#if you're sick of my bitching then just unfollow me

[hazbinsponsoredbyvee]

Yeah I'm going dip from this ask blog.

Nothing against you personally but this whole wedding thing is just weird especially with alastor who's shown to have an almost aversion to anything relationship based

I've never understood the fandoms fascination with alastor x lucifer they literally have no chemistry at all.

I'm also not a big fan of everyone ragging on lilith and it's not just your blog but 90% rp blogs i see, it seems like everyone wants to have lilith as the biggest bitch on the planet and be an abusive and terrible wife and mother which is so damn tiring

Why everyone wants lilith to be stella 2.0 is beyond me

This is not an airport, you don't have to announce your departure. But since you're doing the unnecessary, I will too.

The only thing I can think of that shows Alastor as having an 'aversion to anything relationship based' is him being asexual. I AM ASEXUAL TOO! I have that same 'aversion' yet I am married. That is no reason not to ship him.

Also, I completely agree with Alastor x Lucifer, which is why they aren't together on this blog. But I'd also never disparage someone who does ship them.

As for Lilith, we know next to nothing about her in canon. My depiction of her in this AU isn't necessarily what I believe or even want to be true, it's just what works best for my AU. As I said in another post last night, I relate heavily to Lucifer and so I think I'm working through some of my own shit through him - which FYI, most writers tend to use writing to process their own shit.

Anyway, none of this was to make you stay, I just have a frankly annoying need to always explain myself and make sure I'm understood. And since you announcing that you're leaving was entirely unnecessary, I think that gives me an excuse to defend myself unnecessarily. If this blog isn't for you, by all means, stop following me - I've done that with many blogs when I realize they, for example, post way more radioapple than I would like to see, cause yeah, I'm also a little sick of it. But feeling the need to announce that I'm leaving is so absurd to me. Believe it or not, I don't have all of my almost 400 followers memorized and wonder what happened anytime one unfollows. Bye!

[bl00dst41ned]

i'm warning you beforehand, this might be long.

I always feel like I can't speak about certain things because I'm young and don't feel mature/educated enough to have an opinion to share.

But everyday now, I'm seeing dead bodies of children, mothers and families all over Palestine and witnessing Israel's inhuman ways get excused.

I'm sick and fkn tired of all these people turning blind to Israel's genocide. It has been going for YEARS, but it seems like it all started when Hamas attacked Israel a few days ago. You're a fucking shitty person and monster. Palestine are the victims, the targets of the power-hungry ass, colonizing ass country that is Israel. Don't get it mfn twisted.

I'm also tired of Israel being above all laws and killing thousands of people without anybody doing anything. Crazy how with all these fucking powerful countries, ain't one of them who tried to stop this mass murder. How TF nobody is saying nothing about Israel killing literal families, ambushing civilians just to massacre them, restraining vital ressources (cause I KNOW FOR SURE taking the access to water to individuals is illegal). THEY ARE EVEN KILLING MEDICS. that's literally an INTERNATIONAL LAW. NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO KILL MEDICS. but everyone is blind to what's happening.

And I'm overly sick of all this Jewishs vs Muslims talk. This has nothing to do with religion. And if you chose Israel based on that, you're just an Islamophobic fuck. It is way above this spectrum. So the little brats in well protected Western Countries don't need to fear for your life as a fkn Jew. This is not your battle, you can stfu, dumbass.

And all these celebrities talking and acting like they give a fuck need to stay silent, for real. So Kylie's botox filled face better stay tf quiet like she's been all these years and Paris Jackson better go back to being the daughter of literal Palestine defendant Michael Jackson instead of thinking she some type of activist.

(And please there is no promise land belonging to Israel, since some dumb stupid brain dead bitches think that (Damien Rieu on te parle fdp).)

Sending all my love and prayers to the real victims of this literal genocide but not forgetting all the innocent victims on both sides who didn't deserve to die from bloodthirsty Israel's actions.

PS: If you support Israel, please unfollow me quickly. We don't fw each other. I'd rather nobody following me than having zionists somewhat around me.

[cowboygimmick]

a girl on here used to hate me bc I hated her comfort character (Bucky Barnes) but would never admit it, just passive aggressively police my every post instead of, like, blocking or even unfollowing me, she sent me anonymous asks every time I came close to slipping up, called me a "personality-less white woman in a leather jacket," got unbelievably mad and vagued about me when I gently suggested she unfollow me (there were a lot of "I can't believe I ever thought you were an ally, I'm done trusting white girls"), and would get upset at me for reblogging stuff that black fangirls would post about racism in fandom bc she didn't like the language used.... instead of getting upset at the OPs bc she knew she'd get rightfully dragged for criticizing how they talked about their experience.

the last post she made about me after I soft blocked her went something like "oh so thats how it is.... well I got receipts, bitch :)" receipts for what? me being confused about why you're anonymously yelling at me about how I'm infantilizing a black character by writing sick comfort headcanons about them?

[zonerobotnik]

You know what, we have opposing tastes.

I see Tangled this way, you see it yours.

I love Bedknobs and Broomsticks, you don't care.

You don't want to watch My Adventures With Superman because of Jimmy not being white, freckled and with red hair. You know what, I have red hair and been mocked for it and I don't give a damn.

And don't pretend like you don't hate all of my ideas.

When the fuck have I gone onto your page and insulted a character you like? You've shown me a lot of shit and I've always been polite about rejecting it and telling you I didn't care for it. I've put up with your bullshit for a while, but I'm getting sick and tired of having your sick idea of how Varian "really is" shoved in my fucking face. I don't want to hear another word about it. Get out a word document and write what you want to see, because it's people like you that make me reluctant to experiment with stuff like that. You're demanding, you're rude, you're insulting, you're crude, you push boundaries and I am getting sick and tired of defending you and putting up with you and giving you a chance. So you better start showing me some fucking gratitude for not blocking your ass by respecting my lore without insulting it every fucking chance you get. In my lore, Bill Cipher worked with Zhan Tiri and he is Varian Tiri's father in the Varian Tiri stories. DEAL WITH IT. On my page, Bill Cipher is a constant. DEAL WITH IT. I put up with no insults about Gideon on my page. DEAL WITH IT. The Saporians are near and dear to my heart and I will not tolerate any more insults about them. DEAL WITH IT. It's MY fucking page. Say whatever the fuck you want on YOUR page, I will simply Unfollow if I don't want to see it, or just scroll on. But this is MY Askbox and MY page and I don't want you being a little bitch on it. Do you understand? Keep it to your Own. Fucking. Page.

[papa-poutine]

Anyway if you're not gonna get vaccinated hurry up and die so the rest of us can get on with our lives (vent in tags watch out 🤪)

[ninastalgia]

January 28, 2016  Chris DeVille

 Pray for America. In the early weeks of 2016, a disturbing development has come to pass that exposes some dark truths about the US population. A figure from this country’s past, one who represents our culture’s basest instincts and poorest taste, has somehow bounced back from relative obscurity and risen to a new level of prominence. Once laughed off as a punchline with a bad haircut, this figure has exhibited a startling endurance on the national stage. He swaggers through life with a boorish self-confidence, and a discouragingly large subset of the people are buying what he’s selling. It seemed like a joke at first, but it’s not funny anymore. For the sake of the children, this person must be stopped.

Donald Trump? Sure, yeah, stop him too. I’m talking about Brendon Urie, the Las Vegas musician whose band Panic! At The Disco just earned their first #1 album, by a wide margin, by delivering “this mix between Sinatra and Queen, if that makes any sense.” It does not, and neither does this: 190,000 equivalent units and 169,000 in pure sales means Death Of A Bachelor was not just a fluke #1 on a slow week. These MySpace-era survivors, the junior varsity version of Fall Out Boy, are legitimately popular. Just look at how many people came out to see them play Kimmel’s outdoor stage earlier this week: [video unavailable now]

It’s easy to trick yourself into believing America is entering a new golden age of good taste with regard to rock music. David Bowie’s bizarre final album debuted at #1. Public mockery of both Creed and Nickelback has become standard practice. Have we as a society taken steps toward a superior aesthetic? Don’t buy it — and for God’s sake, don’t buy Death Of A Bachelor. This thing is wretched, and its massive popularity suggests the American people still have a hearty appetite for empty bombast.

This latest iteration of Panic! At The Disco sounds like Times Square looks, a million disparate moving pieces and flashing lights piling up to infinity. It is Michael Bay’s Transformers starring Brandon Flowers’ Frank Sinatra impression. It is Muse, Justice, and the Bryan Setzer Orchestra playing an especially violent game of King Of The Mountain. It is the musical equivalent of SNL’s “Taco Town” short, the faux fast food commercial in which a hardshell taco is wrapped in a flour tortilla and refried beans, then that’s wrapped in a corn tortilla with cheese sauce, then that’s wrapped in a deep-fried gordita shell with “guacamolito sauce,” all of which is baked in a corn husk filled with pico de gallo, wrapped in a savory Parisian breakfast crepe, rolled up in a Chicago-style deep-dish meat lovers pizza and then a blueberry pancake, dipped in batter and deep-fried, then served up in a commemorative tote bag filled with spicy vegetarian chili. Only in this case the ingredients are “Champagne, cocaine, gasoline/ And most things in between.”

To Urie’s credit, he’s got this kind of clenched-sphincter maximalism down to a science. Just about any Death Of A Bachelor track could work as a single and/or new millennial jock jam. They all have that same overstuffed, super-compressed, ultra-hooky quality that seems to be the only way a rock band can get on pop radio these days — that sense of someone shouting in your face while beating you over the head with their cleverness in one hand and several hundred ProTools tracks in the other. Panic! At The Disco’s peers Fall Out Boy famously sang “This ain’t a scene, it’s a goddamn arms race,” and the two bands really do seem to be competing to see who can pile on more sonic artillery. Both acts end up with massive, metallic tracks, not songs so much as Pacific Rim robots. Urie isn’t so far off when he posits, in that smug and overwrought style unique to bands of this vintage, “If crazy equals genius, then I’m a fucking arsonist, I’m a rocket scientist.”

The whole ordeal might even be impressive if it didn’t seem so desperate to impress. The music strains with every ounce to convince you of its ingenuity. The lyrics wink with the weight of a million overblown egos. The exclamation point! Panic! At The Disco’s tryhard blowhard qualities are nothing new, of course — this is the band that wrote a song called “There’s A Good Reason These Tables Are Numbered Honey, You Just Haven’t Thought Of It Yet” — but now that they’re back and bigger than ever, the threat they pose to this country cannot be ignored. We must band together and take a stand before it’s too late. Say “No!” to Panic! At The Disco.

Full Article: Here 

[fkinavocado]

Dreea, I didn’t block you, but now I see you’ve blocked me. I unfollowed you but it’s honestly nothing personal. You can have whatever opinions you want (tho I do think the whole “PR relationship” is a bitch of a stretch), but you and your anons are CONSTANTLY talking about this drama, day after day, and I was sick of seeing it on my dash. I don’t mind a vague post here or there but when it’s all day every day it gets old. Anyway, be well. I still follow you on wattpad.

you did block me because i couldn't see your blog anymore. i saw your post about having to unfollow a few people and while that's perfectly fine and i understand if you just don't wanna see stuff on your dash about certain topics, the fact is you did block me and i wasn't the only one you blocked either

i wasn't even going to unfollow you even if you unfollowed me cuz i understand honestly. it was the fact that you blocked me. so i'm sorry, seems you reconsidered things and you unblocked that person i mentioned and i, but honestly i am upset you took such a radical decision. like i said in that post yesterday it's one thing to unfollow quite another one to block

i'll unblock you since it was never my intention but i was hurt. and still am. cuz we weren't strangers around here. i too was disappointed to see many ppl i liked around here side with blogs that have a very different perspective to mine on all this and even go as far as calling names and reducing it to jealousy and misogyny when it's absolutely not that at all. so i unfollowed them too but i didn't block. takes a lot for me to block someone

we're all entitled to curate our dashes. i understand if ppl just don't wanna hear about it anymore. but it's my decision what i talk or don't talk about on my blog and mine alone

(my last post about people following me back wasn't about you, though)

and for what it's worth: i never said this was 100% a pr relationship. i always discussed all angles and emphasized how we were speculating based on what we see. the fact that some of you don't even care to read the discussion on here but then just label it? like ... at least read what i have to say. if you're gonna have an opinion about it, at least let it be an informed one. i've never commented on appearances, age, parenting etc. all that is despicable. at the beginning i thought it was strictly pr but them recognized this was more than that but still the pr aspect to it is very very strong and clearly agreed upon by both parties. my whole issue isn't the relationship itself but what it means to admire someone and have that person in turn associate himself with someone i despise. that's it. and how a fanbase is being used and played with at the end of the day. it just doesn't sit well with me

i did say i was gonna try and keep away from this subject but at the same time i feel like some things i can't keep silent about. if there's smth that rubs me the wrong way i wanna be able to address it, not sweep it under the rug and pretend like it's a non-issue. cuz it is. and i'm not the only one feeling this way

[hella1975]

a few things 1. YOU ARE THE KING SHIT HELLA, YOUR WRITING? IMMACULATE. YOUR PLOT? IMPECCABLE. YOU??? TOP TIER. 2. I'm sorry for not yet reading ch29, I am ScaredTM and needed to hype myself for it <3 3. I got an ao3 so I can scream at you here AND there (Enbies_Committing_Felonies) and 4. You are That Bitch (derogatorily affectionate)

FELONY !!! WHAT THE FUCK!!!! okay if ur new here when i get a load of asks at once i tend to put them as one big block like so and write all my own bullshit in bold so here we go BUT FELONY WHAT THE FUCK??? YOU GOT AN AO3 FOR ME????? IM IN L*VE WITH YOU

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(ask button by unfollow button >:0) yeah yeah yeah, I know what you're going to say. "Felony you fucking fool, why are you up at 4:23 am?" the answer to that is simple. You. are. a. fucking. asshole. who writes things that live rent-free (but sadly not trauma free) in my head. So I know I already commented on ao3, but that was more lines than plot or stuff idk my brain is tired. the point is, I'm about to rant in your askbox for one sec - felony you fucking fool why are you fucking up our enemies to lovers by saying these things. idk how to comprehend them. error 404

You are such a talented writer, and as much as I gushed over the lines and their poetry and the way they flow, the truth is that your writing is so much more than that. You put in so much thought into it that it feels like a full-blown novel. I swear Hella, you can be an author one day. The way you've written the SWT crew and Tovah and Zi Se and literally ALL of your oc's... is just fucking phenomenal. It flows so well and they fit like they were there the whole time. (1/?) - ‘I swear Hella, you can be an author one day’ first time i read this i had to pause and take a Dramatic Breath because idc how sick you guys are of hearing me talk about it but this is The Dream and idk something about seeing it written so direct like that just UIGHSIUHIS I NEED A MINUTE

(2/?) like, at this point I've forgotten which are canon and which are just, completely yours because it already feels like they're all yours, like you've made every one of them completely yours, even though you write them more themselves than it seems canon has. The way you characterize has gotten to me more than once, because it's like you fully grasp /who/ the character is, their thoughts and feelings and experiences, their PERSPECTIVE and damn its incredible seeing you work - this shit? illegal! a crime! i’m gonna fine you the price is my heart but that shouldn’t be a problem since you already hAVE IT

(3/?) its amazing. You understand how each one would narrate and how they interact and react to things, and its fucking exquisite. and not to mention the RELATIONSHIPS, damn. If the characters make me shake the way you write relationships as me *v i b r a t e* the kanut/bato/hakoda friendship, how bato being gone affects how he interacts with them, chena/zuko or really chena/any young figure, because he's such a Dad™ if we're being honest, and the Fire Hazards™ interactions? FUCK YES IMMACULATE - not you rapid fire complimenting each of my biggest writing insecurities

(4/?) like??? you've written their (mostly zuko's) trauma so intricately and then you've combined their pasts with their past trauma AND their current trauma and circumstances and that shit HITS bc we see the struggle that both of the siblings are having, but zuko is struggling with who he is and azula is struggling with whether or not to feel about zuko or to numb herself to him again or be bitter, and their are a thousand other relationships and interactions that are just, king shit, but I

(5/?) can't name them all (but like, tomnook, tovah and iroh, the Chaos Friends and the Soft Friends in prison, and then like, ALL OF THEM OKAY) and there's MORE OKAY. the characters and relationships are all well and good, but THEN you have all of the details and foreshadowing and Hella you truly are THE king shit okay, bc every moment leads to the next until it all leads to One Moment, and its like all roads lead to rome, but all moments lead to Home and damn, how do I deal with that?? - okay this in particular made me lose my SHIT because it’s something that’s always meant a lot to me. i absolutely fucking adore these characters, canon and original, and it’s always been important to me that i never sideline any of them. Just because it’s a zuko fic and we know zuko best, doesn’t mean tulok isn’t thinking about the son he left behind or nanook isn’t thinking about protecting the people he loves or just any of them thinking about any of their own personal traumas. because these characters are human beings. they aren’t real, but they’re complicated and they have pasts and they mean the world to me and i’d hate it if i didn’t do them justice, so this /\/\/\ is just hduighiduhg. it’s the reason it’s taken me so long to post these asks because i keep coming back to read them again and i wanted to hold them close a little longer lmao

(6/?) the truth is, it's 4:48am already and I'm tired and rambling, but you truly are a masterpiece. and so is toab. I talk a lot of shit, but everything I've said about this has been true, and Hella? whenever you write your own story and become an author, I can't WAIT to read what you'll write. It'll be fucking magnificent because I know you would pour your heart and soul and body into it like you've done with this fic. toab is a delight to read because, despite it being almost pure angst-

(7/?) it has been one of the best fics I have ever read. It's not just about the pain with you; its about the pain and the trauma and the found family and the HEALING and there is such catharsis in reading this. I normally read angst to HURT, but your angst HEALS and I don't know how to describe how even with the pain it makes me feel at peace. I trust you with that. I know it'll hurt like a bitch, but I also know that you give everything for the characters, and if you say it'll get better- -”I normally read angst to HURT, but your angst HEALS” oh fuck you i’m gonna buy you such a pretty engagement ring

(8/8) I can trust that. No matter how many times it breaks me apart, I know that there will be closure and resolution and healing. and I know that I can trust you to write it beautifully and true to who the characters are. You are powerful and magnificent Hella, don't forget that. 

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deep breath.

this was-

okay i know i’m terrible at responding to things like this because i just genuinely don’t have the words to convey how much it means, which is ironic when this is about, you know, MY FUCKING WRITING but oh well. so i just need you to know that this is just. just absolutely mindblowing. every time i read these it feels like i’m reading them for the first time and i struggle to believe it’s about ME AND MY WORK?? and i think maybe you sent it to the wrong person but then you say my name and i’m like ! fuck ! but yeah. i love you so much for this. thank you xxxx

[awsugar]

im NGL im kind of sick of hearing you whine about how people hate you all the time. you do it a lot...even after i saw your callout post and friends of mine told me to unfollow you, i kept liking and reblogging all your stuff because i wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt. but everytime i tried to reach out and make a connection with you, you were cold. idk if it's because you're just pretentious or what but it wasnt that callout post that made me start disliking you. you did that on your own with the way you treated me. and im not the only one who feels this way. maybe instead of worrying about people hating you, you can work on not rejecting people who are trying to be friends. just a thought. u may have a close knit community that thinks youre all great, but youve actually been a bit of a bitch to many of us who ARENT included in that community and perhaps you should work on it.

i’m like. REALLY sorry that you feel that way or that i made you feel that way. this makes me sad. i try to be a nice person. i sometimes get anons saying they want to talk to me and i always say the same thing which is that my dms are open but i’m not great at one on one conversation. it’s pretty much never that i don’t want to talk to someone who’s messaging me, and more that i’m lost for what to say so i’m just be like ‘haha nice’ which isn’t supposed to come off as cold i just. am bad at talking to people lol. i leave people i consider close friends hanging all the time because my brain is just empty when i try to think of how to respond. i’m definitely better in a group setting like discord where all of the focus isn’t on ME to think of something to say right away but i know that discord isn’t everyone’s thing and larger servers can be intimidating so i get that. it doesn’t sound like you want to give me another chance and i respect that but i honestly want you to know that it makes me really sad that you (and apparently others) think im cold/a bitch when i think it really is just my abysmal social skills.

i’d love to talk to more people and make more friends on here but i have a hard time knowing how to keep up a conversation when someone just shows up in my inbox and is like ‘hey whats up’ because. nothing is up i am sitting in my room and i’ve probably done nothing all day so i don’t know where to go from there and it usually dies out pretty fast. which i feel bad about but idk what to say. if someone were to come into my inbox with a topic like lets rank franks hairstyles or something (sdjfs idk) i could work with that and have something to say and probably keep up a back and forth better and then maybe it would evolve to something else but i’m bad at small talk and knowing where to take a conversation if it just starts with hi how are you. maybe that’s a character flaw i should work on but right now it’s just how i am. and again i’m really sorry that i made you feel bad, that’s never my intention

[literaphobe]

I'm not kobold, but I also unfollowed due to the forehead thing. Not because of the joke, but because you acted so immature and mean over the criticism and you're still. Talking. About it. And i checked and kobold moved on a long time ago and didn't stoop to all the mean shit you're saying. Grow up and get a life. Also i'm not white so you can't use that against me lmao

i’m sorry it’s not like i’m making text posts about it daily people send me asks about things that happen here all the time so it means i’m reminded about certain fucking incidents again and i have to explain it to people again and it’s real fucking funny how you think you know fucking ANYTHING at all about what fucking happened u think i’m pissed because some 25 year old scolded me for a forehead joke?? that shit was a long time coming because i was sick and tired of the way they interact w me and my friends’ posts it made us uncomfortable and i was done so maybe don’t act like you know what’s up? and yeah maybe i’m fucking immature and i don’t “handle” criticism well when fucking strangers i don’t fucking know hand it to me unsolicited. maybe i get fixated on the things that happen to me and i talk about it a lot and i get heated when i discuss it!! guess fucking why bitch!! just say you hate people with adhd and go

[aesthetic-survivor-of-twd]

Why do you not post not much as you use to? I get you have college if you're running a blog then you should commit to it. I only followed you because you were a freqent poster but you don't post as much anymore :/ You were also away for long time last year and I think you owe it to us to post more frequently. but feels like you don't care about your followers and not taking anything seriously. Sorry but I might have to unfollow if you don't fix this. I'm tired of this and you should have time.

Oh go fuck yourself anon.(Notice: This is the ONLY time i'm going to respond to this type of Ask. Because I've gotten a few of these the past few days and this is one of the only ones that isn't just verbal abuse )I would normally reply privately in these matters, but since you don't have the balls to come off Anon, I'm just gonna reply to you as normal._____________With all due respect, I don't owe you anything.I'm aware that i'm going to sound like a total bitch here, but I'm not going to let myself get slandered like this without defending myself.I have spent SO much of my life running this blog ever since it was created.Yes, I have probably been lagging behind lately (for understandable reasons) but I would just like to state that well before I had my deadline back in November I had been spending nearly every waking moment on this goddamn blog replying to Asks (you might think I'm exaggerating but I assure you I'm not).There were times I was so involved with this blog that I neglected a lot of real life stuff that I SHOULD have been paying attention to. But instead I chose to keep this blog running as frequent as I possibly could because I knew people liked seeing my posts on here.I spent a lot of time keeping up with news updates to later post and to keep you all informed with the game.After Telltale went downhill, all I did was keep checking for feedback and replying to all the hysteria fueled Asks I kept getting because everyone was in a panic (hell it ended up even making me stressed to the point where I had to have people calm ME down).I even pulled an all nighter on a college night so I could stay up to stream episode 2 for people at 5am (UK) because so many people wanted to experience the episode with me. So I thought, "Hey I'll make this a cool little event on the blog!". And I ended up sleeping in afterwards and missing half of my morning class that day.And then there is a bunch of drama bullshit that I kept getting pulled into by people on here privately and later on Twitter despite not even having anything to do with it.The point that I'm trying to make is that I've worked hard on running this blog every day - despite it not always being a pleasant experience for me.I'm not saying I deserve a pat on the head or a medal for running this blog.^ I'm a college student that runs a twdg fan blog on Tumblr for fuck sake. It's not a big deal.But I don't think it's unreasonable to at least want some form of respect for it either.Like, I'm just in shock that I've received this Ask... Did you honestly expect me to fail college just so I can entertain you 24/7? I LOVE this blog and the people on here. I truly do. I never lied when I said that i'm glad I met you all or that making this blog was one of the best decisions I have ever made. Because it truly is.But I'm also a human being that has a life to live outside of Tumblr and who has their own fair share of bullshit to deal with in life just like everyone else on here does.I can't just dedicate my entire life to nothing but this blog. Because then the blog no longer becomes fun and instead just feels like a full time job which I then feel obligated to do and start to resent it.I often try to avoid rants like this as long as I can on here because I try to keep it positive so I don't upset people, but I'm sick of getting private messages like this from people that seem to think my sole existence in life is to be your personal entertainer.It just feels like such a slap on the face to see stuff like this.It's nice to know that all those days I stayed up at like 4am to reply to Asks and all the times I was in college responding to Asks when I was meant to be doing college work or consoling people when Telltale shutdown despite barely handling it well myself resulted in this. Really makes me feel great. Thanks.This is the only time I'll be addressing these messages since I'm already having a bad day and need to vent. But if you still don't like what I've said or that my blog still isn't up to your standards then just unfollow, please. I'm sick of trying to please people like you. Actually, just unfollow either way. Do yourself a favour and step off of your fucking soap box, take a good look at yourself in the mirror and grow the fuck up.

[lorircreates]

PSA

I curse a lot and I know it. I think most of my followers know that and I don't even care to put language warnings because most of my fics are rated R or NC-17. But there are a few words you won't see me using often because I hate them. And you know why? Because it's degrading. It diminishes me, it diminishes my female friends, it diminishes all women.

I just came across a few fanfics where characters call out women (MC and other characters) slut, whore or bitch and I have to say that I'm disgusted. And the worst part is knowing that those stories belong to female writers. I know what you're thinking "oh, please, it's just fiction..." No, it's not. Our writing is a projection of our ideas, principles and perspectives of the story.

As an amateur writer, I have an special relationship with those characters, I care about them as if they were mine and I would never condone any sort of disrespectful behavior towards them. Specially sexism. So when I see writers bluntly calling out their female characters like that and judging female characters' behavior because they dress more provocatively, drink or like to party everyday or actually have multiple sexual partners, I feel outraged and disgusted. But, most of all, I'm sad. Because I know they must call real life women bitch, whore, slut.

Women are not less worthy of respect because they like sex or have multiple partners. We endorse verbal, physical and sexual violence when we slut shame women. It's a sick behavior.

I'm writing all this shit about these swear words because the mad feminist inside me is about to burst out at the next writer who decides to call female characters slut and I am no one to say how other people should write their stories. So, from now on, I will not give likes, reblogs, reviews or any sort of recommendations to other fans about fanfictions that endorse slut shaming. If you disagree, feel free to unfollow me and block me right now. You're doing both of us a favor, actually.

[jiminandlemonade-blog]

You're the one meeting up with jeonsdear? She comes across as shy and reserved yet you seem quite cocky. I'm just trying to see how you two even work in a friendship. Not that there's anything wrong with being over-confident but you come across as over-bearing too. Sorry, just an observation. I really wonder with how your friendship works

It took me so long to decide whether to answer this but I am going to. You actually have no idea how upset this made me. You have no idea who I am? I don’t want to come across as a bitch but I’m questioning how you could even think of this from me? Like.. you don’t know me?

Yes @jeonsdear can come across as shy, but you made it sound like it’s such a bad thing? It’s not. You obviously don’t know her for who she is. She’s a lot more than a ‘shy’ person. Like I said, it’s not a bad thing. But she’s got so many other good qualities that you could pick on.. why pick up on shy?

I come across as cocky? I see that.. well I see that in my daily life. I am quite cocky at times. I’m from Northern England, that’s how the majority of us are but I really don’t think I put this across on the internet? I think people get cockiness and dry wit mixed up often. Cockiness also doesn’t mean you’re a bad person, if anything, I’m actually quite glad I have that quality about myself. By no way conceited, but I can come across quite cheeky, but I do it in a way that people understand.. I would never be intentionally cocky, I think that’s rude and crossing the line.

The ‘i’m trying to see how you two even work in a friendship’ part made me laugh. We’re friends.. you don’t need to see it. Nobody does. I hope she knows (and I think she does know) that I’m by her side, that’s how a friendship works. Nobody else needs to see that. She does, and that’s all that matters.

Ouch, over-confident and over-bearing in the same sentence? The over-confident bit may come across on the internet, I understand that but it’s the way the internet works. I see a lot of people on the internet be people they aren’t but it’s not intentional. You cannot see body language or facial expressions, you cannot hear the tone of voice.. I’m often misunderstood and have been for my whole life so I have some sort of gage of where you’re coming from, even though those people who have made me feel misunderstood actually knew me.

The over-bearing part hurt me the most. To me, over-bearing is when someone is always talking and you just can’t be arsed with them anymore. Fair enough, if you don’t like it, you don’t have to follow me. But those words got to me, something didn’t sit right with me. So I googled it. By God, I wish I didn’t. The words ‘bullying’, ‘oppressive’, ‘domineering’, ‘unpleasantly overpowering’, ‘arrogant’, ‘dog sure’, ‘bossy’ and ‘tyrannical’ came up…

It made me feel sick. If you think this is who I am, please take a seat and think about what you’ve just called a stranger. I would never in my life use such awful words to someone I don’t know, hold on.. not even a person that I do know. 

That’s the difference between me and you, I can tell people the truth to their face even if I know it’s going to hurt but I can do it in a nice way and try and prevent their pain. But you, you called me shitty names and you don’t even know me and you’ve actually really hurt me. 

If anyone thinks of me like any of the above, please do yourselves and myself a favour by unfollowing me on every social platform, I don’t need negativity in my life. I have had my life’s worth in the space of 2 years. I thankfully got rid of all that shit 5 years ago, I don’t need to deal with anymore. 

I appreciate your opinion, but too be frank, I don’t want it. 

[feyremylove]

You're probably the biggest bitch I've ever seen (size wise too lol) and if you think anyone respects you after your outburst on Facebook... lol good luck

Hold on lemme grab my 20pc chicken nuggets before I sit down and address this one.

Alright, here we go.

THIS is one of the biggest problems with the SJM fandom. You are all horribly toxic and downright miserable.

My outburst?! You mean when someone made a “lighthearted” post that sounded like more of a complaint talking about how sick they were of all the things people post in the fandom all the time and how they “really just don’t give a damn” AND TO BE CLEAR: This woman is absolutely entitled to her opinion, and I already made it clear that I misread the tone of her post as cruel rather than jokey. This post is not directed at this woman. It is directed at YOU, anon, and toxic people like you in the fandom.

So anyways, back to it. You mean when I stood up and defended people’s right to post the same memes, black sparkly dress, bat photos, WHATEVER they want? Because I feel like the SJM fandom has one of the worst reputations for policing other fans? Because there’s a ton of younger teenagers in this fandom and a lot of people like to shit on them for it despite it been a teen-mature rated book????Because I’ve seen people been horribly made fun of because someone didn’t agree with a fan cast? Because this fandom is full of mean, bitter people who need to just STOP???

We’re a fandom and we’re supposed to be a fucking community. Complaining or policing the fandom content that people post or consume just because you’ve “seen it 1000 times” or you think it’s unfunny and think you have A RIGHT to make fun of them or tell them it’s shitty/annoying in the comments JUST MAKES US LOOK BAD. If I had known it was this bad before I got into creating art and diving into the fandom, if I had seen this is how other fans are treated, I would have ran like hell.

Why are some of you so fucking BITTER?! I get that sometimes seeing something a million times can be irritating - and people have their rights to their opinions - but commenting and making fun of the people posting it is CRUEL. You’re not a fucking edgelord “omg I’m ~so~ sassy haha did you see my comment? hehe!” you just look like a Regina George type mean ass bitch who can’t just be excited and happy that there are other people out there who are interested in the same things as you!!!

Seeing the same posts can understandably get irritating - but there are so many people in this fandom. You can’t seriously expect someone to spend HOURS AND HOURS searching through the millions (probably more) posts all over the internet to see if someone already posted that bat meme or black sparkly Elie Saab dress before. If you’re sick of seeing it, keep scrolling. There’s no need to stop and comment “ugh I’m so sick of seeing this” or “this is stupid”. Literally just keep your mouth closed and keep moving.There’s no reason you need to ruin anyone’s mood with your own bitter attitude.

Also, good to know that this is the type of people that Facebook group likes to have around. The fact that you came all the way here, to my Tumblr, to anonymously say this to me is basically a raging neon sign that says "YOU'RE RIGHT. THIS FANDOM IS TOXIC".

Now that we’ve got that covered, my big fat, bitchy ass and I would just like to make it clear that anyone who likes to bully people in the fandom, or treats people like this anon does, is strongly urged to unfollow me. You’re not welcome here.

[belore-invictus]

I'm tired of seeing you on my blog. I'm sick of how you keep ignoring all of the bad shit on tumblr and with your platform, won't say anything about it. You're really such a bitch and I hope you don't make it through your upcoming surgery, fucking bitch

Alright, so here’s what you do when you see a blog you dislike!

 1) Click their tumblr URL.

 2) Click unfollow.

 3) Tap, ‘yes I am sure.’

 4) Eat my ass, cause’ you need something good in your life and your cereal apparently is made out of piss water, with that trashy attitude. I’m on WRA to motivate, push, and support people. I refuse to respond, or support any drama. Half of the time, whatever drama is happening has nothing to do with me (yea, ik, mindin’ my own business homeslice), or it’s just really dumb.

 5) You’re apart of the bad on tumblr, man. You just told me (not that it matters lolol) that you want me to die in my upcoming surgery. Do you not have half of a mind to realize how detrimental that could be to someone? Nah, probs not. I’m down for anon hate whenever, but it’s the fact that this community gets SO many death threats, and other threats, that it boils my blood to know that neighboring players think that it is okay to send shit out like that. 

 6) That’s pretty much it, so enjoy your day, unkind soul.

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[verynotseriousperson]

Why is your ass out here so fucking salty about every single damn thing in the world?! Relax. You don't have to be out policing this hell site. Take a break. You're losing it.

"You're losing it!" You say as you sit, typing this message, in MY inbox on anon. If being salty means not giving a fuck about White Direction or the people associated with them unless it has to do with my fave, or pulling receipts when necessary, then I guess I'm the saltiest bitch on Earth. Call me the Dead Sea bitch. I don't care about those other 4 and I'm tired of having messages about them in my inbox when I have no interest in them and it seems as though these last few weeks I've gotten a ton of them and I'm sick of them and wanted to put my feelings out there very clearly to dissuade anyone else from asking. I don't even know why I'm explaining myself to you since this is MY blog and I can be as salty or bland as I want on it and you can either block, unfollow, or just don't fucking look at my blog. It really is that simple. Now, go sit down and eat your food, away from my inbox, and away from my blog. Happy unfollowing :) .