#im gross im disgusting i deserve to die (hypersexual)

[lesbiantrish]

im genuinely so sick of this.

[tomdutch]

this is clearly a very heavy subject to you, which is why i feel like you don't really take into consideration that there are people who might have went through the same that dont have this way of seperating themselves with it as you do.

im sorry that happened to you, no one deserves that.

dealing with trauma is for some people also just straight up talking so much about it that you sort of become desensitized for to it.

rape is not fun, incest is disgusting but people who want to write it about fictional people with it to deal with their own stuff should be free to do so as well.

you're invading a space for someone who is obviously not well in the head, i dont know if they put trigger warnings and if they didn't they were in the wrong for that but it's their fantasy.

its okay to strongly dislike and to find it disgusting but please dont say stuff like "die"

if its not a subject you can stay objective on because of personal trauma then dont talk about it if it brings harm to others.

peter parker is also canonically a minor, writing about him is giving people who might see an appeal in the fact that he is a space to sexualise minors.

any sane person will be able to read something and not think about doing the same in the real world, which is often the same argument of murder in movies and writing which could also be seen as "desensitising killing people" its your responsibility to not act or exaggerate on these things, seperate between fiction and reality.

its the writers responsibility to warn people about what their work might trigger, and if they didn't do that then that is her fault.

but it was your choice to read.

they probably already know they're disgusting and gross but they cant help it.

just like every fanfic writer always says.

if you don't like it don't read it.

just a different perspective! not trying to be mean in any way.

no because you’re actually so incredibly wrong and insensitive i don’t know where to begin to address the shit you’ve said.

dealing with trauma by writing about it means dealing with it in private, not posting it online for a crowd of people who are most definitely not survivors of incest or SA to jerk off to. if you must absolutely retraumatize yourself by sexualizing rape and incest, then do it in a fucking diary, not on a website and tag it with smut tags for people to get off to.

second of all, i know for a FACT that none of the people writing these ~ dark!au ~ fics of characters, underage or not, are SA victims simply by scrolling through their writing and see blatant hypersexualization and false sentiments that nobody who’s actually being assaulted irl would write. it doesn’t take more than three braincells to notice that.

there is a huge difference between writing murder and writing detailed porn of rape. thousands of words worth of porn of sexual assault and pedophilia. murder is not written with the specific intent to masturbate to like smut is. is this your first day on earth.

your entire paragraph on peter is literally pedophilia i don’t know what to tell you. he’s a fucking minor.

anyway if you get off to writing and reading and sharing incest, sexual assault and pedophilia, from a victim of sexual assault and pedophilia: die. literally die. from the bottom of my heart i hope you die. i can’t believe you have the balls to say this to me on anon no less and think you’re giving me a lecture on trauma by essentially telling me to get over my own rape and just be ok with the fact that thousands of people in this very fandom are jerking off to rape and incest porn of an underage character. die.