#idia cleans up nice 👀

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What’s their love languages?

Who cooks? Who cleans up? Who’s banned from the kitchen?

For Idia x Yume 👀💖🐰

(art by @bunnwich)

What’s their love languages?

Yume:

In general Yume is a big quality time person. If you are someone they care about you will know because they just like spending time with you!

With Idia, they enjoy being around him even if they are just sitting close by and doing separate things. Yume knows he isn't the type or person who would waste his time being somewhere he didn't want to be/with someone he wanted to be with. So they think its nice knowing Idia choses to spend that valuable time with them.

At first they aren't much of a words of affirmation person (because its embarrassing to say things out loud sometimes), but over time they realize that that's one of the love languages Idia needs/responds best to. So they become quite good at it; and eventually, it becomes one of their better love languages.

Other than that they are a big acts of service and physical touch person! They do small things for Idia all the time that he really appreciates; like going the little extra mile to make sure he's comfortable in a social situation ect. And they are a touchy huggy person that Idia will just have to get use to, which will be easy bc that man is touch starved and actually loves it when the two of them cuddle like cats don't @ me.

like literally:

Idia:

In my opinion, Idia's biggest love languages are acts of service and giving gifts. A lot of the time, especially in person, he can't properly express his feelings through words. So he uses gifts and actions to do it instead. Yeah Idia might not always say all the cliche cheesy stuff, but he's the type that if the person he loves had a problem he would literally stay up all night trying to solve it for them.

That's more valuable than empty words to him (which is so ironic that he loves words of affirmation). For him acts of service and gift giving are almost the same, giving someone a gift is his way of looking out for him. Which increased the difficulty a little when he finds out Yume has trouble accepting gifts (especially expensive ones).

But eventually, he gets them to see that it's just his way of caring for them. He almost sees it as selfish:

Getting a new phone for Yume so he can talk and message them whenever without their brothers looming over their convos, Fixing up something that broke at the Ramshackle so Yume doesn't have to work extra shifts and miss spending time with him, researching on his own to figure out how to help them with their nightmares so they can sleep soundly next to him... He comes to find out that Yume really doesn't like asking for help and can be pretty stubborn about it. But eventually, he gets them to understand that he doesn't want them to be uncomfortable or sad if he can help it, and they start letting him take care of them more and more. He's a big fan of receiving Physical touch and Words of affirmation. But at first he's not used to them in a romantic sense, but enjoys it a lot, even if it can be overwhelming sometimes. Sometimes he worries that he's being clingy/annoying but Yume shuts that thought process down real quick since their the one to initiate it most of the time.

Who cooks? Who cleans up? Who’s banned from the kitchen?

I'm a firm believer that Idia lives off microwave meals, instant food, snacks, and nutrition bars. This man literally said "taste doesn't matter as long as you get your calories" and yet he still eats like a bird. So yeah he's not allowed in the kitchen until he gets that mindset outta here. Yume usually cooks (sometimes with Ortho as assistance!) They're not like a top-tier chef but they know the basics and are smart enough to expand on them through their own research/asking their friends and bro for tips. Despite his "taste doesn't matter" attitude I still think Idia is picky about some foods, which Yume doesn't mind because they're a picky eater too. So, its not too much of a big deal to keep in mind what they both like and make it accordingly. Eventually, I think Idia would get self-conscious about never being the one to cook which would lead him to want to be the one to clean up as a way to "make up for it" and try and live his best "way of the househusband" life. He's not very good at it at first, but like anything the more he works at it the better he gets; and it becomes second nature to help clean up after Yume. (He thinks of it as playing support for them, which he doesn't mind doing forever if that's what they need.)