#imagine being married to someone this pompous and sensitive to criticism

[the-evil-twin]

I have been researching the Titanic disaster for over a DECADE. This ISN'T a debate, because I KNOW what I'm talking about and am demonstrating to you, and frankly quite well, that you are wrong. I'm not being arrogant, I literally know VASTLY more on the subject than you do; my research is meticulous and my knowledge is vast. You commented onto MY POST. I am not interested in pandering to your feelings, only in setting the record straight, so if you're offended by that, that's your problem.

“I’m not being arrogant, I literally know VASTLY more on the subject than you do” - Lol apparently you don’t know the definition of “arrogant”, and the fact that you are assuming SO MUCH about me right now is extremely telling in and of itself. “You commented onto MY POST” - SO WHAT, oh my god. It wasn’t a comment TO YOU, I was merely stating A GENERAL FACT, it was not meant to provoke A RIDICULOUS DEBATE. For the love of god, take the exaggerated sense of your own knowledge and importance with you on your way out.

[garnhexe]

Natal Chart Interpretation

paraphrased and quoted from source: www.alwaysastrology.com

Sun Sign Virgo/Libra Cusp

The Cusp of Beauty (9-19 to 9-24) are aesthetic as fuck. They're a small details sort of person, not a big picture type. As such, when all details don't fit perfectly together, they can become discouraged or upset, and ultimately become cynical or bitter. It is important to keep their materialism low and their spirituality high. 

 They like to be fair and responsible, and are good on a team, but often lack confidence. "They are polite and open-minded, but they love a good debate". Rarely show anger in public and instead use a subtle way to get even. Their focus on health allows them to take good care of themselves and their children. Exercise is more appealing to them when they can socialize at the same time. 

 May have issues being satisfied, since they will still be able to see flaws that will eat at them until they can be fixed. "They love nature and their feet are firmly grounded. Their heads are still way up in the air, though. They may be artistic, or be able to design their home in the most aesthetic styles. They like science."

Moon Sign Capricorn

Needs to feel useful and productive. Competent and collected, even when emotions are churning inside. They want realistic goals and clear boundaries set. Not risk takers. Much prefer security + safety + plan ahead for every eventuality. 

 Doesn't like all those messy emotions… & scared of dealing with them. Can have mood swings and dip into the darkness themselves, they don't like to delve into this side. Their own worst critic, can be really hard on themselves. Often hide their own sensitivity behind a sarcastic demeanor. Painfully aware of their faults and weaknesses, and try very diligently to compensate for them. 

May come across as cold and calculating, but in reality they just don't feel comfortable sharing feelings publicly. They prefer to be organized and efficient; practical to the bone. Have a strong need to feel worthwhile. They want to be respectable in the eyes of others. Patient and able to endure quite a bit,they have a big sense of duty. They jump to take responsibility on the job or at home. They may feel that they give more than they get, and it takes a lot for them to learn that others are giving back to them. They need to learn to give affection… they may feel it; they just tend not to show it very well to those they love. 

 In a relationship, they are often unable/unwilling to see what their partner wants/needs. Tend to worry and find it difficult to relate to those who have different values and opinions. Have a hard time discussing their own problems. It is rare that they feel relaxed and content within themselves. They fear rejection. Unless everything is outlined clearly, they feel insecure. It may take them a long time to find someone to trust and love. They mellow with age as competition isn't so important and can genuinely be a lot of fun as they get older.

They like to get their own way. They can be ambitious and strong of will, especially as it helps their own career. Often very intelligent, they have a great respect of knowledge, and know how to use it to their benefit. Problem with holding anger and resentment inside, and can become sick from avoiding dealing with it. Dignified and tenacious. They are able to concentrate well, and do not like to be idle. They can motivate others. When they do lose control (not often), you might as well be standing in the shadow of Mount Vesuvius.

Rising Sign Sagittarius

Sagittarius Rising is an enthusiastic adventurer who loves to explore. They are often restless and love to be active. It is almost like they are trying to grasp what is on the tip of their tongue… but can't quite recall what it is. While they can be very direct, most people like them enough to overlook any harshness that is perceived. 

Sagittarius Ascendant likes to talk, but they also have a lot to offer. Their insights are exciting and helpful, even if they aren't very detailed. Their natural optimism makes them appear happy even if they are in a foul mood. This can prove annoying to some of their friends at times. 

 Sagittarius Rising is very opinionated, and they are more than happy to share these opinions with everyone, whether they want to listen or not. They appear confident, even though some may think they are naïve. They manage to keep their sense of humor no matter what is going on. Their light-hearted manner is welcome everywhere. Their natural charisma makes them appear larger than life. They can be effective at encouraging opposing sides to get along.

They have a need for freedom and independence that often leads them into traveling lifestyle. They do best when they have a change of scenery. If they marry, their partner must understand this need and be willing to work with it. They are also not too attached to material things. Sagittarius Ascendant likes to see everyone around them having a good time, and they are a great person to have at parties. Many born under this ascendant prefer more casual relationships to a deep commitment, and may appear very superficial until they meet the right person. 

 Sagittarius Rising bores easily with routine, but they do like competition. This makes routine exercising dull for them, but competitive sports may be able to hold their interest. They have a natural aptitude for sports, especially anything to do with horses. They love good entertainment, food and drink, dancing and animals. Their natural wanderlust makes them a natural for any career that involves travel and excitement. For Sagittarius Rising, the journey is more important than the destination. They are often not punctual because they don't leave until the last moment. They may be talented artistically or be called to education, publishing or religion. 

 Sagittarius Rising is curious, and may tend towards spirituality or philosophy. They are generous and may be impressed by wealth and status. They are adaptable and flexible, as they must be to enjoy the amount of change they like in their lives. They can be very helpful in any situation except one where they must sit still. On the other hand, they can be considered rude, self-indulgent and pompous. They can also become cynical and sarcastic if they are not careful. At the same time, Sagittarius Ascendant must be cautious that their obsession with their own freedom doesn't come at the expense of their more caring personality. Sagittarius Rising must work on developing tact and concentration.

Venus in Leo

Leo Venus likes to brag about their relationship. They can be demanding of their partner because they love to be courted and have a need to feel special. Warm and generous, the Venus in Leo person is very loyal, although they still enjoy attention from the opposite sex. They are Leo, after all! They will tell their partner about all the flirtations… they want to brag about it! Chances are the flirtations are harmless. If you have an innocent flirtation however, watch out! Leo Venus will not be happy about it. 

 Leo Venus has high expectations of their partner, though as long as they know your attention is on them, they are very generous. If their relationship seems stale or settled, they may feel threatened. Being treated indifferently or impersonally also makes them feel insecure. 

 While sex is important for the person with Venus in Leo, feeling loved is even more so. They have difficulty separating the two. They need to know how wonderful they are. If you respect and appreciate them, they will never lose interest in you. You may need to give them little reminders once in awhile that your feelings matter, too. If you are feeling jealous, let them know. This affirms that you still find them attractive. They are enamored of that first stage of love when two people can't get enough of each other and want it to last forever. 

The Venus in Leo person is affectionate and adoring. They may hang onto a relationship much longer than they should because they have invested their ego into it. They are a born romantic and love to play up their emotions. If they are not confident in themselves in love, they are good at faking it. They love to be given the royal treatment on a date

In friendship, Leo Venus is attracted to colorful people. They don't feel much interest in those who appear dull or lifeless. They make generous friends who will cheer you on in all your endeavors. They like to plan elaborate celebrations and like children. 

 Leo Venus is a wonderful performer, but they also do well behind the scenes. They like being in the spotlight and don't like to be isolated. They have a courage that allows them to take charge and shine. They have a great imagination. They have a lust for life that guarantees a lifetime of fun, romance and excitement. They like to live lavishly and demand attention. They have a sunny, outgoing personality that attracts many friends, acquaintances and lovers. They are not too concerned about what others think of them. They are easy to forgive. They tend to listen to their heart and don't bother to lower themselves to the level that others may be showing. 

 If you are attracted to a Leo Venus, they like to show off and be the center of attention. They need to know they are attractive and appreciated. Be thoughtful and show how much you care about them through your gestures. They like to be social and part of the crowd, so be prepared to spend time out and about, not sitting at home.

Mercury in Libra

Mercury in Libra is pleasing. They are natural diplomats, or at least make the effort. They wish everyone were equal in the intellectual circles. It is very important for them to have a mental connection to those they have relationships with. Chances are, if they feel there is no connection, it is because Mercury in Libra is trying too hard to be intellectual in their relationships instead of paying attention. They have a need for fairness, but their constant comparisons can appear to be unfair instead. 

 While they strive for perfection and can't help criticizing, they try to be tactful. They are always looking for compromise, so everyone is happy. Opinions from either end of the spectrum can make them uncomfortable, but if they favor the middle ground, Libra Mercury is happy. This creates a great personality for a counselor or mediator. It may also cause them to be indecisive. They can't help but see both sides to everything. This may cause them to lose out on opportunities sometimes because they take too long. 

 Mercury in Libra can be objective because they are able to think in the abstract. They are intelligent, but it is subtle. They don't push it on anyone. They don't like to play the bad guy, and will drive themselves mad trying to make everyone happy. 

 Mercury in Libra is good at networking with people, but due to a trend towards mental laziness, they may not always follow up on those connections or maintain them. They often turn to others for opinions when they need to make a decision. They may have a fondness for playing devil's advocate. They are usually rational and well balanced. They don't like arguments and prefer to have a quiet discussion.

Libra Mercury is friendly and broad minded, but they can stick to their principles when need be. They don't like conflict or when people act in a crude manner. Quickly changing situations can be difficult for Mercury in Libra because they don't adapt very fast. They prefer to study an issue and slowly come to a decision. 

 Mercury in Libra likes the arts and they enjoy literature. Culture is important to them. If they are not expressive in the arts themselves, they enjoy supporting others. They may not like seeing the darker side of life, and may appear to be rather shallow. 

 Libra Mercury is fun at parties. They are easy going, warm and charming. They may have talents as a speaker or performer of some kind. They need to learn that it is okay to disagree. Once that lesson has been understood, life becomes much easier for them. Writing comes naturally to them, and they are good at merging ideas. Overall, they work well with almost anyone.

Mars in Aries

Mars in Aries is impulsive. Their anger flares quickly but doesn't last too long. They don't hold grudges or resentment. When they pay attention to their gut, they make good decisions and get things done quickly. They don't usually pay attention to anyone else's input. They are spontaneous. 

 Mars in Aries is often ahead of everyone else. They get restless if life gets predictable. They like new, fresh ideas. Challenges are their cup of tea. They can be exciting in a relationship, but they move so fast it can be difficult to keep up. The tricky part with Aries Mars is to keep their enthusiasm going. 

 Aries Mars is irritated when people beat about the bush and those who are slow to act. They can be rude and impatient. They may work best on their own so no one holds them back. They don't like interference or opposition, despite their natural leadership qualities. They can be demanding emotionally. They are daring and courageous, and if there are obstacles in the way, they only become more resolved at reaching their goal. 

 On the negative side, Mars in Aries can lack discipline and patience. It may take them some hard knocks to learn self-control and humility. They can be openly aggressive, and may be accident prone. On the good side, you always know where you stand with Aries Mars. Bold and daring, they may leave you in the dust while you're still trying to figure out what is going on. 

 They are passionate in their goals, their life, and in love. They are not particularly affectionate and may be a bit selfish, but they are very energetic and playful. They are very physical, but can be impatient with their partner. They like to get right to the action instead of building up to the moment. They can be very emotional. Compromise is not their strong suit, and they can be very demanding in a relationship.

Mars in Aries loves competition and will revel in a fight, but as soon as it is over, it is forgotten and they are ready to move on to the next exciting thing on the agenda. They seek to do great things, but often do not take the time to prepare. They may do well in the military if they can keep their focus. They will give their all until they have no more to give. Fearless and brave, Mars in Aries rushes in where others fear to tread. 

 Aries Mars has a strong libido. They enjoy the chase, but if their quarry gives in too easily, they can lose interest. They like to take risks in relationships, like choosing a place they could get caught for making love. They also enjoy games. They are exuberant and playful, which can make them a lot of fun, and they definitely have no trouble letting you know what their needs are. Mars in Aries may not be overly sensitive to their partner. They really aren't into the sensuous; they prefer to get to the action. Long-term relationships may be a bit of a challenge.

Jupiter in Gemini

Jupiter in Gemini finds their luck when they use their natural wit and curiosity. They are social butterflies, and this can benefit them greatly with new contacts and beneficial acquaintances. They are versatile, and can turn their hand at most anything. Their friendliness puts others instantly at ease. 

 Jupiter in Gemini is intellectually adventurous. They love to learn, and are generally open minded. They have the ability to see all sides to an argument, which can also be lucky for them in the end. They can remain neutral. They thrive in fast-paced, ever-changing environments. Their ability to absorb so much information helps them form their own good fortune, as the information could come in handy at any moment. They want to broadcast their ideas to the world, so they are perfect for careers in writing, music, performing, teaching or taking care of children. Ideas are their stock in trade. 

 Gemini Jupiter's ability to communicate well opens up opportunities for them that may be more challenging for others without their gift of gab. They are always interesting, even though they only know a smattering on each subject. They are restless, and it is difficult for them to focus on any task for long, even accumulating money. Intellectual status is much more important to them.

Jupiter in Gemini is gifted at multitasking. They are good with languages, too. Their cleverness is hard to overlook. They can find good fortune through teaching others, presenting ideas through lecturing or writing, and learning all they can. They may be involved in publishing, broadcasting, telecommunications or travel. They really enjoy traveling and learning new things. To become even luckier, they should learn to value the physical and emotional needs of themselves and those around them. 

 The biggest problem Jupiter in Gemini may face is juggling all the opportunities they have… they don't want to miss out on a single one!

Saturn in Sagittarius

Saturn in Sagittarius is serious when it comes to philosophy, education and religion. They are highly principled, believing that people earn their achievements through hard work. Reputation is very important to them. They may not have been able to get the education they desired, so many are self-taught to a degree. Intellectual capability is important to them. They may be skeptical and need to prove their theories. 

 Sagittarius Saturn is conservative, and they change only with much resistance. They may be very narrow-minded when it comes to philosophy or religion. With Saturn in Sagittarius, it gains structure and goals. They love to learn and now they have the focus they need. Alternatively, they can also develop tunnel vision. 

 They may be attracted to games of chance. They enjoy the adventure and excitement associated with it. They are very logical. It is hard for them to appreciate the magic in a sunset or a rainbow. They may fear they will be punished if they don't live on the straight and narrow. If they let fear rule their life, they may become cynical, critical and forlorn. 

 Alternatively, Saturn in Sagittarius can become disillusioned with authority and create their own through the use of strong intuition. By letting go of their fear, they can evolve into a better self. They still want their freedom, just with rules. They like to travel.

: Sagittarius Saturn must learn to trust. They may be open and honest, or careless, rebellious and indecisive. Unless they learn to open up, they will continue to suffer. They may need to judge more carefully or learn what is appropriate and what is not. Once they work through their issues they can become a recognized authority in their chosen field or gain distinction in some other way. 

 Physically, Saturn in Sagittarius may suffer difficulties with the muscles, hips, sciatic nerve and liver. Exercise is important to keep flexibility in these areas.

Uranus in Sagittarius

Uranus in Sagittarius is strong on intuition. They are gifted with visions, precognitive dreams and the imagination. Their premonitions may be uncanny. If they develop these gifts it will serve them well. They may be attracted to practice the occult arts. They may be very religious and have a good understanding of educational theory. They may also want to help humanity as a whole. They like to travel and learn from their new surroundings. 

 Sagittarius Uranus may also be very eccentric or erratic in behavior. They may hold their own opinions on the law and religion. They could be rebellious in nature, and this may lead them into legal troubles. They may only see their side of the story, being oblivious to everyone else. They enjoy shocking people by what they say or do. They are adventurous and seek independence. 

Sagittarius Uranus loves science and philosophy. They love to keep abreast of the latest discoveries. They don't like conventional thinking; they like to start anew. They are not afraid to put themselves in danger to seek knowledge. They love to be free to say what they want and go where they wish. Generous, open-hearted and progressive, they may stun others with their ways.

Uranus in Sagittarius does not like the rigidity of academics, but they understand the need for it. They are optimistic. They may find that their own beliefs come from feeling the spirituality that lives in everything around them. They are interesting to talk to, and they are always direct. This person is very open to trying new things. They may clash with those who hold traditional scientific or religious views.

Neptune in Capricorn

Neptune in Capricorn is reserved and refined, especially in areas related to control, power, fame and success. They dream of wealth and power, even if they don't quite know how to attain it. They can use their imagination to put just about any idea to practical use and turn it into money. 

 Capricorn Neptune is serious and likes to think things over. They have the ability to concentrate on anything that happens, so they can solve any problems that occur. Detail work is something they usually excel at. On the other hand, they may tend towards melancholy, secrets and deceit. When they get this way, they want to shut themselves away from the world. 

 Capricorn Neptune may be a bit conservative and traditional. They reflect on spiritual matters, and are inspired by the Great Masters of art, music and literature. Many become cynics or critics. They may be accused of not having enough compassion. 

 Neptune in Capricorn excels at organization and bureaucracy, and they are conscious of status. They like to be in authority. Their only problem is getting reality to work as they think it should. They may envision a system that runs smoothly, is responsive to the needs of all those involved, and that promotes on merit. It can be frustrating for them to deal with the harsh reality instead.

Pluto in Scorpio

Pluto in Scorpio is ruled by strong emotions. Not only do they react according to their own emotions, but they can understand how others feel as well. They are drawn to activities that will involve them emotionally. Intensity is the key word for them. 

Scorpio Pluto knows how to bring things that are hidden out into the light. They fight for human rights and they have a talent for helping the unconventional become accepted. Topics that capture their interest may include the occult, sex, the mind, death, genetic engineering and cloning. 

 Scorpio Pluto may tend towards dark thoughts. They naturally filter out the good and happy things, focusing on the darker, secret motives of those around us. They may feel that they know best in every situation. On the other hand, individuals born with Pluto in Scorpio may try to remain positive so strongly that they find themselves in denial, finding out when it is too late about all that was happening right under their noses. 

 Their emotional courage, deep understanding and the ability to face their own wounds as well as those they have given to others can create a strong person you want on your side. They can be rather manipulative or controlling at times. They tend to question all the rules and may feel oppressed by the status quo. Their passionate natures incline them to experience as much as possible. They also have great willpower. They can focus on gaining wealth and power if so inclined.

Chiron in Cancer

Chiron in Cancer may feel like an outsider. They may feel unwanted, un-nurtured and unloved. On the good side, they are very nurturing themselves. It is difficult for them to let others care for them. They may give to everyone except themselves. They may end up taking in every stray that crosses their path. They need to learn to give to themselves and cherish their own needs. This helps balance them and make them whole. Opening themselves up to accept love and care from others is a big step towards healing that inner hurt. If they can learn to indulge themselves once in awhile, they will begin to realize what they have been missing all along.

Libra Midheaven

Harmony and balance are important to those born with a Libra Midheaven. If they can attain balance, they can attain success. Creativity and pleasant surroundings are things they enjoy; it helps them feel more in balance. When they can share these things with others, they can inspire those around them. When in partnership with others, Libra Midheaven can inspire a sense of harmony that also helps promote their ideas. They have a talent for presenting themselves in a professional, poised manner with diplomacy and charm. They make good administrators, as they carefully weigh each decision. Other careers that may speak to them are anything in the arts, image consulting, decorating, law, writing, public policy, diplomacy or politics. Integrity is important to them. 

 Individuals with a Midheaven in Libra are always conscious of social position. They see where they are and where they want to be. Despite their status, they know how to communicate with almost anyone. They know how to climb the ladder by getting others to support them. They know how to cooperate and make excellent connections. Their image screams of flexibility and fairness. If they can keep a versatile attitude that lets them adjust as necessary, they will have a better chance of success. 

 Libra Midheaven excels at teamwork with a capital T. While they can bend over backwards to be accommodating, as they reach their potential, they are the one in charge. They can be truly inspirational if they can manage to remain abreast of all the changing trends, conditions and values while remaining true to themselves. They can actually feel great about being instrumental in the success of others.

Individuals with a Midheaven Libra can usually walk that narrow line of balancing both the big picture and the fine details. On the other hand, Libra Midheaven may become withdrawn, which really irritates those they work with. When things are going well, they are full of confidence, but when things go wrong, they may become impatient or indecisive. If they are just putting on a pleasant face but don't mean it, they can come across as insincere. They may be too impressionable or get themselves into situations they regret later. They may need to learn to balance their home life with their professional life. It may be challenging to develop themselves both as an individual and as a professional without family relationships being affected. They may tend to follow the crowd too often than trusting their own opinions, at least, until they learn to have enough confidence in their own success to know their own opinion matters.