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lol they only care about the age gap because the women get in the way of their gay ships. they've also tried to claim it's "weird" or even incestuous that lupin married sirius' cousin, because he was totally in love with sirius and tonks is totes coded as a genderqueer lesbian
The second example is extra delulu, but i've seen even radfems get pissed at JKR for the age gaps. I've never understood why that is such a big deal for some people. Sure, in real life an age gap can be a red flag, but ultimately what makes a relationship toxic and abusive is a combinaison of multiple factors. And here we are talking about fictional characters. We know that neither Lupin nor Bill is going to turn out to be an abusive prick â well, Lupin is kind of a prick here for a bit actually, but not in a way that's really tied to being a man in a relationship with a younger woman â because they're Good Guysâ˘; as in "the narrative says so." It's obviously not *the same* as real life relationships, in which you can never really know who people are, so an age gap can be something to watch out for.
#replies#anon#i mean i suppose i'm a bit biased on this issue because my first serious relationship involved an age gap#in which *i* was supposedly the innocent minor being manipulated by a Very Bad Adult#in reality that wasn't the dynamic at all. i was easily the more confident and 'dominant' half in the relationship#sometimes it's just like that! other times yes there is manipulation involved. often even! but it's not systematic that's all i'm saying.
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@russianspacegeckosexparty: Lydiaâs banshee powers laid dormant so long and for why? Have you stopped to think how in that time, she suspiciously had Stiles obsessing over her? Knowing her measurements? That dastardly druid boy must have been siphoning her Banshee spark for years to try resurrecting his mom. And he never told her what she was! When he is a genius with a 200 IQ and an expert in all things Supernatural.
@princeescaluswords:
I look forward to your questions, because they always tend to make me smile. This particular question demonstrates the same level of imaginative skill and, forgive me, projective paranoia that it took for various BNF to interpret Season 5Bâs plot to mean that Scott conspired with Deucalion to trick Theo into murdering Josh and Tracy.
You see, they canât point to a single scene where Scott tells Deucalion to kill anyone. They canât point to a single scene where Deucalion kills anyone. They canât point to a single scene where Deucalion tells Theo to kill anyone. They ignore the scenes where Deucalion mocks Theo for killing Josh and Tracy. If you use the logic that Deucalion taught Theo how to take power, which is why Theo kidnapped him, and that makes Deucalion responsible, you still canât connect that to anything Scott did or said.
You know what the difference is between your far-fetched theory of Stiles suppressing Lydiaâs power and their paranoid fantasy that Scott ordered Deucalion to murder just Tracy and Josh, and not Corey or Hayden (with whom Deucalion was alone) or maybe even Theo? Aside from canon characterization, canon plot, and common sense? You donât seriously mean it, and they do.
Oh, and the racism.
On this post, all the usual suspects came and told me that not only are they not motivated by racism in their hatred of Scott, but they canât be because Scott isnât Latino. Their argument? Well, no one ever came out and declared that he was word-for-word on the show (though somehow the fact that Derek, Peter, Jennifer, Deucalion, Chris, Noah, Melissa, Stiles and Deaton all said that Scott is a good person and a True Alpha does not make that statement true).
Thatâs all you need to see the racism. Latinos must declare themselves as such, or theyâre not. The idea that to be a minority you must be written a specific way to be identified as a minority is in itself racist. All you have to do is look and youâll see the footprints of racism in this fandom, which they can deny and deny and deny, but the double standards are easily found and they show up in their meta and they show up in their fanfiction and their gifsets and their snide-ass comments they put in the #scott mccall tag on Tumblr. Thereâs no other explanation for their interpretations but Scottâs not white.
I would love to hear the explanation of why itâs okay for them to write that Scott is responsible for Tracy and Joshâs death, while also writing that Peter cares for his family so much, especially when if you use their own arguments, Peter is responsible for Derekâs temporary death in Smoke & Mirrors (4x12). Peter was in conspiracy with Kate just as much as Scott was in conspiracy with Deucalion and Chris, so it stands to reason if Theo, who was being manipulated by Deucalion, killed Josh so that makes Scott responsible, then if the Berserker, who was being manipulated by Kate, temporarily killed Derek, so that makes Peter responsible.
You will most likely never hear this idea anywhere else. You will most likely never read about Peterâs sheer disdain for his family. Because while fandom likes to trumpet that itâs about exploring all possible combinations and deep reading, you wonât get this level of critical and accusative analysis about hot white men.
To them, thatâs not racism. After all, Peterâs a villain! And Derek and Chris are as well in the first two seasons. The answer, of course, is to look seriously at the way they treat some hot white male non-villains.
Letâs look at how these supposedly better white male characters treat women. Stiles is prepared to make out with Lydia when sheâs drugged up to the gills, shouts at her until she dances with him, spends an entire weekend waiting for her in a hospital, buys her a ridiculous amount of gifts for her birthday, among other expressions of romantic attraction. Isaac, on the other hand, wants to kill Lydia because she turned him down for a date, assaults Allison on Derekâs orders, and becomes sexually attracted and romantically involved with Allison who hunted down his packmates and stabbed him a lot. But Iâve never seen a single of one of these anti-Scott BNF call Stiles or Isaac âsexually obsessed!â Thatâs only Scott who embodies for them the Latin Lover stereotype and who is excoriated in fan fiction and on Tumblr for the singular and unheralded crime of paying attention to his girlfriend.
I donât know what the difference is, but apparently, itâs not racism.
Or how many of the hundreds (if not thousands) of stories have you read where Stiles shuns, punishes, strips Scott of his wolf with his super-duper magical powers, or literally kills Scott because he demonstrated his disloyalty and unworthiness by not submitting to Derek and/or Peter? Yet, there may be one or two stories in the nearly 120,000 Teen Wolf fanfictions on AO3 where Stiles reacts at all to Isaac abandoning Derek (and disliking Peter) and joining Scottâs pack. If fanfictions are transformative, and itâs only natural that they create stories where Stiles acts as the avenging angel for the poor widdle Hales, there would have to be stories where he avenges them against Isaac. Wouldnât there?
Iâd bet there are less than five, but apparently, itâs not racism.
And then thereâs the terrible, terrible Neck Grab oâ Doom which is brought up again and again in fiction and commentary, which Fanon Stiles cannot stomach (even though canon Stiles argued for leaving Derek in the hands of his rapist). To them he must end his friendship with Scott over this dastardly crime, motivated as it was by pure animus (which is what theyâre calling the threat of Scott watching Allisonâs throat get ripped out). Scott was working with Gerard under duress, but to Stiles, thatâs irrelevant. They canât be around each other anymore. How many stories are there about this, do you think? Now compare that to the number of stories where Stiles drives Liam from the pack for his beating Scott to the point of death while working with Theo.
Iâve never seen one. Stiles is far more interested in who Liam is dating, but apparently, itâs not racism.
I can go on and on and on and on, and point out that these arenât 40-60 splits. The preponderance of stories where Scott is held reprehensible for actions that white characters take and ignored without comment are incredibly lopsided, overwhelmingly in favor of turning the Latino hero into a monster while Stiles, Liam, and Isaac are âbabyâ who must be excused for their mistakes.
But Scott was written so badly! These BNF cry. Then where are the fix-its? If the story was so unsatisfying, and fanfiction exists to give us what canon didnât, where are the fix-its where the story is written to give us Scott as a hero they can get behind.
Oh, they exist, but just with stories that approach white characterâs misdeeds, they are in the extreme minority. The vast majority of fix-its arenât about correcting the mistakes the production made in the presentation of the main character, they are about saving the Hale family or making sure that Derek stays alpha or telling how Stiles dropped his life-long loyalty to his best friend and switched to either of the Hot White Hales, either the middle-aged serial killer or the young adult would-be serial killer, overwhelmingly. And above all, Scott is put in his place - dead or unimportant or subservient or any combination of the three.
They donât dislike Scott because heâs Latino, theyâll repeatedly tell you, even though he shares traits with every single white non-villain character on the show, even though the show is focused on his growth and the traits that he doesnât share with them. Not at all. They dislike him because ⌠they dislike him! And instead of fixing what they donât like about him, theyâre going to demonstrate how much they donât like him by repeating again and again just how bad he was. Remember, the transformative nature of fandom is to give us what the show didnât.
And apparently, this is not motivated by racism
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âStiles is prepared to make out with Lydia when sheâs drugged up to the gills, shouts at her until she dances with himâ
Isnât it curious that the rabid Scott/Posey Stans who accuse Teen Wolf fans of painting Scott as a rapist are the very same ones who systematically ignore canon and try to paint Stiles â a canonical neuroatypical character â as a rapist? It doesnât matter than Stiles respects women (unlike Scott) and never shouted at Lydia until she danced with him, or that Stiles went to visit Lydia because he was worried about her and to investigate on the Alpha with Natalieâs permission, or that Scott is the one who wanted to leave Derek in his rapistâs clutches in canon. Antis will make shit up in order to paint the character they are obsessed with as a rapist to make Scott look âbetterâ.
But letâs take a look at how Scott McCall, this supposedly better male character, treats women in the series, shall we?
⢠spies on Allison while sheâs undressing
⢠tells his mom that she doesnât care about her love life and that heâs going to get Allison back
⢠creeps into Allisonâs bedroom without her or her parentsâ consent to watch her sleep
⢠forces Allison to go out with Matt (her stalker) to get Allisonâs mom off his back
⢠yells at Allison in the middle of a crowded club and makes her cry just because she prioritized innocent peopleâs life above Scottâs jealous fits and temper tantrums
⢠stares at Allisonâs ass at gym class
⢠calls Allison psychotic for setting boundaries
⢠creeps on Allison in the showers (guess he was prepared to make out with her, too)
⢠pushes his tongue down Allisonâs throat to convince her to to break up with him because âI know we are gonna be together
⢠physically assaults Isaac just because he dared to like and interact with his ex girlfriend
⢠pushes Allison against her bedroomâs door to prove how âstrongâ and ârightâ he is
⢠gets boners whenever heâs in close proximity with Allison
⢠lies to Kira to control her and then cheats on her with Malia
And these are only a few canon examples at the top of my head â feel free to add to the list if you want
Scott treating girls (and Stiles) like an exclusive property of his and being sexually obsessed with Allison (his password and username is Allison) is NOT a Latino thing: itâs a Scott McCal thing.
As for Scott conspiring with Deucalion behind everyoneâs back to kill Josh and Tracy, thatâs not a fanon theory. Thatâs Canon. Deucalion could have easily stopped Theo from killing Josh and Tracy if he wanted; but he didnât. And we know Scott couldnât care less about chimera victims, thatâs why he patted Deucalion on the back for pushing Theo to kill his own pack.
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