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This is how Shanghainese treat foreigners🇨🇳 (2024.04.06.)

+10086 PLS. this is probs the nicest usamerican vlogger who ever went 2 china. in 1 of his earlier china vlogs, a chinese guy kept weirdly following him around, but he was so nice abt it! he said hi 2 the guy, n tho they couldn't talk, he bought him a milk tea n the guy went away. this impressed a lot of netizens

also his nickname is 沒味哥 'brother bland food' cos 1 time he ordered a street meal n wanted 2 tell the stall owner that the food was great, so he asked a passerby how 2 say 'delicious' in chinese. i thought she'd tell him 好吃 ('haochi') 'yummy', but no, the woman chose the mor formal 美味的 ('meiwei de') 'delicious'

ok BUT, when he tried to repeat this 2 the stall owner, wat came out was 沒味道 ('mei weidao') adsdaghghkk i, along w the barrage comments, all went crazy then 😂 out of nowhere he just said '(ur food is) tasteless'... but the stall owner seemed 2 get it. so now he is known on bilibili as 沒味哥 'brother bland food'

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trans man doesn’t realize women have to deal real problems with random men on the street and in the grocery store being their oppressor (sexualizing them, following them, coming up to them and hitting on them then dehumanizing them or attacking them after, kidnapping them late at night in parking lots etc) and that women aren’t just assholes to every man they ever encounter ever. trans men the new incels because they now desperately want class solidarity with real men and what other way than to play into the “women are mean and bitchy towards men, men hardly do anything wrong, women/feminists are the real oppressors”

this revisionist history like women are stalking men and “constantly analyzing the identity (sorry to break it to you love, but outside of your trans bubble for everyone else it’s insanely easy, like less than a millisecond of thinking, if that, to see who’s a man and woman for the general pop. no one is constantly analyzing anyone lol) of random people and waiting to treat them like shit” is insane. trans men stay out of cis men and cis womens interpersonal business actually. you all don’t have the intelligence to have these conversations without muddying them or misrepresenting them completely because you wanna be apart of the boys club

trans ppl shouldn’t have to out ourselves to not be on the receiving end of “all men are evil and dangerous and i have a right to lash out at them bc they’re my oppressors uwu.” and if ur wondering “then how am i supposed to know who’s my oppressor” consider this: individual human beings u randomly encounter on the street or in the grocery store aren’t ur oppressor. also if ur constantly analyzing the identity of everyone u come into contact with to decide whether or not u can treat them like shit bc u consider them an oppressor, u were probably gonna treat them like shit anyway.

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Trans men stop becoming misogynists challenge.

Trans men stop thinking moc or men that aren’t jeff bezos aren’t capable of abuse and evil.

Everyone on tumblr stop thinking that whatever you think cis women are capable of and do isn’t 10x less worse than what cis men are capable of and do which is why there was/is a whole fucking movement with multiple waves to liberate all women from the oppression of all men worldwide.

(Yes even the fat, disabled, poor, ugly and non white ones abuse and oppress (their own) women. much like today.)

Stop being a fucking idiot; ‘misandry is real’ idea pushers, moc, and trans men who can’t deal with the weight of being men politically. Stop thinking: dunking on cis women bc they’re mean to men, is something positive and get out the echo chamber of your nasty ass bedroom.

Because yes, there is a lot of things cis men don’t get.

Maybe ask the women of the same race/class/sexuality of them instead of bringing up a random white female to covertly attack all cis women; the people who of course would understand mens blindspots because we’re victims to the same shit the cis men go through (racism, classism, homophobia, fatphobia) AND to them (sexism)

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Intersectional feminism has been derailed mostly by the whites but what else is new to the point where WOC can’t really have conversations about racialized sexism (outside of their respective communities) bc so many on the left think that MOC are not misogynists. Like they think that the racism MOC face somehow cancels out the misogyny they have towards women. They also view WOC (especially black women) as “offshoots” of the men of their race and experience racism exclusively with like mild sexism sprinkled in.

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the way this is just. completely false lol

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Black man not listening to the black woman? Yea sounds about right lmfao

I’m not a bw cause my opinion is inconvenient for you right, please. Bm attacking white women will never not be the pot calling the kettle black. Stop acting like you’re more oppressed than them cause you’re not. The reason you both get oppressed is things i have to deal with everyday. It’s insane for you to be such a race nationalist that you ignore sexism not realizing or caring that bw are oppressed through sexism too !!!

idk if cis women are aware of this but u can actually talk abt how difficult it is to be a woman living under patriarchy without wildly misrepresenting the experiences of men living under the patriarchy. i’m watching a comedy special where a thin white woman just said that men aren’t affected by weight gain and i would like to know on what planet being a man protects you from the disgusting and deadly culture of fatphobia we’ve cultivated. i would like to know on what fucking planet a thin white woman is more affected by gaining an inch around her waist than a fat man having to deal with being dismissed by doctors, passed over for jobs, and treated horrendously by fellow human beings. like. trust me, i lived as a woman for almost three decades and still am seen as a woman, i understand the urge to vent about the patriarchy. but you can so easily do that without completely ignoring intersectionality or speaking on experiences you don’t understand or quite frankly don’t care about.

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And she was right. a comedy special ensued that ramble from you. a comedy special from a white woman who was right. you villianized her, 99% of women, and made up fat men getting treated bad for being fat (incel point much?) because ??? You felt attacked by a stand up special?

You wield your identity as a trans man as some in between both genders exclusive TMZ special inside look, that absolved you of critique of when your attacking (cis) women (not for transphobia but for being feminists) but it doesn’t. especially when you are obsessed with being a man. especially When you hold no ties to women except when it allows you grace to shit on them acceptably. When you use your personhood like that yes, you become a perverted and wicked part of oppressing women.

People who lived their whole lives as women but now are men and who now hate women and are spending every moment trying to assimilate into the class that is men and simultaneously trying to absolve men of any and all attacks they get for being men are a unique kind of garbage.

You think men recognizing other men are bad (yes, cry me a river) is some form of unnecessary flagellation and that exposes the insanity of having the ideas of an incel with the socialization of a female. Trans men truly think they have nothing to apologize for and YOU don’t. but because you now see yourself as the same as most men (reality check, you’re the farthest thing from it) you word vomit constantly about how men are these great people who don’t do anything and are just living their lives like angels, as someone who isn’t one and has never grown up as a man. It’s embarrassing

You’re living on the planet of garbage you created. You could stop acting like that but since you won’t. Don’t be mad when you get called out

just got an anon that was like “i hope u don’t respond to this with hostility but i’m now going to accuse u of villainizing women and insinuate ur lying abt ur life experiences and are just seeing random posts on tumblr that ur mad abt and also trans men oppress cis women” and i genuinely wanna know what planet some y’all are living on bc i can’t handle any more of this garbage.

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Everyone in the notes is going to hell and to all the women, i truly hope your perfect victimized man y’all date, or encounter, or pass by, never ever beats y’all the fuck up for being a woman cause i don’t know how you all would piece that together. What phobias and isms y’all attach to that event. Maybe that’ll descramble your brains from this terminally online “men aren’t seen as victims/men are hated on too much” view yall have. Probably will end up on channel 7 news by a fat queercoded bisexual ace biracial man from the ghetto with a mullet by the end of the year. and ironically only the misandrists will vilify him and understand why he felt he could do that to you regardless of his identities :(

idk if cis women are aware of this but u can actually talk abt how difficult it is to be a woman living under patriarchy without wildly misrepresenting the experiences of men living under the patriarchy. i’m watching a comedy special where a thin white woman just said that men aren’t affected by weight gain and i would like to know on what planet being a man protects you from the disgusting and deadly culture of fatphobia we’ve cultivated. i would like to know on what fucking planet a thin white woman is more affected by gaining an inch around her waist than a fat man having to deal with being dismissed by doctors, passed over for jobs, and treated horrendously by fellow human beings. like. trust me, i lived as a woman for almost three decades and still am seen as a woman, i understand the urge to vent about the patriarchy. but you can so easily do that without completely ignoring intersectionality or speaking on experiences you don’t understand or quite frankly don’t care about.

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you’re fucking weird. mexican, arab etc. all aren’t generally affected socially or systemically by weight gain enough for you to generalize them as such you idiot. they can still be fat and desirable. they still are wanted. they are not treated bad for being fat you lying revisionist fuck. you sound like an incel. no woman isn’t being friends with, isn’t dating, isn’t treating with humanity a man because he’s too skinny or too fat. that isn’t based in reality. the only time men have insinuated bad treatment based on their weights/looks happening is when it comes to dating but women always say no. it’s other things. and you happen to be fat. because fat dudes who are kind, left leaning, ambitious, emotionally intelligent, financially stable, etc. are attractive to them. which is another sinister thing. trans men will take every liberal buzz word they’ve heard and apply it to male issues even when not true. but men, having lived their entire lives as men will apply their logic correctly and in the places they really mean it to be. cis men never talk about the downsides of being a fat guy unless when it comes to dating. which can be argued to be true (not because they’re fat though) but trans men will just start spewing out random nonsensical shit which makes sense in theory but has NO standing in real life. and they do it with such confidence you know this is a person who’s never actually been a man.

idk if cis women are aware of this but u can actually talk abt how difficult it is to be a woman living under patriarchy without wildly misrepresenting the experiences of men living under the patriarchy. i’m watching a comedy special where a thin white woman just said that men aren’t affected by weight gain and i would like to know on what planet being a man protects you from the disgusting and deadly culture of fatphobia we’ve cultivated. i would like to know on what fucking planet a thin white woman is more affected by gaining an inch around her waist than a fat man having to deal with being dismissed by doctors, passed over for jobs, and treated horrendously by fellow human beings. like. trust me, i lived as a woman for almost three decades and still am seen as a woman, i understand the urge to vent about the patriarchy. but you can so easily do that without completely ignoring intersectionality or speaking on experiences you don’t understand or quite frankly don’t care about.

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the radfem koolaid of every country’s men oppressing their women but also having their own problems while doing so.

idk if cis women are aware of this but u can actually talk abt how difficult it is to be a woman living under patriarchy without wildly misrepresenting the experiences of men living under the patriarchy. i’m watching a comedy special where a thin white woman just said that men aren’t affected by weight gain and i would like to know on what planet being a man protects you from the disgusting and deadly culture of fatphobia we’ve cultivated. i would like to know on what fucking planet a thin white woman is more affected by gaining an inch around her waist than a fat man having to deal with being dismissed by doctors, passed over for jobs, and treated horrendously by fellow human beings. like. trust me, i lived as a woman for almost three decades and still am seen as a woman, i understand the urge to vent about the patriarchy. but you can so easily do that without completely ignoring intersectionality or speaking on experiences you don’t understand or quite frankly don’t care about.

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and cisgender black men should? you both only have one oppressed identity. for them it’s that their women. for you it’s that your black. who’s to say which one is worse? like please shut the fuck up and don’t take this illogical bait as a reason to hate on the bad white womenz when the reason they’re oppressed is one of the same reason black women are too. because we’re women. both axises of oppression matter and both groups, like you’re doing right now, use their axis of oppression to see themselves as someone who can never be oppressive in any other way.

YOU’RE STILL A MAN LIKE THEY ARE STILL WHITE

idk if cis women are aware of this but u can actually talk abt how difficult it is to be a woman living under patriarchy without wildly misrepresenting the experiences of men living under the patriarchy. i’m watching a comedy special where a thin white woman just said that men aren’t affected by weight gain and i would like to know on what planet being a man protects you from the disgusting and deadly culture of fatphobia we’ve cultivated. i would like to know on what fucking planet a thin white woman is more affected by gaining an inch around her waist than a fat man having to deal with being dismissed by doctors, passed over for jobs, and treated horrendously by fellow human beings. like. trust me, i lived as a woman for almost three decades and still am seen as a woman, i understand the urge to vent about the patriarchy. but you can so easily do that without completely ignoring intersectionality or speaking on experiences you don’t understand or quite frankly don’t care about.

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why are trans men always so… like this towards cis women. it’s like they still think like a woman and are still searching for that victimhood they feel like they lost (they haven’t) and can’t cope with them now choosing to be on the opposite side and having to see men get shit on, because it now includes them. you would think they’d be more empathetic and normal but no. once they flip genders all of a sudden they’re the biggest attackers of (cis) women and feminism.

and it so obviously stems from insecurity and a lack of emotional capability to handle being told your group is oppressive. and it’s so much worse because you weren’t even raised like that. society has never pushed or told you to be like that so you have no excuse for the fact that you as a (99% of the time) white (jewish or not) woman are using gay, black, disabled, etc, men as now an ideological shield against women complaining about their oppression. like a stage 5 anti feminist. it’s weird. and i’m saying this as a black woman.

you’re fucking weird. mexican, arab etc. all aren’t generally affected socially or systemically by weight gain enough for you to generalize them as such you idiot. they can still be fat and desirable. they still are wanted. they are not treated bad for being fat you lying revisionist fuck. you sound like an incel. no woman isn’t being friends with, isn’t dating, isn’t treating with humanity a man because he’s too skinny or too fat. that isn’t based in reality. (the only time men have insinuated bad treatment based on their weights/looks happening is when it comes to dating but women always say no. it’s other things. and you happen to be fat. because fat dudes who are kind, left leaning, ambitious, emotionally intelligent, financially stable, etc. are attractive to them. which is another sinister thing. trans men will take every liberal buzz word they’ve heard and apply it to male issues even when not true. but men, having lived their entire lives as men will apply their logic correctly and in the places they really mean it to be. cis men never talk about the downsides of being a fat guy unless when it comes to dating. which can be argued to be true (not because they’re fat though) but trans men will just start spewing out random nonsensical shit which makes sense in theory but has NO standing in real life. and they do it with such confidence you know this is a person who’s never actually been a man.) fat men still are seen for other characteristics beyond their weight. by their friends, family, strangers etc.

of course they get insecure like anyone else and it sucks but you’re insane to think doctors ignore or don’t give them correct diagnoses because of their weight. that’s not fact! or real?! men don’t even go to the doctor often of their own volition. which is a topic needed to be discussed when the topic of men not being treated by healthcare well comes into play, their own toxic masculinity of them being invincible pushes them away from the doctors office or taking their health seriously. this is searchable fact.

and honestly which one is worse? being a cis woman and your unchangeable sex rather than your changeable weight being why you’re not correctly diagnosed, why there’s no research done on diseases that affect only you, why the procedures meant for only you are so barbaric and torturous (pap smears, etc). please.

trans men stop becoming fucking insufferable when you turn into men because you can’t handle being talked about as a man. STOP. get your mangina together and deal with it like you deal with every other privelege you have. don’t cape for and deny the privelege of every other man because you can’t cope. that’s fucking weird and GROSS.

it’s insane because on some occasions cis men deal with feminism better than trans men i’ve seen because at some point they know it’s true. it directly talks about them and they’ve even boasted about what we decry as male privilege all the time. trans men are so much more shifty and obsessed with not seeing male privilege as even real and i get it, if you believed it existed, you’d become dysphoric as fuck because you have none! have never had any! you can’t relate or apologize for anything because you’ve never experienced it! and you’re are completely forgotten about when people discuss men in a political lens. but that’s not our problem. deal with your shit and stop turning into a anti feminist loser under the guise of your own dysphoric and emotional turmoil for a life you chose. damn. men can handle getting told off, and we don’t have to ask the 0.3% of men how they feel about it to do so.

- an angry black woman

idk if cis women are aware of this but u can actually talk abt how difficult it is to be a woman living under patriarchy without wildly misrepresenting the experiences of men living under the patriarchy. i’m watching a comedy special where a thin white woman just said that men aren’t affected by weight gain and i would like to know on what planet being a man protects you from the disgusting and deadly culture of fatphobia we’ve cultivated. i would like to know on what fucking planet a thin white woman is more affected by gaining an inch around her waist than a fat man having to deal with being dismissed by doctors, passed over for jobs, and treated horrendously by fellow human beings. like. trust me, i lived as a woman for almost three decades and still am seen as a woman, i understand the urge to vent about the patriarchy. but you can so easily do that without completely ignoring intersectionality or speaking on experiences you don’t understand or quite frankly don’t care about.

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