#in my head (and presumably! in the audio dramas and books but i havent consumed many of them yet) he is definitely more open with jack but

[masterbaiting]

ianto jones one of characters of all time to me. lying to his sister about his job (hunting aliens) is understandable but lying to his coworkers about i am presuming a lot about his home life and childhood and person. yeah. and not talking about his sexuality ever despite it clearly being some big fucking thing he's struggling with. and then DYING leaving all of that unsaid.