#im gay because im sucking dick behind chandni convention hall not bc i showed up to the function in a pink sherwani

[majorbaby]

to speak candidly about whiteness as the default experience even in queer spaces - you'll be shocked to know that 'limp wrist' and 'man wearing pink is code for gay' mean literally nothing to the silent majority of nonwhite gay people worldwide.

this isnt a crusade against people who say these kinds of things. i have definitely called a fictional character gay for much more niche and silly things than wearing pink or touching his buddy's waist, but the thing is, my response to someone, especially another queer person, asking in good faith "what do you mean?" wouldnt be to condescend them for not sharing the exact same headcanon as me and my friend the imaginary larry gelbart who lives in my brain. the person asking is invested, and theyre amicable to your interpretation so why not indulge that?

If this seems harsh, consider that i am not saying anything more groundbreaking than this: