#idk. just because the bi ppl u personally have met are gender conforming monogender / cis ppl doesnt mean thats all we are
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oh no. ppl being biphobic to bi4bi ppl in m/f relationships again. that their relationship is always inescapably heterosexual. (something coincidentally straight ppl say the exact oppisite to.) oh no ppl saying them being t4t is a copout.
ahahahah. not like my rights in my bi4bi couple are just as at risk as the rest of you so called "real gays"*. not like my relationship is fundamentally unable to pass as cishet. not like even when I pass as cis I'm unable to pass as straight & get called names & clocked & stared at anyways. not like being in a m/f relationship offers me any real safety when all bigoted straight ppl care about is me performing heterosexuality properly, something I (just like you) am fundamentally incapable of.
#*so called bc i think throwing bi ppl under the bus is really fucking horrible.#i think claiming bi ppl r 'faking' being gayer than they r should revoke /your/ gay card if thats just something we can do#biphopia#bisexual#bi4bi#ppl literally think me and MY ACTUAL WIFE couldnt b together bc they think we're both 'just gay'#m/f is not some inherent safety#& it is NOT inherently 'heterosexual'#& im at a point where if i see you say so#or see you only mention het t4t & never bi t4t (both worth mentioning)#im blocking you#fruitpost#fruitvent#truly just positioning cishet as the default we must opt out of rather than something some of us just never are & never have been#& will never be#nice cissexism & heteronormativity there babe!#idk. just because the bi ppl u personally have met are gender conforming monogender / cis ppl doesnt mean thats all we are#ikik 'its just shipping' but thats just in the op!#ppl in the replies are straight up being biphobic to real life bi ppl#taking biphobia as a simple 'shipping debate' allows a trojan horse for actual real life biphobia#but for some reason ppl refuse to see that.
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