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These days I find people are a red flag to me! ;)

What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you? I find people who are too friendly/happy/charming to be concerning. It usually means that they are hiding something. At best they’re hiding a deeply unhappy or insecure person, at worst, there could be a narcassist lurking there. There are a couple of people on this island that give off an overly enthusiastic, happy persona. I find…

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A Very Merry Christmas One and All

Well, it is to me anyway. Not many people, I suspect, would be happy to be fired from a job but man am I!! Yesterday morning, I turned up at Dr Superior’s early, it was still dark. I wanted to get the work over and done with and since she was taken into hospital for bowel cancer surgery, I knew there wouldn’t be a problem with my timing. Not that I’ve spoken to her these past few days. We argued…

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People will likely see me as rude and hostile but I'm not.

What’s the first impression you want to give people? It’s funny, not long ago I would’ve said that I wanted people to think that I was nice, friendly, helpful, and caring. Now I think I want people to see me as a mystery, as aloof and unapproachable. It’s sad really, the changes that I have gone through because of my abuse. I know that recovering from narcassistic abuse is a process, possibly…