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unluckyxse7en · 5 months ago

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Few days late, but happy pride from your local doofus who, despite intellectually grasping that nonbinary can be anything outside the binary and is not stuck on some invisible slider, only JUST really had the realization that he can identify as "a guy, And More" literally a couple of days ago and therefore still id as nonbinary

All bc his brain is slow and was subconsciously placing genders on an invisible slider that went against his technical understanding of gender theory

Happy pride, you can do whatever and be whatever, don't let your brain play mean tricks on you this June kids!

#im nearly 30 and have grasped on Some Level that gender isn't so limited for at least a decade now #but clearly my brain is either slow on the uptake (very like me) or still hung up on archaic gender models from society (also like me)#bc when I thought about identifying as enby after realizing im a trans guy it emotionally felt like a regressive move #ie my brain had this guy-nonbinary-girl slider fsr that I felt like I was moving backwards on #and while backtracking back to nonbinary which I did ID as wasn't Bad #it felt Wrong to say that's what my gender was #i didn't want my gender to be 'guy except not' and I only realized this past week it's Allowed And Ok to be 'guy except More'#and that counts! entirely! im just ! so freaking slow if no one spells out these concepts to me istg snfjsjfjskcns #so yeah! hopefully it's not just me and maybe I open someone else's eyes with this #or at least maybe someone already went through this neat lil epiphany and Gets It #internalized transphobia cw #ig??? idk if that's the cause or not but just to be safe #blablablah #trans #nonbinary #happy pride

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