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rolandkaros · 5 months ago
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idk if this is what you meant but this is what i think: some people's support of wta players is a bit performative djhkdn they think watching women's sports makes you a good person and they want to be percieved that way, so they list a bunch of players they aren't THAT invested in
well, sure, but i think there are a ton of different shades of the core idea. there are definitely performative fans but that's true of almost every sport (every fandom, even), and especially in a place like tumblr where i think there's more of a push for a harmonious collective than places like twitter or instagram.
again i think it's really all about social value. you're far more likely to get called out for ignoring the wta than ignoring the atp. which, to some extend i think is fair, but i also think it suggests that aligning yourself more with the wta than you'd prefer is more about being perceived as neutral than actually being perceived as good. and i think there's even a whole separate conversation in that.
and it's important to point out to that this happens outside of tennis and outside of sports and i don't think it's like...explicitly always a bad thing. even people who are being performative still understand the importance of associating (or not associating) with particular groups. is it disingenuous? sure! but if someone is being performative about their support of the wta, at least that shows they knows they shouldn't be apathetic. and generally i'd say it's a good thing that the "social norm" is engaging with women's sports. i.e. people are already "holding themselves accountable" in a way to the way the landscape of sport is changing. it's no longer acceptable to ignore women's sports.
which does lead to some...frustrating complications. big sports twitter accounts take advantage of women's sports all the time to get clicks, even though it's clear by the vast majority of their content that they don't care. broadcasters bring on under-qualified analysts because they know they need to cover women's sports but they don't have specialized personnel. big journalists publish shitty, poorly researched stories because stock is much higher now than it was a few years ago. as a consequence they drown out the smaller journalists who have covered women's sports for years and actually know what they're talking about.
anyways, that's more to do with the wider landscape of performativity with women's sports, and not so much individual users. no one is going to make any money off of pretending to like the wta on tumblr dot com. which is to say i don't think there's a whole lot of motivation for fans to drastically overstate their interest.
but i will say, if you follow someone for a bit, you can kind of tell if they're really not that interested in wta, in which case it's pretty easy to just unfollow and move on. performativity is annoying but it's not the end of the world for something like small social media accounts.
i think i used to get quite incensed about this, because i've spent wayyy too much time in the 2010s defending women's football on the internet (consequence of the uswnt being considerably more successful than the usmnt lol). but most of these fans don't have truly poor intentions, and i don't really achieve anything by getting upset about their preferences (even if it may be the result of bias). it's easier to curate my own corner of the internet for my own preferences than convince people to post about something they're just not that interested in.
tldr: yeah there are definitely some performative fans but what else is new, there are plenty of much more harmful fans out there and i'm glad we can at least acknowledge that we should care in principle if not in action
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thatfeelinwhenyou · 3 months ago
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hello !!! this is my very first (and maybe last, since i'm not very active on tumblr) ask to you, and i don't usually interact with other users on here BUT after reading safe & sound i just Had To come out of my online shell to tell you how much i love it (which is A LOT)
ever since i read part 6 of safe & sound, i've not been able to stop thinking about the series like it actually has me in a chokehold. i honestly needed a chance to wax lyrical about it and what better opportunity than to the author herself! i think i'll have a lot to say (atp i haven't organised my thoughts yet so the following part might be pretty stream-of-consciousness type shit) so here we goooo~ 1. CHARACTERISATION & PLOT first of all, the plot is just so good. icl a good found family plot really does it for me, i just love seeing the progression from unfamiliarity (or distrust in this case) to having sm care & love for one another. i think stepping (clicking) into this fic i alr expected a bad ending (at least this is my current Hypothesis) bc i feel like it's quite difficult to get a happy ending w apocalypse-type material, but i never expected to get this attached to any of the characters while reading.
i feel like a difficult part of writing plots with a large group (i did a bit of stalking on your tumblr and realised you can speak chinese - in chinese i think this is called 群像, which i think expresses what i'm trying to say better) is having a distinct characterisation for each member of the group (and 8 people is a Lot), but i feel like you did it so well in safe & sound !!! i mean delegating each enhypen member with a different role might have helped with differentiating them, but i think what's more impressive is how you managed to distinguish their personalities, which also reflected their assigned roles ??? idk in my not-as-genius-as-yours mind i think that's really difficult to do, and i think you did it so well.
and when y/n joined the group, i really loved how she was integrated into them as well. although she didn't have a very specific specialisation, i really appreciated how she was able to contribute to the group in ways the other characters aren't able to - genuinely i feel like being able to carve out that space for her in a group with 7 people already is really tough. not just that, i loved how her own distinct individualism was preserved even after she joined the group. i think in general it's just very difficult to keep a consistent characterisation as each character moves to different environments, and i love how you let y/n's personality shine through even as she moved into a new environment, surrounded by new people. maybe this is a low bar, but i've consumed so much media where writers fail to carve out this space for the newest addition to the group, and instead, just dilute the character's personality until they were merely a shadow of who they were before joining. i hate it when characters are sidelined like that, and i'm so so grateful that you didn't do that w y/n.
another part i loved about safe & sound is y/n and jungwon's backstories. for y/n, her backstory just provides such a logical justification for her later individualism, and at the same time, is an incredibly plausible scenario to happen in an apocalypse. the logic of it all just… stuns me. not only that, but somehow, in her backstory, you've managed to weave in commentary about human nature & our inherent fear of death - honestly, how the hell do you manage to do so much w/ such a small part of the plot???? i'm very very much in awe with your brains <3 jungwon's backstory is just so… logical too. like i have no better word to describe it. it just makes So Much sense, and explains so much about his character, and how he became their leader - bc he's the one coming up with the plans all the time. i'm genuinely just IN AWE with how smoothly the story flows in terms on logic… like wow. WOW
something i like about y/n's characterisation is her brains and independence, yet she still cares to maintain her morals & humanity <3 idk i feel like in a lot of the (fictional) media that i consume, many female characters are either intentionally dumbed down or they're strong and smart, but they often cross moral boundaries (like in those revenge k- and c-dramas e.g. the glory). i think this characterisation of her makes her a little more relatable in this unrealistic setting of an apocalypse - while none of us have gone through an apocalypse before, most of us try our best to be a morally upright person, and as flawed humans, obviously sometimes we slip and we fail to do so, and we have to grapple w the consequences of that. y/n mirrors us in real-life in how she also grapples w her own morally grey decisions, it's just that her circumstances are different: it's about survival - her literal own life - for her, and so every decision she makes is magnified.
this is very subjective, but i just LOVE having mcs who are 势均力敌 - equally matched in terms of brains and brawn, and there's no hint of power imbalance between the 2 of them. like, idk, i just love seeing two complete equals who have sm respect for eo work together and fight against the world together, developing synergy along the way. and that's literally jungwon and y/n. ALSO i love the way you describe jungwon and y/n's synergy LIKE being able to tell what the other person is thinking just by looking at them??? MWAH CHEF'S KISS i loveeee this kind of plot.
interlude: omg this was only one (1) point and it's already… 6 paras long ERRR i fear it's only going to get longer i'm sorry…
1.1 THEMES icl the themes in safe & sound are a bit too big-brained for me to fully comprehend but i'll just share what i've understood & appreciate about them oops HAHA
i've not read/watched many apocalyptic books/shows, but i can see how discussions about morality & human nature are very much integral in media of this topic. what i really appreciate, though, is how you've managed to balance different perspectives on these themes. exploring a variety of perspectives through different characters, and aligning each character's understanding w their personality, is something that i feel takes a lot of consideration, and i'm really grateful for the amount of effort & time you've put in to weave thematic discussions in so organically.
(wait i'm ngl i hit the max character count for an ask in the next para :insert skull emoji: i never knew that was a thing so… ig you learn something new every day! anyw this review is now going to be split into 2 parts [hopefully not more] so look out for the next part in your inbox HAHAHA)
Hello!!! I’m so sorry it took me a while to get to this—I really wanted to post Part 7 before I replied to this because you touched on so many topics that I wanted to discuss but cannot do so without spoilers. And I also wanted to take the time to internalise your views and articulate my response as clearly as I could. Because what the actual fuck?! First of all, I’m in awe of your level of emotional intelligence and the way you’ve analysed this fanfiction down to details I didn’t think anyone would ever bother dissecting.
Secondly, the way you broke things into paragraphs, expressed your appreciation, and offered your own perspectives on the themes… I was genuinely shocked (in the best way) when I saw your ask come in. Like someone actually took the time out of their day to write this for me??? Thank you so, so, so much. I saw in your next ask that you mentioned being a lit student, and as a literature girlie myself, I feel honour-bound to respond in a way that scratches that exact part of your brain.
1. CHARACTERISATION & PLOT
I feel like it’s important to say that the roles each member plays in this story took a long time to plan—especially when it came to plotting the crucial story beats. I’d often find myself wondering, Would this specific member actually do this? And then I’d have to remind myself: I’m literally writing a fictional story. I can do whatever I want.
Still, it was challenging to write Y/N into a group that already functions like a well-oiled machine. But I think that’s what makes her character so powerful—her individualism, her impostor syndrome, the way she unintentionally disrupts the group dynamic. That friction forces everyone out of their comfort zones. I tried really hard to preserve her individualistic and slightly stubborn nature throughout, because without that, the plot wouldn’t have made sense—especially when she ultimately justifies her decision to leave. Bottom line, I just thought it didn’t make sense to dumb down a female character who supposedly managed to survive almost a year in the apocalypse alone. Which brings me to the next point. 
There were so many moments while writing where I’d scrap entire scenes because they contradicted something earlier. I don’t know if it’s because I’m a painfully realistic person, but I hate when the media I consume doesn’t align with logic. (Like characters waking up in bed with perfect hair and makeup—terrible example, but you get what I mean.) That kind of stuff breaks the immersion for me. So I’m really grateful that you picked up on the effort I put into keeping things consistent and believable. Then again Jungwon is supposed to be blonde in this, but that’s for my own guilty pleasure 🤭
And this part of your message: “while none of us have gone through an apocalypse before, most of us try our best to be a morally upright person, and as flawed humans, obviously sometimes we slip and we fail to do so, and we have to grapple w the consequences of that. y/n mirrors us in real-life in how she also grapples w her own morally grey decisions, it's just that her circumstances are different: it's about survival - her literal own life - for her, and so every decision she makes is magnified.” Yes. Yes. And YES. That right there encapsulates something I’ve been trying to get across but couldn’t quite articulate: it’s not just about survival���it’s about how survival complicates morality. The desire to stay morally upright is still there, but when the stakes are your actual life, every decision gets filtered through a different lens. I think what's human isn’t perfection, but the struggle to still do right by others, even when it costs you. And Y/N stumbling through that messiness—falling short, doubling back, trying again—that's what makes her so relatable. So thank you for saying that so beautifully! <3
I also think Jungwon and Y/N are equal but opposites in a really interesting way. Y/N doesn’t know how to function within a group—she acts on instinct, often alone. Jungwon, on the other hand, is constantly factoring in others—he’s always thinking of the potential consequences, trying to protect those around him. I’d describe them as 互补不足—mutually compensating for each other’s weaknesses.
But what makes their dynamic so rich (and honestly, heartbreaking at times) is that they’re both trying to do the right thing—they just have entirely different methods of getting there. Y/N is reactionary, emotionally driven, and shaped by isolation. Her independence isn’t just a character trait, it’s a survival mechanism. Meanwhile, Jungwon has leadership ingrained into his very being—he’s strategic, deliberate, and bears the burden of decision-making for the entire group. Where Y/N acts from the gut, Jungwon acts from the mind. And that creates tension, especially when they're forced into situations where neither instinct nor logic alone is enough.
They also mirror each other in their loneliness. Y/N is physically alone for much of her backstory—she’s used to depending on herself. Jungwon, despite being surrounded by others, is emotionally isolated because of the weight he carries as a leader. In a weird way, they understand each other not through similarity, but through shared pressure—just manifesting in different forms.
That’s what makes their chemistry so quietly powerful. They frustrate the hell out of each other, challenge one another, and yet, there’s this slow-burn recognition that they see each other. Not the roles they play, but the people underneath. And it’s through each other that they both start to change—Y/N learns how to trust others, and Jungwon learns to put himself first sometimes, to act with feeling rather than just calculation.
And thematically, they represent that core tension you talked about in your following ask—emotion vs reason (which I will touch on in much more detail later). Y/N and Jungwon are that dichotomy brought to life. But instead of one triumphing over the other, their dynamic asks if it’s possible for both to coexist, even when the world demands they choose.
So yeah… their relationship might not always be tender in the conventional sense, but it’s incredibly intimate in the way they unravel each other’s defenses, layer by layer. No grand declarations, just a slow accumulation of understanding. Which in a world like this? Feels even more intimate than love.
Next part to your ask
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dalishthunder · 6 months ago
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I've noticed the game of go update post on Tumblr not long after it came out, put a pin on it in my brain to read it when I got the opportunity... only to find I can't see any of it anymore because I don't have an account :( (I'm not a writer, only a reader, and I feel bad about taking up space on the charity-run servers when I provide nothing of value.)
If you only want registered people to see it, you do you, I ain't here to convince you otherwise, I'm just saying maybe the lowered accessibility is at least part of the reason behind less engagement? You've lost me at least, much to my own chagrin, so :(
(... Please excuse the anon message, I'm a shy bastard, another reason I don't have an ao3, tho I'm trying to get a bit better by commenting on there as a guest)
That would make sense, thank you Anon. I've just been going through a lot in my personal life so when I finally mustered enough energy to finish writing (an actual monumental task recently, I'm trying to find a doctor because it's gotten so bad) the chapter and posting it only to be met by near silence I did have a few "what's the point?" Moments. Because I can always write for myself alone and just keep it on my computer, that's a lot less fun than sharing it on average... But I also don't have energy enough to cook for myself 95 percent of the time anymore (even pasta or setting up rice in my rice cooker can be too much sometimes) let alone go out and do things or write or anything at all other than sleeping so... Idk
And I've also been struggling a lot with feeling lonely, I moved completely across the country and while as a general rule of thumb I am doing better in that I don't have to deal with a dead end job or my parents, it's been hard making new friends... And it's been harder realizing that yes, I do actually care a lot more about 99% of my irl than they do about me, and kind of just confirming those fears and that if I didn't message them first they really never would reach out again... And in some cases still don't.... Even on holidays.... (One of my 'best' friends told me that if I expected him to respond that he would just grow to resent me and tbh I've kind of felt like even worse shit since then. Also realizing that essentially none of the irl friends I had come to know and love have of their own volition asked me how I'm settling in or what have you (even if I ask how they're doing...)) so I guess I was hoping that posting it would make me feel better? It didn't... And I understand that putting my works as only being viewable by users does put a small access barrier up
But there have been a lot of bad actors popping up more and more frequently. Whether they're bots who send upsetting things or people scraping works for ai, or straight up stealing them to post on other sites to take credit and/or sell.... It's been a nightmare landscape for the creative community and I know I'm not alone
Idk ..
Sorry for venting anon... I originally wanted to be inspirational about not being afraid to take up space and I ended up thinking about why I've been off and getting very sad.... But I can tell you I did meet an amazing friend by commenting on a fic and we still talk a decent amount like 3 years later. Probably the most consistently?
So uhhhh??? Sorry I woke up early and it's still very dark out and I'm mad because I could still be sleeping and if I'm gonna wake up early the least the universe could do was make it light out lol
I guess???
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astrxealis · 3 years ago
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woa ... lots of twitter people moving (or just getting ready just in case. or yeah) here fr
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spideyladman · 2 years ago
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Hii, I'm doing a research project abt tumblr and I wanted to ask around what tumblr users think are positive (& negative) aspects of this hellsite. Like what do you think of the community, why do you think people keep using it, why is it different from other socials, etc.
I'd love to hear different opinions about this :)
Oh cool!! I always wanted to tell my opinion about this hellsite lol
Well, first we start with the Positives and then the Negatives on how the hellsite functions, then my opinion about the community and why I think they might be using this hellsite, and then how is it different from other socials!! If I missed some things then I am sorry ^^"
POSITIVES
It has a Staff that can interact with people and even a Secret Staff blog!
Most people are nice and are actually chill, unlike other socials *cough* Twitter *cough* *cough*
Even if it seems hard to try and work around this hellsite, it's kind of like AO3 (only more colourful lol) so no worries about trying to work around it, you'll get your head wrapped around it soon!!
Polls. Just. Just polls in general.
There's a trending page where you can possibly find a new media to look into!! If you don't like it, it's okay, you can just move on.
There is something in Settings where you can block tags and it's honestly amazing and I am thankful for them putting that.
NEGATIVES
In a lot of users' cases, they get shadowbanned for no reason. Which means if you activated notifications to them posting prior before that, you can't anymore. Plus you can't search stuff on their blog because they are shadowbanned for some reason, and they also delete the chat button on their blog. Also if you get notifications but when you click on it and see nothing, that is quite surely a shadowbanned blog. Which means if you have a mutual who has been shadowbanned and they try to reblog something from you or tag you in a post, you legit can't see it >:[
This hellsite is broken most of the time from what I hear, and I honestly can't blame them, I too have experienced a part of it: there was a time where I was trying to reblog something from my IPad and the post button was at the bottom of the post. If I switched my IPad off, when I switched it back on I legit couldn't see the bottom of the post and I tried and I tried, but I couldn't scroll to the very bottom of the post, which made me feel really frustrated. I'm honestly happy i got the app on my new phone (which I am currently using to write this post). Idk if it happens to other Tumblr users but I'm putting this here just in case.
It's more of a user problem then a hellsite problem but users don't put triggers in their posts even if their life depended on it. It really sucks because it can ruin a person's day completely.
There's a tag limit (30) and it sucks tbh xd
Some users harrass a lot of people and I think Staff don't bat an eye on that issue sometimes.
Bots. Just. Just bots everywhere.
COMMUNITY AND MY OPINION
This community can bring both joy and anger on this site, just like in any other website, though I wish that sometimes they didn't make something really infuriating start trending *cough* Taylor Swift *cough* Helluva Boss *cough* *cough*
Despite all of that, I can see that there is care and love for other types of content and they can help people cope with problems they might have at home, which is why I think is why they keep using this site, because they now have mutuals (online friends) and it's honestly sweet seeing how people can vibe about a piece of media together :"]
WHY IS THIS SOCIAL MEDIA SO DIFFERENT?
I believe it's because it helps people get into a zone of comfortness. While yes we joke about there being Twitter refugees and we must kick 'em out, sometimes I believe that the community doesn't remember how they got here. This hellsite is a place where people can get out their excitement over a piece of media without people judging them (though sometimes it is much to people's dismay *cough* Serial Killers *cough* *cough*).
I personally think of myself as an Instagram refugee. Even if I haven't used any kind of social media apart from YouTube after getting rid of my Instagram account and before getting my second Tumblr account, I believe so because, Instagram made me feel pressured on posting because what if people unfollow me for not posting enough content? Do they hate me or something? What would they think if I like Steven Universe? What would they think if I don't post enough? ...What then?
When I actually put my entire body inside of hellsite water I started feeling more comfortable and I realised that compared to other websites, even with this hellsite, even with its ups and downs, I call this hellsite my true home. I can scream, I can shout, I can feel like my true self, and that's what really matters :"3
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I hope you like my response!! ^^
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lilyspond64 · 2 years ago
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Hi :D
May I have a team (:
ok i scrolled through your page and you seem pretty normal. and by pretty normal i mean you havent said a single thing that points me to anything. you have literally nothing showcasing ur personality i can pull from nor have i ever met you before. there's nothing wrong with that necessarily it just makes this a little harder.
ok. so. im gonna have to go by your name. sorcery and socialism. uh. pokemon is a game about magic and shit. and uh. socialism isnt really... a type.
ok so im making the executive decision to assign you a personality in my head based on your message, your reblogs, and your username.
ok you have been psychologically analyzed to be an electric type user. take it or leave it. the team may or may not fit you.
1. Magnezone
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Through my psychic analysis I discovered a love of funky oddball thingamajigs. Magnezone is the funkiest guy imaginable. Also, technically it's extremely sticky. Idk what that has to do with anything but you can do with that what you will.
2. Zebstrika
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This is a safe pick, cause if given the choice between having an electric zebra and not having an electric zebra most people would take the electric zebra every time. Of course, this is a foolish thing to do; most of the time keeping an electric zebra is impractical and unattainable. In this case it is neither, so I am assuming you enjoy having this electric zebra.
3. Raichu
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Everyone likes Raichu. You give me the vibes of a pretty cool person. And like I said it's hard to discern anything about you. Raichu is the same, cool but a pretty not noteworthy Pokémon, just because its line is so popular that saying that you like it is like saying you like pizza or something.
I'm not saying you as a person are not interesting. You seem interesting. I'm just saying that I could not figure out these interesting things about you from your tumblr post.
I'm actually kinda scared I'm being super mean right now and let me just tell you that you could be the coolest person ever and I would not be able to tell because I have such little info to work with, yknow. You're not uninteresting as far as I can tell.
4. Pincurchin
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Ok I may have lied. Through my psychoanalysis, I have figured out that you may enjoy the occasional goober. Of course, this may be a misinterpretation of your vibes, because believe it or not, I am a really shitty judge of character.
Anyway, here's a Pokémon that isn't playing it safe because I'm scared to offend a stranger. Here's the pin cushion sea urchin. Who's an electric type.
It's also the only nonlegendary electric surge user. So. It's good for your teambuilding!
5. Oricorio (Pom Pom)
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Oricorio is based on Darwin's finches. I feel like evolution as a concept is very integral to both sorcery and socialism. Things must change over time, whether thats the air temperature around a fire ball or the model of politics and economics we are using.
Oricorio here also uses electric dance moves to zap its opponents. And you seem like a fan of that kind of thing. As far as I can tell.
6. Galvantula
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You like giant electric spiders, right? You've gotta like giant electric spiders. I mean, come on.
Ok, that's it. This is the worst one so far. You're not boring or uninteresting I just could not discern anything about you from your profile alone (the other people I did I know from elsewhere and also make a lot of posts themselves)
You seem like a very nice person though, so I do think this team is fitting of a cool, friendly person. Don't be disheartened that your explanations weren't as detailed or your team as hand crafted. I'm not a mind reader as much as I'd like to pretend I am.
I hope you like it and if you don't, remember, no takebacksies!
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jimines · 4 years ago
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Whats actually happened between you and taemaknae? I read about it on the tea blog and still confused
This is an insanely long story so I'm going to put it below the cut so for anyone interested in this absolute shit show, continue on.
Essentially, I posted these headers about a month ago:
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It was a set of like 8 colours and it was the first time I had ever posted any headers or anything. The issue nic had with these, was the ripped paper bottom. Because apparently you can trademark that. I had asked a (now ex) “friend” of mine if she knew where I could find the ripped paper effect because I had seen the effect on the header of her network blog and I had been trying to find a similar thing for months and google images never gave me anything good. She ended up referring me to google images anyways and after like an hour of dedicated searching, I found this ripped paper effect and used it. This ex “friend” went on to tell another friend of mine that I had "asked where nicole gets her resources for her headers" and then screenshotted my dm as "proof", which still confuses me because I never mentioned nicole there lmao. I've seen the screenshot.
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Tell me where I said nicole. It was literally just a question born from seeing the header they had on their network lmao. I feel it’s important to mention I didn’t know this person ran said network at that time, which is why i said “these people”.
This other friend then came to me and just said my headers "may be seen as similar to nic's” and said she noticed it on her own and never mentioned my other “friend” approaching her. I was confused because other than that ripped paper effect that I know many people on tumblr use, I saw no similarities. Nic's headers are usually more complex and more than just a coloured background with a little effect in it. I just wanted to make some simple headers for fun because I was bored. But, regardless, I messaged nic about it to make sure she didn't feel the same way. I told her a friend of mine was worried nic might think my headers are similar to her's and I assured her that if she found them similar I would take them down, no questions asked. Nic told me she was surprised this friend brought it up and told me that it was entirely up to me if I found the headers similar. She never once told me she felt they were the same, never mentioned anything about them, she insisted it was up to me to do as I pleased. So, since I genuinely found no similarities, I left them up.
About a week went by and things between nic and I were fine, or so I thought, based off the fact that she was interacting with my posts, sending me cute asks and replying to a lot of my comments and stuff being kind and whatnot. Then, I decided to post a small list of my creations and the series I had running at the time. 
After that, all of a sudden I got an influx of rude hate anons:
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To anyone I mentioned the anons to, they agreed with me, you cannot trademark circular icons. This anon also accused me saying “just the fact that you had an anxiety attack about it proves you copied them” Like no sweetie, it’s called three strangers walked into my house and I got anxious.
Despite me not seeing the issue, I messaged nic, assuming she wouldn't care about the icons (it wasn't like I was taking her exact work and copying and pasting them as my own) and that made her very upset. When she responded to me, she was incredibly heated and gave off the vibe she was waiting for me to message her about it. 
She said things like "this has actually been bothering me for a while", "i expected you to be able to read between the lines and delete the headers", "i don't know who that anon was but clearly they recognize my style". For starters, she never told me that she was annoyed with me, she was being very kind to me publicly. And I have no idea how I was meant to “read between the lines” of what she said especially considering how kind she was to me the following days. I also never accused her of knowing this anon, she just insisted it wasn't her and she didn't know them right off the bat. She also insinuated that I copied my gifs from others as well, which ticked me off because I made my 100+ layer psd myself thank you very much. But I kept my cool, and I told her I had no idea she felt the way she did, and I told her I would delete the headers (which i did as the conversation was going on), and that I would stop posting my icons and bringing attention to them because no one ever paid it any mind before that point. And I asked her “please tell me straight up the next time you have an issue with me because I am generally pretty dumb with social cues”, I have my adhd to thank for that. And instead of replying, she just blocked me. And conveniently, the hate anons stopped dead right after we blocked each other and I haven't received any since.
Also, these are the kinds of icons I posted:
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Looks pretty generic and idk, universal, right?
Then, as I've recently found out today, she was in an "anti-loverjimin" groupchat with at least 2 other bloggers. 
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Which explains why this all went and fell into place. I know who the two other bloggers are because of what happened two days later but I won't name them just yet, but these two people had been "friends" with me for several months. So, a day or two after nic blocked me, all of a sudden some good friends of mine were blocking me and not talking to me when I asked what was going on. I found out soon after it was because nicole and those two now ex “friends” of mine had taken old dms I sent them and were showing them to people. And I will go into detail about them but I won't name the people they are about for privacy reasons.
Before I move on, to clarify some lies nic has been spreading about me, I never once shit talked nicole to my friends. One of these ex friends also said I was trying to get people on my side. I would have reacted to this all very very differently if that were the case. I would be dragging everyone through the fucking dirt but I don't get off on drama or micromanaging what my mutuals do. My issues are with these people, if you're still friends with them that's your decision i could not care less. So, back to it, the only thing I said about nic was that she and I had a stupid small fight over icons and that she was spreading lies about me, based off of what nic said to jordan.
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That exact message, or slight variations of it, was sent to anyone I interacted with because I didn't know if nic was going to stop at jordan or try and get to everyone I fucking knew lmao. Some of the people I messaged this to told ME nic had done this kind of thing before, that she has sent hate anons, launched hate campaigns, cancelled people, etc. Over stupid shit like icons lmao.
Here are some responses I received after I mentioned nicole:
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And nic or one of her friends also took it upon themselves to send anons to that tea blog to blow shit up and named everyone and made it an even bigger mess when they saw no one was actively trying to fight me after the dms got out. 
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I also love that in this following ask, they named my two “friends” that were behind the whole dm drama and backstabbed me, as well as two other people I never badmouthed, that story was twisted. But we’ll get into those details shortly.
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And she also told people I clout chased big blogs and only cared about notes. At one point, yes, I did care a lot about my statistics. However, never once did I think clout chasing was worth my fucking time or energy, Nic is the biggest clout chaser on this damn site and there are receipts of that, ask jordan lmao. And I couldn’t give two shits about my statistics anymore lmao, much less anxiety that way. Do I still crave validation sometimes? Sure. But it's not a driving force of my tumblr experience like it used to be.
But, moving on to the dms, the first one was sent when I first came back to tumblr full-time and didn't understand why people self reblogged things, I found the pretence of self reblogging annoying and greedy and I complained about it and it was a comment fuelled by two bloggers that i would see sr a lot on my dash. But I never thought THEY were annoying, as these people are saying I did, it was self reblogging I found annoying and as you can see I have come to understand why people sr and I do it myself too. I didn't even know these two bloggers at this time either. That dm was cropped to hide the fact that this "friend" agreed with me and hid the date as well so it seemed recent, and was sent to one of the bloggers I mentioned as an example, someone I had since become good friends with. 
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I didn’t befriend one of the people I mentioned there until mid to late June. That friendship is now over thanks to this drama and all the lies. The second friend of mine they went after was never spoken about in dms, they went and turned her against me through lies and manipulation so that friendship has ended too. And while those two were doing that, nic went off to try and turn jordan against me.
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There was a particular user on here that I did say some nasty things about but we weren't friends, as many people have been made to believe. I was particularly mad at this person in those dms and was hurtful, I admit, and I have since apologized and owned up to all of it to these people. I did call them fake and/or two-faced. 
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And what in the gassing me up bullshit was their response though lmao. I also sent this following dm before I even talked about the issue with this person. They urged me to continue and to name drop the person, and I stupidly thought they were trustworthy.
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My reasoning for what I said wasn't unwarranted though, I don't make a habit of going around shit-talking people, unless they do something to me first. I vent when I am upset and this person had sent me a passive aggressive ask and then denied sending it when I asked and I thought that was just very fake, especially since she was so kind to me in dms before the ask came in. But all of these dms were cropped too to hide timestamps and responses, and in most cases, like those screenshots prove, these "friends" either gassed me up or egged me on to continue ranting or to name the people i was mad at and they had agreed with me on several, several occasions. Turns out they were trying to get dirt on me to use in their cancel campaign. But the point is, nic has made me out to be this horrible person that befriends "big blogs" (an overrated statement) and then shit talks them behind their back without remorse. Yet it was one person I said rude things about and I, again, owned up to it all and apologized to them the first day. I would've done it sooner had I a) remembered feeling the way I did all those months ago or remembered the dms themselves or b) felt that way still after meeting them. But neither is the case.
I find it really amusing though that these people wanted things to be kept quiet and didn’t want anyone they spoke to to talk to me about it because I was going to “out them on my blog” and “make a big scene”, then they three went and made it a big fucking scene and ruined my friendships. I’m familiar with this pattern of manipulation as it has happened to me in real life before and it’s the most childish bullshit to witness.
Before this callout day for nic, I had never once been directly rude to or about her, same goes for those ex “friends” that betrayed my trust and friendship. The fact that they plotted against me in a group chat while still actively talking to me and being all buddy buddy is just disgusting. Both of them were talking to me that day at the same time they were sharing the dms and shit-talking me to my friends. But yeah, that's my side, the untwisted side, of the whole story. I tried to be mature and talk to nic and when I didn't do what she wanted me to do, she blocked me and launched the hate campaign with dms and the power of photoshop. I’ve been hesitant to make any of this public because it was meant to be a silent ordeal but I’ve grown tired of her constantly publicizing everything without consequence while I remain silent like I promised.
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tuiyla · 3 years ago
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Really curious on your thoughts on the gif “flops” and such, mind explaining? 😂😂
Okay so. I've touched on some of this while answering other asks but I'll lay out all thoughts here. We'll try to connect them but no promises lol.
So if I understand correctly what tumblr means by flops in general, it's when a post, in this case gifset doesn't get many notes. It's all relative, but say I have a general idea of how many notes Glee gifsets usually get, depending on the ch/ship. And then I put a lot of effort into a set, as I do with most of them, but it ends up getting like a third of the notes other sets do, at best. We'd call that a flop, right?
I don't measure it like that; in fact, I don't really measure it? Of course we all want our work to be acknowledged and even appreciated, of course. Fandom content creators do their thing for fun but a crucial part of fandom at large is the engagement with others. It's just, the way I'd measure it is not by number of notes because honestly, that means little nowadays. I think the Glee fandom is actually better when it comes to like-reblog ratios than a lot of others, maybe because it's small and generally consists of "older" tumblr users (i.e. in their twenties rather than teens). But on tumblr at large the like-reblog ratios are whack. Likes don't do anything on this site, and crucially from my perspective they don't say much. Sure, a like is appreciated but like I touched on yesterday, I'm here for the tags. I'm here for people reblogging and sharing their thoughts. Okay, you liked or maybe even reblogged, bestie, but what did you think?
So, in my eyes, a set flops when I get little to no fun tags that tell me what people thought. I could get hundreds of likes and I'm not saying that'd be nothing, but honestly it wouldn't be much. And especially with the kind of sets I like to do, where I try to either tell a story or build a theme, I really really like hearing what people say. So some might consider 10 notes, 5 reblogs and 3 of which have fun tags a flop, but I'd genuinely take that over 100 likes and no fun-tagged reblogs. It's not that black and white, people can also comment in the notes or send messages, but tumblr is built around the reblog system so that's what primarily matters to me.
That's one side of it. But with all that said, I also kinda just move on the next day, anyway? For example, I posted this set yesterday. After like two hours I was already content in the knowledge that it wasn't a flop because I got cool tags from people and was happy with that response. Today, I was already working on a new one and though notifications about this one do feel nice, I think that initial wave of reblogs already passed and I don't mind much, either. Even if, say, it "flopped" by my own standards of tags, I still would have moved on today because I just have too many ideas to focus on how one I've already posted is doing.
I suppose that's a novelty thing, too. I spend so much time on some gifsets but then time really passes quickly and with such a small fandom, there's not much to expect in terms of how long it will be making the rounds for. And because I have other ones to get to, I don't mind. So even if I don't get those fun tags and by most definitions a set flops, I do feel kinda bummed about it for a time but that time is usually a day, max.
Maybe it's different in big, "new" fandoms. I'm sure it is at least slightly. And maybe people who are more active on other social media platforms, unlike I am, feel differently. I'm sure others appreciate likes more than I do but I just can't help but think that a) they don't do much on tumblr and b) they don't tell me what a person thinks. And honestly if I could I'd make creators less afraid of flops. Not that it isn't an understandable reaction, but when we put too much into this idea of flops (and slays? I guess?) it stops being fun. And I'd like this to be fun, so I allow a newly posted set that half a day and move on.
Idk if these are the thoughts you expected haha, and sorry about the delay but hopefully I could offer some food for thought.
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new-tella-us · 5 years ago
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Komahina Oneshot
Komahina ft. Trans Hajime. Another Tumblr inspired post. The tumblr account is catboymoments. Gotta give credit where credit is due.
If you didn't know that this is very gay and trans then idk how you got here but I'm happy to have ya.
But seriously, this has some pretty big trigger warnings
- Gender Dysphoria
- Complicated pregnancy
- Mentions of abortion
-PTSD
Anyways Onto the Oneshot!
Wow! I'm Pregnant! We're gunna have a happy family! Except...I'm a guy.
I feel horrible... This has been going on for about three days now. Mornings are the worst. I can't tell why. It's starting to worry Nagito and it's not like I can fake it, I tried. You can't fake puking. I can at least fake being somewhat lively.
...I need to get up. Need to get moving. Need to- Nevermind! I need to puke! Fuck... This feels disgusting. Maybe I should try and diagnose myself, or have Mikan help me. I felt a pat on my back; I knew it was Nagito but, I couldn't look at him while puking my guts out. When I finally finished desecrating the poor toilet I got up. I was sweating, pale and covered in whatever I managed to puke up on an empty stomach. I flushed the toilet and washed my face.
Nagito gave me a worried look. What was once an 'are you okay?' question turned into, "How are you feeling now?"
"I'm better," I responded. There wasn't much else to say, "I'll get this checked out soon, I'll just give it another day or two."
Nagito face turned stern, "Hajime, you need to get this thing checked out today! This has gone on for too long." He went out of the bathroom and grabbed his phone, "I'm calling Tsumiki-chan."
"Nonono! It's okay Nagito! I'll do it tomorrow! I can handle this myself!" I responded, a bit panicked. I never liked getting help from others, it didn't feel right to bother someone over something I can do myself.
"You said that yesterday. I'm calling Tsumiki-chan." He said in a more stern voice. I couldn't respond, there was no point in arguing with him when he's like this, plus; he's right. He made the call. I didn't hear Mikan's side of the call but, from what I can hear on Nagito's side, they made a time, 1 pm. He hung up and looked back at me, his glaze softened.
"Let's get you something to eat, okay?"
"Yeah," He smiles softly and gave me a small kiss on the forehead before leading me out of the house. But, while we were walking towards the cafeteria, a little voice told me something.
You know exactly what's happening.
I shook the thought away.
...
Breakfast was, mostly, fine. Only going to the bathroom once! Now, I have some time before I have to talk to Mikan. Nagito insists that I rest but I've gotten bored of doing that. I decided to just walk around the island. It was a really hot day and I was getting tired so, I couldn't walk for long. Huh, that never happens, I usually have more stamina than that... Maybe Nagito was right. Well, Nagito is usually right. Maybe I should just listen to Nagito more.
I started walking back, only taking a break to puke near a tree. Now, I'm really sweating, shaking too. I felt light-headed. Then, an unexpected helper appeared. She put my arm on her shoulder, behind her neck, her other hand supported me from my side. I didn't look up, I didn't need to. Her light orange kimono with scattered pink cherry blossoms gave away who she was.
"Hey Saionji..."
"Didn't listen to Komaeda again?" She knew it...
"Nope." I responded with as much satire I could muster.
"You're an idiot."
"Yup" Indeed I was but I could think about that a little bit more when my head wasn't spinning like crazy. Hiyoko helped me back to my cottage before leaving me to enter it myself. I opened the door and both Nagito and Mikan were sitting on the couch. I guess she came early.
"Hey guys, it seems like you were both waiting for me. Sorry about that."
"I-It's fine Hinata-san. So tell me a-about your condition. I've only seen g-glimpses of it" Mikan said.
So I explained. The morning sickness, the lack of energy and stamina. The fact that I can't even walk around the island without becoming pale and out of breath. Mikan thought about it and started checking her tablet. I assumed that she was looking up what this could mean before her eyes widen on something.
"I-I....I never knew this. Umm...I'll b-be right back." She seemed nervous as se got up and practically ran out of the house.
You know where she's going, you know what she's getting
There's that voice is again. I have no time for hallucinations or weird creepy messages.
...
Mikan returned after a few minutes with a little rectangular box in her hand.
"Welcome back, Tsumiki-chan. Now, are you going to explain why you suddenly freaked out like that and left?" Nagito said.
Mikan's gaze fell on me. Her look was almost unreadable. It's very unlike her.
"Hinata-san. Are you trans?" She asked bluntly.
"Wh-What?! What made you ask that??" I panicked. How did she know? How did she guess??
She turned her tablet to me; my profile was on it as was everyone else's. She pressed one of those special info buttons and a symbol appeared next to my profile picture.
The Female Sex Symbol...
Silence...
...Shit...
"I'm surprised that you didn't realize that this button exists. After all the creator of these tablets had a member who's entire case was solved because their sex was revealed." Mikan said. She always did have more confidence when she spoke facts. I didn't have anything to say, neither did Nagito. Mikan handed me the box; it was a pregnancy test.
"I w-won't ask. That's your b-business..." Her timidity returned. No, she won't ask because she'll get her answer depending on what I say or do. I could hand her back the test. I could lie and say I'm a virgin but, that wouldn't help me...
I got up and went to the bathroom...
...
......
...Are...Are you serious...? The test came back positive?! I...don't know how to feel about this... At least I know what's happening to me and probably why it's hitting me so hard.
...I feel too sick for this.
You knew this was coming.
'Izuru...not now. Please.'
You know you can't fully get rid of her.
'Who are you talking about?'
As if to answer my question, he materialized but not as himself. He materialized as a young girl. A girl that looks a lot like me.
'Fuck off, Izuru. You know that's not me...'
Is it not? It's who you once were.
'That was never me! She was someone else. Just a person of the past.'
And that way of thinking is what got you here. It's time for you to face the facts. You may be a boy but, you're not male. You forgetting that is why that test is positive. You took a chance, you were risky and here you are.
'We're done here.'
I was steaming. I couldn't listen to another word that fell out of that man's mouth. I needed to calm down. I took some deep breaths and left the bathroom. Mikan left but, Nagito was still there. I wasn't concerned with him knowing that I was trans, he already knew; he would have to know since he's...
"So, what happened? What did she give you? Are you okay?" he asked but, I had a feeling that he knew. I didn't want the mood to be sour. Having kids is supposed to be a good thing so, I wanted to lighten the mood with a pun.
"Well, I guess I should be invisible."
"...What? What do you mean?" He looked puzzled.
I looked at the pregnancy test. "Well, I'm a trans-parent." (Yes, I took this pun from the same tumblr user)
He looked at me, still puzzled, for a few minutes before he realized.
"...oh. Oh OH! You don't mean-" He looked happy, so happy. He gave me a hug, "Oh my god! I've always wanted to be a dad!"
He has? Great... Personally, I never wanted kids. I used to but, secondary school... changed me and showed me that really, I don't. But I can't just make a split second decision, he seem so happy...
"Yeah, but can we discuss this a bit more? I have my issues that I need to address."
His smile faded a bit "Uh sure"
We both sat on the bed of our room. I didn't know what to say. I don't know if I want to do this but, it would feel wrong just to abort with no conversation.
"So umm... Nagito. I...I don't know if I'm- we're ready to have kids. I guess I'm kind of worried?"
Tell him the actual reason, Hajime.
"I don't know what effect this might have on me and I'm scared that I might not be a great dad..."
Hajime...
"Is that the reason?" Nagito asked.
"...Yeah"
If you don't tell him, I will.
"..." I wasn't going to say anything but, Izuru kept on his threat. I lost control of my body.
"He has gender dysphoria" Izuru said, "So this pregnancy is reminding him of his uncertainty. The place he used to live in was not the most accepting of transgendered people"
Nagito fell silent, he was stunned. Damn it Izuru... did you have to be so blunt? I got control of my body back, I couldn't even look at Nagito, I felt so ashamed, I was putting my anxieties above a life. It felt...wrong. Or is it a life? It's a clump of cells but, it can become a life. I've been around too many mixed influences. I wish I knew which decision was the good decision.
Then again..
Is there truly a 'good' decision? On one hand, I'm killing a potential life and that will haunt me but, if I'm not ready to be a parent, I'm bringing a child into a world neither it nor I'm ready for and with a current war having, it's not like adoption is an option and, like Izuru said, it forces me to accept-
"Why didn't you tell me?" Nagito asked. He didn't sound mad, he sounded sad and even a bit guilty, I didn't answer, "I'm sorry if me saying that pressured you." He gave me a hug. I felt so guilty. "I can't say that I fully understand but, no matter what you choose, I'll be in your corner."
"I'm gunna give it a week or two then I'll make my decision," I said nearly in tears, "thank you for being so supportive."
...
It's been two weeks, I thought about it everyday. I was already two week pregnant so with another two weeks, the time for abortion via safe mentions was soon ending. I hesitated and swayed back and forth on my answer. I truly didn't know for a while. But, about two days before my decision I found myself sticking to an answer. I'll stick with this pregnancy. It might help me get over my gender dysphoria, maybe not fully but, somewhat? Plus, it's quite an efficient way to tell everyone that I'm trans. And who know, maybe I'm a better parent than I think I am and with Nagito, I feel like I can take it. It's sort of strange; I'm aware of all the health risks, the mental tax, the problems and possible sadness but, I feel like I can take it. I feel calmer know that I at least, have one person- well two people with Tsumiki, in my corner.
"I'm keeping it" I said with a hug.
"Really? You sure?" Nagito asked.
"Yeah, we're gonna be a family." I smiled, it wasn't fake.
But of course, like everything else in my life, it didn't come without complication. I was already pregnancy four weeks and was just feeling more exhausted. Another week had passed and I kept feeling worse. I didn't know why. I felt exhausted and cold. I was exhausted but not tired, not sleepy. I was awake and shaky. Nagito called Mikan again when he started to notice how pale I was getting. She said it was Iron Deficiency Anemia along with Hypertension. Two things that were really common in pregnancy. She gave me medication for it and it did help but not fully.
At about 8 weeks, I told the group about me being trans and about the child. Mikan recommended to do that instead of immediately because that's when the risk of a miscarriage goes down to less than 10 percent. The group was so happy to have two children born at similar times. Yes, two! Sonia and Gundham were having a kid as well. What a coincidence! Sonia insisted that we started talking more about it.
12 weeks in and everything has been going as smoothly as it can. There's still work, there's still complications, sleeping is an issue, I have been diagnosed with Insomnia, this pregnancy has also made me more dependent on Nagito and has given me more time to think and I don't know if I like that... But, everyone's been really supportive, they haven't treated me any different and because I have a bit more time, I can hangout with them more. I've learnt a lot more about Sonia. I knew a bit about her, like that she's into witchcraft and serial killer documentaries but, she was also into slice of life novels so, this was a dream of hers. How cute.
Weeks 16 - 30 can be summed up here. They all passed the same; excited conversations, preparations, fun little talks, work, insomnia, exhaustion, etc. What was really note worthy was while Nagito went out on a mission to the main lands, Makoto brought back a fluffy white dog, a Great Pyrenees puppy. We agreed to keep and so when Nagito came home, I surprised him with the dog. At first, he was silent, then he started crying; I was scared the he didn't like the dog but, that changed when he went up and hugged the dog, he was so happy. Apparently, this was the exact breed of the dog Nagito used to have. Wow, how lucky. He sat with it for hours before being willing to pry away from it and go to sleep. We decided to call her Lucy.
Fast forward to week 37, about 3 weeks before we thought I was due. I was pulling an all-nighter on this one project to have it done by tomorrow. I knew I was pushing myself but I was almost done, I wanted to free up my schedule so I can have more time with my baby. Nagito, however, was starting to get concerned.
"Hajime, it's really late. You should rest."
"I'm almost done, okay? I just need to finish this last assignment and I'll be in bed. Just give me about an hour." I said, trying to easy his concern.
"Alright.." He didn't sound too convinced but he did leave.
I continued to work on my project and the time flew by until in the middle of my assignment, my stomach really hurt, more than usual. Do you really need to kick that hard, Future Child? I tried to continues working but the pain would just come back worse every time. Maybe I should just go to bed... I tried to get up and walk back to my bedroom but the pain sent me down the floor, everything hurts...everything hurts...I couldn't even scream, I was in so much pain...I felt something wet trickle down and I knew what it was at this point. I didn't know what to do, I was crying. Was I going to die? Was I just going to have to give birth here and now? What can I do??
Then, my savior came into the room. No not Nagito, Lucy! She took one good look and me and went sprinting out the door. I could hear her barking and soon she seem back with Nagito.
"Hajime!! Are you okay!?"
I wanted to say something to something to that question; 'yes', 'no', 'shut the fuck up and call Tsumiki' but, I couldn't let out a sound. Luckily, he took the hint and called Mikan.
"Tsumiki-chan. I'm sorry to wake you but, Hajime may be going through contractions? Please help?!"
They talked for a bit, I could barely focus. I just remember Nagito carrying me to the bathroom while talking to Mikan. I don't know if she was just fast or if I blanked out for a bit but, Mikan was there before I knew it. They both briefly conversed before they got me dressed in a cheap, long white shirt and set me down in the bath. Mikan started sticking needles in me, I don't know what for and she was still talking to Nagito. She finally looked at me and told me to count my contractions and how often they happen. After each one (Because it hurts too much to talk during contractions) I would tell her, when she decided that they were regular enough, she grasped my hand a little and told me to take a deep breathe. I did. Then she told me to push.
That's when it hit me, this was happening now! Oh my god, I was not ready for this but, I don't have much of a choice. So I pushed. Oh god it hurts! I felt like my bones were breaking. She then told me to breathe again and I did, we repeated this until the water started to turn red with blood.
Blood...blood...
Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...Blood...
Blood? Did someone die? I felt like I was somewhere else. I was watching the murders of the student council again, so much blood...like a perfect quality horror movie, I saw them all murder each other clear as day, every person, every stabbing, every slicing, every shooting, all the bloodshed, clear as the day I first saw it. I never forgot any of their faces...
Then, as if it couldn't get worse...all the murders, all the executions...all the blood, clear as day. I was just watching, unable to do anything. Nagito...Chiaki... They were gone. Was my happy life all a dream? Is this the reality I'm truly in or am I hallucinating and this is the fake reality? I can't tell, I can't tell... I want out of this nightmare! I hear voices in the distance, at first I couldn't understand what they are saying but, as the voices got louder, I could slowly understand. Were they calling me? I got my answer.
"HAJIME!" Nagito shouted, dragging me back to reality. I panicked at the different scenery. My heart was pounding, threatening to rip out of my chest. I looked around to see where I was, I was in the bathroom. I couldn't keep my vision still.
Nagito cupped my cheeks, obviously trying to calm me down. "Hajime look at me, okay?"
I tried to focus my vision on him, his eyes full of panic and worry.
"You're having a panic attack. Whatever you saw, it's just an illusion. You're okay, I'm okay, everyone is okay. Please try to calm down."
My throat was dry and hoarse but, I took a deep breath. I continued to do that until I became calmer.
He smiled down at me "Good...good."
Mikan then piped up, "Komaeda-san, I'm sorry but, we do need to c-continue with this..." Then she got an idea, "If blood is a trigger to Hinata-san then can maybe he should just look at you instead. I'll still need your attention Hinata-san but, just keep l-looking at him."
"Yeah, that's a good idea." Nagito agreed. I just nodded. So Mikan continued with her instruction and I kept my eyes on Nagito. It made the birthing a little easier to see his smile and soon enough I did my last push, I felt a weight leave me and while I was still sore, it didn't hurt nearly as much anymore. That's when the fatigue washed over me. I could feel myself passing out already.
"Hey hey...um, I know you're tired but, can you stay awake just a little longer please? Just until Tsumiki-chan says it's okay. Please?"
I didn't want to, the work should be over by now but, I could do it. Voices faded in and out, I was barely able to concentrate. Then, Nagito gave me a kiss on the forehead.
"You did it Hajime! It's okay now, you can rest." His voice was quiet and soothing.
"...Great.." I replied groggily before falling asleep almost immediately after.
I fell into a deep, very needed sleep. It was relaxing for once. No dreams, no nightmares just, floating in the darkness. But, I had to wake up.
The sun was shining through the curtains, not too much sun but, just enough to give the room a bright warm haze. I still felt sore but, it was much better than last night. I sat up and yawned.
"Oh good morning, Sleepyhead." Nagito said, playfully. He was sitting right next to me, looking at me with a warm smile. "I was wondering when you were going to wake up."
I felt a bit out of it, it seemed so peaceful right now, I just wanted to bask in it for a while. I took the time to notice things around me, like the fact that I was wearing something different; it was one of Nagito shirts and my boxers. I also noticed a little crib in the far corner of our bedroom with what looks to be a baby inside.
"Do you want to see your child?" Nagito asked.
I could only nod. He got up and went to the crib, picked up the small child and came back to the bed. Handing me the child he said,
"Meet your new baby son"
I held the child gently in my arms and at that moment, everything became worth it. He woke up and looked at me. I was expecting him to cry but, instead he just giggles grabbed my finger. Now I'm the one whose crying!
Nagito chuckled, "Don't cry on the baby!" He said playfully but, he was crying too.
He gave me a kiss, "I love you, Hajime"
I returned it, "I love you too, Nagito"
We both held our son and I knew, deep in my heart, this was the right decision.
We're a family now!
If I got something wrong, please tell me. I really tried and I wanna get it right.
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universe-punk · 7 years ago
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Regarding Tumblr's Hoity-toity NSFW Ban
Okay, spending a while on YouTube has informed me that apparently this ban has a lot to do with child pornography on the site? Like JFC, I've been on this site for years and never once encountered that shit. I DO get endless follows by porn bots who are subsequently visited for a laugh that you thought I'd follow your straight porn blog, and then blocked with the quickness. But I never encountered anything that fucking heavy. What's worse is that people outside the app legitimately think most Tumblr users are just scum of the earth, emo, murder-condoning, butthurt SJW's however that works with no true goals or morals, and Tumblr effectively killing itself is exactly what we deserve.
Anywho. Tumblr is trying to hit a massive health recovery and put itself back on the Apple App Store as a result of this content by basically nixing the MAJORITY of its NSFW content. While this isn't bad in theory, whatever system is in place is clearly either in its infancy or incapable of performing its ONE job: filtering out NSFW content. It's flagging posts that aren't NSFW, and upsetting pretty much EVERYONE.
Now, idc about them removing pornography. I can get that on an actual porn site. It'd be amazing to stop getting these fake follows from bots.
However, as an artist, I DO have a problem with how this will affect art on Tumblr. Apparently some exceptions will be made, but every artist no matter the medium now will have to hinder themselves if they want to show nudity. Even if they do put it up, they might find themselves in a constant state of fear that, eventually, their work will be removed. Not to mention sexual intercourse is not allowed in art anymore, which sucks because IT IS A DAMN PART OF HUMAN NATURE AND SOME ARTISTS MIGHT WANT TO DEPICT THAT IN THEIR WORK. Child pornography has absolutely NO place anywhere. I don't think anyone I know, follow, follows me would disagree with that. But the suggested and newly implemented system for fixing this problem is CAUSING MORE ISSUES THAN IT IS FIXING.
I personally have been planning my own graphic novel series, and I've even posted my art on a different account; some of which features mild male nudity. In my series, there WILL BE sex every once in a while, and I'm damn proud of that. I do not appreciate the fact that the place where it would likely receive the most attention and build a fanbase is now somewhere I couldn't even put it. Certainly, placing all one's eggs in one basket isn't really a good option, but as I said before, it would likely get the most attention here though apparently this is no longer the case. So, yes, naturally imma be a salty ass bitch about it.
This is a future problem, though. The problem currently all around me is artists I follow are having their works erroneously flagged as inappropriate. Many of them have built substantial fanbases here that they are immediately expecting to lose and have worked damn hard to build over time. As someone at the beginning of such a task, I KNOW it's not easy or fun to wait for your art to pick up. Migration is an option, but this is just the result of y'all thinking your saving grace NSFW removal option will fix your underlying issues when, really it's just exposing how mismanaged this site is. Other users are constantly complaining about hate speech and malware links and bots and so forth, but this was apparently something y'all could let slide because it didn't get you removed from the Apple App Store. IDK how Google let you remain. But you need to actively work to solve these issues in a constructive manner, not destructive. Because that's all you're doing. It's like your ship is burning and instead of putting out the fire, you kill the whole of the damn crew 🙃
So, all in all, this new system is suffocating current users in anxiety, driving many of them to other sites, and alienating Tumblr from future use by a lot of its users—ESPECIALLY the artists. To make a move like this that doesn't fully account for the genuine people here makes this decision seem like the staff doesn't actually care about its content creators. I get that it's a business and being in the App Store to continue obtaining and maintaining the means in which you generate revenue is important, but even from a business standpoint, stressing out practically every user you have with this errenous flagging as you work at nixing NSFW content (which will drive more people away than bring in) is A PROBLEM, NOT a solution.
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1. Do you have any sort of “secret” goals or dreams, where you think about doing something a lot, but haven’t told anyone about it or actually made steps to achieve it? Maybe something you aren’t quite serious about, but still like to consider? >> I’m not sure. I don’t think so. Making goals isn’t a thing I’m really into. I don’t like to focus my life on one thing (moving to New Orleans is the only thing that I’m focused on, and that’s causing me enough grief because I can’t really do anything about furthering that process, it’s just a waiting game), because it has a tendency to tunnel my vision. I like to be open to as many opportunities as possible, and also... what kind of goals would a person like me have, anyway?  2. Does your town/area have a farmer’s market? Do you ever buy your vegetables there rather than grocery store? >> There are probably quite a few, but the one I know about is down the road from me. I haven’t been there when they start selling foodstuffs yet; I’m looking forward to finally buying produce from there, though. 3. Has anyone ever “ruined” anything for you (for example: your partner says, “oh, this song always reminds me of my ex” and you never want to listen to it again, or your friend is so obsessed with a movie that you start to resent the film)? >> Nah. That reminds me of Vlad, though, and how Sigma and Crystal fucking ran Repo! the Genetic Opera into the fucking ground around her to the point where Vlad refused to ever watch it or have anything to do with it. Like, damn, how obnoxious do you have to be to drive someone to that point. (Obviously if someone doesn’t find it obnoxious, then go ape-shit -- but if someone’s like “please stop singing these songs literally all the time” and you keep doing it? You’re the asshole in this situation.) 4. If you had a significant other and somehow got a chance to kiss your celebrity crush, would you still go for it? >> I don’t think my significant others would have anything against me kissing Idris Elba LMAOsdnfkglkj 5. If you still live with your parents, is it scary for you to imagine living away from them when you move out on your own? If you live on your own, how did you cope with moving away from your family for the first time? >> I didn’t really have time to acclimate to the change. I left my father’s house and drove myself straight back into the lion’s den that fucked me up the first time, because trauma does weird shit to people and in my case at that time, it made me... go back to it. And predictably, more fucked up shit happened, and I ended up back at my father’s house anyway, and then I turned 18 and got put into the hospital for suicidal ideation, and after that I was... on my own. Officially. And I had a drug-addict boyfriend, which took up all my time and energy, so I once again had no time or energy to process the fact that I was an adult out in this world that I was in no way prepared for. So, you know. I coped wonderfully!
6. Do you tend to be attracted to people that are more similar to you in interests and mannerisms or do you tend to be attracted to someone opposite/complementing to you? >> I really don’t, like... think about it. I’m just attracted to whom I’m attracted to. I trust there’s a reason for it, but I don’t make a big deal out of looking for the reason. 7. If you could choose your dream cast for a movie, name 3-4 actors you’d choose to be in it. >> Hmm. 8. Is there something that people complain about that just makes your roll your eyes because you think is not a big deal and you would gladly trade your own issues for it? >> Unfortunately, yeah, and every time I feel that way I have to talk myself out of it, because it’s uncharitable and short-sighted, not to mention dismissive of other people’s experiences and traumas. But, you know, being human, and all. It be’s like this sometimes. (It’s usually about people I don’t know, like, teenagers on tumblr complaining about... idk, their parents or something.) 9. Does it bother you when you find out that your friends have hung out without inviting you? >> This is definitely not a problem I have.
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Is there something that you would claim as the best purchase you ever made? >> Probably not. I mean, I make decent purchases, but nothing that stands out. 14. Have you ever received an unwanted gift from someone trying to woo you? Did you accept it or reject it? >> I don’t think so. 15. Do you find that you compare yourself to others often? What sort of things do you find you compare most? >> Nah, I don’t do it all that often. Like, it happens sometimes, but it’s not a big problem I need to fix or anything. Sometimes I compare my relationship with Wednesday to other people’s relationship to [their personal incarnations of Wednesday], and that’s dumb but I know it comes from my anxieties regarding religious things in general. Christian leftovers, basically. Religious trauma is the issue I need to work on, not necessarily my knee-jerk comparing. 16. 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Are there any people whom you aspire to be like? Which traits do you find in those people that you wish to emulate? >> I mean, everyone I know has at least a couple of traits that I’d like to develop more in myself. Whether I do it or not is another story, lmao. 22. Are you a registered bone-marrow donor? If not, would you be interested in registering (bethematch.org) or is there something that turns you away from it? >> I’m not, but Sparrow is. The moment she said that it’s hella painful I was like “okay, donation is noble and wonderful but uh. I’m good” 23. If someone asks you to hang out, but for some reason you’re just feeling lazy/don’t want to go anywhere, do you ignore them, make up an excuse, or just tell them the honest truth? >> Listen, people who are going to be friends with me need to know that I’m gonna need days to just veg out at home and decompress and shit, or even to just be by myself for a little while, so I might as well be honest from the gate. I’ll try to make it up to them another day. 24. Do you think it should be illegal for gas stations to sell synthetic drugs (like K2 and Bath Salts) under the guise of them being “potpourri,” or do you think it’s not the gas stations’ fault for trying to make a penny, it’s the user’s fault for abusing the potpourri? >> I do think that should be illegal, because I’ve witnessed first-hand what K2 does to people. I even tried it myself, and oh my god, fuck that shit to hell. It’s... it’s disturbing. It’s so disturbing. I wish it’d go the fuck away. And while I’m all for personal accountability, I feel that’s an unnecessarily callous stance to take when it comes to substance use and abuse. There are a lot of factors that go into substance use and abuse -- mental health, socioeconomic position, the usage habits of one’s community, social alienation, desperation... like, the nuances are myriad. Saying something like “well they could just NOT use it” is an easy way to earn my distrust. 25. Have you heard of or even read the novel, “50 Shades of Grey”? If so, what’s your opinion about it? >> Heh. Yeah, I tried to read it. I didn’t get very far. I did see the movie, though! I used to feel a lot more strongly about it, but honestly, that was a waste of my fucking energy and I was just being ridiculous. It’s not that deep. 
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selezione-innaturale · 5 years ago
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Holy COW I cannot believe I had almost completed a pretty big post about how to improve the bash user experience and tumblr ate it.
So, here’s what I meant to say:
Everyone says zsh is the coolest shell in the block; AFAIK it actually IS the coolest shell in the block, but some of the things it gets praised for are actually also available on the ubiquitous bash.
Stuff to insert in inputrc (which isn’t just used by bash, but, y’know):
set colored-stats on When you press TAB to autocomplete the names are colored according to file type, executability, etc., just like when you type ls
set show-all-if-ambiguous on When you try to autocomplete with TAB and there is ambiguity, all the possible alternatives are shown immediately, rather than after a second TAB stroke
set completion-ignore-case on Autocompletion is now case-insensitive Works with accented letters as well!
set colored-completion-prefix on When there’s ambiguity in autocompletion, it highlights what you’ve already written in purple. Not particularly useful, but I like to know it exists
set skip-completed-text on If you’ve half-typed a word and you want to autocomplete but you went back a few characters, it moves the cursor back to the point where the word becomes ambiguous. Could be improved, but it’s better than nothing
And more stuff that would be nice in your .bashrc
shopt -s globstar activates the ** globbing. As * matches everything in your current directory, ** matches everything in your current directory AND subdirectories.
shopt -s lithist When you scroll your previous history, multiple line commands are not squished into a single line. Too bad the commands from previous sessions are retrieved one line at a time, idk why
shopt -s histverify When using history substitution (the one with exclamation points, y’know) the commands are not instantaneously relaunched but are just reloaded on your prompt, so you can edit them. Maybe you feel like that slows you down, but I really like it
shopt -s autocd instead of writing ‘cd <directory>’, you can write the name of the directory only, press Enter, and it works the same.
shopt -s cdspell If you’ve made a small mistake when typing a directory name after cd, the shell autocorrects it
shopt -s checkjobs If you have any jobs either stopped or running in the background, the shell doesn’t let you exit an interactive shell immediately
shopt -s dirspell The shell autocorrects directory names when pressing TAB for completion
shopt -s extglob This enables some more features in pattern matching, which are also found in zsh (zsh has maaaany more useful stuff for filename globbing, though).
shopt -s nocaseglob Makes the filename pattern matching case-insensitive
shopt -s nocasematch Makes the pattern matching of the case and [[ commands case-insensitive. It works with the [[ regex too!
set -C aka set -o noclobber aka shopt -os noclobber If you’re paranoic and you don’t like the idea of accidentally overwriting your files with redirection (saving the output to a file with ‘>’), this option does not allow that, and prints an error message. If you’re dead set that you want the file to be overwritten, use >| instead of >: >| is not affected by this option and overwrites files anyways.
Now, I’ve barely scratched the zshell surface and I don’t know much about it; but I see lots of people praising it for the wrong reasons! I just don’t understand why many good bash options aren’t well known, let alone enabled by default.
Tldr: if you want to have a better bash experience (as the GNU project shell, it’s everywhere), check the pages about the readline and the set and shopt builtins - there are too many things they don’t tell you
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motorcyclegirlfriends · 8 years ago
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this is a late reaction to SDCC but is saying supercorp is the worst thing to happen really the Worst Thing about this show? i say this as a supercorp shipper who writes supercorp fanfic. people have seem to have collectively decided they are not part of the narrative but ya'll were laughing about the anal thing, and egging people who were, in a lot of ways, directly responsible for this reaction from the cast. like what did you expect would happen
lol babe, none of this applies to me?
Tip: If you wanna check someone’s blog to see what they’ve blogged or reblogged before for the purposes of a discussion, all you have to do is add “ /search/the-thing-you’re-getting-reciepts-for ” to the end of their url on their page, and it’ll search the words in all their posts.  (“/search/one-topic+another-topic” for posts containing two things.)
I’m strongly pro letting people move on from their mistakes, but if you’re gonna try to call people out, at least do it with accuracy.
Okay so, just a quick (turns out it’s not quick, whoops) breakdown of why it doesn’t make sense for you to send this to me (assuming that “ya’ll” was not somehow suddenly you talking to the people who are gonna read your ask and not the person you were sending it to. If not, excuse the upcoming Defense™):
1. I haven’t said that supercorp is the worst thing to happen to this show? Sections of supercorp’s shippers are currently the worst part of the fandom as it pertains to my interests (meaning idk what is happening in sections of the fandom that I don’t see), but the presence of the ship itself isn’t the cause. The presence of a fandom for the ship isn’t the cause. It’s the behavior of a few popular blogs whose behaviors have exponentially spread across said fandom.
2. Anal thing? Do you mean those kinda crude joke posts about Kara and Lena? That I’ve never reblogged?? (Also why specifically this as an example? Why did you make me type “Anal thing”?)
3. I’ve never, ever egged people on when they were acting in ways similar to how they are acting now. This includes the first wave of aggressive insults about Chris Wood. Most of the time, I’ve tried to deescalate. Have I reblogged positive content from people who also post negative things? Probably. 
(Should I try harder not to? Maybe. I’m not sure. It depends on whether it’s more effective to cut these blogs off entirely, or to reenforce only positive behavior from them. Every time I see something nice from someone who has said not-nice things, I want to be like “See? this is what you should always do!” but perhaps that’s not as helpful as it feels internally.)
4. And I have every right to refuse to be considered a part of this behavior, since I never have taken part in it and have always condemned it. If that’s what you mean in your critique of ‘I’m not part of the narrative,’ which you say is coming from some group of people that you presume that I am in.
I am in no way responsible for these bloggers’s actions, or the cast’s subsequent response to these actions. Your “like what did you expect would happen” should be directed toward the people who actually contributed to the hate??
Essentially, you’re calling the wrong person a hypocrite.
But further, your intention seemed to be to criticize someone who participated in this behavior in the past who has now changed their mind and is currently rallying against it—not realizing that this isn’t a description of me—but I encourage you to give people like this room to grow.
Are they partially responsible for how this toxic environment has thrived? Sure. But if you’re afraid that this community will be viewed as the worst thing to happen to Supergirl, you should be encouraging people to change so that the community becomes healthier, not making them the enemy because of their past mistakes.
It’s like you’re upset that people are criticizing the supercorp fandom because you’re a supercorp shipper, so instead of saying, “Yeah, some of those things are pretty shitty, but it’s not all of the fans. I’m not one of those fans.” you’re saying, “Oh yeah? Well you did shitty things too! It’s your fault this happened!” which is not helpful. Or in this case, accurate. 
As far as, “people have seem to have collectively decided they are not part of the narrative but ya'll were laughing about the anal thing, and egging people who were, in a lot of ways, directly responsible for this reaction from the cast,” as it doesn’t pertain to me personally,
I think you also need to make sure that those who are ‘laughing about the anal thing’ and egging these people on are the same people who have decided they are not part of the narrative. As in you can find both instances on each of their blogs.
Tumblr users often make the mistake of assuming that posts that they see on their dashboards which all seem similarly motivated (pro a ship or against a behavior), but that, when grouped together, have conflicting behaviors and view points, are actually coming from the same sources.
But it’s often not an accurate summation of what has happened.
You can’t really call a group a hypocrite, because a group is filled with many people with conflicting view points, even if they have the same goals. Not unless there is something along the lines of a motto or rule book each person in the group abides or actual evidence that those in the group overwhelmingly hold both view points.
And as for this group, which you claim has encouraged this behavior and is now distancing themselves from it, I wouldn’t necessarily call them hypocrites either. I’d say that they simply changed their minds.
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Which medical insurance is best for the self-employed?
medical insurance and Rx co pay
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In texas can they deny u car insurance?
I got a new car today and my bf got a ticket in my old car today. I heard if u have an unpaid ticket than I cant get car insurance on my new car... Is tht tru
Young driver trying to get insurance. Need help.?
I have been looking for a reasonable quote for at least a month now and cannot get anything better then 4000. I am 17 and passed my test in august. The reason insurance is so high for me is because of where I live. I know this because insurance company's have said that they cannot insure me because of where I live and if I change my address when trying to get a quote if I use my Nan's address instead of mine it goes from 400- to 1600. Is it illegal to have my insurance under my Nan's house? Is there anything I can do please help.
""Oh, crap...How much will this little incident raise my car insurance?""
Not too long ago, my friend skidded on a turn & took out the left-tailight area of my car. The light bulb was still working so my parents said I could go ahead & drive to school the next day; things were fine for days. But last night after the movies we were headed to one friend's house. But before we went there, she had to pick up her brother & his friends at some playground they were hanging out at. Her 5-person car was filled & so her brother & one friend needed to ride with me. I don't have my 6-months up (for being able to drive others beside family; I know, bad) but since the hangout was so close to her house, I said go ahead, jump in & we'll go home. So we head up a hill from that spot & at the very first turn, I see those nasty red & blue lights & pulled over. The cop said he pulled me over for having a tailight out (not true by the way--the whole bulb thing) & then he charged me with a nasty ticket, $532 of it for not having my insurance card with me. Which after the whole...""
How much should a motorcycle insurance cost?
A little about me: -age 23 -driving licence for both cars and bikes since 2008 (European version) -have no previous claims or penalties -I do drive cars for the company I'm working for -the bike is a 600, 2013 model -I'll buy a security device soon -was thinking of having a 150 pounds voluntary excess""
How much do you think my car insurance will be ?
im 17 and not sure what car just a small little one about 1 ltr ? and im male how much routly do u think it will cost ?
""Will the Government help us financially, with affordable health insurance plans?""
Since it's required by law in 2014 to have health insurance, will the US Government help pay for health insurance for your average family of four? Or any Non-Profits possibly, because, it's either food or insurance which is at least $400.00/month (through employer), plus all the co pays, deductibles of $7000.00+, major increases in food/gas,costs of living, with only $1.50/hr salary increase in five years. Seems to me health insurance should be affordable depending on annual income, and reasonable enough in price or there's just no way to live hear anymore, so can the Government help at all?""
Insurance Raise after Car Accident?
Does your insurance rates actually go up after an accident? If yes, how many accidents can you have before it increase? OR is it depending on how much the accident is in order for your payments to increase?""
Moped insurance/ registration question in New Jersey?
okay, well i a tomos lx. and i am the first owner. And i called the dmv, and they told me that i need proof of insurance before i get it registered. heres my question. i am 15 and i would like to add the moped to my parents insurance policy. Can i go to the DMV with their insurance policy number and get it registered, go home, and then call the insurance company to put the moped on the policy? basically i show them my parents policy number. Will they accept it? Or do i need call the insurance company, add the insurance to my moped, and then go to the dmv?""
Auto insurance company lied about coverage?
I was hit by a guy and he says his policy is 15000. His insurance company said it was 5000. What if he's telling the truth? And they are not. It's been 2.5 months since I was hit and still nothing has been done. They are waiting for a quote or some bs
How much would you estimate a 16 year old driver would pay for insurance on a G35 coupe?
I'm currently 15 and, when I get my first car, would really like an Infiniti G35. I can find them in my set price range (>15000), but my parents are worried about the cost of insurance. My parents are covered .9under USAA currently with two vehicles. I have a 3.9 GPA, play sports, and, if given the opportunity, could use my natural wit and charisma to impress someone into lowering the price (I'm not sure if this is even a possibility, I'm just saying that if it is, I could do it). I wouldn't be getting the car until after my initial 6 months of restricted driving is finished. Once again, I'm not sure if this affects anything, but maybe you'd like to know. I appreciate any input.""
Is there an affordable private insurance provider that will cover prescription medicine so I can go to school?
I have Crohn's disease and I'm attending college in Idaho. I'm currently covered by my parents' insurance, but I'm I will no longer be covered in a year. My college has a reasonably priced insurance plan but it doesn't cover prescription medications. Remicade is considered a prescription drug, which means that the plan won't cover my remicade treatments which cost about $4,000 every eight weeks. I realize I could get a job that has benefits, but I really would like to get a college degree. Is there any way I can go to college and still have the health coverage I need to pay for my prescription medicines?""
Insurance Cost?
what is the monthly insurance cost for a new cadillac escalade for a 32 year old driver with a perfect record
How much extra is car insurance if you have points on your licence from speeding?
Is it worth attending the speed awareness course or does this not matter to the insurance companies.
Applying for health insurance coverage - please help?
Do you have to have a valid social security number to apply for health insurance benefits with regence blue cross blue shield?
How much iz insurance for a 19 year old?
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How will i know which insurance group my car belongs to in UK?
is there a website to find car insurance group?
Can I lose my job for not having insurance?
I have heard so many different things. But I called my job today and I found out that they are offering insurance but it is to high to buy for me because it would cost $30 per week. ...show more
Do I have to list my step-daughter on my NJ auto insurance policy?
She lives with me. She is covered under her fathers policy. Her and her car are listed on his policy. If I don't tell my insurance company what would be the penalties? If I do tell them would my policy go up and how much? Thanks!!!
Car insurance question?
does AAA car insurance have sr22's? If so how much do they raise the premium?
Can I visit the hospital or doctor without health insurance?
I have been off of by parents health insurance for two years, even though I am a full-time college student, it's just how it was written in their plan. Here is the scoop: Two years ago I injured my knee and got treated for puncture wounds, and had some minor problems with a popping sound here and there over the years. Now, recently, the same knee is in so much pain, I almost cry. It feels like someone is sticking a flat-head screw driver into my knee and hitting it. I checked my symtoms (swollen, severe pain, weakness, loud popping and clicking, instability, pain when walking) on web md and every symptom points to a tore ALC ligament. The charts for pain match 100%. I don't have any form of health insurance, can I still go somewhere to get treated? My knee is severely swollen, and I can feel a shooting pain up and down my leg. It also feels like my knee is pulsating... Help please, I need to go get this taken care of ASAP, I was advised to for it can cause blood clots.""
Will adding a person to my car insurance (progressive direct) make it go up? by how much?
i want to add my wife and she's 24
How do I find past articles. The 1 about cheap car insurance spacificaly?
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""When buying car, do i look at the fuel efficient or the insurance price of the car?
should i buy a car that will save me money on gas or buy a car that is cheap on insurance???
Estimated insurance cost for this car UK?
hi im 17, just about to take my test and it looks like this will be my first car. what do you think the insurance will be on it. i know it will be high but i just wondered how high haha. can you ask for a quote if you don't own the car and haven't passed yet? ie a generalised quote i live in a very good area with off road parking and garage.""
How much is Motorcycle insurance in TORONTO?
I'm a 28 year old male with an M1. I'm looking to purchase a bike like a 2000 GSX600-R and i was wondering how much insurance would be a month. If you are not from TORONTO, ONTARIO please don't bother replying because the prices in Toronto are usually outrageous so if you're from somewhere else, don't bother, i'm glad you get such good rates ;) also i have rode before many times, so no comments about a 600 being too big... i grew up on dirt bikes... thanks""
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Is it legal to do this with car insurance?
I know of people who do this for the sake of saving money, but I am not sure if it is legal or not? Say Person A has horrible insurance rates to the point of where driving is impossible to afford. Now let's say Person A sells their car to their significant other, Person B for a small price and transfers the title into Person B's name, so now this car on Person B's active insurance policy. Person B's rates will go up a bit based on their cost to insure, however Person A will still be driving this vehicle on a regular basis, and simply pay Person B the additional, much cheaper premium. Is this legal? If not, how would anyone ever know the difference? Now the new""
""How do I get quotes on things such as insurance, utility cost, and building remodling?""
how do I get quotes on things such as insurance, utility cost, and building remodling when I'm writing a business plan? We finally have found a great location for a bar and grill we have wanted to open and a business plan requires a lot of estimating costs and I want to find the most accurate figures so that I can set myself up for success.""
What is a 20 pay whole life insurance policy?
if you started your insurance policy at the age of 56 how long do you have to pay for your policy to be payed out if you are 74 now
Does anybody have or had insurance thru esurance?
they are by far the cheapest i found for full coverage for me. i know cheaper isnt always better but i just need insurance because my car is financed. esurance isnt a very big name and i dont know anyone who actually has insurance thru them. anybody know how they are compaired to other companies?
Can my car be on my parents car insurance?
Im 19 years old and im buying a car and would like to know if my car can be on my parents insurance. The car will be in my name only, my old car was in their names so therefore it was on the insurance. I have been under their insurance for the past 3 years. i would like to know if im able to be under my parents insurance.""
What's the benefit of saying you have no car insurance?
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Is Northern Illinois University health insurance any good?
I really dont understand insurance that well so here is the link http://www.niu.edu/shi/information/index.shtml they charge 395 per semester
Comprehensive car insurance?
my girlfriend and i both have comprehinsive car insurance on our seperate cars... does this allow us to drive each others cars too? i dont know if theres an age limit to it? im 21 shes 19 thanks anthony
Do you have health insurance?
if so, how much is it per month? how old are you? what kind of deducatbale do you have? feel free to answer also if you do not have insurance? also, do you support obamacare?""
What are the effects of the options with car insurance?
comparing auto insurance and answering the questions(rent or own house, marriage status, etc.). Do those variables affect my premium rate?""
Do I need business insurance for my small cleaning jobs?
I'm looking to start a VERY small residential cleaning business. I would be the sole worker, just looking to make a little extra money. I'm not planning to hire any employees and I'm hoping for just maybe 2 or 3 houses a week. Do I need a business license as well as Property and Casualty insurance for something this small? Can anybody offer any advice? Bonding, insuring and licensing can be costly and if I can put this off until my business grows, that would be excellent. ANY advice is extremely helpful :)""
Can I RENT A CAR for like a Day in CA without a CA License? without Car Insurance?
I have an MI drivers license and no car insurance and no car. when I go to CA for like two months, I want to know that I can rent a car over there on random days. true? how so? please explain, i'm confused.""
Should my car insurance go up this high after an accident?
I got into an accident where I hit someone s bumper in a parking lot. I reported to my insurance company and they took care of it with $750. I was 100% at fault, and expected my renewal to go up, but when it came out, it was $800, which is 100% more than my usual insurance of $400 Does it suppose to go up 100%??!!! And this price will stay on for 6 years!!! That means by the end, I would end up paying $1800 more just to the company!! $1000 more than what I would've paid the guy!! This does not make sense to me whatsoever, first I thought the renewal was just for one year, it will go down bit by bit, but second year is still the same price! I am only a G2 driver who been driving for 3-4 years on PEI in Canada, can that be the reason? Still, $1800 extra?? Plz help me and thank you!""
Should people be required to have health care coverage like they do for car insurance?
That way if someone's not covered the hospital can refuse to treat them just like a car insurance company can refuse to cover someone who didn't have coverage with them. Problem solved, no need for the gov to intervene. Only those over 65 years old should be allowed to apply for medicaid, all other working age bodies should buy it themselves especially if they can all afford monthly cell phone and internet bills and clothes and vacations and stuff.""
Best way to find affordable therapy for a teenager with depression?
I'm seventeen years old and I think I have depression. All teenagers are emotional, I get that, but I know this is more. When I'm occupied and around people for a few hours at a time or less, I'm fine and usually even happy. Then when I actually have time to stop and think and let my mind wander, I usually feel kind of hopeless and just very sad. I also have other emotional issues, like the littlest things seem to enrage me. Also, I read somewhere that depression can cause physical issues such as digestive issues (which I have been having a lot of the past four or five months). I cancel plans a lot now, either because my stomach is acting up or I feel too sad to go anywhere and I just dont want to be bothered with people. Ive been sleeping a lot more than normal lately because thats the only time things dont bother me. When I was about thirteen I had an issue with cutting, I would talk to my guidance counselor (which is not an option now because I did home schooling and now am done with school until college next fall) and when she realized that I may have some more serious issues, she called my mom. My mom always brushed it off. She talked to me a total of one time, only when I went to my older cousin and my cousin forced my mother to talk to me. Basically, my mom got mad because I said I didnt feel comfortable talking to her and she refused to send me to a counselor, then she said she would send me to a counselor (at that time I had insurance) but she never actually ended up doing anything. So I went back to doing what I always do, pretending to be fine, and for the most part I controlled it. I stopped cutting until about seven months ago, which was also when all my other issues started popping up. I havent cut myself in a few months now, but I still have the urge to which is not okay. Depression and other mental health issues run in my family, and I keep thinking of one particular relative who got so bad that she took her own life. I know that at some point she must have been like me, where it was difficult but still somewhat manageable, and it just scares me that I could get to the point she was at. I have no insurance, and we have very little money. I know Yahoo Answers isnt the ideal place to seek advice, but I dont know where to go. I only have one true friend that I trusted enough to tell, and obviously she is my age so shes just as clueless as me. Then I have tried talking to my older cousin (not the same one I mentioned before, she and I dont talk anymore) but in her world even if the money is not readily available, when its needed they find a way, so she doesnt get the concept when I tell her I really do NOT have the money for a psychologist or insurance. Is there any websites or anything that provide information on free or more affordable counseling for teens? Im ready to admit that I need help I just need to find somebody actually willing and able to give it to me.""
Are SUVs more expensive to insure?
I know you can't tell me for sure whether or not one will be more expensive. But, generally speaking is a small SUV such as a Ford Escape more expensive to insure than say a midsized car like a Honda Accord.""
Why is barebones insurance for me going to be...?
...$150 a month for a 1985 gmc s15 4x4, valued at approx. $200 with the very basic coverage, liability only type thing. i have a 2002 chevy s10 2wd and its only $350 a month with total coverage. what the heck?! im 18, have a couple traffic violations but nothing serious (22km/h over the limit and an amended stunting ticket), i live on my own, have a steady job, and am looking for something that i can get stuck in the mud and dont give a crap about. any one know where i can go to get really cheap insurance for this? i live in alberta so it limits my choices a little from the world wide options. thanks everybody""
Car insurance expired what to do?
I bought an old car . its insurance expired on 9.7.12. how can i get it insured again?
Cheap insurance for young proffessonal driver?
i am 23 work for a car and van rental company so drive a average of 15 cars or vans a day from small hatchbacks to 90k range rovers sports BMW's mercs etc but yet i still cant get insurance for under 1200 for a old 1997 1.0 l fiat punto is there any Specialist insurance company's for people that drive professionally for a living?
Need help ASAP. Is it possible to get retroactive car insurance after a car accident?
I was recently involved in a car accident where I was at fault. The major problem is that at the time it happened my car insurance had been canceled for nonpayment more than 30 days before. Is it possible to pay the premiums that I missed and get retroactive car insurance? I'm trying to avoid a misdemeanor on my record. My insurance company is State Farm, and after the accident I immediately called them and had my insurance reinstated. I also told them about the accident. Please, I need help ASAP.""
How does car insurance work in Canada...?
Your rate start at +43%, NOT 0, correct? People under the age of 25 are more expensive because (because they're group has a higher statistic of accidents and yadda yadda...) they are a new driver and they are starting at +43%, correct? But are NEW drivers OVER the age of 25 still starting at +43%? Or the day you turn 25, you go from +43% to 0%... because that doesn't seem likely, but that is how the majority of people explain new driver's insurance. Also what is the average yearly deduction rate? I would assume around 2% on average? ***The +43% is based on ICBC's website (They said that is what ever driver starts at) ***It is +43% of whatever insurance you chose for your age, etc, and then 43% ADDED on, correct? Sorry for the ignorance of this question, but I don't live with my parents and am finally looking into car insurance. Besides, there are no bad questions, right? LOL. Have a good one and thank you!""
How much will insurance cost me?
I am 16 years old. I live in Skowhegan Maine, 04976. I will be driving a 2000 ford taurus. I completed drivers ed. My own policy, no parent to go under.""
""Conservatives, you're always claiming that Obama-care is the reason that insurance costs are increasing, so?""
regarding the 80% increase in insurance premiums, and the 11% increase in the number of Americans who did not have health insurance coverage during the Bush presidency, was that because a magical elf traveled back in time to the year 2000 to tell insurance company executives that Obamacare was coming? Or could it be that insurance premiums have been increasing at an average rate of 8 to 11% per year for about the last 15 years and the increases we've seen in the last few years aren't indicative of costs associated with Obama-care (Which hasn't even been fully implemented yet) and Conservatives are just trying to make political hay out of cost increases that are consistent with established trends?""
What car insurance provider is best In NC?
I am 18 and ready to get a car and insurance. I have responsibility's already and insurance is not cheap. I have a part time job and get anywhere from $150- $200 dollars a week depending on fluctuating hours. I need to know which insurance company is better an will provide a $250 deductible and not jack up the price too much. Which is better i understand that it is a matter of opinion but i need some opinions.
Health insurance for the poor in California?
Does anybody know how to get some kind of free health insurance in Los Angeles? I lost my job and want to go to school full time but I need health insurance. Med-Cal told me you have to be 65 or disabled
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What is TRULY the cheapest car insurance?
I am looking to get a second car and I really want to know what the cheapest insurance is. (I am 17, so the insurance will be high anyway) There are tons of commercials for Esurance, Progressive, Allstate, etc, etc but really what is the cheapest? I'm just looking for liability insurance, nothing else, bare minimum. Have any of you switched to one, and what have you saved? Thank you!!""
Regarding Auto Insurance?
Applied online to AAA for an auto insurance quote.. Currenty with Geico and AAA ssent email offering to beat the rate.. So I completed the app online nad a gal calls me back.. My GF answers the phone and she gives it to me.. So the rep from AAA asks who is living with me and if she drives.. I told her a friend and she doesnt drive, no DL for over 10 years.. So AAA tells me I have to list her on the policy even if she isnt licensed and never drives a car.. So I said No thanks and said goodbye. whats the policy on roommates having to be insured for auto insurance? Not listed on my current GEICO policy.""
Cost to insure sport bike? Ninja 250?
I'm 18 in WIsconsin. Live in country-ish area. Or how do I find out? Call our family agent? Or just the insurance company.
""Insurance cost, coupe vs sedan?
How large is the difference of a subaru brz coupe and a kia optima sedan? If the factors are constant besides the cars for a 16 year old male?
Help with health insurance in Delaware.?
I need: dental health 0 deductible 20% or less I can pay out of pocket basic emergency just in case copay doesnt matter Also, have not been to doctor in a while except one time I had insurance they told me to lose weight and I had to get blood test all good readings. And also, I need test for my hearing and sleep apnea test. I am looking for a quote for type of insurance that covers this and basic coverage for anything else I might need thank you and have a great day.""
My dad says a 2 door car would be more on the insurance. Is this true? PLEASE ANSWER!!?
We went out looking for cars today and every 2 door car we saw he just kept walking by them. I dont know about him but Im a 2 door kind of guy. He said 2 door cars would be more Insurance. Is that true? I wanted to get this 2 door Cougar or maybe a 2000 or 2001 or 20003 Monte Carlo. WOuld that type of car add more to the Insurance? I really want the monte carlo. Im gonna be putting about $1400 down & the car cost no more than $5000.
HELP help help! Prego and no insurance
ok i applied for insurance (blue cross blue shield) right when i found out i was prego (I am 3 months now.)I told the salesman i was prego. He said he will get my cards out to me asap. 3 months passed and i was waiting for my cards. Then i spoke with some1 else i told them i need my cards cause im prego they said OH NO u can not apply while bein prego. Soo they denied me. WHAT DO I DO!! Medicaid wont accept me. Can i call another insurance company dont tell them im pregnant and when i get my insurance cards act like i just became pregnant. Please some1 help. I dont no what to do. SORRY FOR WRITING SO MUCH. THANKS!!! =)
""How much does it cost to insure a ferrari spider 360, 2005 redge in the UK?
longer than writing a question and reading an answer smart *** :)
Car accident? insurance???
Long story short, I was in an at fault car accident (only because I crossed the double-yellow line) but thats beside the point. It came off as my fault. Now the other driver was driving a 2003 audi they're saying his car is totalled. So he's probably going to be getting a pretty hefty check. For my car insurance, I only have liability so its 1,300 a year. That's $108.33 a month. How much do you think it will go up after the settlement is given? I heard that it will go up so much percent for like 3 years??? I am 19 years old , and will be driving for almost a year at the end of October.""
""When getting a car insurance quote, do I disclose a speeding ticket, if I already took traffic school for it?""
I had a speeding ticket, but the judge lowered my citation to 99mph so I could take traffic school. I am getting an insurance quote from progressive.com and they want me to provide information on tickets I've received in the last 3 years. Do I tell them about my speeding ticket, since traffic school is supposed to prevent a point from being added to my driving record? I've already finished my traffic school and I live in California.""
Car insurance question following dui arrest?
If you were arrested in 2009 for dui and your case was dismissed :1) will your insurance rates go up once insurance company sees you were arrested (it's now 2012 and rates never went up but is this because insurance company never noticed the arrest record?). I would like to get a new car but when I am renewing insurance, it will ask if I ever had a dui. How do I answer this? Can I say no if the case was dismissed? Will I have to wait for 5 years to pass since I was arrested? I know it was a stupid thing to do but any advice would be appreciated.""
How much is car insurance for teenagers?
I've been trying to find the answer for awhile now, but all I find are websites that have paragraphs of information that I don't care too much about. Could you just give me an average number?""
Insurance cost for Dump Truck?
Without knowing a lot of information right now except it would be in the 1990's year range what would the APPROX. cost of monthly insurance be for a dump truck? We are in Ontario, Canada.""
Do you pay homeowners insurance in advance?
When closing on a house, do you pay the homeowners insurance in advance?""
Liability car insurance?
I need to know some good places to get liability car insurance for a good price
What if I am pregnant and I don't have insurance?
I live in California if that helps any. I am 18 years old and was supposed to start my period a few days ago. I already live on my own in an apartment with my boyfriend and we are nervous about if I were to et pregnant how would we pay the bills? Is there anything we can do do get health insurance quickly if we find out that I am pregnant? Would we get approved fast enough and would people even approve me? How does that all work? Thanks
Car insurance quote sites not recognising vehicle reg?
Hi my partner is thinking of buying a car and we're looking at gocompare.com and confused.com but we are not getting anywhere as neither website recongise either the vehicle registration number or the make and model of the car! we know it is genuine as we have done a vehicle check on it. any ideas why we can't get quotes? it's a nissan pickup from 1999. many thanks
Cheapest car insurance in brampton ontario?
i 22 and i need the best quote i paying 341 with state farm that bull and i got ma g , what the best and cheapest company out there i don't care much about broker as long he/she got a good deal.""
Individual Health Insurance / COBRA?
Why is COBRA considered better than individual health insurance plans? When I did some research,for almost the same kind of coverage but cheaper premiums, I could find individual health insurance plans.But I keep hearing that given an option, going for COBRA is the wiser decision. I don't understand what the catch could be in these individual plans. Any insight?""
Teenager car insurance.?
I turn 16 in February and I want to know about how much I'm going to be paying for my car insurance. I'm going to be under my Dad's plan with State Farm. I'm male and my GPA is over a 4.0. I'm going to be driving a 2001 Dodge RAM 1500. I don't know if anyone can give me an exact cost but I justed wanted to know a range.
""How to save more money as a teen, for a car and motorcycle?""
I'm about to turn 16, and would like to save up for a reliable, cheap (2k-4.5k), good-looking, car. It has to be American, or anything other than Honda, Subaru, Toyota, Lexus, Hyundai, etc. cause dad works for GM. I am paying for the car on my own, most likely, but maybe I can convince parents to pay 1k or so. Money is tight right now in my family. Dad got demoted last year during GM's bankruptcy, and may get a promotion in spring. My Mom is opening a restaurant this year, which is going to cost a lot. I got a job in November at a brand new Kroger grocery store, where I get minimum wage and cannot work over 16 hours per week because I'm only 15. I have saved a little over 1.2k in the bank. I also have invested $500 of my own money this year into stocks, which are up a little. This might sound dumb to some, but I have dreamed of buying a motorcycle. I want a Kawasaki Ninja 650R. AND YES, I KNOW INSURANCE COSTS MONEY, (FOR CAR AND MOTORCYCLE) I'M NOT AN IDIOT. I also need to plan on how to save for that. Any tips, help, and info would be great! Thanks so much.""
What type of car insurance should I get in Michigan?
I understand that Michigan is a no-fault state, and as a result everyone gets this PLPD insurance or something. I'm moving from Pennsylvania and had full coverage on my car for about $90/month. I thought PA and MI were both no-fault, but it seems different and the rates I'm being quoted for the same insurance in MI are higher. I'm so confused!! Also, right now I am on State Farm. I'm 25 but on my mom's plan, and I am getting married/changing my last name and I now live in Michigan so it is past time for me to pay for my own insurance.""
How to do teens afford cars without going under their parents insurance?
Hello, so my friends have their g2 and their parents pay for their insurance. My fathers cheap in ways and he doesn't want me under his insurance. I do have my own car it's a ...show more""
Is there anyway to lower insurance rates after a traffic violation is on file?
Is there anyway to lower insurance rates after a traffic violation is on file?
Newborn Covered by Insurance?
My friend's baby was born one month early. She was in the NICU for 5 days due to breathing problems. My friend has health insurance and so does her fiance (seperate policies, different companies). The finance was going to cover the child when she was born. The insurance said she should have been pre-enrolled b/c nicu is not typical newborn charges... and the finances' insurance say they are not responsible until after the 14th (she was born a month earlier than that). jill said my insurance only pays if we are in the hospital the same amount of time.. if she stays longer she is a dependant and wasnt eligable to be added to the fiance's yet.. it makes no sense... and how could she be pre-enrolled.. The finance went in april and tried to add her to his and they said wait til she is born... and she came a month early according to my doc so how could she have added her to mine? The letter she got from the hospital said the baby is covered automatically under the mothers insurance for 30 days after they are born. So; who is responsible for the $26,000 bill for the NICU?""
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New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
"New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
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im 20/ male/ new driver/ will be driving a used, regular, good condition, non-sport-car sedan, or something of like/ and in los angeles ca thanks""
Do teens with their permit need car insurance if their parents have USAA auto insurance?
please provide where u got this info from not jus u came up with it i need proof
What car is cheap for insurance?
I'm 17 year old im looking for a car I have got to the point of I want anything thats ok but insurance is killing me so I came up with a few cars let me know if it's good on insurance . 89 Silvia s13k ,98 gto twin turbo ,98 pointac grand prix and if you have any cars that you suggest or insurance plains that I should look into let me know.""
Car insurance for new driver that will not drive far..?
HI, I am turning 17 in november, and already looking at cars. The cars i am looking at are getting insurance at over 5000 (im male) a year fully comp! The car is only like 2500..... The thing is i will barely use my car as i live really close to school, so will walk all weekdays - especially as i am banned from parking in school as i live too close. I will occasionally use it on weekends - but if i go out in the evening im not going to take my car - drink driving.. So the only time i will use my car is quite alot in the holidays and very occasionally on some weekends, and therefore think 5k for a few car trips is ridiculous.. So is there any form of insurance where you pay for how far you drive? BTW the cars i was loooking at are 1L's, peugeots and vauxhalls mainly. These ok? Im looking at nothing over 60,000 miles and 7 years old max - i think i will do 3000 max a year. IM looking to sped about 2500 on a car, but need cheaper insurance than that! Hope you can help Many Thanks""
I have a B average(4.0/5.0). will it lower the cost of insurance for my dad?
So my friend told me that if i have a B average, it will lower the cost of insurance for my dad, but idk if its true. im 15 and about to get my license in 4 months and i dont get in any trouble and i have a 4.0/5.0 gpa and on my last report card, my grades were A B B B C C. so will it lower the cost of my insurance?""
""Is it true that if you say you work in IT when getting quotes for car insurance, it increases the premium?""
Has anyone actually found this to be the case? Better still, has anyone got any idea why this would be so? Now I'm thinking of what I could have saved if I had been a little more flexible with the truth! (UK insurance, but I'd be interested to hear from anyone anywhere).""
Collingwood or Quinn Direct car insurance?
I'm 17 and I'm getting a car soon and I've been looking on the internet for car insurance. Quinn Direct and Collingwood Insurance are a lot cheaper than the alternatives but that makes me wary of them. If anyone has been or is insured by one of these two could they let me know what they're like? Are there any hidden catches? Many thanks
Will getting a CA medical marijuana card affect my health insurance coverage?
I was considering getting a medical marijuana card here in California for my insomnia but I was wondering if it'll go on my medical record that I use cannabis and therefore make my health insurance more expensive. Will my doctor be able to see that Im a medical marijuana user?
Where can i get auto insurance for cheap?
i have a utah license but live in idaho. i don't want to pay much more than $150 a month.
How Much Is Car Insurance? Please Help?
Ok See im 16 and i have a 1990 Pontiac Firebird and I have a Junior License Year: 1990 Make: Pontiac Model: Firebird Trim: Engine: 6-Cylinder V-6 Trans: Auto Fuel: Gasoline Color: Black Interior: Grey Miles: 170000
Does car insurance really drop at age 25??
I'm in IL, and my policy renewal is Aug 18th and my 25th birthday is Aug 12th. Can I expect a savings on this renewal from State Farm in IL. No accidents, claims, nothing in 8 years. Or is it a myth that car insurance drops at 25???""
Why is Health insurance a must for your parents?
Health Insurance a must for your parents
Premium return life insurance?
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Can you keep your old insurance if your getting a new car?
I have to get a new car (old car broke down and it will cost more to get it fixed than what's its worth) and I just paid my insurance for my old car this month. I was wondering if ...show more
What is the best health insurance plan in Chicago?
I am self-employed and want to get health insurance. I am trying to find the most cost-effective plan with the most service for the lowest price and least hassle.
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Does your parents car insurance increase when you get a drivers permit?
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How much would insurance cost on a 96 Chevrolet camaro?
Monthly? I spotted a camaro for the first time and it was completely gorgeous, I almost cried. it also runs good. The cost is pretty crazy for a camaro only 2,000. My mom said that I could not get it because the insurance is high I asked her how high and she said about 3,000 a month also I'm 16. I get the feeling she is wrong how much would you say insurance on a 96 camaro would cost?""
What's the Cheapest Car insurance for First Time Driver?
I just wanna have the cheapest car insurance. I dont need the insurance cover anything. just the cheapest! which company would be the best except geico, progressive or Liberty Matual? Something else?""
Does any insurance company offer insurance for a classic/antique car that is not parked in a garage?
I'm looking to insure an old Ford pickup that I just restored. I don't plan on parking it in the garage every night and therefor wanted to find a classic car insurance policy that doesn't require a locked garage storage. The truck will only be used one or twice a week for pleasure so I don't want to get a typical insurance policy if I can get a classic policy for much less. I tried Hagerty and JC Taylor but have had no luck. Thanks
""Whats a good, less expensive, insurance for a younger driver?""
i'm 19 and have had my liscence since i turned 16, i have a clean driving record and even got a perfect score on my driving test 3 years back. My car's been under my dad's name for the last three years but i plan to move out soon and want to switch the car into my name. does anyone know of a good, less expensive car insurance that would be affordable, and not have high rates just because i'm a younger driver.""
Can my wife drive my father's car without insurance?
My dad has a general insurance policy in Toronto. It covers dad, mom and me. My wife has G licenese, but no car insurance. I was wondering if my wife could be insured on accident driving my father's car. If yes, which part should I look on the insurance policy description paper? If she gets into accident by her fault, would my father's insurance rate go up? Thanks""
Car insurance for new car....?
Hi all, I'm about to get my first new car but I'm not sure about the insurance. Do I have to buy the insurance first and then go the the dealer and finance the car? Or do I when I get the car from the dealer will they give me like a 1 day policy so then I can buy insurance? And no, I don't want to get insurance thru the dealer just the financing. P.S. If it is of any help, it is a Mazda3 that may cost me $18,000 as off 1/28/07. Thanks.""
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Does anyone here use cancer insurance? If so, which kind?""
""Is it true that if you say you work in IT when getting quotes for car insurance, it increases the premium?""
Has anyone actually found this to be the case? Better still, has anyone got any idea why this would be so? Now I'm thinking of what I could have saved if I had been a little more flexible with the truth! (UK insurance, but I'd be interested to hear from anyone anywhere).""
New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
Suspended liscense and car insurance?
So in two more months my license suspension will be over from a dui. First of all the type of dui that I got from what I've been told isn't as bad as the real one seeing as I got a dui for blowing a 0.3 but being under 21 makes it illegal at any alcohol level. My dui is considered and infraction so no criminal record but still not sure if this goes in my driving record. When I get my license back and look for car insurance will I have to pay extra for insurance for having a dui infraction?
How much will my insurance and maintenance costs be affected by what type of car I get?
I'm about to be 18 and am planning on getting my first car soon. I've been driving for almost 3 years in my parents' cars but need my own for heading off to college and such. I don't know what type of car I want to get, but it's gotta be cheap, old and used, preferably up to $6,000-7,500 at the absolute max. The problem is that I've been really into cars for most of my life and would rather have something a little nicer to start, I mean within the same price range but for example a Mustang, Mitsubishi 3000GT, BMW 3- or 5-Series, etc., rather than the usual Civic or Camry (not that I'd mind one of them either). The problem is that I'm worried the insurance will be way more expensive. The latest quote my dad got was a few weeks ago and it was quite a bit lower than I expected, only like $560/yr., but that was with their old '93 Taurus GL. Will having a sports car or more high-end car affect it really dramatically or will it not make that big a difference as long as my driving record stays good? Also, how much more does it cost to maintain and repair a car like a used BMW than it does just a normal car like an Accord? I've always heard that European cars in particular can be temperamental and finicky if not maintained properly, so I'm just worried that I won't have the money and know-how to have and keep a car like that as my first car.""
2004 WRX STI insurance for a 16 year old in arizona?
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Car insurance quote?
i want to go ahead with a car insurance company and i got a yearly quote online with them,as i want to pay direct debit monthly i phoned up to see what the monthly amount was with interest charged. i just want to check that this is accurate. the yearly amount quoted was 353.95 making it 29.50 per month . they charge 8.5% interest on any direct debit or credit card payment adding the 8/5% interest they then caluclated my monthly amount to be 34.81 yet it thought that :- 8.5/100 * 353.95 = 30.09 interest 353.95 + 30.09 = 384.04 total to pay 384.04 / 12 = 32 per month is this right? i know its only 35 per month, obviously im looking for the cheapest deal possible! but i just wondered why it was a different amount? help??? ta x""
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What is the best car insurances for teens? and also cheap?
Does your parents car insurance increase when you get a drivers permit?
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How can I lower my auto insurance?
I am 20 years old. I live in Florida which is by far the WORST states to have auto insurance. I've only been in 2 accidents, both not my fault. One was a small fender bender (which my friend decided to get a PIP claim even though he didnt get hurt so he could snag some money from the government). The other i totaled my car, but that was over 2 YEARS AGO. This is a no fault state which sucks because both of them werent my fault!!!!! Currently my auto insurance is 253 dollars! I'm a college student and i CANNOT afford that, but thats the cheapest one I found. Geico and all the popular ones wont even look at me. And it also adds on the my mom was in an accident (also not at fault) she got hit from behind at a red light and of course they penalized her for that too. Florida is a fraud state, they penalize you for everything when its no fault. Does anyone know how i can lower my auto insurance? It's been 2 years since I totaled my car and almost 2 and a half 3 years from the small fender bender. I also got a small speeding ticket from maybe september or december of last year, but thats it. no other tickets. thanks!""
Does affordable FAMILY Health insurance in California even exist? :( Desperate!?
Hello: My husband and I are in the process of moving on in our life and figuring out the next step. Rather than moving ahead now and planning later I would rather plan now then move ahead. I feel that its not smart to start trying for a baby until we know if its going to be possible to afford health insurance. Right now we are both working fulltime but my work is not family friendly when it comes to health insurance. Currently to add my spouse and a child to my insurance whether its PPO or HMO its over $1,200 for us 3!!! When looking outside of my employer at what is out there its over $800! We make about $4,000 a month but after rent, car payments, cell phones, car insurance, bills, groceries, and gas we are left with only about $800 a month to live off of. And that is not nearly enough for a baby with daycare and health insurance!! We obviously dont qualify for state funding or and government assistance. I am just wondering if anything exists out there for people like us! :( Unfortunately it seems things would be easier if we both worked at a low income job or not worked at all!! Please help, I want a good future for us all and dont want to depend on government funding!!""
How much would car insurance be for a 17 year old on a volkswagen golf 1.9 GTI?
like the min price?
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I recently moved here and need to buy insurance for my car. Ive been searching on-line and i am overwhelmed on how expensive the rates are here in fl compared to California where i use to live. I have never had quotes in the 100's. so do u know a cheap auto insurance company here in miami, fl I have a 95 ford mustang cv""
Do i need insurance to learn a driver to drive?
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What is the cheapest car insurer for a 23yr old guy?
Obviously in the UK, so please no irritating as hell Try Patriot Insurance based in Washington ... So far, Zurich appears to be the cheapest. But i'm guessing we can go lower. Im trying to insure a 1997 Fiesta, 1.2, 3 door with immobiliser. Only doing 1000 miles or less each year. I have been out of driving now for 5 years. Can anyone recommend a cheap-as-chips car insurer? - It's ridiculous how just third party costs more than the car itself. My best qoute is around 580 - for third party ONLY. - A p*ss take. Thanks for your help.""
What is a toll free phone number to get auto insurance quotes from Farmer's Insurance?
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Estimated Price Insurance On Lexus IS 250?
I am a 23 year old female living in California. I've been driving since 18 years old with a clean driving record. I plan on getting the 2007 or 2008 Lexus IS 250 sometime this year. Any ideas on how much the insurance would be for me? Thanks in advance! =]
Can I buy triple a auto insurance with a permit? California?
So due to curtain circumstances, I need to get my own auto insurance, the catch is that I only have a permit. what I wanted to know is if a major insurance company, like triple a, would cover me, if so would it cost more than a newly licensed person, and if not does anyone know a minor insurance company that would.""
I have insurance for a car I had for 6 days. The insurance co. says it's a total loss. They gave me a value?
Audatex is not kelly blue book they look at craigslist & not the dealer. Craigslist sometimes has cars where a mechanic might not catch it but is damaged. The price I paid is higher due to getting sick & credit went down so I had to go to a local dealer with higher interest. They want the insurance check plus $1700.00 & interest. So I will pay for this thing for over 1 1/2 years. I had it 6 days when some crazy driver almost hit me I turned & hit a wall. The insurance company says I loose my good driver discount. Since I will have to wait to pay off this car I can cancel my insurance once the dealer gets the check. Is there any California law that would say if this happens I would be able to pay off the car. It's worth more as a loss then to try to fix it. Please help. Thank You.
Can you be fined for owning an uninsured car? (California)?
Even if the car is not driven? And if it is registered?
Is there a penalty for not signing up for affordable health care if disabled collecting medicare?
Now my question is am I going to be penalized for not having any insurance and only having Medicare I and my husband are on disability, because of brain tumors and seizures? it ...show more""
Roughly how much per month is Homeowners Insurance?
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Named non owner insurance- Florida?
It is possible to get a named non owner car insurance in Florida with damage and collision? We usually rent cars in Florida, and we pay a lot of money for CDW and liability, we are looking this kind of solution.""
Has anyone heard of transamerica health insurance and if so is it worth it??
Thinking about getting insurance and would like some input on the Co.
Do you have to have health insurance to....?
do you have to have health insurance to go to planned parenthood and have like a pap test or any other tests like that?
Proof of insurance question?
The transmission went out of my car. A friend who does auto repair told me it would cost approx $1200 to fix. So I decided to scrap the car & get another. I cancelled insurance on old one & bought another 1 1/2 months later. The car was not driveable. Now I have to prove why I didn't have ins on the car and still had plates registered to it. I called & wrote a letter to the state and they said to send an estimate from an ASE cert. mechanic or tow bill or pictures. I don't have a tow bill. I didn't get out of the driveway. I don't need an ASE mechanic to tell me what is wrong w/the car and picutres of a transmission are stupid. I have received a written est from the guy and have statements from neighbors saying the car was not running. What more can I do?????? I don't want my license suspended.
New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
How much would my insurance cost?
I can't seem to get some of the online quotes to work?? I'm 21, have been driving since I was 16, with NO blemishes on my record. I (will) drive a 2006 Acura TL. Just a ball park number. Thanks!""
""What is the best way to find cheap car insurance if Ur 21. Ive tried all the comparison sites, help??? ?
I've tried all the comparison sites but I'm getting a really high quote.
Do you have affordable auto insurance?
If not, it may be time to switch to Safe Auto.""
What is the best family hatchback between 1.4 and 1.8 with Auto transmition?
I have an Auto-only licence and currently drive a 1.4 corsa. However, I'm looking for a bigger car... I have 2 young kids and am looking for something up to a 1.8LTR. However, it has to be roomy enough for a family of four, economical on fuel and relatively cheap on insurance / tax. Any ideas?""
How much does deep cleaning cost on average with insurance?
I had a filling done and with insurance it cost about $100. Is filling more expensive than deep cleaning?
What would insurance roughly cost for a 17 year old as a second driver to some one who has no tickets/fines?
im looking to buy a 1994 nissan skyline gts-t for my 1st car and am wondering roughly it would cost im also looking a 1992 dodge stealth
""If you have insurance and someone else in your house gets a drivers license, does it make your rates go up?""
This makes no sense to me, but my boyfriend and I are getting our licenses and since we're 19 and have no driving record, our rates are going to be very high, so we were just going to put the car and the insurance in his moms name and just pay her, but she said that when we get our licenses at her address, it will make her rates go up automatically, because there are other people in the house with a drivers license? Is she just BSing me or is this true??""
How much does the insurance pay for inconvenience fees?
I was in a wreck the other day and it was the person's fault who hit me. My car is totaled. She was fine and all i had was a cut and i went to the ER and they did xrays and they took out a piece of glass. Her insurance company is pretty good they already have me a rental car and they are buying me a new car and they are even giving me cash for maintenance costs and stuff I've done to my car in the past 6 months and then they said that they are paying inconvenience fees for having to go to the hospital. They have already paid for the xrays and the bills for the hospital so why are they giving me more money for this 'inconvenience fee' and how much will it be? Thanks
Where can i find a Low Car Insurance Rate?
Where can i find a Low Car Insurance Rate i have 2000 Toyota
What is an individual health insurance?
What is an individual health insurance?
Can anybody give me an idea on car insurance?
Im 18 year old and am from the uk i want to buy a mazda 2. i hold a clean uk driving liscience and would like to no if anybody has a rough idea how much per year i will pay for car insurance.
I am 18 and car insurances are too fukcing high (UK)?
hello, my first car will be a peugeot 1007 and most of the quotes offer me 5000 pounds which is a super joke because its impossible for me to afford it and also my mom. I'll be the first one to drive in the family and we badly need a car soon because its so hard to carry a 100 kg. sack of rice for 3 miles from the shop to the train station from the train station to our house with a return ticket. plus also, my mom's been cycling to her work for almost 10 years now and she's getting old and the least i could do is drive her to work. 1.) so my question is, why is this rule or law so much biased and stereotyped against the youth? isn't it time to change our perspectives, to be quite frank the youth of today are a lot more intelligent than the previous generations. 2.) why are car insurance companies and the UK government such a dick? 3.) why aren't there any activists protesting about these prices? that's all thank you.""
Can I drive my parents' car without having my name added to the insurance list in the same city?
I would but it would probably increase the rate. So, can I just carry their insurance papers along with my license?""
Accident no insurance?
I was in a wreck today but it wasnt my fault my insurance is about a month late the other driver has insurance full coverage what is going to happen
Can I get Car Insurance in Texas without a D-License?
Can I get car insurance without a license. I'm located in Texas. Is there ways around to do it?
Can I call an auto adjuster for a quote and then not use them?
Car value (Kelley Blue Book) about $4200-4500 (just bought it a couple of months ago for $5K). Older car, low low mileage. Seriously excellent condition, fancy wheels, no similar cars close to the low mileage anywhere near $5K within a 200 mile radius. Body work $5K est from body shop. Do I bother calling insurance company to send an adjuster out, or should I just fix it myself and save the insurance cost hit because they will total it anyway? If an adjuster gives an estimate am I then bound by their decision, which seems as if it will be to total the car? If they look at it will they raise my insurance even if I fix it myself? I am not sure what to do!""
Can You Give Me Any Tips for Finding Low Cost California Medical Insurance?
Can You Give Me Any Tips for Finding Low Cost California Medical Insurance?
I got into a car accident and i have no insurance?
I rear ended this woman at only 20 miles an hour, she had absolutely nothing on her, not even a scratch . I have no insurance so she didn't call the police. Then she called this weekend she said her mechanic said it would cost over $500 because her air bags needed to be replaces due to this accident. Is she just trying to play me and did I have anything to do with those air bags? I decided she was lying to me, and decided not to pay. She then calls and says she's calling the police and reporting it as a hit and run, and calling a lawyer.""
""How much would first time rider insurance cost, for an old 90 cc motorbike?""
I'm 16 and when I turn 17 I plan on trying to get my provisional and pass a CBT test. My mum has an old Honda c90 90cc motorbike which she doesn't use anymore and I could have. It only goes 40mph and struggles to maintain that. I was wondering how much insurance would be though, as it is one of the major turn offs. I'd only be using it to get to my nearest town and close areas to get my experience up to help in my full test and it also lowers insurance costs apparently. But how much would it be?""
Question about car insurance.?
So I have a question, If I use my fathers car would he have to register his insurance on my name also? Or will it not matter since the cars registered in his name? Just in case anything happened. Just wondering.""
How to find low cost car insurance in Detroit?
budget around 50 to 60 dollars per month... let me know is there have any company out there who serve affordable for others.
Medical insurance makes a difference?
Why is it that when you go the hospital and you dont have medical insurance you are looked down upon even though you do get the medical services required for proper treatment? But when you have medical insurance its like youre treated in your own way with approbation.
Lower Home Insurance Quotes?
Would having a new roof, windows, garage door, updated kitchen. increase or decrease homeowner insurance quotes??""
Car insurance for 18 year old lad?
what car can i get the cheapest insurance on im 18 and male.
Is there a federal law that requires us to buy car insurance? Why or why not?
Is there a federal law that requires us to buy car insurance? Why or why not?
New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
New Rochelle New York Cheap car insurance quotes zip 10802
What are the insurance laws for cars in storage in Oregon?
I do not want to drive my car. I will just have it sitting in a garage at a relative's house. I've read from numerous people, that you don't need insurance if the car is ...show more""
When we ask for AFFORDABLE health care?
maybe we should control the Hospital, Doctor, and Insurance company's cost. That would bring it down. Then the government wouldn't have to get stuck with it all.""
How expensive would a liability insurance policy be for a Companion business?
I'm thinking of starting up a Companion business in Connecticut. It will be just me and I will not be doing anything medical. The State of Connecticut doesn't require me to become licensed if it's just me but I would like to have a general liability policy anyway. I would love it if I could some helpful information. Thanks, Cathy""
Am a 20 year old female how much car isurance should i pay?
i mean of course i can go on insurance companies and check it out but they take too long! i want to know how much should i pay for a 1.1 or 1.2 Corsa or cleo for my age and i have only had my licence for 2 months. whats the average/ lowest / highest should i pay? btw i know am a good and responsible driver, i don't drive to show off, i drive for my pleasure and work :) UK answers please""
What to do when a car insurance company refuses to pay?
My vehicle got slammed into while parked at my house. Two older ladies were driving and they took out 3 mailboxes, my neighbor's old truck, his tractor, and then my car. The older ...show more""
Best health insurance?
Im looking for a great health insurance. One that is reasonable with cost. My location is kansas if it matters.
How can i get cheap motorbike insurance? UK?
im 19 years of age just passed my test and my insurance is going up by like 30-40 pound, it should be going down! and then there charging me 50 to change policy! haha 80-90 pound stupid. and im already paying 350 a year for third party!! on a honda 125 vararedo with 1 year no claim bonus!! when people are paying 50-100 a year fully comp!?!?!?!?! i said locked building. got alarms locks data tag!?""
""In California, how do you show proof of insurance for a driving test?
My girlfriend is making an appointment for her driving test and I offered up my car for her to use.Does she need to be added to my insurance to take the test or does the DMV just need proof that the car is insured under someone's name(me)?She won't be driving my car aside from the test as she is buying a used car immediately after the test and getting insurance on that.
Best car insurance for 17 year old?!?
Hi, I have just passed my driving test. I am a 17 year old male living in a stable suburb. My mum owns a 2002 Mini Cooper and my dad has just ordered a new Audi A7. Obviously I cannot drive the Audi when it comes haha. I am looking to drive the Mini. What is the cheapest insurance company to be a NAMED DRIVER on my mum's car insurance. THIS IS NOT FRONTING. I will hardly drive, my mum uses the car most/all of the time. I have got very high quotes and the best yet is 2000 from Admiral. Any other suggestions please?""
Cheap car insurance!!!?
I'm 17 and I just got my license and my dad is looking for insurance for me does anyone know where I can get a very good deal??
Where I get reference with Children insurance?
I've family and he have children, and now want join insurance for their children. Can you give me a reference?""
What is the penalty for driving without insurance in California?
If you have proof of insurance, and you pay monthly for insurance but it is invalid insurance because your license is suspended. I've seen answers from $500 up to $2000 what is correct.""
How much do you spend on your car payment/insurance per a month?
and is it a used or new car?
Auto Body Shop gives me an estimate higher than insurance settlement bus says they'll work it out?
Before I got word back from my insurance company on a settlement for a cehicle accident, I already got two estimates from two body shops. The estimates were at $5,000 .... but now ...show more""
What are some tips to get cheaper car insurance?
I have a very poor driving record. Right now, I'm paying about $4,000 a year to insure my car. It will probably go up when the policy renews in Sept. What can I do in the meantime? Should I take the defensive driving course? What else? I've tried to shop around but GEICO gives me the best deal at $4000. Some other companies would not insure me at all. Others wanted thousands more. What should I do? I really like the convenience of having a car and I would probably cry if I had to sell it. I've had a car since I was 19 and I'm 26 now.""
When do I need to get insurance when purchasing a car?
I'm going shopping this weekend for a new(used) car. I have current insurance on my car right now. If I end up getting a car this weekend can I wait until Monday to get insurance, or do I have to do it that day? I'm in California by the way. I asked the loan officer and she said something about me having 10 days to get it, but I've been reading otherwise. Thanks!""
Do I really need car insurance?
I'm paying $170 a month for car insurance, it went up a little because i was in a minor accident and I feel it's a bit much to be paying every month. So if I don't have ...show more""
How much should one spend on their first car?
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im in a hotel with amanda in canmore writing this in bed with my eyes closed
im thikning about how i need to get better in various ways like
i need a job
i think i should.want tovolunteer at cjsw, which means first i hae to contact them and then go to an orientation
i want to feel good with amanda and i want her to feel good ith me
maybe i need to smoke less weed
why am i like stck 
it feels like i’m frozen or something
or not frozen but 
im stalled
or on the fence or something
about what? maybe on the ence is the wrong way o say it
what am i even saying
it’s like i want to say “it feels like there is osomthing wrong wiht me” but like im afraid to say something like that
i want to be able to say “i feel like im good at art” but 
art
music
am i good at that stuff?  my dedication and self-dicipline have , perhaps its fair to say , maye they’ve been lacking or in short suply over the years
i hae put a lot of time and effort   ,,,, and money! ,,, into )ugh i have that  i wrote moneytlike that but im still in the dark with mey eyes closed so i can’t backspace it _ gghhgh
gh
gh
im like
i feel pretty proud of the progress ive made with msic
i’ve always had the passion but my skills and inderstanding and all that , it wasn’t there
i was pretty bad at it i think probably actually ugh 
i dont like thinking  like that it doesnt feel good to like feel bad ugh lol
i think ive come a long way anyway
i think maybe ? i had more of an innate tallent for for art maybe?
maybE?
it came easier i think
but i didin’t stick with it
like seriously its like my life is a series of almost starting things
i left my kids
and was unable
was unable?
to push through all of the anxiety and fear and terror )terror?_) 
yeah i was fucking so afraid i felt like i could hardly move or breathe
i ocouldn’t push trhough it 
or like, get over myself?
to be there for them
yet i’ve hung on to it
i want to have been there
i want to be there
and yet i don’t
i’m n lsjkf
saglaskgj
i’m not
i’m not there
and i can’t let it go
and like
the art thing
i got into it and took to it naturally and got into art school
although i must admit
because i was 
wasa ?
i anyway i wonder now
did i have the tallent myself to get in?
because there were those figure drawings of nad’s that she let me put in the portfolio
to ensure my acceptance
because i didn’t have figure drawings
and i was with her daughter, i ghesS?
fuck
anyway i didn’t go to art school
i’ve just been like smoking pot and trying to get laid and having reckless relationships and making bad decisions and doing a lot of drugs and drinking and just aimlessly going
and here i am
ncertain and felling ill-positioned and ill-equipped to deal with it
i often question my existance and my experience and reality 
and i dont know what the fuck like
am i crazy
because i feel confused and scared and threatened
i isolate myself
like i cna’t get enough time alone
even though i spen basically all of my time alone
and i have this like longing to connect with people
but the actual experience of being with people is so like draining and exhausting and hard to deal with and mmaybe like sometimes or even often like not even like a good time?
like, a drag, man
and what am i
and where am i
like i mean i know im in bed in canmore in this weird hotel where the lightswitches are like down at mid thigh level for some reason? and the peep-hole in the door is also extremely low? like i had to stoop considerably to peep
but what is life
like, life, man
ugh pfff
guh
its just like
how can i make sense of all the information i take in about the world aroudn me, and how can i find my berrings in th
in wa;haracteristic of my behavior, or like would it be fair to describe it like, when the going tets tough, i bail?  i feel like there may be some truth in that
god am i like super evasive?
and like so ... hesitant?  the first wordi thought was squeemish
to like
commit
just keep on moving
running away
and i want to say like “and always trying to save the day” but idk if that’s tru tho, like, i just watched a dr who episode and that’s basically his character
not like all that stuff aforementioned,
just the part , the running, and the trying to save the day
have i just been going wherever the going is easy?
is all of this shit a cop out?
i’m on medication
and like
ok ok
two meds, welbutrin and concerta
and i have bene taking dexedrine also because i feel like the concerta is not enough
and i have all this dex i sourced illicitly
the other two are persrribed
rn i can’t even twll if i’m like just caught up in some fucking web of lies and self delusion and i’m just a fucking drug addict who is tring to escape reality
running away from the hard tstdifficult stuff, the gugly stuff, the unfortunate, the unpleasant, 
i’m only very recently
now i’m thirty three just recently mind you 
who am i talking to this is a locked tumblr
so im talking to me i guess
if i ever read this
i’m probly cringing
if i’m anything like i have been, lately?
my heart sinks when i wrote that
and im like torn, about being completely honest with my counselor and my pschiatrist about the dex
because im afraid that they will think im a drug addict or like a user or abuser or something
because like
it feels like it makes it better
but thats what it feels like when u get a fix for your thing right
a fix of
or whatever
but then like
what am i missing?
i’m not sure if that’s the case or what’s the cause but like, here i am
ddid i write cause up there if i did i meant case
k
like
here i am
idk if any of this makes sense
because i’mnot looking at it
just like streaming it out
is it fair to say that, i’ve stuck with music?
like there’s been this dogged persistance
like a stubborn refusal to accept that i had no tallent for it 
that i was bad at it
like did i want to be arock star or something?
i cant even handle the extreme minimal ammount of attention it seems
but like
do i want, admiration?
recogntion?  aproval, respect, esteem
my friends were all better at it than me
having been in band, i just picked up the bass to be in a punk band and i played the our notes and like didn’t understand anything but all this....something
passion?  energy?  
is it more focused now, or is there less of it
dik if its like that
kids are like that, full of spunk
right?
spunk gross
energy
zest wtf
vigour
vigor
spirit
but like
every time a path is laid out before me
like i got into art school, i just had to do it
but its like
i dont do it
and yet with music
it’s not a path
it’s like this fucking awful terrain
or even like, a wall or something
and yet that’s where  for some reason it seems for whatever reason i’m pursuing making music
just keep on going htat way
inching along
i probably know less about music theory now than my friends did coming out of highshool
but i’m becoming a pretty ,,good?  
music producer
im getting better anyway
for the first time im like finishing
songs
and feeling good about them
proud of them
listening to them over time and not feeling ashamed of them
and feeling like
i’m achieving someting
even though
no
one
hears my music
cares about it
and like i guess thats on me right
i dont share it
i hide it
as if like what
am i waiting for the people closest to me to express an interest in it?
maybe that would be nice but
thats not it
its like
its like
i dont wan t to show it, if its not good
show
share
present
 put out there
slkhg;aslkgj
like where am i reletive to everyhting or something?
who am i and what am i supposed to be doing
because like
is it fair to say that when the going gets tough 
what was i saying
has it been c
ok so i have been writing for so long with the screen off but it hasn’t been being typed
fuck this stupid shit anyway
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