you in away that is both matter of fact and slightly condescending#allyship
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Herzog was real for this
#Werner Herzog#advice#maybe this doesn’t come across in the quote but he’s not advocating condescending sociological study;#he loves it
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there's something about being called "darlin'" or "sweetheart" by a big, gruff man that makes me instantly melt.
#especially when they're mean about it#derisive and condescending#you might be talking down to me but jokes on you because i'm into that shit
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i'm a us liberal and i think you're cool
i highly doubt you're a liberal then and just think liberal = leftist which it very much does not
#liberalism is a specific (captialist right wing) ideology#the US is just shifted very far to the right#so “liberalism” seems like a centre left idea which is why “liberal” became the thing right wingers call any leftist#purely because it's the ideology of the broader democrat party#if you're to the left of most democrats (which if you like my work and me you probably are) you're almost definitely not a liberal#sorry if this comes off as condescending it's just a massive pet peeve of mine
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I think what I’m seeing with the Slay The Princess fan base is that not enough people recognize that ALL the voices are a neutral force. Both positive and negative in their own ways.
I’ve seen people talk about Smitten showing love just as a thing, and I just saw a post talking about Paranoid needing to be written in fan content with his more negative side as well as his capabilities, but it’s actually like that for all of them! The voices are, quite literally, reflections of The Long Quiet— and they are their definition in every way it can be.
Smitten loves, and sometimes that love happens to hurt because he just wants what’s best for the Princess but she wants the same for tlq so it spirals and no one is happy.
I was thinking about Hunted, especially in the Den, where he is instinct and that instinct is to survive, but when he sees someone else also fighting to survive, he looks out for them and works as a team.
Cold is notorious for brushing off any emotions and with the mirror he will tell the decider that you don’t need to comfort the other voices. But he’s pushing for numbness so that it hurts less, so that you can handle it easier, so you aren’t paralyzed by guilt or by the decisions you have to make.
Opportunist is constantly changing his mind, trying to be on the “winning” side, and this causes him to be a jerk, pull the knife on the princess when it suits him and if you don’t want to hurt the princess he’ll then try to play it off. But he’s also got ways to keep you safe, know when something will turn on you because that’s what he would do, and he just wants the safety and security.
I could write them all out to be honest, but it’s about just taking their names at face value because that is literally what they are, and Slay the Princess does a really damn good job at portraying these traits as completely neutral. And it’s a game about perception, so depending on what choices you make, these neutral traits will seem more positive or negative, and I really think that’s a great message that can be done so so well and I honestly love it.
#ack I feel like I got a bit condescending towards the community there sorry#mostly just commenting on these characters because it’s such a great design#slay the princess#stp#black tabby games
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jerking off a guy until he starts getting all whiny and then cooing at him about how cute he sounds. like aweee buddy listen to yourself, you’re being so adorable with how much you wanna cum in my hand
#switch nsft#sub nsft#soft d0m#nblm nsft#mlm nsft#transmasc nsft#teasing#condescending#gay nsft#subby men#whiny men#otto.{txt}
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i need to be “poor baby” ‘d through like 10 orgasms
#lesbian#wlw smut#stud liker#wlw ns/fw#lesbian ns/fw#lesbian nsft#bd/sm mommy#dom mommy#mommy k!nk#mommy lesbian#mommy's good girl#condescending#jay speaks
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