#is it really THAT hard to compartimentalize attraction and stick to a friendship?
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…I just want to plant a bunch of flowers. Make a meadow fortress. You won’t find me unless you come looking for me between the petals. Oh, and my cat and bird have to like you.
#tiger’s roar#…I’m…yeah. what’s the point of trying to make irl friendships again?#wish I could Just be satisfied with aquaintanceships. people you only see for a Specified Time&Place. never outside that#but. I can’t#…it really shouldn’t be asking all that much#it shouldn’t have gotten me slapped down with ‘manage expectations’#…again. WHAT expectations. when I’ve repeatedly shrugged with ‘yeah? and? okay??’ to Not Ready To Date#(I’m not sure I am in General. nevermind You.)#…except. let a friendship die. and quit hoping it’ll actually…be a friendship#and all because I Suspect the problem isn’t so much my ‘expectations’#but. your fear of anything beyond an aquaintanceship#when. I’ve Seen You not want to let me go. figuratively and literally#so. why am I the one who can’t manage my ‘expectations’ again?#is it really THAT hard to compartimentalize attraction and stick to a friendship?#or. are you petrified of Actual Friendships too#or. is it just a friendship with me. so much for me being ‘easy to talk to’ IG
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