#i'm so disgusted

[thetypingpup]

ok she's deactivated but jasminexo5/xuhuihuis was discovered to be a minor. that's why i'm tightening ship, yet again. y'all don't lie about your fucking age you put everyone in an unsafe situation, and we end up finding out, like i did today. any content she sent has been removed, and i'm going through my following list as we speak. i recommend anyone else who's interacted with her do the same.

so once again:

Ageless and blank blogs will be blocked. Minors DNI. Minors and bots/bot looking blogs will be blocked.

[marvelstarwarshero]

I don't even want to leave the house. People are fucking disgusting. This is a movie plot. This cannot be the supposed "greatest country in the world." Begging someone to tell me what is so great about it? You let a racist homophobic misogynist be in charge. This creature is a criminal that should be in prison not running a country.

[kriimhild]

PLEASE JUST STOP SHOWING ME THE FUCKING COW AD PLEASE! BRING PIKAMAN BACK I DON'T CARE JUST ERASE THIS FROM MY MEMORY! 🤢😖😖

[cheeseceli]

I just got cat called multiple times by a drunk man 🕴🏻 oh God

[ponytailcoby]

Twitter notification: Tune in to Josh Giddey's Introductory Press Conference ☺️❤️🖤

Me:

[theirloveisgross]

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[bloodgutzandchocolatecake]

one of my stalkers found my tumblr & they have a following that likes their posts about how i'm their "wife" & how they wanna suck my toes. please go to a psychiatrist & leave me alone.

[writercole]

I'm fucking disgusted.

I was answering an ask with the fake fic titles. Had written three little drabbles.

And they were good.

And then the editor crashed.

"But it pops up 'draft saved' every minute. how can it be gone." you say.

Yeah, @staff, great question. WHERE DOES IT SAVE THE DRAFT TO?

Because when I close the window, it saves as a draft. But when the editor crashes, it doesn't.

What the fuck, dude.

[a-story-teller]

I need to be trepanned

[frootbatz]

i made a discord account two days ago to join a fansub server only to find out now the fansubber is a raging transmisogynist 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[egophiliac]

he did it! 🐍 and it only took...uhhh...well, there probably could've been less punches, but why hold back!

PUNCHES FOR EVERYONE

[gloria-a-las-plagas]

oh you evil evil people posting That kind of awful shit in the trans tags, i hope you know you will all rot for all eternity

[nicolinocolino]

[movietimegirl]

Even though I already knew who Teen is from the very start, it still managed to shock me. 🩵💙🤴

Just like his Mom. ❤️

[autolenaphilia]

Edit: as hoshi9zoe pointed out, the original version of this post needlessly berated other transfems like Jennifer Coates, for which I do apologize, and I have toned it down in this edited version. The original version survives in reblogs.

Some months ago, I was searching through this transandrobro blog to see if they posted a callout of me, and i found this reblog, which I couldn't really write about for months, because what do I even write. I recently wayback machined it for posterity, and I guess this is my attempt to write a post about it.

It's saint-dyke himself, the coiner of transandrophobia, saying that the infamous (at least for me) article "I am a transwoman. I'm in the closet. I'm not coming out" is what made him coin the fucking word. It's literally bolded and underlined: "Reading this article is what made me coin “transandrophobia”.

The reason I put off writing this post is that reading that article makes me feel like i'm drinking poison. And it is poison, make no mistake, it's internalized transmisogyny brainworms dripping out of the writer's brain and onto the page.

It's a justification for why the author, known by pseudonym Jennifer Coates, doesn't want to transition, despite knowing she is a trans woman. And it's the exact kind of internalized transmisogyny that keeps trans women in repression and not transitioning. "I'm not going to pass, i'm forever going to be an ugly freak who will at best be humored by other women, the closet is uncomfortable but at least it's safe"

It's the same exact bullshit a lot of represssed trans women tell themselves because it's what society tells us about trans women, that we are freakish parodies of women, that we will never pass, and if we don't pass we have failed and are ugly freaks. It's all to scare us into staying in the closet and make others hate and fear us. Transmisogyny permeates our society, and the majority, maybe all transfems will absorb and internalize some of it.

Coates says that it all is just applicable to her, but again so many transfems believe this shit before transitioning and realizing it's a pack of lies. If this bullshit was in any way valid, a lot of trans women shouldn't transition, because before we actually transition many of us believe it word for word. And "it's only true for me" is how we justify it to ourselves. We tend to be way harsher on ourselves than others. This kind of self-hating transfem tends to think: "Other trans women are beautiful graceful goddesses, earthly manifestations of the divine feminine, always destined to be women, while I'm an ugly forever male ogre who just has a fetish."

It's all bullshit, it's poison, it's internalized transmisogyny.

And the rest of the article is bullshit too. It is not some insightful mediation on gender as some people say, it's the author confusing and mixing up actual transmisogyny with an imagined problem of misandry. She does this because she has gone full repression mode, and decided she has no other choice to live as a man, so her dysphoria and experiences of transmisogyny are actually men's problems.

It's a bad article, excusable because as Coatas points out, it's "essentially a diary entry." that was meant to be a way to "vent frustration" and she "did not intend for anyone else to actually read it." It is clearly not the product of a healthy mind.

I hope the author sometime in the past seven years eventually did transition, and that for whatever reason she didn't want to publicly repudiate her own article. Maybe she lost access to the medium account so she can't delete it.

Far worse than the article itself is the response to it. I've seen it passed around as some insightful commentary on gender by the "feminists are too mean to men, misandry is real" crowd. I have argued against this before. And other people have made insightful comments about it.

And learning that saint-dyke claiming that he was inspired to coin the word "transandrophobia" because of this article is the cherry on top of this shitcake of transmisogyny. For my thoughts on "transandrophobia" theory and how transmisogynistic it is, see here.

Of course, Saint-dyke absolutely could be bullshitting here. Claiming that Coates's article is what inspired him to coin the word might be a lie to claim that transandrophobia theory is not transmisogynistic because it came from listening to trans women.

This is why "listen to trans women" doesn't work. Because TME people will always choose a trans woman who confirms their prejudices. Blair White has made an entire career out of this. And Coates article is popular because it says that misandry is real and trans women's issues are partly caused by it, misgendering herself and other trans women.

And it's popular for another reason. Coates has thoroughly internalized transmisogyny, and thus her article presents a trans woman that is exactly as transmisogynistic patriarchal society wants her to be. She is suffering, but ultimately accepts her assigned role. She truly believes that her biological sex dooms her to forever be male. She literally "manages her dysphoria by means other than transition" as conversion therapy advocates want us to do. She never makes an social claim on womanhood by actually transitioning, so she doesn't invade the sacred women's spaces. Yet she performs the role of woman perfectly by serving men, by defending them from supposed feminist misandry. And she fulfils the ritualistic role that the rhetorical figure of "trans women" sometimes serves in progressive spaces, of giving a blessing to TME people's pre-existing views and actions, all while actual flesh-and-blood trans women are destroyed by those same deeply transmisogynistic spaces. This time it's a blessing for the same "misandry is real" soft-MRA bullshit that has infested the online left and created the transandrophobia crowd.

That is why this article and the positive response makes me sick, makes me feel like i'm drinking poison. This is what its fans want trans women to be like. I'm acutely aware this kind of self-denial is exactly what transmisogyny wants from me and tried to indoctrinate me into doing it. And I want none of it. I want to live, I want to be a woman.