#im sex repulsed ace but purity culture can suck it

[not-mary-sue]

This feels like one of those 'what were you doing at the devil's sacrament' type thing. If someone is doing NSFW in a NSFW space, maybe people should mind their business unless there's legitimate a safety concern.

"This person has a secret onlyfans!" "This artist does NSFW commissions!" "This author writes porn on the side!" I cannot begin to tell you how swag and awesome that is.

[devotedlystrangewizard]

fighting in the war on sex on the side of the sex

[weaponsdrawn]

its late and i should be going to bed but i’ve been having emotions and shit and i feel like if i really need to hear this then someone out there might also like to hear all this  - you’re not an affront or insult or whatever you wanna call it to LGBT communities/sex positive communities if you’re ace/on the ace spectrum and you’re neutral/repulsed by sex  - the idea that people can take pride in their sexual attraction and feelings and the idea that people can personally just be repulsed/neutral on sex can and should co-exist as ideas  - you’re not feeding into “purity culture” or whatever people are calling it these days by being ace/on the spectrum and/or being sex repulsed/sex neutral, those are completely different things  - it’s more than ok to have complex feelings on sex, and you don’t have to play up any aspect of your feelings in order to fit into some stereotype, because that would just suck - the original colors/meanings on the gay pride flag had both sex AND magic (and spirit and life and all the other meanings, i’ll admit the magic one just brings the most comfort to me, so that’s why im bringing up that one first and foremost) and while I won’t claim to know what the original intent gilbert baker and lynn sergerblom and other queer activists at the time had for assigning those meanings to those colors, for me it means that the idea of sex positivity and ace/aspec people who have complex feelings on sex/aren’t that interested can all join together, because that’s what the queer community is about and stuff. it’s about people who dont exactly fit the standard norm of society when it comes to sex and romance and gender and whatnot. if that makes any sense.  so uh yea. this sure was a text block but i hope it helps someone, whoever they are

PROSHIPPERS AND ACE/ARO EXCLUSIONISTS DO NOT EVEN TOUCH MY BLOG AND THIS POST I WILL BLOCK YOU INSTANTLY