#i.e. no pre-est romantic shipping

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io's hard (to say the least) to romantically ship with so I thought I'd make a post talking about it. io has a very specific type. innocence, pacifism, and positivity will never attract them (in fact, it's very likely to do the opposite). io desires confidence and deadliness above all else. someone who can kill, who can hurt, and despite their feelings on the matter, can, would, and most likely will do it again. people who have trauma tend to appeal to them more, too - as often those people understand why io might act the way they do. to sum it up, io is attracted to people who have gray morals. skewed morals. people who can embrace violence, whether they like it or not. although... io does tend to favor those who like it. [don't be terribly discouraged though, as lucius did not like embracing violence but io loved him beyond words.] I would also like to mention really quickly here that io is also attracted to banter/snark/sass, fiery personalities, and powerful (physically/magically) people. strength of character is something that is fantastic at catching their eye.

speaking of trauma - io carries a shitton of it. they were abused mentally, emotionally, and physically by their parents for 23 years. eighteen centuries has done a whole lot in terms of trying to recover, but io still deals with fits of anger, dissociation, and flashbacks. they're also extremely dependent on alcohol (high functioning alcoholic) and despite their desire to quit, will not seek the help needed for it. love and trust do not go hand in hand with io. like I've said I hate to say it but I genuinely think io is incapable of 100% trust. I trust you... is always followed by the ultimatum, as much as I can. io's concept of trust has been irreparably shattered. there is no fitting the pieces back together no matter how badly either party want it. asking io do you trust me? is perhaps the worst question you could ask. you don't want to hear the answer, unless you're willing to accept io's reasoning. io also does not experience romantic attraction immediately, and when they do finally experience it, it's very rare and only in an already established relationship - they're demiromantic. now you might be going, hey adair where's the good stuff? love and trust do not go hand in hand, yes. but io loves hard. they can easily fall into devotion to an unhealthy degree. they want to help their partner, they want to comfort, they want to cook meals and share kisses and embrace every bit of physical affection they can. inter mundos becomes something that io can use to show their partner the world. week-long vacations wherever they want to go. dinner in another country. io embraces violence. io likes it. they'll fight tooth and nail for their partner. io lets their softer, more playful side show around partners. their humor may be deadpan, but there'll certainly be more of it. they embrace their childish side and let it show around loved ones because they know they can expect acceptance. joining them in childish pursuits only makes their love grow. io's own trauma lends them experience and intimate understanding for those who do have it. this doesn't take away the fact that sometimes things hurt and lashing out at them upsets and hurts them but... they get it? they will, most likely, end up doing the same thing at some point or another (when they don't immediately leap to self isolation). io will always come back and apologize, though. in short, io is complicated and hard to be with. they have enough baggage to fill an entire plane's luggage compartment and then some. but god, they love with every ounce of their being.

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general rules.

IC =/= OOC. no godmodding/infomodding.

re: wade's fourth wall breaks, i won't have him assume to know anything important about other characters without OOC permission.

please hardblock me if you believe tastes in fiction = morality.

non-selective, non-exclusive, open to crosscanon & OCs. open to other marvel universes; i'm very familiar with marvel 616.

won’t follow other xmcu wades, including multis with wade on them. i’ll write with any other muses on those multis, but i won’t follow back.

pre-established relationships are always OK, including romantic ships. plotting is optional, but feel free to PM me if needed.

don’t send memes if you won’t turn them into threads.

feel free to remind me of any tags i owe. clear demand wakes my muse up and helps in prioritising my backlogs.

shipping’s fine, wade’s monogamous. i won’t romantically ship wade w/ minors, but i’m fine with writing other “problematic” or “taboo” ships.

smut’s also fine, but only w/ 18+ writers. i’m 21+, myself. no bottom!wade. no three/moresomes.

sensitive content is tagged as #[subject] cw (e.g. #abuse cw). smut is tagged as #nsfw.

don’t take my icons, headcanons, etc.

constructive criticism very much appreciated.

i’m not here for discourse. hardblock/unfollow me if you hate my content.

if you have any questions, PM me.

other info.

ooc stuff.

Timezone: GMT-4 / EST Discord: PM me if you want it. Triggers: N/A on my account, feel free to let me know if you have any in particular that you need tagged or avoided. What the hell is the XMCU? You know, the X-Men cinematic universe, 20th Century Fox style. And everything that comes after as far as XMCU Deadpool's concerned.

general rp prefs.

Hugging this character: Yes, Wade's a hugger Kissing this character: Yes, Wade's a kisser Smut with this character: Yes; PM me if you want specific scenarios/kinks. I don’t write bottom!Wade or three/moresomes, but I’m open to anything else Fighting with this character: Yes, but sorry in advance for Wade's raging boner Injuring this character: Yes Killing this character: Yes; Wade has a regenerative healing factor, though, so this would require extensive plotting Using telepathy/mind reading abilities on this character: Yes; let me know if you want me to write Wade’s thoughts out specifically

shipping prefs.

General: M/M, M/F, M/NB all OK. Open to canonmates, crosscanon, OCs, genderbends, AU versions of characters, and the like. I don’t care about whether your character is liveaction or animated or iconless or what have you, either. Will Ship: Logan, Cable, Vanessa, Ajax, Domino, Colossus, Peter, Steve Rogers, Thor Might Ship (i.e., probably needs some build up/discuss with me first): Weasel, Dopinder, Paradox, Cassandra, Peter Parker, Matt Murdock, 616!Janet Van Dyne, non-XMCU Deadpools, any canonmate and Marvel-adjacent characters not in the “won’t ship” category Won’t Ship: Underage ships, polyam ships

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general rules.

IC =/= OOC. no godmodding/infomodding.

please hardblock me if you believe tastes in fiction = morality.

non-selective, non-exclusive, open to crosscanon & OCs.

won't follow other daryls, including multis with daryl on them. i'll write with any other muses on those multis, but i won't follow back.

pre-established relationships are always OK, including romantic ships. plotting is optional, but feel free to PM me if needed.

don’t send memes if you won’t turn them into threads.

feel free to remind me of any tags i owe. clear demand wakes my muse up and helps in prioritising my backlogs.

shipping’s fine, daryl's monogamous. i won’t romantically ship daryl w/ minors, but i'm fine with writing other "problematic" or "taboo" ships.

smut’s also fine, but only w/ 18+ writers. i’m 21+, myself. no bottom!daryl. no three/moresomes.

sensitive content is tagged as #[subject] cw (e.g. #abuse cw). smut is tagged as #nsfw.

don’t take my icons, headcanons, etc.

constructive criticism very much appreciated.

i’m an anti-anti and i'm not here for discourse. hardblock/unfollow me if you hate my content.

if you have any questions, PM me.

other info.

ooc stuff.

Timezone: EST Discord: PM me if you want it. Triggers: N/A on my account, feel free to let me know if you have any in particular that you need tagged or avoided.

general rp prefs.

Hugging this character: Yes; Daryl’s inept, but he won’t hate it Kissing this character: Yes; Daryl requires mutual feelings to reciprocate, but one-sided kisses are always fine Smut with this character: Yes; PM me if you want specific scenarios/kinks. I don’t write bottom!Daryl or three/moresomes, but I’m open to anything else Fighting with this character: Yes Injuring this character: Yes; PM me if you want Daryl to have major injuries Killing this character: Yes; with plotting Using telepathy/mind reading abilities on this character: Yes; let me know if you want me to write Daryl’s thoughts out specifically

shipping prefs.

General: M/M, M/F, M/NB all OK. Open to canonmates, crosscanon, OCs, AU versions of characters, and the like. I don’t care about whether your character is liveaction or animated or iconless or what have you, either. Will Ship: Shane, Isabelle, Aaron, Beth, Andrea, Michonne, Rosita, Eugene, Sasha, Glenn, Noah Might Ship (i.e., probably needs some build up/discuss with me first): Rick, Carol, Dwight, any canonmate ships not in the “won’t ship” category Won’t Ship: Merle, Negan, underage ships, polyam ships, ships with canon or original characters that use Norman Reedus as a PB

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updated ( 04 / 10 / 22 )

hello ! i prefer to keep the rules page as straightforward and simple as possible ! thank you for taking the time to read them !

  This blog is going to low to med. activity at best and I’m trying to be very private with this blog as well due to being a remake in order to cultivate a better space for me to rp in. Please respect my wishes. 

 As stated before this blog is private and selective, meaning I only interact IC with people who are mutuals with me and I can be picky with who I follow. That being said, please don’t take it personally if I don’t follow back. I’m typically crossover, AU and OC friendly ( provided that I can find info for your muse ).  

  I am a busy person. I am juggling a job and other real life responsibilities, so I might not always be available to interact with and my replies tend to be on the slow side. Please be patient with me but also feel free to poke me if you feel like I’d forgotten something like a starter ! The above also applies to OOC as well. I sometimes can get a little scattered during OOC communication so please be patient with me regarding that too.  

General rping etiquette that we all know and love applies here ( no metagaimg, godmodding, etc. ).    

  I don’t do too much fancy styling. If you feel that any formatting I do makes it difficult to read and respond to my replies, please let me know !  

 Shipping - This blog is multi-ship, although I’ve gone from being multi to being single ship if I feel like the relationship between the muses is good. I’ll announce if I change shipping status if this happens. To add, because my muse is an adult ( +18 ), I’ll only be shipping with other muses that are 18+. 

   I really love pre-est. relationships of any kind ( platonic, romantic, enemies, unrequited love, etc ). So, please share any ideas if you have any !  

  I don’t enjoy seeing hate and I’m less of a fan when it comes to rpc drama. I prefer to keep my distance from either of these things and generally just want to have a chill atmosphere for this blog since it’s supposed to be a hobby. If you personally have any issues with me you can either softblock / unfollow / hardblock / communicate with me. All of these are valid options and I will respect whatever choice you make. I also reserve the right to do these things as well and please don’t come after me for doing so.

  As stated on the pinned post, there are going to be dark topics on this blog. I try my best to be respectful about them and portray them to the best of my ability while having everything tagged accordingly as ‘ trigger tw ‘. That all being said, if you find yourself uncomfortable with any of the topics explored / expressed on this blog, then do please put yourself first and unfollow. I would rather you take care of yourself first as an individual than make yourself stick around because you feel like you have to.

   I tend to let others do as they like with their blogs and don’t interfere with it, but I hope that everyone treats sensitive topics with the respect and time it deserves. That being said, I do have my hard lines I put in the sand and might unfollow / block for said things 

 Going off what was stated above, muse =/= mun. Just because I’m writing darker topics or my muse is acting in ways or says things that make the moral compass go in odd directions doesn’t mean I support them or romanticize them.  

  Unfollowing: please softblock when you unfollow and I’ll do the same to you. I personally might start unfollowing people if any of the following happens: you do something that doesn’t sit well with me ( i.e, spreading hate, being overly pushy with me, trying to make me break one of my rules, etc. ), we don’t really have that much interaction either IC or OOC, I feel like attempts to rp / plot go no where / general sense of disinterest, or you’ve been on hiatus for over 1 year.

 Anyway ! Thank you for reading the rules !