#im a bad partner eithe way

[wolfreplaced]

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[polyamorousmood]

Hello!

I have a bit of a conundrum and i was wondering if you could shine some light on it?

I see a lot of discourse about how bad it is to date both people who are already a couple

Last year when I asked my current boyfriend out I was already dating my partner of three years. I had a big crush on them and my partner developed one too. We both asked out boyfriend out at the same time and he wanted to be eith the both of us

Was that unethical or wrong? Now im worried I might have screwed somthing up in the way we started out relationship. If it is wrong what are the 'ethical' ways for triads to form at all??

Thank you for this Im just confused and stressed right now. Please have a nice day and drink some water? <3

So -- and this is My Opinion, so others may disagree, etc, etc -- the criticisms of "bringing in a third" and "unicorn hunting🦄" raise some fair points. But that doesn't mean its not possible to have a healthy triad. And what you described wasn't "unicorn hunting 🦄", which is the one people seem to have the biggest beef with.

One of the big reasons people dislike unicorn hunters 🦄™️(and sometimes by extension all triads) is that the original couple usually has "veto" power and/or other priority, often while refusing to let the third person date around if they want to. They require this third person to conform to their ideal relationship (including dating them both even if they only click with one or discover an incompatibility with one later), while reserving the right to unilaterally terminate the relationship for both of the original couple if either one has an issue. Its just unfair.

I personally don't see any problem with naturally occurring triads with full understanding. It sounds like you've been friends for at least a little while🤗, you all came to develop romantic feelings naturally😍, and -- I don't know your dynamic now, but -- if everyone entered it with full understanding and consent and y'all can meet to renegotiate💬🗨️ for changes as new things arise, I don't see a problem.

TL;DR: Don't treat the newest person to the triad as a third wheel in their own romantic life and I think you're roughly okay. I think the best way to reassure/check YOU specifically are being ethical is to check in with the new person and make sure they are getting what they want out of the relationship and don't feel sidelined or in a precarious situation.

Don't psych yourself out. Just treat your partners well and respect autonomy. If y'all are chill, y'all are chill. 😊

[kusundei]

accidentally fellasleep again bcuz i dont thjnk the. constant 3 hrs of sleep i keep getting thrlughout the week is truly helping me eprchance… but goddd. i have woken up eith a sort of slight feeling of doom . just a little but i notice it enough to care even in the slightest and jt always appears wheneher ajax is around (god forbid i am happiest with him! distracts me from my real problems and when he is gone i am forced to acknowledge my evil side) but goodness. chat. i do i truly love him sososo much with every inch of me.,,, more than i love myself and anything else in the world . perhappps i love him more than ive loved anythinf at all???? im trying tl think ab earljer today w him again to attempt to lift my spirits i mean it is like. five am. goodness i miss him. i feel so odd and clingy sometimes ., perchance that i talk too much becahse god forbid i ever allow myself to do anything without overthinking it after idk. im juustt often filled with so much joy with him and perhaps i am not doing the best in general and i keep pushing it to the side .,,,??

i just am so truly happy with him i never want to acknowledge it. i will fight it for as long as possiblr but goodness i keep feeling it over and over. that overwhelming feeling of just emptiness. perhaps grief and j feel distraught for no reason in particular. dare i mention i am still truly doomed and feel that way , he judt makes everything feel a little easier?? thay perhaps i do have something to look forward to even though everything sucks rn. but honestly you think ab it nothing is truly going on that should be affecting me so badly its just,, the usual,,??? i have no idea perhaps.

dare i discuss more things on my mjnd tonight since its late and im thinking already. we’ll go positive for now perhaps iii. i keep realizing over and over how fucked and doomed me and jd were even from tje start and how i kept having to just deal with things and be okay eith things even prior to us dating?? i mean my rule was alwasy like. love unconditionally. she is your partner. that sort of thing. eith ajax im realizing i dont have to dp that??? hes just there. everything feels so simple and i feel sort of selfish. he puts up w so much and talks ab so much stuff so easily in ehich i know jd wouldve freaked out. lost her mind and started something about. hes just so okay and understanding ab everything i dont believe jt??? i leep trying to be like,,, well hes literally meeee… to try and console myself into the belief but god i cant. bcuz wdym ur okay w rhat. wdym we can talk ab this. wdym you’re COMMUNICATING with me??? wdym i dont have to tweak and you feel bad when i do????? you ask me if im okay and you care???? god forbid i get back the love i give others and for the first time with the person i trulytrulyTRULY am so in love with like. goodness. he is the only light i see every single day. perhaps preventing me from getting wprse and evil bcuz i know myself. i see myself setting myself ul slightly but i digress. im okay. ots just like. hes so unerstanding i dont get it??? but then agajn i am too and hes literally me??? like ige never had a problem w that sort of thing i just knew jd did which strayed me away from so mych to keep her okay but lord do i feel like maybe i could just be honest w him and be okay an communicate. i jist still feel selfish regardless. god forbid i trust him because i NEED TOOOO i will not let my insecurity consume me and get the best of me. my doubts. bcuz i want tl truly believe he is as good and perfect as he is currently??? please ajax do not lie to me. i am begging you. i dont think id be able to handle it happening again and lrt alone if we fall down the same doomed pipeline and its my fault again i dont think id ever be able to recover. maybe perchance i am the one preventing everything. i lie to a degree but im also honest in a way i am not normally. im just trying truly to be honest ab issues and problems w him but god do i feel ph so selfish cuz it is SOOOO early.

speaking of early. i need freaky kusundei to CALM THE FUCK DOWN? ph goddd because no i do truly likr jt chat. perhaps i loveLOVELPVEEEE freaky ajax but then i recall i am truly all talk. intimacy to a REAL degree is ph so horrifying to me thats why i mentjon the… let me at least be comfortable enough to kiss you and hold you freely first - sort of thing. BELIEVE MEEE AJAX. i. want you so bad. i keep talking ab it and being freaky bcuz goodness. like i said i feel a sort of way w you i jave NOT felt before. god fotbid you make mee.,,, ^_^;; .,,,, freaky. its just i know mysrlf and i think i need to calm down. ohhh to be silly and intimate with you and to kiss you till we run out of breath like yoy want and to fufill both of our desires and fantasies but oohhh i am SCAREDDDD. recalling it now goodness sex js soooo fucking scary. let alone the fact i truly have nooooo experience besides i suppose. the one time and then my experience w jd but i wouldnt consider tnag to be able to help meee??,, IDK CHAT. i dont think he’d truly want to especially not this early but god i dont wanna give off the wrong impression. its also so pdd because np i kind of. kinda. want to. NOT PERCHANCEDOIT but jjs tlikke. ohhh to do everything else. i jist dont want to do that and then have it escalate that way but if it did i think id lrpbsbly be okay w it im just looking out formyself. have that weird thing ab feeling. evil snd dirty. god forbid he doesnt make me feel that way and GOD do i maybe want to buuuttt. its been a week. sorry but i do mean it when i say i love the label. i NEEEEED the label and i need it to marinate. feel like im moving tooquickly and im being evil and letting desire get the upper hand on me. its also jjst that i fear ill do it and feel guilty and gross like i have before. as badly as i may want to i just dont know if id be able to rationalize it enough to be okay w that right now??? GOD FORBID IM THINKINFABLHT IT TOO it just keeps popping intl my head. like i am being tormented. but truly kts the way id do anything else idk. hell i think id be okay being at like. the point i was at w jd after those 2 yrs. like erm. i coulf handlr that! its just i think i truly am just a bit opposed to. actual. perchance. penetra..tive………………….. intimacy….. god im a fucking freak i jjst also acknowledge the pain i feel over there regarding it. its been YEARS and goodness it aches sometimes on occasion. i alsp know my body. rejects anything going up so im fearful that iffff heee didddd. it. would not. work..!!!!!!! but. i digress. perhaps jm thinking too much into it like a freak bcuz goodness. believe me ajax you make me INSANE AND CRAZY. ohh to truly do all the things you mention it makes me such a FREAK. god im realizinf how truly impatient i am iiiNEED TOCALM DOWN but i keep just thinking ab sunday . god forbid savannah and her boombayah but idk chat ijj. ummm. IMAFREAK GOD. some things r best left unsaid and implied even on here. just. i do. want to. sososo badly. jts consuming me. ive neher felt want like thjs before and ohhh how j convinced myself i was perchance just losing any and all sexual desire but nope. j dont think i did.! godd i just. erm. the gift messages. no bcuznone of it is truly alluding to sex i just tend to think of it that way. ooohhh to drive each other mad its . ITS OVER IMA FREAK.

[a-vampire-culturelover]

Centaurworld Cricket Crew! Au - Chapter  12: Scrunch O' Bunch

Well, after a long and hard time getting Ranboo out of whole, he felt pretty bummed out. He wasnt able to convince the badgertaur, ”aka The Milkman”, like Aimsey had. He hadnt came up with the Festival at the rift like she did. He was terrible at recruiting an army!

“Im bad at centaurworld things, Aimsey. Even if I look like a two burnt marshmellows had a dumb kid and even if i sing i still wouldnt have been able to convince The Milkman or any of the holetaurs.” He confessed to Aimsey, who looked nervous too.

“I’ll admit i’m a bit nervous with something as big as this. Your good at centaurworld things your way Ranboo, dont ever doubt yourself.” Aimsey reassured him as she started pacing to think of ideas for the Festival.

“Maybe bring some of your shaman magic out for it Aimsey?”

“Oh we need fireworks!”

“No, me and Micheal hate fireworks! it makes it very hard to hear!”

“Shut up bee bitch!”

The constant bickering and excitement ended with Billzo and Ranboo yelling jokingly to run at each other, a seemingly harmless game after scrunch o’ Bunch and more reassurance from the llamataur and his partner & son. However, when Ranboo lept with soft claws unsheathed to land on The llamataur, a bright beam of rainbow-clolored light engulfed the two, leaving a frozen billzo.

The winds were crisp with death and destruction. Where had he gone? The taurnado was back and…larger? Ranboo looked to see a much younger, cute looking llamataur just like Billzo reaching out for older llamataurs swept up by the giant taurnado, each stuck in a trance of peace and contentment with their fate as they were dragged further from the boy. Dear god had this been what happened to Billzo in the past?….

Suddenly Ranboo was back to the world he knew, Billzo snapping out of the frozen position he was in. What just happened?

“Boo’s second spell!” Tubbo sang with joy as he hugged the big cat, completely lost and confused.

“You’ve got backstory powers? Bitch that ain’t fair, big man innit should have hotten new magic before you.” Tommy chittered in fake jealousy as he stomped his little raccoon paws on the ground. Ok, Tommy was definitely next.

“No wait Ranboo RANBOO YOU DONT WANNA TORPEDO INTO MY BRAIN!” Tommy hissed as he swiftly dodged a charging Ranboo, who landed right into Freddy’s backstory instead.

A young chocolate labradortaur and raccoontaur were currently running from an angry mob of hermitaurs, angered by their cheating in the hermit wars for the sash. Could you blame Tommy for wanting to steal something that shiny? Mans gotta steal! Now the two were hesding towards a highly secured fortress hiding a 17th century styled city filled eith aristocratic centaursTM. Freddy knew they weren’t the nicest, but at least the could try. He heard the prince, Eret, was not as much of an eccentric fool like the current ruler of the horsetaurs. Big gates crashed open as a guard was trying to keep a feral raccoontaur from mauling his arms off, his gremlin showing through foam and tommyinnit-styled energy.

“Let them in!” A horsetaur with a crown and glasses, dress in all ordered the guards as they were let down then picked up yet again. A small, toddler horsetaur with an orange coat and a fox mask looked eagerly to Tommy, dread filled his bones.

“I guess we can keep them as pets, isn’t that right dear Fundy?” The ruler asked Eret and the smaller horsetaur, Eret giving an unsure look.

“I guess if that means they can stay then.” Eret agreed as Fundy ran to the two and tugged at their fur in excitement.

They didnt last a fucking day there.

After having to constantly carry food for those gluttonous centaursTM, Fundy, being ridiculed, did Freddy mention Fundy?! They decided it was time to go. They couldn’t live in a place like this. Eret, in their goodbyes, promised to change things once he was in charge, hoping to invite them back again. Freddy doubted it. Tommy believed it. Just so long as this sheeptaur named Aimsey could be safer for them both, he was happy.

Ranboo finally returned to give Freddy a big hug for helping pull through rough life with centaursTM. To see Eret almost forget that promise he made was…understandable, as horsetaurs were. Tubbo and Micheal, vibrating with excitement, Ranboo could tell the wasptaur wanted Ranboo to see what he had in store.

Rain pounded against the hive as Tubbo tried getting his newest toy to work. His father was far too busy to pay attention or stray from his work for SCHLATT CORP. Once he saw Tubbo’s new invention, he’d pay better attention!

“Dad! Look at this new thing I made! it sings and comes out of a box and-“

“Shh! Not now Tubbothy!” the hornetaur whisper-yelled from his desk, making a report to the bugtaur company per usual.

If Tubbo wanted to get him to notice, maybe he had to sing?

“Please sir-“ He was met with another shush. No. He has to keep trying.

“Please sir!”

“Tubbo!” Two strikes, not a moment to lose and not a moment to gain. Maybe if he just..

“Please sir!”

“Tubbothy! That is it!” The angered Hornertaur threatened as he took the box in the young wapstaur’s hands and threw it out the hive entrance. NO!

Rain and mud were the only things he could make through the tears as his father gave a disssappointed look, dry and clean up above.

“I will never say anything nice, until you do things the way i want you to.” he muttered before retreating back into the hive, leaving a wailing Tubbo in the mud as he flew far from his old home.

“Leave me alone! Thats my toy that I made, dickhead!” Tubbo yelled at the raccoontaur, eyeing the box with wide-blown pupils. He seemed nice. A lot nicer than his father ever was.

“Geez Tubbo! I didn’t think your dad could be that much of a jerk but yeesh! Also you like inventing stuff?” Ranboo asked, hugging him and Micheal as the wasptaur processed what had happened.

“I’m seasoned in the art with many nukes to go.” Tubbo joked as he cried in Ranboo’s paws.

“So, is everyone ready to start getting this festival on the road, or do we need a little more time?” Aimsey asked The duo, both nodding with the pig minotaur toddler cradled inbetween them.

“Is it too late to want to be the bunch master?” Tommy muttered to Freddy as the two led the herd into a race.

[unwelcome-ozian]

Idk if you will be able to give me advice, but I feel like there might be a chance you have some ideas/tips.

So first some info: Me and my partner moved together in april this year, for me it was the chance to finally fully cut ties to my biological parents (Ive got a new phone nr, they dont know where we live etc..) and for him to get out of the abusive household. Gis stepfather is very, very emotionally abuse and his mother has expierienced childhood abuse and takes his stepfathers side at all time, because "he is her partner and he [my partner] has no saying in how she should behave" and is also extremely toxic if not even abusive.

My partner truly believes, that he is "just weak" and its fault anyways that his stepfather behaves the way he does and that his mother is right and that he should just get "stronger". Two years ago, his stepfather got a police record regarding domestic violence thanks to me calling the police on him (which lead to his stepfather thereatening me, that if i come close or enter the house, he will call the police, after 4-5months i had to "say sorry about the shit i did" and he explained his behavior eith him being abused as a young child and anger is just the way he deals with that and that therapy is bs and he allowed me again to come by), vecause he scared my partner so much, he locked himself up in the bathroom and sent me voicemessages being scared and you could hear the stepfather in the background.

Now because of christmas coming up, I asked my partner to talk to his psychiatrist on how to handle christmas family dinner with his family. About a year ago, his psych recommended not talking to the stepfather/cutting ties to him. Now the psych said, if he agreed on coming to the dinner he has to go. I can see how he would say that we cant figure stuff out in such short notice, but I kinda feel like because his psych said that, my partner is bow even more in the mindset of "im just weak and overreacting". Because I asked hom earlier today, that Id love him to explain to his psych, whats going on in his head regarding his parents and he just went like: "But what if I am weak and not going would just be avoiding the situation and avoiding isnt good?" And I try to explain to him, that he isnt weak, that he is quite the opposite of it and avoiding toxic/abusive people isnt bad, its taking care of yourself and he is immediately overwhelmed by me saying that.

And Im actually concerned, because he cant (and doesnt want to) talk about trauma stuff atm, especially because he just started his apprenticeship and school in summer, which i can totally understand, that one would wait after that, so it wont mess with that, but at the same time it also cant really be an option to just make him run into his abusers arms and just stay in that spiral and just work on being able to be kinda stable and not fall back into the depression and at the same time keep up the contact (he doesnt have to cut ties, but like maybe get some distance/only meet for things that are 100% needed) to people who will drag him down and just keep up all those mindsets and belives that might hold him down and destabilize him in the long run?

Maybe Im just wrong because Im not in the same situation, but I feel like because my partner isnt able to truly communicate his thoughts and feelings to his psych, the psych cant fully grasp whats going on/what happens actually and it worries me.

I obv. cant explain the whole thing into every detail, but those are the most important points and I really hope you can share your thoughts regarding that.

Am I maybe the one not seeing something here? Like I dont want to make any weird assumptions that might be wrong, but due to my own experiences as well as what Ive learned, Im quite concerned and Im not sure what to do.

Feeling angry is never a reason to be abusive, being a survivor of abuse isn’t a reason to be abusive, and if someone thinks therapy is bs that’s fine, but it isn’t another excuse to be abusive. These are excuses to not take responsibility for his behaviour.

Psychiatrists aren’t gods. If your partner doesn’t want to go they don’t have to go. People are allowed to change their minds.

I don’t view it as avoiding, I view it as setting boundaries and taking care of one's personal wellbeing.

It’s also acceptable if he can’t and doesn’t want to talk about trauma. It’s his healing journey, and his pace is a pace he feels he can manage.

It is an option for him to return to his abusers, he has several options to choose from. Some of them you may not like, he may not like but, are ultimately his to make.

It sounds like he may want to consider speaking with his psychiatrist, or consider looking for another one.

The psychiatrist’s/therapy office is supposed to be a space where he can work towards expressing himself, feel safe, held in high esteem, accepted, and able to explore his past without fear of judgement.

If your partner feels uncomfortable talking with the psychiatrist perhaps he should tell them that. A psychiatrist should be willing to hear that.

What your partner wants to share with his psychiatrist is up to them. It’s their space and their relationship and should be honoured.

I encourage you to set boundaries regarding what you need to feel safe, stable, and emotionally healthy.

I’m uncertain what country you reside in, if it’s in the US psychiatrists tend to be more medication oriented and not therapy focused. Visits with psychiatrists tend to be 15min, while therapy sessions are 50min.

I say this as I’m uncertain as to how long your partner is seeing the psychiatrist.

Oz

[azlovesem]

That Grenke my landlord i was leaving him fucked up messages. He should have let me mnow he was dying i might have been. One message Emma lisyen mother fucker ypur goose is cooked your expiration date is near. Why dodnt he call back and just tell ne he was dying. Id have left that message on the other guy his partners voicemail. The judge didnt like thar guy. Yes i heard you sir but i justvruled do we need to move on to the next case. Ha ha ha ha ill be gone anyway i told this fuckn loser. Only the moron aboce me is dumb enoughnto wanna live here forever. His goose is cooked too. The day of reckoning is near for him too Emma. Ha ha ha ill make fuckn sure of it. Unless i have something better to do. Im not overly nostalgic. Often people whove had thongs bad happen in the past get all emotional and make more of that shot then they probably should. My teams number 1 because we dont do that.religion included it just makes a lesser being not vloser to God. They can say whatever with monuments snd tge whinong yhat fucon wind yhey all have. Ahhhhhh my uncle this my aunt that. Look at the wall of names. What fies this really matter now. And to remember yhe way they choose to breeds more war. Ya know i keep them on a leash for a reason. I thonk you know eho i doeak pf and what i jean. I just font wanna hear it anymore they have enpugh kne day it all must anc will be forgotten. Or ill wash it all away. Theyve got these morons Emma brInwashed not ke or my soldier and we atecboss of all. I hang any billionaire from hos own chsndelier and laugh in hos dead face. They nust got carried away i corrected them. I can not i gorm on nembers. That kids dead me letting anyone know eho did meand nothing. Tell them wrong llace wrong time erong peopld yo bother. Nah i wasnt thrte i just know those involved. We re not to be messed eith bybanyone pice militaty anyone. I adked wtf do you want yhey didnt asnwer propely. Teach your stupid asss dnobby fuckn bitch kids better toronto or theyre road meat. No matter what their stupid race is. But Emma i no longer am part of that shor so from here on in i can do whatever. But back then no. Rules apply. Eveeyone thinks everyones do innocent none of you are. Enoufh with the past of any soet lwt it go reli. Gio. We dont fucknaround such a monority teo days to deal with you. Theres so nany less of you why should ibtake your dide? You got any oil. How like it whst you good gor religio man with the dumb hat? I m North America i sm GOD you ate a hat. Back doen or this gets really ugly. Three days then all out madsacres everyehere. Just bavk off we need to find those moron hostages. For my friend i font care. If you need to remove that fuckn moton in charge you got 3 days. Tou can slways dhoot him. Figure it out its fone no ones crying ftom the past touches God. You dod it to yourselves all pf you. And u know it. All of us dod ig yo each other. No ones to blame.

[tomdiddlyumptious]

T.H| CoUgh SyrUp

Summary: ~YeAh yEah

Warnings: cigarettesssss- arson- for the love of god please dont read this. I just have writers block idk why im posting it. Also a robbery.

“Y/n, what do you got?” Tom asked, you only tossed the file to him which he opened, a whole plan and blueprint everywhere.

“This is very possible. We can get in and get out if everyone can listen” you looked around, sitting crisscrossed in your seat, shoulders slumped as everyone watched you.

“Can you explain please?” Tom asked, tossing the papers back to you. “Well coming through the back is cliche. So we have the innocent, right” you looked up to the girl, she nodded. “We have to remember. Other then us they are ine of the biggest mobs, they are paying off the cops.” “As clear as day”

After that whole shinnanagin everything was set, you were the driver and tom finally decided to get his hands dirty.

You patiently waited in the car, a not clean one so it didnt look like it could possibly be you guys, but trust and believe that car was better then a tesla.

Tom and his partner walked in, the innocent, trish already in and waiting. Just then toms partner shot the gun “this is a robbery” of course both of their faces were covered with ski masks, wearing all yellow instead of black because....yeah.

Tom grabbed trish by the hair gently and acted like she was being held hostage. “Dont make any fucking noise” he said loudly American accent on point, and she started breathing heavy while haz grabbed the money. “Im so sorry ms. I hope you have a good day” he whispered in his American accent, pointing the gun at her head as sign to hurry up whole her hands stuttered and took all the money out. When she was done she handed the money at him, all 100s. He placed them in the bag.

“How much tome fo we have left y/n?” He asked through his ear piece. “Get two more stashes and we are out” “alright lady keep going”

Tom looked around and seen the innocent people on the floor, slightly feeling bad but its what had to happen. When haz was done they all ran to the car as fast as possible. “GO GO GO” tom screamed, hearing the police close.

You drove normally for a few minutes, not looking suspicious until you started to speed on the high way, trish on her phone playing the news and soon they were caught.

“Trish i am going to drop you off. You are gonna get held by the cops and take you in for questioning. You are going to be as innocent as possible.” You said calmly, and she nodded panicked.

Soon the cops knew where you were and trish hopped out of the car, you all wished her luck and told her how good she was doing before speeding off.

The cops picked her up “are you okay ms?” She nodded.

She sat in the chair, silence consuming the room as she shook and tears fell down her cheeks. “Did you know what they looked like?” “N-no i- uh- they had uhm..” she thickly swallowed “American accents, and they- dressed in all yellow”

“We already have that” they looked on the clipboard. “Anything else..?” He asked “im just scared because i dont know if im gonna lose my job-“ she cried “you arent gonna lose your job! You are a-okay i just need you to tell me more”

“I have nothing”

And that was it. Successful robbery.

You leaned against the building outside, cigarette in your mouth. “Y/n whats on your mind?” Tom asked, walking up next to you. “Nothing” “stop smoking” he snatched the cigarette out or your mouth and threw it somewhere.

“But you smoke cigars?” You side eyed him. “I care about your life more then my own” he shrugged, eyeing you. “Cool” you nodded and sighed “what if we get caught thomas” “we wont, we have the most smartest person on our team” he smiled.

“Im not that smart” “well then wheres the evidence?” He smirked, there would be no trace leading up to any of you. “What if they find it?” “You can unburn stuff?” He asked, taking the lighter from out of your pocket to play with it. “The car?” You asked.

“We painted over it then spray painted it some more, leaving it in a junkyard, and whos idea was that?” He asked, nudging you eith his elbow making a smile come to your lips “im talking to youu” “fineee it was my idea” you turned your head to him. “And as a prize im gifting you to never smoke again” he glared at you.

“Thomas you’re ruining my life” you playfully groaned. “Seriously no more” “ill think about it, and i have to put that lighter into good use. My dad made it for me” he smiled at your words “then i know the exact thing to do” he pulled your hand and pulled you inside, running like children to his office he placed a large thing of paper on the table and your eyebrows furrowed “what is this?”

He placed his hands on his hips before shrugging “i think you like write random shit that you dont like on a piece of paper the light up a bin and set it on fire-“

“Well then in that case!” You cut him off stealing his pen and taking a sheet of paper, writing ‘THOMAS’ with two underlines before sticking it up at him. “Oh haha y/n” he tried to snatch it but you pulled it back making him reach over the table to take it, laughs leaving your lips “shortie” “shut up!-“

[blake-belladonna-defence-force]

I had this in mind for 3-4months and i needed someone to write it down, so here a little bumbleby prompt: blake and yang are in atlas(v7 ep4 idk) and yand decides to confess her feelings for blake but blake rejects her saying "im sorry yang but.. im not in love with you" and then si walks away and yang is just standing there. Im sorry, my english is trash ik😖😄

Ouchie. This one was really hard to write because I couldn’t think of any situation where either girl would reject the other.

So I came up with this. I hope you enjoy, mate. It’s a bit... Yangsty.

Angst with a happy ending.

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“Hey, Blake.” Yang called out nervously. “Can I talk to you?”

Blake smiled warmly at her and nodded, patting the bed beside her.

“Okay. So, uh.” Yang gave a nervous laugh. It couldn’t go terribly. Right? Worst comes to worst, Blake rejects her mad they remain partners and friends and she, hard though it may seem, moves on. Blake was to special to lose. Even if it was just as friends. But she needed to let Blake know. “I, um. I love you. Like as in “being in love eith you” love you.” Yang watched as Blake frowned.

“Yang. I think that I’ve been… giving off the wrong message. I don’t love you like that.” Blake said firmly, almost coldly. Yang flinched. “This isn’t going to work. It’s not good for the team dynamic so I think that I should leave.”

As Blake got up and walked out of the door and out of Yang’s life, she felt her heart shatter. After everything they went through and fought for, her fears came true.

She lost her.

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Yang awoke with a gasp. Her heart was going a hundred miles a minute and her face was wet with tears that kept falling.

A nightmare. That’s all it was. Blake wouldn’t do that. She promised. She wouldn’t let something like that destroy what they had. Blake wasn’t that kind of person.

“Yang?” Think of the devil and she’ll whisper to you in the night.

“…yes.” Yang intoned shortly, she didn’t want to deal with this. Didn’t want to talk about it. But she also didn’t want to give Blake a reason to believe that she distrusted her.

“… are you okay?” Blake asked hesitantly, nervously. Yang closed her eyes tightly, desperately trying to keep fresh tears at bay.

“I’m fine. Go back to sleep.” She muttered. She’d thought that Blake had listened to her but soon enough, she heard movement that was quickly followed by Blake climbing up to her bed.

Blake sat in front of her with a heavy sigh and readjusted herself, sitting with her back against the wall and propping one knee up. Yang stared at in confusion.

“I can tell that you’re lying. You don’t have to talk about it. But I’m not leaving you to suffer alone a second time, Yang.” Blake said softly, gazing at Yang tenderly. “I care about you too much to let that happen. I’m here for you, Yang. However you need me to be.”

Yang felt her heart stutter and immediately her dream came back to mind. She swallowed thickly and looked down at her hands. Her left was shaking and ultimately? She just needed to be reassured that Blake was here and not going anywhere.

“C-could-“ Yang paused to clear her throat, still refusing to look Blake in the eyes. “Could you maybe… just… hold me?” Yang asked weakly, cringing at how vulnerable she sounded.

Blake, however, merely blinked in surprise before nodding with a concerned frown. She held out her arms and Yang hesitantly crawled into them, tucking her head into the crook of Blake’s neck with a shaky breath. She was here. She wasn’t going anywhere. It was just a bad dream.

“I’ve got you, sweetheart.” Blake cooed softly, rubbing her shoulder. The endearment had slipped out so naturally that Yang felt her pulse jump. “I’m here. I’m not going anywhere.” Yang felt her anxiety spike. She had to ask…

“… what if I said or- or did something that made you uncomfortable?” She muttered.

“Nothing you could do would make me uncomfortable. But if you did, I still wouldn’t leave.” Blake soothed. “No matter what it was, I would stay and talk it out with you. I’m not going to let anything chase me away. Not anymore. You mean too much to me.”

Yang felt her dam break and buried her face into Blake’s neck, crying quietly into her neck. Blake gently pulled her closer and soothed her.

“What if I told you that I love you?” Yang froze, fear gripping her tightly. She sat up and looked at Blake to see the other girl staring at her in shock. Panic flooded her and she immediately started apologising. “Shit! I’m sorry, I shouldn’t have said that! You’ve gone through a lot and I shouldn’t… I’m so sorry! I treasure your friendship and I don’t want to lose yo-“

Yang was cut off by Blake kissing her. Wait. Blake was kissing her! She felt her eyes close, tears still falling, as she kissed back. Blake’s hands cupped her cheeks and she reached up to lay one hand on Blake’s shoulder while the other curled around one of Blake’s hands. A slight whimper escaped her as Blake pulled back.

“I’d say…” Blake whispered, tears in her own eyes starting to fall. “That I love you too, Yang.”

She wasn’t lying. Yang could see that clear as day. Blake loved her. Blake Bella-fucking-donna loved her! Yang leaned forward and kissed Blake again. Blake hummed against her for a moment before gently pushing Yang away.

“Wait. Is that what your dream was about? Me leaving because you told me you love me?” Blake asked gently. Yang grimaced and looked away.

But a gentle hand guided her back to meet Blake’s gaze.

“Even if I didn’t share your feelings, I wouldn’t let that get in the way of our friendship. Okay? You mean so much to me. I’d have to be an utter fucking dumbass to throw you away.” Blake whispered before gently kissing Yang on her nose. “But I do share your feelings.” She placed another kiss on her right cheek. “I want to be with you.” Another on her left. “If you’ll have me.” She paused in front of Yang’s mouth, leaving it up to her. Yang didn’t hesitate. She leaned forward and captured Blake’s lips with her own.

Suddenly, her nightmare was feeling very far behind her. How could it feel close when all she could feel was the mutual love that they shared?

[cwombw]

isn’t life great?

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void-Yesterday at 11:25 PM

wtf do you even have to say to me

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:26 PM

I just, if youre this upset with riley for doing then we need to talk about this so you understand

void-Yesterday at 11:27 PM

im ALLOWED to be hurt that he thinks i can NEVER be trusted AGAIN for no apparent reasonif you cant recognize that then WOW

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:27 PM

He doesn't think thatHe blocked people he's know for years

void-Yesterday at 11:27 PM

then WHY the MCFUCK did he block me and why are you saying i should just shut up about it and get over iti cared about him damnit i say him as my own fucking childyoure not who i thought you were lmfao

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:28 PM

He's just really scared right now, youre allowed to be upset but try to underastand

void-Yesterday at 11:28 PM

im done tbh?i blocked him back.its what he wants anyway

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:29 PM

if you feel that's what you want. he's just scared and hiding from everything

void-Yesterday at 11:29 PM

and yet hes still in dandys friendchat.

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:30 PM

He left active chats right off the bat and then got scred people would hate him and stoped

void-Yesterday at 11:30 PM

whatever then.too bad star came home im this close to self harmingim  going to talk to her and hope shecan calm me down from a meltdown

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:31 PM

I just, he's literally dying rn, please try to understandAnd please stay safe

void-Yesterday at 11:31 PM

you also need to understand that others are having similar reactions due to his actions just now

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:33 PM

youre having a heart problem? you were so upset you had a heart attack last night? I'm sorry but I dont think this is comperable

void-Yesterday at 11:33 PM

i meant the goddamn breakdown thing

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:34 PM

I'm sorry i misunderstoodHe jsut doesnt want anyone to see him die

void-Yesterday at 11:39 PM

i f he wants to push everybody away and ruin every good friendship he had and also ruin the dnd kin thing, fine. im not going to open my arms to him anymore.i dont hate him.but the wanting nothing to do eith each other thing is mutual now.

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:40 PM

i hope you understand that i stand with him on this. he just doesnt want to hurt people if he actually dies

void-Yesterday at 11:41 PM

if he actually diesso if he doesnt, what. hes gonna be like "heyyy.. fingerguns sorry that i ruined all my friendships, amde people hate me, and made people panic" i dont play ehadgames like that and i refuse to do that with him.plus, idk. iunno. maybe it should be our choice if we want to stick with him even if hes on his death bed?by doing this its hurting more than watching hiom die

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:43 PM

He's in the hospital and they said things arent looking good. he's terrifiyed and I think you should remember hes only 16. he's just scared as any dying kid would be

void-Yesterday at 11:44 PM

.. so wait. let me get this straight . he decided to. block. every single one of his online friends, out of fear of hurting them. but he didnt try to distance himself from his irl ones, even though it should be thje same fear that drove him to block everybody online in the first place.iwhatnothis boils down to paranoia and distrustwhy exactly, does he  let his irl friends care for him but wont let his online ones do the same

ArchaicArcade-Yesterday at 11:45 PM

It;s easier to block people you don't know in personI just, I cant do this. hes a scared kin and that's all there is to it

void-Yesterday at 11:46 PM

okim dropping itfeel free to block mefigure you want nothing to do with me anymore eitherJune 8, 2018

ArchaicArcade-Today at 12:01 AM

no it's just I need a bit

ArchaicArcade-Today at 8:34 AM

I'm sorry to say this but I've know Riley way longer and well, I choose him over you. I feel terrible but I need to side with my best friend here

void-Today at 11:56 AM

there shouldnt even be a side but okay. i had a feeling y'all weren't telling the truth. because i forgot last night but now i remember that he certainly did not block everybody he was friends with online and the chat in gov kin is evident as such, since people there could still message him.

you all have fun lying now. but i want you both to remember that i would have gone above and beyond for the both of you because i trusted you, cared about you, and loved you.thanks for ripping away a part of my life.

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s/o-Today at 7:48 AM

Fuck meRiley is the rat talking to lou

s/o-Today at 11:01 AM

Let me know if you are okay.

void-Today at 11:59 AM

.....wow.

s/o-Today at 11:59 AM

He shared our entire dm

s/o-Today at 12:00 PM

God me too

void-Today at 12:01 PM

you know i have a feeling all their friends were in on it and he didnt even have a heart attack last night

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s/o- you know I never had a grudge against you, and I wasn't in a good place either when you were in my life. please leave me out of your mouth and i'll continue leaving you out of mine. Don't dis GAK either, it's a quiet kin family. -Lex's "live in" partner.

s/o- also I'm carful about the ages of the people I talk too, and that "flirting with a minor thing" not sure who that was at all? I'm sure it had something to do with the nonsense in KK. Anyway last message I will send unless you choose to respond. Yesterday at 4:53 AM

agenderdad420/mysterypeaches the minor was jeremie diioscuri and the offending behavior was via discord in a mutuals server that he had created Yesterday at 2:26 PM s/o- Now i know what you are talking about. I was mislead about his age. But I also never flirted with him. I sent him an NSFW meme once and his little friends started making wild accusations of me. And I do feel bad for offending him, but I didn't know he was a minor.

s/o- That is also how I personally got kicked from KK. I kicked Alex from KK the previous night because it was behaving destructively Today at 7:44 AM

agenderdad420/mysterypeaches thats not an accusation thats straight up telling the truth

s/o- Talking about trans stuff? I was literally complaing about tucking. I also really feel stabbed in the back right now. You think you know someone

agenderdad420/mysterypeaches you... knew who? look idk what you deem appropriate to talk to minors about but maybe it differs for us

s/o- i don't think a trans vent between two trans people is inappropriate if he was squicked by that he could've told me lol. not go sharing a private convo with you. (and i'm not blaming you for that)

agenderdad420/mystery peaches i will say that there is often an inherent power dynamic between older and younger members that maybe made him more uncomfortable

s/o- you know i can take the blame if I fucked up. I hope you know that I've changed a ton since KK. and since I your drama with Lex started. All I want is to be a good person and contribute something to my fellow kinnies.\

agenderdad420/mysterypeaches honestly i havent really kept up w either you or alex since that point, but i dont doubt you can take accountability for your actions.

agenderdad420/mysterypeaches i just hope that there is change that goes along w acknowledgement and perhaps there has been

s/o- I don't speak for lex. But i just want peace Today at 9:21 AM

agenderdad420 fair

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s/o - Today at 7:49 AM Apparently riley is the one talking to the person who made my callout Do you have a problem with me arcade? 

ArchaicArcade - Today at 8:07 AM no 

s/o - Today at 8:16 AM I guess i squicked him with something i said 

ArchaicArcade - Today at 8:17 AM i guess 

s/o - Today at 8:19 AM My brain: hes sick because of you 

s/o - Today at 12:02 PM I know you have your reasons  for what you guys are doing. But I hope Riley knows how deep he cut me. I would've given you both the moon.

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not only have these people caused me to have a severe anxiety attack, they caused my partner the same, as well as many others who weren’t even a part of this.

they have caused me to feel suicidal and paranoid, to want to self harm

as for agenderdad420/mysterypeaches, they have sent me anon hate before, accused me of being racist for my neopronouns (all while saying they’re not against neopronouns, lol), and blew up at me for dropping them after they told me they didn’t like that i was trying to set boundaries for my borderline behaviors with them, and that i was confiding in them everything that was going on with me at the time (which was heavily toxic and depressing towards me) they have used language against me that is ableist and abuse apologetic in nature and their claims otherwise are blatant lies.

i had previously published the majority of the anon hate before deleting it from my blog after a while due to discomfort of having drama on my blog.

they have taken to stalking me to find out more past drama about me, as well as taking false anecdotes from others who claim my s/o has been inappropriate with minors to the point of grooming them, which is 1000000000000000% untrue and taken greatly out of context and skewed into something that never happened.

talking about trans issues isn’t grooming, sending a nsfw meme to a person who my s/o believed to be an adult isn’t grooming.

these people are pure evil and have been planning this for a long time from what i’ve gathered.

they are dangerous and unpleasant and will apparently stop at nothing to obtain their goal, whatever it actually is. as evident as one of them faked a heart attack and may have faked an entire condition.

update 7/17/2018

after speaking to rileys sister who he abused for a good part of their life, as well as ruined it and made their mom send them to live with their aunt, i’ve since learned that this is serial abusive behavior and he has also physically beat his younger siblings, is a pathological liar, and everything i’ve thus learned about him 100% fits his m/o.

he can try all he wants to pretend that he got better and has improved but all i see if that he got better methods.

faking a heart attack in order to call my gf a pedophile for talking about trans issues is fucking despicable.

another thing i’ve discovered is that he did in fact assault the person who he says assaulted him 

and the fact he freaked out over a poorly written callout like that, no offense to the victim is kinda funny and really telling. if he was innocent then why bother mentioning anything? i dont think that many people saw it.

i’ve also learned that archaicarcade, aka julien/julian (and plenty of other past names) also has a past of fucking people over very quickly into friendships and relationships and changing their name and other information in order to hide their past.

in fact.. riley hangs out with a lot of weird people, including somebody who was brainwashed by their older brother to be transphobic, and julien, whos relationship with the minors he surrounds himself with is suspect at best.

he also keeps company with a jehovah’s witness, which i shouldn’t have to explain how problematic that is.

my current thoughts about this is that riley while not innocent at all may be being groomed by julien is who also grooming others with help from his other adult buddies they all hang with. i have no sympathy for riley though after what occurred, whatsoever.

just 10-20 minutes ago somebody on a sockpuppet from wilson, north carolina sent me hate after checking out this callout post for riley, this is the screenshot i took

i’ve since blocked and reported the sockpuppet, even if this doesnt belong to riley, its clearly from one of his brainwashed supporters. amazing that a month later they still want to start shit. but this? this is pathetic.

look riley and co. i, my gf, my bf, my other bf, and all my friends know the truth. you’re fucking liars and fakes and abusive and groom people. do the universe a favor and go to long term therapy or maybe just never go online ever again with any device, anytime, anywhere, ever. and in fact hole yoruself up in your homes and never speak to anybody ever again because you clearly can’t help yourselves from finding new targets to fuck with.

emotional terrorism at its finest.

[pissmood]

basically im just going to use this as a mood tracker and journal bc everythibg in the app store costs money that i dont have bc my account is $-300 because the hotel charges are still pending on my account! i dont really want to use an app anyway because what if i dont end up liking it? and most of them are like $30 a year or some shit and its stupid to me. every time im at work i look at the journal section and think about buying one but for some reason im scared. what if someone i know reads it? of course thats always an option here but idk, something about typing into the void seems safer because i have plausible deniability that its me, plus i can just delete a tumblr easily. plus the idea of strangers reading about my thoughts and my day is weirdly therapeutic sounding. maybe someone new will reach out and i’ll make a friend. probably not, but the chance is not 0.

anyway today was pretty okay. im 2 days in to my week off of work. i took a week off because ive been feeling overwhelmed and my partner said he doesnt mind. i didnt do a single thing today. just played around on my phone, didnt even play a video game, unless you count shining nikki lol. side note, im absolutely obsessed with nikki, theres a new event going in game and her dialogue makes me think she’s autistic which is probably why i love her so much lol. but yea, mainly just hung around all day, i put on lingerie because i thought my bf would like it, which he did, but idk i was hoping for something more romantic than what happened but oh well. after that i had a job interview at an ice cream shop, and i tried it out while i was there and it was delicious. then we went grocery shopping and went down every isle :). after getting home we ate snacks and i watched more tiktoks. i saw one that was like “POV: u grew up with a single mom in the early 2000s” and it showed a bunch of pics that really reminded me of my mom. it made me sad. ive been missing her a lot lately, i dont know why. i just wish i could talk to her, maybe see if being 24 was this fucking hard and desperate feeling for her too. idk. and then me and my partner were just talking about whatever and he mentioned how much he just doesnt want to do anything, and it made me realize how much i force him to do stuff with me. he never complained about it and when i brought it up he said he doesnt really mind, but i want to do better for him. i always ask him to take me places and do things with me on his days off, and i need to give him space to breathe. he works way harder than i ever could, and i dont really let him rest. i mean im taking a whole week off after we ALREADY took a weekend together to see my family because im so burnt out and stressed, i need to let him have time to do nothing too. i meed to respect his time and space like he does for me. i know he said he doesnt mind running errands eith me on his off days but idk. i just want to do right by him.

basically im just writing all this stuff down because i need to be able to self reflect, i meed to be able to get this all out and i dont know how else to do it. i want to write here about my day every day. ive been so overwhelmed recently and maybe this will help. maybe seeing it all written out will make me realize its not that bad and im just being a dramatic baby about everything. but yea i just want to be able to liveblog my life LMAO. tomorrow should be fun because me and my partner are going to my friends house to watch the meteor shower. very excited about that :).

[moidse]

Wow i just woke up from such a wonderful dream!! Its been so so long since I've woken up from a dream that just brightens my mood the whole day and genuinely just leaves me feeling happy. Reminds me of being in highschool whenever id have a dream about my crush I'd be haooy all day running the dream through my head reliving it.

Anyways, what I remember in my dream was being at some event with family and i was being recognized for my work in film. Like i was being honored or something really nice was happening and it felt very nice.

And then tbh the part of my dream i immediately remembered and was like oh this is why i felt so happy. In the dream, i remember there was a part when i was making out with my highschool crush, and no not wven the main one (lax e**** one) and we were just kissing and smalling. Like she was so cute and smiling so big as I was kissing her and I was smiling back. I was so happy. And she was so happy. It felt amazing and warmed my heart. And then i remember my partner is there and its like im dating both of them and we are now preparing to go to bed.

Gosh... im sitting here still re-living those dream moments of kissing em and seeing her smile. It was just so cute and loving and happy. Idk. Its just been so long since I've had a new and exciting kiss and crush.

Also, its wild how much my dreams can effect my mood the whole day. I need to keep fighting sznal d and get sunlight if its sunny. Cuz i got a good amount of su lught, correlation dont equal causation but damn. That dream really took me somewhere I'd love to be.

Being honored and recognized in my dream career. And having a romantic cute loving spark with someone where we both cant help but smile so big kissing because we're just so happy and in love.... asdffghjkkq

Now i cant stop thinking of that type of love. I miss that feeling of having a crush. Like that spark and just wanting someone so bad and knowing they want you back. I miss that feeling and i never really got that feeling eith k****. I just feel like th beginning of our relationship was me being stressed about them not liking me, then me being stressed they are dating someone else, not to mention they were dating other people during the summer and then made out with someone after I said no... its just like I never had that new crush spark with them that I was feeling in the dream or that I feel when Im with s******. Its honestly like the happy chemical releasing..... and now they wanna say they want me now and its like i waited over 8 months and the sparks disappeared. You didnt want me back in the same way which made me feel so depressed.... I understand its complicated and that they had trauma and didnt want anyone in that way but it still didnt feel good... i miss the feelings of how I feel a relationship should start. Like eventually they got more cutesy but damn did it take them a long ass time to open up and show effection back and shit... and i deserved that immediately. I want that with someone from the start. I want to be with someone I can make cum..... but on the other hand k***** is a great partner in every other cstegory except like sex and stuff... i just miss the happy chemicals from being in love and like a new crush.. like when I'm obsessed and think of them everynight. I feel like life is boring if you dont have a crush to fantasy about and things have been boring lately... but we are literally in a pandemic lol and its the worst time to try to find a crush and its just depressing ass times in general... and its great to have the emotional support of k. Having there support does mean a lot to me. And knowing they will always have my back. Ive never had that before. I do miss kissing someone new and would like to work on myself not being jealous and maybe looking into healthy communication and boundaries for that type of relationship because I know its whay I want

[pirate-kid2k19-blog]

Positivity for the mogai community! Because so many ppl in this community are constantly negative and we need positivity

If you try out dating and realize your aromantic lster on, thats ok!

If you try out sex and realize its not for you snd thst youre asexual, youre valid, even if you regularly hsve sex to keep your partner happy, you are f u c k i n g v a l i d

If youre a straight guy wnd date a guy to experiment and realize youre bi, thsts ok!

If youre a straight guy wnd date a guy to experiment and realize youre still straight but you and the guy had developed romance with ezch other despite being straight, thats ok!

If youre a straight guy wnd date a guy to experiment and realize youre gay, thats amazing!

If youre a straight girl wnd date a girl to experiment and realize youre bi, thsts wonderful! Good for you!

If youre a straight girl wnd date a girl to experiment and realize youre lesbian or just had developed tomsnce with the girl over the many years you knew each other, youre fucking valid.

Pansexuwls or bisexuals who have only dated one gender or prefer one gender to another despite still loving others, youre valid.

Pan or bi ppl who have been eith every gender theyre attracted to? Perfectly valid and NOT sluts, whores, or anything of the sort unless they call themselves thst and thst is something they decide not you.

Pan or bi ppl whove always been single bc theyre aromantic or asexual as well wnd they have a hard time finding domeone who accepts them, im sorry thst happens but youre so vslid!

Transfems? Fuck yeah slay, queen!

Transmascs? Aw hell yeah work, king!

Trans enbies with or without dysphoria? Still fuvkingg valid you assholes.

General trans ppl with or without dysphoria yall r valid and i support you and even though all the informstion i knew about being trans was from k*lvin g*rrah and i used to be like that, im trying my hardest to unlearn all of that. Im on your side, even as a dysphoric af trans dude!

Anyone lgb or any other sexuality who is also aro or ace, no matter how many people hate you, i support you! In fact i prefer gay asexual men because of trauma due to sexual abuse throughout my childhood, i will have a panic attack right then and there if someone else fucks me no mstter if i asked for it or no, i only trust myself with this kind of thing, but while this part is a bit personal already i just wanna say even tho im hella kinky, even as an adult the most i would do related to it is wear black and leather bc im a punk and not becaus3 of kink. If yall wanna bring your kinks to pride, stay away from the children, especially if youre doing generally obviously sexual acts. "But furries are there!" Beingg a furry is a hobby not a kink, and kids see you as scary and see furries the way they see santa or the easter bunny at the mall.

If youre a furry and wre in any way conforming to the stereotype of furries being lgbt, thats ok! And cishet furries are valid too as long as youre not homphobic and hurting people in any way.

Being told your gender and pronouns are made up because of tumblr sucks, but i support you as best i cwn with the little education i have on this subject. If i knoe your pronouns, i will use them. If not? I use they them pronouns for you unless you say otherwise or are by some chance wearing a pin that says your pronouns anywhere on your outfit.

EVERYONE WHO IS NOT A PEDO, MAP/NOMAP OR SUPPORTER, HOMOPHOBE, TRANSPHOBE, EXCLUSIONIST, TERF, ANTI VEGAN, PRO PETA, OR JUST GENERALLY AN ASSHOLE OR A BAD PERSON CAN INTERACT. TRUSCUM, TERFS, GENERAL ANTI TUCUTES THAT HAVE SOMETHING TO ARGUE ABOUT CONCERNING THIS POST OR ME, JUST GTFO. IF YOU WERE LIKE ME AND BROUGHT UP INNTHIS COMMUNITY THINKING NO DYSPHORIA MEANS YOURE NOT TRANS AND WANT TO UNLEARN THE TRUSCUM IDEOLOGY, I WILL MAKE A POST ABOUT THAT AND LINK IT BELOW.

⚠!!! ⚠FAILURE TO RESPECT THE DNI WILL RESULT IN ME REPORTING YOU FOR BULLYING OR SOME SHIT AND BLOCKING YOU. IM NOT HERE TO FIGHT, IM HERE TO SPILL FACTS OUT OF THE FACT JAR⚠!!!⚠