#if you think i'm ableist i dare you to take a video of yourself telling me so

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I am so serious about this.

I am at a point right now where I think it is ABLEIST for narcissists (or advocates of UNDIAGNOSED PEOPLE and/or PEOPLE WITH NARCISSISTIC TENDENCIES WHO DO NOT TAKE ANY ACCOUNTABILITY) not to acknowledge that:

they are one

they know that you are empathic and that you have either had a past with codependency issues OR are a codependent

they think your emotions are silly

they impose ultimatums and call it boundaries

Because if you don't acknowledge this, then you're targeting us.

I do not think it is ableist to call out literal narcissists who REFUSE to acknowledge their own patterns of behavior, take any accountability, and straight up use people all for the sake of *control*

And what's more:

Here is an extreme "fuck you" to both of my exes from last year (my ex-spouse and my other partner), who I've identified as undiagnosed narcissists (most likely, covert narcissists). The latter ex-partner may be diagnosed, but who knows since they lie/conceal their DID from people and throw a tantrum when they can't get their way. Read it and weep; both of you are fucking children - call me a villain and a monster when I have TRIED MY UTMOST BEST TO LOVE THE BOTH OF YOU.

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I do have a lot of respect for those with NPD or narcissistic traits WHO LITERALLY ARE DOING THE WORK TO GROW/HEAL - this post is not about them.