#if you think africa is some safe haven cause there’s no white ppl and black men and black women get treated equally youre american centric

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why are trans men always so… like this towards cis women. it’s like they still think like a woman and are still searching for that victimhood they feel like they lost (they haven’t) and can’t cope with them now choosing to be on the opposite side and having to see men get shit on, because it now includes them. you would think they’d be more empathetic and normal but no. once they flip genders all of a sudden they’re the biggest attackers of (cis) women and feminism.

and it so obviously stems from insecurity and a lack of emotional capability to handle being told your group is oppressive. and it’s so much worse because you weren’t even raised like that. society has never pushed or told you to be like that so you have no excuse for the fact that you as a (99% of the time) white (jewish or not) woman are using gay, black, disabled, etc, men as now an ideological shield against women complaining about their oppression. like a stage 5 anti feminist. it’s weird. and i’m saying this as a black woman.

you’re fucking weird. mexican, arab etc. all aren’t generally affected socially or systemically by weight gain enough for you to generalize them as such you idiot. they can still be fat and desirable. they still are wanted. they are not treated bad for being fat you lying revisionist fuck. you sound like an incel. no woman isn’t being friends with, isn’t dating, isn’t treating with humanity a man because he’s too skinny or too fat. that isn’t based in reality. (the only time men have insinuated bad treatment based on their weights/looks happening is when it comes to dating but women always say no. it’s other things. and you happen to be fat. because fat dudes who are kind, left leaning, ambitious, emotionally intelligent, financially stable, etc. are attractive to them. which is another sinister thing. trans men will take every liberal buzz word they’ve heard and apply it to male issues even when not true. but men, having lived their entire lives as men will apply their logic correctly and in the places they really mean it to be. cis men never talk about the downsides of being a fat guy unless when it comes to dating. which can be argued to be true (not because they’re fat though) but trans men will just start spewing out random nonsensical shit which makes sense in theory but has NO standing in real life. and they do it with such confidence you know this is a person who’s never actually been a man.) fat men still are seen for other characteristics beyond their weight. by their friends, family, strangers etc.

of course they get insecure like anyone else and it sucks but you’re insane to think doctors ignore or don’t give them correct diagnoses because of their weight. that’s not fact! or real?! men don’t even go to the doctor often of their own volition. which is a topic needed to be discussed when the topic of men not being treated by healthcare well comes into play, their own toxic masculinity of them being invincible pushes them away from the doctors office or taking their health seriously. this is searchable fact.

and honestly which one is worse? being a cis woman and your unchangeable sex rather than your changeable weight being why you’re not correctly diagnosed, why there’s no research done on diseases that affect only you, why the procedures meant for only you are so barbaric and torturous (pap smears, etc). please.

trans men stop becoming fucking insufferable when you turn into men because you can’t handle being talked about as a man. STOP. get your mangina together and deal with it like you deal with every other privelege you have. don’t cape for and deny the privelege of every other man because you can’t cope. that’s fucking weird and GROSS.

it’s insane because on some occasions cis men deal with feminism better than trans men i’ve seen because at some point they know it’s true. it directly talks about them and they’ve even boasted about what we decry as male privilege all the time. trans men are so much more shifty and obsessed with not seeing male privilege as even real and i get it, if you believed it existed, you’d become dysphoric as fuck because you have none! have never had any! you can’t relate or apologize for anything because you’ve never experienced it! and you’re are completely forgotten about when people discuss men in a political lens. but that’s not our problem. deal with your shit and stop turning into a anti feminist loser under the guise of your own dysphoric and emotional turmoil for a life you chose. damn. men can handle getting told off, and we don’t have to ask the 0.3% of men how they feel about it to do so.

- an angry black woman

idk if cis women are aware of this but u can actually talk abt how difficult it is to be a woman living under patriarchy without wildly misrepresenting the experiences of men living under the patriarchy. i’m watching a comedy special where a thin white woman just said that men aren’t affected by weight gain and i would like to know on what planet being a man protects you from the disgusting and deadly culture of fatphobia we’ve cultivated. i would like to know on what fucking planet a thin white woman is more affected by gaining an inch around her waist than a fat man having to deal with being dismissed by doctors, passed over for jobs, and treated horrendously by fellow human beings. like. trust me, i lived as a woman for almost three decades and still am seen as a woman, i understand the urge to vent about the patriarchy. but you can so easily do that without completely ignoring intersectionality or speaking on experiences you don’t understand or quite frankly don’t care about.