#idk. I strongly encourage everyone to unfollow me

[itspileofgoodthings]

this is your reminder that if I don’t follow you on tumblr I still love you.

[fosteraudios]

I apologise for other ppl aswell if they come of too strong, that’s the world where we live in and no,you are not ‘entitled’ to tell ppl anything keep being u. Ik I’m not perfect either a little while ago I wrote an apology because of an impulsive comment not js by me but someone i know. I’m great friends with someone who asked you that what you be & race question. It’s stupid and uncalled for. Also that person who said you are entitled and not tell ppl to fuck off is even more uncalled for, you have every right to be you,post whenever you want,do whatever you want, add any plot twist, pls don’t feel discouraged because of any of these and keep making wonderful content, also a little reminder that little kids are on the internet and can make comment that they may not think is harmful—I’m not really into the rp style rn but a little while back I introduced my friend to your channel and other rp channels to show support—they have a 14 yr old and 11yr old niece that use their phone occasionally and only recently did I discover that they watch your channel and comment on tumblr( I think one of them sent a comment to you recently idk) and obviously I don’t have any right to tell kids or anyone what and what they cannot watch and your channel isn’t very nsfw thankfully (ignore ppl who encourage that). I’m not saying that ik everyone who say these things or pointing names and most are anonymous but you are doing amazing ik I’ve said somethings or made some mistakes in life(in general especially younger me) that left as a teachable moment and your handling this very mature, pls don’t stop. Ppl love you and content (English not good) have a good weekend 💞💞

That’s just the sad truth of the world and I’m honestly not convinced some of these ppl are ten yr olds😒 with how accessible the internet is, but anyway you don’t owe anything or daily posting btw and you definitely don’t need to reply to shit. Bye bye ❤️

I cannot change the fact that people under 16/18 watch my content, however inappropriate it is for them to be exposed to these kinds of mature themes and however much I wish they wouldn't.

I do however feel extremely uncomfortable with people as young as that interacting with me in comments, DM's and asks.

I strongly advise underage people to unfollow me, don't listen to the channel, or at the very least stop interacting with me or asking for my attention.

It's not my responsibility to age-check every listener to my channel, but it is my responsibility to set boundaries with who I interact with.

And FWIW - I do consider my channel to be NSFW because there are several mature themes no 11-year old should be exposed to. Just because I don't do graphic sexual scenes doesn't mean it's not mature content.

[ranseur]

Hi, I don’t want to unfollow you over a misunderstanding, but that one post you reblogged seemed like you were pro-shipping? idk, I do agree that it’s not cool to say that anyone should just stay in the kitchen but at the same time shipping underage characters and abusive relationships isn’t... good?

I’m not great with words but I didn;t want to unfollow you over a misunderstanding

Hey thanks for reaching out- I really appreciate the opportunity to clear misunderstandings. This might get long, because with an anon ask I feel like I've only got one chance. I also want to do my best to be nuanced, so I'm sorry, please bear with me. "Pro shipper" is a new term for me actually, and it feels weighted so I'm not confident I'll use it correctly. I'll just use my words as best as I can. My beliefs are that ships do not directly reflect a person's moral values. Everyone has the self-governance to like or dislike a ship for their own reasons, and the responsibility to evaluate their own consumption. 

I do not condone underage relationships and abusive relationships in real life. I feel very strongly about equality and kindness in real relationships both romantic or platonic. I just believe that real life issues can be compartmentalized from fictional media. 

These might be poor examples, but off the top of my head: playing violent video games is not associated with making people want to commit acts of violence in real life. And certain music (WAP) is not leading to the deterioration of society. 

Regarding the post about the DMs with the young person on twitter: there's also internet history lessons on why I don't believe in actively policing what people create or consume, no matter how much I personally dislike it. (I'm not sure if you're too young to know about the livejournal days of fanfiction, pre-dating AO3.) Without getting too far into detail; it is dangerous and very very difficult to try to meaningfully censor creators/consumers based solely on their ships.  But leaving those ships and shippers in their corner does not mean I am encouraging them. I think it's more productive to support real life preventative causes and donate to children's charities or domestic abuse services. All that said, you don't have to agree with me and you are free to unfollow me if that's what you want. I would be delighted if you stayed, or messaged me off-anon so we can have a back and forth, but ultimately I want your time on tumblr to be one you enjoy, with or without my blog.