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dear-nyu · 1 year ago

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So I'm a complicated case of gender and sexuality/romantic attraction. I'm fine being percieved as the basic default people usually see me as (cishet woman). So I usually identified myself as "basically straight basically cis"

HERE'S THE THING i had a thing with a mostly-girl individual and well it was very gay so now im kinda sitting here like. Well so I can't exactly say im even remotely straight now. Dafuk fo i call myself.

#ik labeling is not necessary but definitions help me comprehend myself #like i'm ace enough that the little attraction I have is basically irrelevant enough to be defined #is it pan? bi? no attraction whatsoever? but I was attracted!! but it's so tiny. it's not... all. I don't know?????#im ace(demi) but that doesn't say anything about who I *am* attracted to in the rare case i am #this bothers me #again #nyu rambles

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