#im sure if u use twitter or tumbler at all you can see this applied in different ways

[maeborowski]

I'm afraid to even ask. But what is hyper-comfort

im going 2 be completely honest i didnt even realize i actually posted that usually i just complain and then delete it lol also i kinda hate verbalizing my grievances publicly so just bare w me here lmfao

its rly hard to explain w/o like an example but basically just this attitude i keep seeing where any kind of discomfort is shunned, and everything anyone does has to be Valid and accepted, and never criticized. everything that feels good should be indulged in, and as long as you feign softness and speak w the right vocab, never be questioned in any way. theres never room to question if your thought/feeling/action/etc is good, or if its useful, or if it makes others uncomf, or if it makes you come off weird, or anything, let alone let someone else do that to you. this ends up where people cannot handle any kind of friction against them, even if its warranted, and in addition to making them unable to handle just Normal Interactions in general, they end up doing things to varying levels of shittiness bc they live in a world where they can do no wrong, and everyone agrees with that notion bc no one questions them as they indulge in Whatever Behavior they want. idm to frame it as an intentional thing bc largely i think its not, but its just a microcosm of Terminally-Online-Brain-Rot that comes from reading 100 vague self-praise posts a day without applying any nuance, context, or humbleness that leaves them in some kind of bad state imo