#i'm very tired of the sense of entitlement to my time when they literally give 0 fucks about me

[taashed]

not to keep banging on about it but that friend was like "well I hope you at least texted her congratulations" i'll fucking destroy you tbh

[koqabear]

hi guys! this is such an odd post i never thought i'd have to make, but yk... might as well put it out there.

i'm sure by now it's common sense that the writers you see on tumblr are real people with real, busy lives. we are people with jobs or in school or both, and we are people who write because we like to, not because we have to. we are doing this as a hobby- unpaid, giving hours-- days, weeks, months, years-- of our time to present art that we are passionate about. for free.

so to come into a writer's inbox or comments being demanding and frankly, entitled, for them to write simply because you want them to is disrespectful and dehumanizing.

I took a break because i was tired and no longer found myself having fun writing. I really don't want to sound pretentious, but i've devoted a lot of time to this account, and posted really frequently; all because i wanted to, of course. it took me so long to come into terms with the fact that i needed a break-- because honestly, if i kept trying to push myself further and forced myself to write until i couldn't anymore, i would have reached a breaking point and would have probably ended up leaving instead. and while i have reached an overwhelming amount of support for my decision, there are others who simply seem to lack this common sense.

now in reality, i could care less about these people; i saw a rude comment this morning-- on a post related to my difficulties writing, no less-- shrugged it off, and moved on about my day. i only just now remembered it after checking my notifications. however, this is an unacceptable way to treat content creators on this app, and not everyone can simply brush things off. i don't care what intentions you have when sending such things; it doesn't matter if it was a joke or lighthearted or whatever, because the meaning is still the same. we are not robots, we aren't people who will satisfy your every whim, and we most definitely won't write because you try to command us to. entitled, selfish people who treat content creators as nothing but machines and refuse to show their support properly are the very reason why writers leave this website left and right.

now, if i ever see anyone leave such comments and inboxes on my or another creator's account, it will guarantee a hard block from me. it literally isn't that hard to be a kind person to people who are catering to your interests for free.

this is the last time i'll talk about this; don't even try to send anything rude in my inbox, because it won't get you the attention you so desperately crave.

thank you to my followers who have shown unwavering support to me and have left me reassuring words. you are the people i look forward to sharing my writing with.

[murasaki-cha]

Just finished This Woven Kingdom and yeah it was like really hard to go through during the first 50-60% of the book but the latter part got me so excited I literally flew through it!

I love Alizeh so much she's literally the sweetest and the kidest and she looked so cute absolutely massacring those 5 armed mercenaries with her sewing supplies! God I just love her so much! How bad tho is it that I legit saw close to nothing in her romance with Kamran. Like he was going insane thinking about her 24/7 meanwhile Alizeh thought of him like a total of 5 times mostly when she was reminded by other people. Honestly good for her, girl was just trying to stay alive👏👏

Kamran was so funny, not as in "lol he makes funny jokes" but as in "lmao he sucks I love bullying his ass". He's such a nepo baby, like an entitled little ass with major anger issues and a side of mommy issues. Nah but fr he was a bit on the obnoxious side sometimes and it got on my nerves, I say this with love. Unfortunately I've heard he only gets worse, shame I quite liked him. Loved his simping tho fr he was so down bad it was sad to read sometimes. Also absolutely LOVED his interactions with Hazan, had both me on the floor every single time🤣

Cyrus literally appeared so close to the end but I really like his character because he is just SO PETTY🤣🤣🤣 He's just trying to do his job and shit like literally does not want to interact with anyone, I absolutely get him. Also he has red hair and is a dragon owner instantly he goes up on the favorite scale I don't make the rules. No but can't wait to read more about him and Alizeh in These Infinite Threads like I can tell they will give me the true enemies to lovers my heart desires, not whatever Kamran and Alizeh were giving. Their bickering sound hilarious already.

And by far my favourite character os Hazan. I ADORE HIM!!! He is literally so freaking sassy and so very tired of Kamran's shit. Every time he opened his mouth he wiped the floor with Kamren istg it was amazing🤣🤣🤣🤣 AND HE HAS A LOYAL LITTLE FIREFLY ISN'T THAT JUST THE CUTEST!!!! Also his devotion to Alizeh is just so sweet, I was so pleasantly surprised when he was revealed to be Alizeh's childhood friend. I really am hoping he doesn't become a love interest but just stays a loyal besgie through and through to Alizeh (like Kenji and Juliette)

All in all, this book is like an 8.5/10 for me ONLY because it was so hard to get through the first half of the book.

Queen Tahereh Mafi has gone and done it again folks and more people really should talk about this series more!

I'm gonna go read These Infinite Threads now✨️

Edit: I would like to clarify, just because I made it very clear I'm team Cyrus from the start, doesn't mean that I did not find Alizeh and Kamran cute! No they were super adorable actually when they interacted. And Kamran was legitimately down horrendous like boy get up! My only problem was that there were so few interactions between them, that it felt like they just developed these feelings for the image they had constructed of the other in their head. Like they literally had a conversation a total of what 3 times?? (Since the first book takse place in a total of 3 days) It didn't really make sense to me.

Right now I'm chosing to trust the forced proximity with Alizeh and Cyrus, also these two literally can't stand each other's ass already and they've just met so I feel like they're giving more enemies to lovers than Alizeh with Kamran. And since Tahereh Mafi herself said this is an enemies to lover romance, I'm going to trust my instincts

[sagessoftwings]

It's me🙃 may I get a jjk matchup?

She/her, straight, Pisces, INFJ, 5'4 tall, long burgundy hair, green eyes, always wear dark makeup and fashion sense is mostly achromatics with reds/blues/beige- let's say grunge of sorts bc I love leather and ckecked shirts/prints.

Personality: v calm, rational, have a sense of humor but also v tired idk what's wrong with me, I'll do favors depending on how tired I feel, v intuitive and perceptive, I don't like loud, annoying, entitled people (=Karens)- will instantly tell them to shut up and I can be v moody, otherwise I'm nice I guess, I'm responsible for myself and I avoid taking the leading role bc I'm not into pulling other people's slack, I'm v enthusiastic ab/like creating digital art and I'm adaptable when it comes to people and going-outs/can go guang ho and raise the mood bc I like to see everyone having a good time, I don't smoke/drink alcohol but I'm also worried ab getting a little carried away, I'm awkward with talking ab feelings/relationships bc that's someone's personal info and personal means keeping it to yourself until the day you die (yes this is John Mulaney reference) BUT I can warm up to a person if I know them well and I'm affectionate and loyal to this person only, I love crime series and medical dramas, horror movies and survival games, rpg and action/adventure, I love dark humor/sarcasm/irony/metaphors, I'm into equally normal guys who think before they speak and take showers after activities, I also respect Nobara not liking UBSSD's bc yes queen same but I also understand Momo's Sebastian Stan obsession good for her good for her, I listen to songs that either make you depressed or badass (from Olivia Rodrigo's "Drivers license" to Måneskin's "I wanna be your slave") and I consume fiction for escapism, I can relate to Megumi regarding modesty and not seeing myself in greater things although I should be greedier for my own sake, ah yes and I love Simon Baker bc of his smile.

That's it, have a nice day!👌Make sure to hydrate and take care bc you're a nice person and I like your vibes a lot.

AWH IM NOT EVEN GONNA LIE WHEN YOU SAID YOU LIKED MY VIBES I ALMOST CRIED, YOU’RE AO SWEET MY LOVE!

I ship you with Noritoshi Kamo!

Idk why I feel like he just gives good cuddles

But he’s super laid back and down to earth when it comes to being around you

But there are certain people he just can’t stand

People who over abuse their power, people who don’t give respect but expect it

Just pisses him off sometimes

A very independent man but if you need something he won’t hesitate to drop what he’s doing to help out

When first meeting, he tries very hard to earn your trust and interest

It takes a while but he’s just so mesmerized by you he needs more

Loves to take you out to do literally anything

But your the only person who gets to see that side of him

Otherwise he’s very cool and collected when around his fellow lower class mates

He likes to have you sit on his lap and hug you while doing so

Also holds onto your thighs in this process

He is such a big fan of Måneskin but only you know that about him

He’s actually a pretty good singer and loves to serenade you

But doesn’t like to show that skill off, only if you ask

He loves to watch you create digital art it’s literally so cool to him

You have such a cool talent and he’s obsessed

In return he’ll teach you to shoot a bow and arrow and when you hit the target he’ll kiss you and spin you around

Ugh so proud of his baby

He does need your help when it’s regarding fashion

You basically dress him like a little kid

But he takes pride in it

[thedeepmiracleperfection]

Low key tho people are constantly giving me shit at work (mostly customers ofc 🙄) for my speech impediments and my unconscious stimming (which involves rocking back and forth on my heels and humming) and sometimes I'm just exhausted and I want someone to leave me tf alone and I'm tired of their stupid invasive questions so I'll just tell them I have autism. And??? The amount of times??? I have just said "oh it's because I'm autistic" and people IMMEDIATELY back off and look away and are like "oh sorry" while acting like I just told them I have a DISEASE. The way they act afterwards, all polite and not asking me invasive questions anymore but no longer looking me in the face, like I said my grandmother was dying or that I had cancer. Like??

1. I don't even have autism. I have ADHD. Which is also a neurological diagnosis that causes the "symptoms" I described (tho honestly I don't consider those symptoms like yes they are caused by my adhd but they're not like ailments that need to be cured that's just the way I am lol) but I can't fucking tell people that because then they're like wtf does that have to do with anything because adhd is a very misunderstood thing and a lot of people don't know abt its symptoms and then STILL continue to ask medical questions when I'm just trying to do my job.

2. It shouldn't fucking matter what I have or if I had nothing at all! I shouldn't HAVE to have anything! People should just not be dicks! People should just fucking respect the privacy of strangers and not ask them questions about things they can't control!

3. It's fucking disgusting the way autism is viewed in our society the way that if I tell someone that's what I have they act like I said something inappropriate. It sucks that the public fear of autism is so great that I will willingly choose to expose myself to people's bigotry because they are more willing to avoid interacting with an autistic person than just stop invading my privacy the first 3 times I ask politely. And I know it's wrong to use the stigma against autism for my advantage but like. It's also so fucked up that it's one of the only ways I've found for people to leave me alone. People have literally asked me if I have a brain tumor as if that's something they're entitled to know but the minute I say the word "autism" suddenly they don't want to know another fucking thing about my medical history.

I just don't understand what makes people so entitled as to believe they are OWED a reason for someone acting in a way they don't understand. People are extremely varied, and while most of human behavior exists within a predictable range, there will always be outliers. You know what you do when someone acts in a way you don't expect but is otherwise not harming anyone or themselves? Nothing. Fucking nothing. You treat them with respect and dignity and move the fuck on. The universe doesn't grant you extra information so you can make sense of things. Just treat people politely and live in confusion like the rest of us. You're not entitled to someone's information because you want it.

The hard truth about autism acceptance that a lot of people don't want to hear is that autism acceptance also inherently requires acceptance of people who are just weird.

And yes, I mean Those TM people. Middle schoolers who growl and bark and naruto run in the halls. Thirtysomethings who live with their parents. Furries. Fourteen-year-olds who identify as stargender and use neopronouns. Picky eaters. Adults in fandoms. People who talk weird. People who dress weird.

Because autistic people shouldn't have to disclose a medical diagnosis to you to avoid being mocked and ostracized for stuff that, at absolute worst, is annoying. Ruthlessly deriding people for this stuff then tacking on a "oh, but it's okay if they're autistic" does absolutely nothing to help autistic people! Especially when undiagnosed autistic people exist.

Like it or not, if you want to be an ally to autistic people, you're going to have to take the L and leave eccentric, weird people alone. Even if you don't know them to be autistic. You shouldn't be looking for Acceptable Reasons to be mean to people in the first place. Being respectful should be the default.