#if it wasn't intended to be aggressive than i apologize for misunderstanding

[onthighsbelongtotaemin]

Minho has released 2 movies - no one showed up at gyechoon's premiere (a lot of idols showed up btw) and only jinki did at derailed's. Same year as gyechoon, during concert tours, everyone talked about everyone's upcoming projects but none about minho's. No, really, you can look up FAs if you want bcs I remember thinking "why is no one talking about his debut?" except at one of the US stops. Sure, you can argue its bcs Minho didn't have a major role in gyechoon but jinki didn't have any major (1

role in dots either but it was mentioned everywhere. Maybe it’s Minho who doesn’t want them to talk about it like you said (thou I can’t see the point behind it) and I’m sure they are more supportive privately like your prev anon said. But not all fans are going to understand that and everyone wants to see their idol being appreciated, at least by their own members. So forgive me, if flamers feel insecure in this area bcs you see there really aren’t that many praises for my bias except he’s (2)       

kind, polite, handsome, “everyone’s #1 fan” with few snarky comments here and there. It’s wrong to label someone an akgae just bcs they spoke something about their bias. No one speaks it out but just as minho is unappreciated, his fandom is too. It’s something you won’t understand bcs you aren’t one. Bring a side-spectator is different than a fan who has spent years waiting to hear some real praise for their bias. (end)      

these asks

um…did you mean for this to sound as aggressive to me as it does?  because if so, you must be pretty damn new to this blog.

because i’m the one who made a post that listed every contribution of shinee’s members to their discography just to highlight minho’s contributions.

i’m the one who sighs happily every time there’s a japanese album because it means i’ll get to hear his voice.

i’m the one who says over & over that his voice is so soothing & i just want him to sing me 60s folk songs as i fall asleep.

& if you want a reason why he wouldn’t want attention i can give you a personal one: it’s easy for me to praise other people yet it is incredibly difficult for me to accept praise.  it’s not unreasonable to assume that minho, shy smile minho, feels the same.

we are often more capable of caring for others than for ourselves.

& again, i said, multiple times, that fans who find this upsetting are within their rights to do so & express their frustration.  it bothers me, it bothers you, it clearly bothers even more shawols.  all i’m saying that could be read as contradictory is that minho doesn’t outwardly seem upset about it & he simply may not be. 

so get upset, be frustrated, call out people who use “akgae” every time someone poses an opinion they disagree with.  but don’t come here & suggest that i haven’t been a supporter of choi minho & his role in shinee.  he may not be my bias but he is definitely precious to me & i wholly agree that he & his fans do not get the attention that they should.

it’s another example of the quiet being overshadowed by the loud & the assumption that the latter’s words are of greater import.  words are just words: minho’s character shows through his actions & as such he deserves far more respect.

personal: i am so proud of him for continuing to act when it was so clear when he started that it’s not a natural skill.  but he loves it & he keeps at it & he’s done so much to continuously improve.  it’s so awesome & i’m so proud of him for keeping at it.  it can’t have been easy to hear all the criticism but he refused to quit.  that’s amazing.

[dialsforshutup]

Part 3 of the larissa x reader pls

I can't stop re-reading it

tehehehe here it iss!!!!!! <3

Oh, hello. Pt 3

Larissa Weems X Fem!Addams!Reader

(Slight) frenemies to lovers

3/4. not proofread, english is not my first language - formatting might look weird on some devices

Some parts of the canon changed/altered

Lots of fluff. 🥹 shorter chapter than usual (1.4k ish )

Part 4

“ Are you okay?”

The abrupt shift in tone from aggressive to a delicate, even frightened tone left (Y/N) unsure of how to react. She began to wonder: What if Larissa experienced the same need that she did? Could they ever regain their former state, possibly even getting even closer than before? It made (Y/N) tremble, "I wasn't hurt, I was just a little queasy. I apologize for skipping the meeting” As Larissa's chilly hands approached her face to wipe away a single tear that had started to fall down her face, she added, making up the reason on the spot, her voice quivering. Larissa had no idea why she did it; yet, a bigger force had taken control of her. This force was her love for the other woman who was bundled up in front of her, and seeing her brought back all of their shared memories—both good and bad—from the past. Both women agreed deep down that it was time to address their problems because they couldn't continue in this manner. They yearned for the other's confidence, to have each other in their lives again; a friendly face amongst a crowd, a shoulder to cry on, a true friend- perhaps even more....

"Larissa." "(Y/N)."

They both said at the exact same moment, laughing at their timing. It also helped both women calm down since they realized they shared the same desire to let the past go and move on. (Y/N) beckoned Larissa to speak first since she was finally willing to listen to what she had to say. If she said she didn't miss her, she would be lying. Simply nodding, Larissa ran her fingers down a blanket corner into which (Y/N) had curled up into. She spoke in a tone that was noticeably quieter than typical for her confident demeanor, "It all began during the days around the Rave'N, the dance itself was the breaking point for me." (Y/N) was perplexed, breaking point? she wondered, still not realizing that Larissa wanted to ask her to the dance, not Gomez. "To be completely honest, I couldn't bear to see you in that way and my heart was broken. more so now that you were aware." They weren't the best memories to look back on. This only further acclaimed (Y/N)‘s confusion, why was Larissa the one that was upset? What did she mean when she said she "saw you in that way"? "Issie?" (Y/N) questioned, her confusion evident in her tone of speech. Larissa's breath hitched in her throat; she hadn't been called Issie in a very long time, so why now all of a sudden? She shook her head and asked, "Yes?" with glassy eyes, on the brink of tears- because the whole thing was so unclear. "Why did you get angry with me? Did you not intend to invite Gomez to the Rave'N?" (Y/N) finally asked.  Larissa burst into a mixture of laughter and tears at this one and only inquiry, much to the bewilderment of poor (Y/N). It was all just one giant misunderstanding the entire time! That information was more valuable to Larissa than all the jewels on earth because it proved that (Y/N) had not gone with someone else deliberately. The person whom she held most near and dear to her heart had not betrayed her. "What-" (Y/N) said, only to be cut off by Larissa saying, "You Idiot." There was no form of hatred in her voice though, but an unusual hint of humor, Larissa continued to laugh softly at (Y/N)'s confused state and wiped away stray tears that made their way out of her eyes, "You gorgeous idiot- Why in a million years would I intend to ask Gomez to the dance???" Well, this was certainly a surprise, for years (Y/N) thought that her feelings for Larissa weren't reciprocated, and perhaps they still weren't, who was Larissa going to ask? And gorgeous? That certainly made (Y/N) fluster. She gently placed her hand atop the taller woman's- who froze at the initial touch- , drawing circles onto her palms, "Then, who were you going to ask?" she asked her, completely clueless. Larissa held (Y/N)'s hands tenderly, with a form of desperation almost as if she'd disappear from her life once again, "You." she admitted, looking up from their entwined hands and towards (Y/N)'s reddened face, her heartstrings pulled at how adorable she looked, and a small smile crept onto her own. Both women felt silly, for dragging on this negativeness towards each other for years, only for it to be a misunderstanding in the end. All the avoidance and bullshit that gathered up in their nevermore years were thrown out the window, gone were the days of stolen glances across the hallway; yearning for something more only for it to never come. They were both here now, at this moment, together. Just the two of them, it made them both ecstatic. "Maybe it's not too late to fix things" (Y/N) said, which caused Larissa to arch an eyebrow, "Do tell.." she inquired, chewing on the inside of her lower lip in curiosity. But she hadn't expected the other woman to be so forward with her answer, and so considerate. "I know it won't be the same but, would you like to attend this Rave'N with me?"

"Yes."

Larissa was pleased at the prospect of being able to put their ridiculous disagreement behind them and attend together once and for all, and (Y/N) quietly laughed at her eagerness, but she knew deep down that she was overjoyed as well. just as it was intended to be. Maybe things might have worked out differently between them back then if they had just spoken to one another years ago. But now, at this priceless moment that the two women were sharing, the past didn't matter as much. With their hands still entwined, Larissa moved closer to (Y/N)’s bundled state, smiling softly at her, “Do you mind if I stay? The school day is almost over” she asked the woman, who nodded and unraveled the blanket- only to cover it around Larissa and herself. “Stay as long as you like.” (Y/N) said, moving close enough to close the gap between them, she rested her head on Larissa’s shoulder as they relaxed and unwinded beside one another. Their heartbeats almost felt synchronized, and for a moment there was silence. It was unusual to encounter someone with a warm understanding that even allowed for brief periods of serenity. In order to gaze down on (Y/N), Larissa turned her head, and (Y/N) turned her head up to look directly into Larissa's eyes. Less than a day had passed since they were last acquainted with one another, and now they were hugging. "You have no idea how much I've missed you", Larissa said, removing a hair from (Y/N)'s face  She acknowledged that it was a difficult task for her. Although she never intended to say it out, (Y/N)'s reappearance merely served as a reminder of how tough it was to lose her in the first place. She vowed never to go through that loneliness again. She would not allow a silly misunderstanding to drive them apart again. “Issie..” (Y/N) whispered, “I never stopped caring about you.” And so they both sighed in contempt as they held one another in their entwined arms, underneath their shared blanket. (Y/N) fell asleep first, she hadn’t even realized it, but being in Larissa’s embrace was so relaxing. It was like being slipped into a cloud, they fit into one another’s arms like they were made for each other. And she certainly looked comfortable in Larissa’s arms, at least to Larissa anyways. She found the woman asleep in her arms to be incredibly adorable, her hands slowly making their way to the sleeping woman’s hair, running through the soft locks as she slept. This embrace was one they would do all the time back in the day, but never this tender, never this full of genuine love for one another. The loneliness Larissa once felt was a thing of the past now, (Y/N) was back- her (Y/N). It was almost too much for the principal to handle; a woman who wasn’t used to this much affection of love suddenly getting it caused her to become extremely flustered. She was flattered, to say the least, that someone was even interested in her in that way. “Sleep well darling, please don’t let me down..” she mumbled- half asleep- before resting her head atop (Y/N)’s. Although Larissa was grateful to have fixed her relationship with (Y/N), she was still weary. She didn’t want to ruin things between them again- maybe she was going too fast? The thoughts plagued her mind, and she eventually succumbed to them. Before no time, both women were soundly asleep in each other's arms, all hatred or jealousy, or feelings of betrayal was a thing dissolved into the past. All they had for one another was love, requited love.

All that was hoped is that the dance would go well, but any worries about planning were non-existent as they got lost in their dreams. All that they dreamt of was dancing with one another, safe in the other woman’s arms. Swaying to the music; the best that they could with their height difference, as the joy and smiling faces of the students and staff were around them. A perfectly planned and executed day. But what was the rush in their dreams, why was there distance screaming? And the red? Why was red showing up in their dreams?

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@deepchopshopdetective

[baconside]

I... wasn't trying to sound aggressive or anything? Sorry. And also, you seemed to misunderstand what I meant. I'm.... not going around calling people slurs? Infact I never called someone I don't know qu**r since I know it offends some people? Like, your right in that I should've read more thoroughly and I apologize. That L is mine to bear. That and I wasn't clear that I meant kinda just. The gay-pride movement and all had a lot more.... 'punk' to it is what I am trying to get across? A lot more not caring what cis-het society thinks. Also I never called you a terf. I said terf's tend to want in-fighting and stuff to come up. I think they're mentioned a lot of the time because there's the gold-star lesbian and aphobia and all that stuff which comes from them trying to exclude people outta the LGBTQIA+ community. So with the 'no qu**r as umbrella' and stuff as that tends to read off as something like that when people use to use it as a slogan and a rallying cry. I didn't intend to make the aids crisis sound less dire than it is. From what I know, however, terf's also used that to try and weasel into the community? Am I wrong about that? Thats a genuine question, not rhetorical. I guess I just saw, as you said, your post as a more personal attack and I am sorry about that. I misread and im sorry.

EDIT: Also i accused you of like. that bit with "Younger than you" and im sorry about that. that was rude and bad of me.

so many of y’all on this website do not have an inkling of a clue what it means to reclaim a slur and it shows

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Okay, let's break this down before I block you because I am beyond out of spoons for this now and can't deal with it anymore after this.

1) "Stupid" is considered an ableist term. That's not up for debate either. And it's not, as you said in these tags, "watering down the term ableism" by calling an ableist term ableist.

2) Speaking of ableism, complaining about my tagging this as "discourse" because it could be potentially triggering to some is also ableist. Saying it's ridiculous to tag it that way is ableist as well. People can't control their triggers, and shaming them for having certain triggers is, again, ableist.

3) Another thing about these tags: I'm not reducing sapphics down to that. At all. And, again, still not excluding anyone. Still not a meme just for lesbians.

4) "And if you call me neurotypical, you’re a hypocrite!" I didn't and wasn't going to, so you can chill out. Why would I even do that...?

5) "I guess you’re exempt from any mistake! It’s not going nowhere, you just don’t want to apologize or understand." I never said that either lmao. And I don't have to apologize for your misunderstanding of a meme???? A meme whose meaning I repeatedly explained to you. I did, however, apologized for the misunderstanding of what I meant and explained it to you, and I apologized that this upset you.

6) Again, I saw your reply. You can stop acting like I didn't. I already explained that situation.

7) "You are not the spokesperson for m-spec sapphics, you do not get to act like you are and speak over those of us who are just because you personally don’t agree." And you... are? Because otherwise, why are you acting that way? I never said I was and never acted like I was, but go off, ig. But I'm not acting like a spokeperson for mspecs and I'm not speaking over anyone by explaining the meaning of a meme to you, stating that I'm not excluding anyone, telling you that it's not a lesbian-specific meme, and saying you're making incorrect assumptions & rude remarks.

8) "Again, I apologize for triggering your dysphoria. I don’t know why you’re not responding to my other reblog, but I did apologize before (and I do mean it, I’m not a woman either and I’m sapphic so this isn’t half-assed, I understand it’s shitty). I was too afraid we would get in an argument about the definition of sapphic and in that process I fucked you over and I’m sorry. (See? You’re being incredibly awful to me and at least I can give you basic respect. Respect isn’t earned.)" Yeah, so even if you truly are being genuine, you're being passive aggressive as fuck about it, and I can't believe nor accept this "apology."

First off, "Again"?? That's passive aggressive, especially with the line through it. Second, "See? You're being incredibly awful to me and at least I gave you basic respect. Respect isn't earned." You're right; respect isn't earned. So I don't know why the fuck you're expecting respect out of me when you started this by being disrespectful and combative and continued to act that way. And no, you are not giving me basic respect by giving me a half-assed apology, saying I'm being incredibly awful to you, and acting like you're better than me and like you deserve brownie points by basically saying "See?? I did this thing I think is good, and you're just a sack of shit and can't even do that." Which, if I recall correctly, you did quite literally call me a "bag of shit" in one of your tags 🙄

9) "It'd also be much improved if you were actually a safehaven for sapphics." Again, passive aggressive. And that honestly just deserves a "go fuck yourself" for how disrespectful it is.

No one you have an issue with is going to listen to you, care what you have to say, and do anything you're asking of them if all you intend to do is scream at them, insult them, harass them all day, and make untrue assumptions and reaches about them. And you can try to tell me that your intention wasn't to have a fight, but this whole time, I've you've been is antagonistic, aggressive, hostile, and combative. You forreal came at me looking for a fight. The only time you were slightly civil was when you apologized, and like I said, that apology does not seem genuine whatsoever.

I'm sorry about the misunderstanding. I'm sorry this has made you upset. I'm sorry my explanation is unsatisfactory to you. But I am not sorry for making a meme about an experience/feeling that I and countless other sapphics have. A lot of sapphics joke about hating men, including mspec sapphics. And a lot of sapphics gush about their love for women and will only gush about their love for women, even if they 1) do feel comfortable & safe talking about their love of men, 2) don't feel pressured by society to stifle their love for women, and/or 3) don't have internalized bi/pan/ply/omniphobia. For example, I don't have internalized panphobia, I don't feel uncomfy talking about my attraction to men, and I don't feel pressured to hide my attraction to women. And still, I really only talk about my love for women because I'm aggressively queer and want everyone to know, I get more girl crushes than guy, and I just... fucking love women so much. And aside from all of that, as someone stated earlier in the thread, there are mspec sapphics who legitimately don't like men and aren't attracted to them.

There is nothing wrong with making a meme about something that I and other sapphics feel and/or joke about it. This is a sapphic blog, so sometimes, I make sapphic, woman-loving-oriented memes. It would be great if you'd respect that.