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mejomonster · 1 year

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On that Zhao yunlan and Luo wenzhou comparison point... Zhao yunlan might be more like fei du. At least as far as the whole:

Rich family (but Zhao yunlans is admittedly more mildly rich and influential like Luo wenzhou's, not like CEO rich)

Easily read as demiromantic (I mean fei du has 1 maybe 2 crushes ever and it takes years <3 I feel you babe. Zhao yunlan meanwhile has the issue of trying to find love, oh I feel u babe, but people never love him back or he can't click with them and it is sure Partly he's a workaholic who does secret ghost hunting work so like he has a big secret chunk of his life he hides which hurts attempting to connect. But also the whole process of going out, being a flirt and trying to optimistically date people, only to end up sad love didn't work out. I guess one could say he likes people physically attractively fast cause hey he sees Shen Wei and is like I GOTTA lock that down, murderer or not. But I'd counter maybe he's allosexual, and/or you know that whole lovers in past lives thing is working under the surface lol with a Lot of years of soul loving shen wei helping the odds.

Flirts and goes with acts of service and cute words (all 3 Zhao yunlan, fei du, and Luo wenzhou go this route actually) but their lovers are stronger and Also do this type of flirting and if both of a pair are trying to manhandle, their lovers win.

#guardian #silent reading #lb #zhao yunlan #fei du #theyre not like Exact jusy have a few similarities #cause like. for one fei du is young and that REALLY influences how he acts #hes never been in love. hes also been VERY traumatized and not coped much or healed #versus zhao yunlan whos had plenty of failed relationships ans lost ppl he loved and that brings maturity #in knowing whay he wants and aware of what he emotionally risks when he flirts. and hes got his own trauma #(just his dad alone) and again at almost 30 you get the sense he really worked on it alone somewhat and like #he has very Firm boundaries with his #dad which is a pretty healthy way to deal with it #fei du is just also. way closer on the Actual Villain of stories type eange. he IS like the guy in flower of evil #hes like the one IN THE COMA. hes like that one

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