#ill probably reblog this on my art blog anyways but. fuck it we ball
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Nothing to see here, just two cringefail loser men that deserve eachother <3
@divorcingjimmatthews infected me with The Worms (the mental image of Jim having a drunk breakdown after the end of s2 and Jade reluctantly helping)
(line art only, just for funsies)
#just a silly little self-indulgent comic for the jim/jade enjoyers out there#anyways stan tom#from epix#fromblr#from spoilers#but not really#jade herrera#jim matthews#jimjade#my art#from 2022#from mgm#i went back and forth on whether to post this here or on my art blog#but i wanna start doing more fandom specific comic stuff like this so i figure ill keep it to separate blogs#ill probably reblog this on my art blog anyways but. fuck it we ball#good lord tumblr OBLITERATED the quality#ignore how empty the bartop is. i aint drawin all that#i am. 'ow you say..... lazy
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New & Updated Intro Post
My intro post is now incredibly outdated, so, hereās an entirely new one. Letās start with a few important updates:
If you like what I do? Consider hiring me, consider buying something from NerdyKeppie (the shop I own with my spouse - we do custom work!), consider buying me a coffee or becoming a Patron or tossing some money in my PayPal tip jar.
I am a disabled, queer, fat, Jewish non-binary butch whose entire income is derived from selling Quality Queerwear via our company NerdyKeppie (we also offer patches of all sorts, nerd gear, etc -- if you donāt see it, ask!), Patreon (queer fiction for a dollar) and freelance work. Please consider supporting me if you like what I do!
Yes, I used to identify as femme and in 2018 I came out as butch and forgot to update my intro post for like a year. So, yes, at one point I identified as femme, largely due to social pressure and trying to be something I wasnāt. 2018 is the year I claimed my butch soul, and holy shit, Iāve never been happier. This is not an indication of me not understanding butch and femme - itās an understanding that no matter how old you get, you are constantly on a journey to understand yourself better. Or, at least, you should be.Ā
At one point I identified as pansexual as well as bisexual, and I like the header art with the pansexual flag in it which was made for me years ago, so even though I no longer identify as pansexual, Iām keeping it until I find something I like better. Youād think I wouldnāt have to explain all this but people love picking at these things.Ā
No, I am not going to debate the history or meaning of butch and femme with you or anyone. The links are in my header.Ā
If youāre here to hateread, do yourself a favor and donāt. Thatās just not healthy. And for the love of G-d, stop linking to my posts. I can see your posts, yāall; I have a site tracker. Itās just awkward and kind of sad.Ā
Okay, so anyway.Ā
Radfems, TWERFs, SWERFs and REGs/Exclusionists are explicitly not welcome here, and I do not want my family stories or life used for your politics. I block all of these categories, full stop. Radfems & TWERFs/TERFs deny the essential humanity of myself and my daughter and Exclusionists are just sort of painfully clueless about community history and what the community actually looks like offline. if you self-ID as one of those, please save us all the trouble and just donāt. If youāve reblogged one of my posts and added something about how this proves one of your points, please pretend you respect other people and take it down.
If you are here because you donāt understand the post about the dog that attacked me, or its point, either legitimately or because you donāt really want to get it & want to argue with me about it, tell me I need to get counseling for my fear of dogs, tell me Iāve compared men to dogs, please go read seananmcguire explaining the post to someone who already sent me an ask about it. That pretty much covers why the post exists. Also you should buy and read Seananās books.
Also, also, all of the stories about @seananmcguire youāve heard are probably true if theyāre bizarre or funny. Especially the one about the lizard and the one about the frog.
If youāre here to tell me my views on asexuality & the queer community are wrong or that stuff I lived through & you werenāt born yet for is ļæ½ļæ½ahistorical,ā go away. This blog is explicitly anti-gatekeeping for the Not-Straight Club.
If youāre here about the post about my great-grandmother, I kind of donāt have it in my heart to answer all the sad family stories. If you shared a family story on that post, thank you. If you want to use it to make some sort of gross radfem point about marital rape or some comment about how my great-granddad should have learned to pull out, Iām gonna block you without answering you. Donāt be gross.
If youāre here about the tiny house post, please read the notes, Iām not gonna explain it again.
Anon is never turned on, but if you ask me not to publish an ask, I wonāt. Please remember to put that in the ask.
So hereās some stuff you should know about me:
Iām older than large portions of Tumblr, and in a fair number of cases Iām probably twice your age or more. If thatās a problem, I really am not offended if you arenāt cool with interacting with me. Age can be a powerful unbalancer in social relationships. I AM going to get annoyed if you start āexplainingā stuff I lived through to me and insisting you know my history better than I do.
Since it bears repeating one more time: Iām not interested in interacting with TWERFs, SWERFs, or ace-exclusionary queers. Iāve been Out for nearly 30 years & I really have no desire to argue my lived experience with anyone. I explicitly reject the term SGA.
My immediate family consists of my spouse @dadhoc, our beloved @apocalycious, myĀ Ā teenage daughter @mistresskabooms and stepson, my adopted son Owl, and DadHoc, MK and Iās 3 dogs: Lyudmila Pupperchenko (Mila), Captain Malcolm Reynolds (Cap), and Ser Davos Seawoof (Davos).
My brotherās band is Downtrodder and you should listen to them, because theyāre awesome.
No one in my immediate family is cis or het. I have been called Spider for 20+ years, & now a lot of people call me Mama Spider.Ā Ā
In this house we understand that Ally is a verb, and itās possible to be antagonistic toward a marginalization that you possess. Internalized transphobia, ableism, etc. are hellacious things to uproot. In this house we try to stay in our lanes & we understand call-outs while being aware of the toxic parts of call-out culture. Be cool to teenagers: you were one, and yes, the shit you said was just as stupid. You donāt win points for browbeating a teenager over an idea, you just look like a jerk.
I used to have a lot of paragraphs here about specific beliefs of mine, but really: Ally is a verb, intersections matter, capitalism is broken and cannot be fixed. I understand the difference between a bolt of linen and four shirts and believe that labor is entitled to all it creates. My class isĀ āpetit bourgeois,ā as I have seized the means of my own production.
If you screw up and you say something that hurts someone, say youāre sorry, and try not to do it again. Itās not that hard! Donāt tell them they shouldnāt be hurt. This goes double if it was an accident. āI didnāt know that was offensive, Iām sorry for hurting you. Iāll be more mindful in the future.ā See how easy that is? Thatās how we do in this house.
Iām bisexual, non-binary, disabled, neurodiverse, and donāt want pity or to hear how sorry you are for either of those last two things. Being autistic is just fine, and it didnāt happen because I was vaccinated. I have PTSD and GAD, and I live with both of them. Theyāre terrible roommates but Iāve got used to them. Iād like it if people would just stop throwing shade at the invisibly ill when we park in handicapped spots ā Iām missing part of my spine, for fuckās sake ā and playing Oppression Olympics will get you stern looks and no dessert.
In this house we do nerd culture, there are no fake geek girls, and we understand that women invented masked superheroes (The Scarlet Pimpernel), science fiction (Mary Shelley), the modern novel (Jane Austen), dystopia fiction (Mary Shelley again), computer programming (Ada Lovelace and the ENIACs, which is my new band name), and got Star Trek on the air (Lucille Ball).
If I didnāt cover it, assume if it involves being a jerk or punching down, Iām not okay with it.
If it involves dogs being adorable, otters, mermaids, spiders, most of the major fandoms Tumblr loves (I canāt get into Supernatural, sorry, I tried), or people doing awesome shit, I am definitely here for that.
I am a Social Justice Paladin. I tank trolls. I used to think I was a Rogue, but, yeah, I tank trolls.Ā
About six months ago, someone started calling me theĀ āNon-Binary Regent of Summer,ā and I ran with that like an Olympic torch. Yep. It me.Ā
@hypoallergeniccuddles thinks Iām secretly Mrs. Weasley.
That may be true also. If so, please remember what happens when you fuck with Mollyās children.
Welcome. Supper is at seven, the Wizard Home will make a room for you if you need it.
This post will be repeated a few times over the next few days so everyone sees it. <3 Thanks. Iām glad youāre all here.
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