#isavesexlives

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GOOD THING OR BAD THING?⠀ ⠀ What tempts you?⠀ ⠀ - drugs?⠀ - sex?⠀ - food?⠀ - social media⠀ - netflix⠀ ⠀ What is your passion or poison?⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #temptation #entertainme #goodorbad https://www.instagram.com/p/BmyOHFdgwYh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=11r4bhmtgbmjm

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IS DIGITAL LOVE LEGIT?⠀ ⠀ I remember years ago I was MCing a wedding (I have done many) and the bride and groom had met on line. They specifically requested that I did not mention that.⠀ ⠀ Now, it is almost the exception that people don't meet online.⠀ ⠀ Are their drawbacks or benefits? Does it matter what type of relationship you are looking for?⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #digitallove #doubletap #newagelove https://www.instagram.com/p/Bmi4VdPgrAf/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1o7t1v24137ru

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FOMO⠀ ⠀ Rarely if ever is someone having amazing sex all the time. Although it can appear that way.⠀ ⠀ Through your life there will be ebbs and flows, ups and downs. Trust in yourself that the best is yet to come.⠀ ⠀ And if you stuck or struggle reach out and talk to someone. Live a sex live by design rather than one by resign. (not sure if that is proper grammar, but it rhymes!)⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #vacation #amazingsex #allofthetime https://www.instagram.com/p/BmgMcfuA5XD/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=12z5fx3hm8qzk

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WHAT IS YOUR LOVE MAKING JAM?⠀ ⠀ Music can do much to set the mood, communicate what you want.⠀ ⠀ I am always surprised when I take the time to listen to lyrics how sexual they are.⠀ ⠀ What is your favourite song or type of music to get down to?⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #music #slowjams #getyourfreakon https://www.instagram.com/p/Bmeo7c_AQkM/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mcgb0gvdk4g7

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WHAT YOU WANT MATTERS!⠀ ⠀ Your needs and wants are legit.⠀ ⠀ Do not give up if you haven't found a partner or your partner is not open to exploring what you are interested in.⠀ ⠀ Have conversations. Set out a clear plan to have what you want. Reach out and talk to an expert.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #toolegit #toolegittoquit #needsandwants https://www.instagram.com/p/BmdmrHkgzAP/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mxptkcx2eapp

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HUMILITY AS AN ACCESS TO GROWTH⠀ ⠀ At different times in my life I have been at what I like to think of as the top of my game.⠀ ⠀ The reality is that I am at the bottom of another challenge.⠀ ⠀ Recently been taking on my fitness @f45libertyvillage.⠀ ⠀ Nothing like having women half your size outlast and out lift you to keep me humble and open to growing.⠀ ⠀ Similarly when it comes to sex coming at it with an open mind, not with all the answers but with all the questions on how you can learn and grow with a partner will make you a great lover.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #f45 #humble #humility

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IT'S BETTER DOWN WHERE IT'S WETTER!⠀ ⠀ Let's talk lubrication. ⠀ ⠀ As a general rule of thumb the more the better. If it is natural or external.⠀ ⠀ If things are not happening in the natural lubrication department. I suggest to check things out. Talk to your doctor, talk to your partner to ensure you are getting the level of arousal you need. ⠀ Artists: @mrndapnda, @galen.neil .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #lubrication #wetter #thewetterthebetter

[drdewit]

CAUSE A RUCKUS!⠀ ⠀ Disrupt what is going on.⠀ ⠀ Even if it is in your relationship.⠀ ⠀ You can get caught up in the a habit or cycle with your partner that does not serve what you actually want to have.⠀ ⠀ Interrupting the unhealthy cycle of communication, conflict, or even relating to each other can sometimes be challenging but is necessary.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #dissent #consent #sheets #streets

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#tbt circa 2006⠀ ⠀ A few things have changed in my life since this photo.⠀ ⠀ But I still love to laugh and smile and get my picture taken. 😉⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #photo #purple #smiles

[drdewit]

BEAUTIFUL BODY⠀ ⠀ Or beautiful mind? Or a beautiful heart? Which is more important to you?⠀ ⠀ At different times in our lives different things will be attractive to us. Give yourself the freedom to love and be attracted to all you love.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #yoga #repost @billyinspo

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FOREFATHER OF MODERN DAY SEXOLOGY⠀ ⠀ Alfred Charles Kinsey was an American biologist, professor of entomology and zoology, and sexologist who in 1947 founded the Institute for Sex Research at Indiana University.⠀ ⠀ He is best known for writing Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (1948) and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (1953), also known as the Kinsey Reports, as well as the Kinsey scale. ⠀ ⠀ Kinsey's research on human sexuality, foundational to the field of sexology, provoked controversy in the 1940s and 1950s. His work has influenced social and cultural values in the United States, as well as internationally.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #kinsey #sexresearch #unnatural

[drdewit]

FILL YOUR BOOTS!⠀ ⠀ Don’t let anyone tell you what you should or shouldn’t do. ⠀ ⠀ You do you!⠀ ⠀ Don’t let anyone tell you how you should or shouldn’t feel. ⠀ ⠀ Feel yourself!⠀ ⠀ Don’t let anyone tell you what you should or shouldn’t think. ⠀ ⠀ Unleash your mind!⠀ ⠀ Don’t let anyone tell your how you should or shouldn’t be. ⠀ ⠀ Be yourself!⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ ⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #youdoyou #selfexpression #beyourself

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LONG DISTANCES⠀ ⠀ Could be in the next room or across the world. ⠀ ⠀ Distance makes the heart grow stronger but does it make the sex better?⠀ ⠀ Sometimes there is the sexual tension that builds up and it is amazing. Sometimes you need to reconnect and get on the same page and the sex takes a while. ⠀ ⠀ What has your experience been?⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .#sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #longdistance #tension #beds

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ALWAYS ASK!⠀ ⠀ Just cause some one says they are poly, kinky, gay, swingers, a slut, in an open relationship does not mean that they are interested in having sex with you in the slightest.⠀ ⠀ Just becuase someone says they are a vegetarian does not mean that the like to eat cucumber all the time because it is a vegetable.⠀ ⠀ A conversation is mandatory to esure that they are on the same page as you and have the slightest bit of attraction to you.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #poly #sexpositive #consent

[drdewit]

JUST SAYING!⠀ ⠀ Cause you know! ⠀ ⠀ That's all! ;)⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #avocados #shrek #sexpositive

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YOU ANIMALISTIC BEAST!⠀ ⠀ We have sex for a reason, a season, or an emotion.⠀ ⠀ There is making love, there is having sex, there is fucking!⠀ ⠀ Is one better than the other? Why?⠀ ⠀ I was taught that love needed to be present for sex to happen.⠀ ⠀ I beleive love is a vastly inadequate word to capture the complextity of human emotion of connection.⠀ ⠀ I love my niece and nephew, I love my friends, I love my partner, I love my mom, I love the barista at Starbucks............. all very differently but no one can argue that I love them.⠀ ⠀ So what needs to be present for you to have sex? Has it always been that way? Have there been different times in your life when sex meant different things to you?⠀ ⠀ Just some things to ponder.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #love #connection #sexpositive