#i think they both dislike thst they like each other

[sleepymccoy]

I love that fic, that was my first go fic! And you can really date it in a fandom sense cos it was before we all figured out beelzebubs pronouns lol. I'm so glad you enjoyed it ❤️❤️ it was fun to write

Aziraphale and Crowley meeting and pretending very hard that they’re not talking to each other

[just-call-mefr1es]

So✨

I like to imagine uhh

That

Uh

Hang on, trying to figure out how to put it into words-

Sorta hopefully figured it out :3

I like to imagine that certain ghosts (aka some Finches) don't get along with some people

Ehh screw the rant for now, Lil "chart" thing (not a chart but screw it.)

Using my favorite Finch member, Calvin!! Mostly because I don't wanna write for uh, the whole family so you can add to this if ya want ✨

Who he dislikes after death:

Edie (only because he thinks "if she wasn't careless, both his and Molly's death probably would've happened.")

Sorta Sven (because y'know, who tf builds a swingset NEAR A DAMN CLIFF-)

Kay (I forgot she existed tbh) because technically, she left Gregory alone in da tub (oh and the whole carpeted bathroom, yuck)

Now, who does he interact with the most after death?:

Gus! He was the first person Gus seen after dying (Calvin has actually tried to stop him from dying, as he knew Gus's death would probably impact Sam).

Molly, surprisingly they got along well. He's usually Molly's go-to for dressing up whenever she's bored af

Barbara ofc. Due to barb being stuck in the house, they would only look at each other thru the windows.

Sam, once he died. Will not elaborate.

Walter. When he found out about his death, he instantly went to look for him. Once he found him, Calvin immediately hugged him

And many more but I'm lazy.

I'll leave it at that for now, I gotta reblog smth

wooo ghost finches‼️‼️‼️ love it‼️

overall i do agree witn these (sits up so i csn type) calvin kinda being a bit angy towards sven does make sense, since why the hell would yu build a swing next to a cliff like dude ily but huh. i really love the thought of calvin and molly haging out:33 its such a cute lil neat thing to picture^^ DONT GET ME STARTED ON WALTER THST SHIT MAKES ME WANNA CRY😭😭 i love them :333

[yuukei-yikes]

No one ever talks about Ayano and Momo’s relationship so I request you do the honors.

i think they'd be so besties... i think they'd be so wholesome!!! they'd wanna win each other over so bad not knowing they already got it in the bag LOL they're like. friend crushes. u know when u have a person u wanna be close friends with so bad. like that.

ayano and momo would be fem best friends but their styles are so opposite. i think momo giving ayano a makeover would end the world. they'd go shopping together and all that good stuff :3 though ayano ends up the most affected after playing dressup with momo. shintaro seeing ayano walk into momo's room looking like always and comes out with a curly perm and covered in hot pink animal print and shiny boots. momo maybe convinces ayano to get a piercing in her belly button or some shit

i also think theyre THE mekadan's party planners. THEYRE IN CHARGE OF ALL BDAY PARTIES!! they brainstorm all ideas together and rly take charge!!! and throw parties about everything not just birthdays!! theyre such a menace they go all out and its always a huge event (also assign everyone a job lmao they'd get So Bossy and perfectionist)

i think momo's one of the people who activates ayano's excitable side. they're girl best friends who flap their hands around and scream when they run into each other. also if were on a kidomomo/shinaya moment its double wholesome ive talked abt it before but i think they'd always go on double dates bc kido and shintaro are besties too. but i think ayano and momo aren't just besties... they're sisters!!! i think they see each other in a sisterly way!

by the way i think ayano managing to be such good friends with momo gets her a ticket to becoming closer to mary and hiyori. she's desperate to be close to hiyori who i think dislikes her bc her Big Sister thing repels her and she hates that ayano talks to her like they're super close just cuz they're blood related. also ayano talks to hiyori like a kid (she talks like thst to everyone its the big sister in her) and hiyori HATES it. the hiyori and ayano relationship...its a tough one!

so while being friends with momo doesn't help her win hiyori's approval it gives her more opportunities to hang out with her. and mary doesn't dislike ayano but we know mary is REALLY socially awkward and yea she got comfy fast with all the new members right away but since mekatrio has always spoken so highly of ayano... she's nervous!! AND ALSO technically ayano and mary HAVE SEEN past routes too, because ayano used favoring to see shintaro's memories of them and then used favoring to give them to mary to let her know, and yknow. THATS what stop the loops. ofc we dont know HOW MUCH they know, ive always imagined shintaro just shared the fact there's been loads of resets but not each individual route as he remembers. but if they were to know of the route where ayano wanted to get rid of mary.. it'd be awkward. i think they'd know a little bit of it, not necessarily cuz shintaro shared it (i rly think he shared as least as possible) but they'd find out through the explanation of Who yaki is and the creation of shintaro's power. since yknow it was a plan by all three of them. they'd be trying to be friends but theyre both pretty awkward about it.

whoa i got off topic whats new there though lol... anyways. ayano&momo and the girl gang

[moibakadesu]

I dislike muu bc her relationship w haruka hits a little too close to home (very similar to me and my mothers) but sm ppl water her down to some master manipulator when i dont even think shes that self aware, and if she is, i dont think she knows where to stop

NOW FOR 0103 !!!!

I honestly just personally see haruka as the more assertive one in their duo, I see him as much more willing to take risks and is very flirty, and I see him being the one that drags fuuta places, i think with help from fuuta and therapy he becomes a very confident person

I see fuuta as like. Almost a housewife kinda vibes, i see him as a lot more nervous when it comes to the relationship and really "oh fuck btsbheabbdahfsaefsheahsa" and anxious and not usually acting first if ykwim by that, i also think he does lots of nicknames/variations of harukas name (ruka/aru are my personal favs here)

You got me started so i wont stop yet :3

I think that fuuta really tries to get haruka into games but hes ass at any combat but a cuphead GOD

Fuuta tried to teach him how to cook. It failed. He still tries (haruka CAN bake though, and really fucking well somehow)

Both of them are tight cuddlers like when they are sleeping they are as attached to eavh orher as two sewn dolls theyre my oingos ☹️☹️☹️

Haruka bites fuuta bc idk he looks like he'd just get bored and go "nom :3" on someone if ykwim 🤷

Haruka has very obscure sp/ins thst fuuta learns everything abt bc sillys

Ty for listening to my 0103 bs :3333

Might continue in the morning who knows, expect more of me some day 🔥

Your hcs are very cute and I can still see it, even tho I'm primarily on the 0301 boat and have a bit of a different read! I esp like the flirty Haruka take, while I think he likes to be "escorted" by Fuuta more than being the one to actually drags him out physically I do think that a Haruka who has found his self confidence and how to be more open about what he wants can definitely be pretty flirty and forward, esp when it comes to the more spicy things, and also with PDA definitely, where Fuuta is someone who ususally keeps that more in private.

Fuuta does have good house-husband qualities tho, absolutely. I think he would be very good in teaching Haruka some of the housework, because he can't handle uni/work and doing everything at home all on his own. And agreed on the cooking, I also like the idea that Haru is good with baking, I hc him mostly als a complete kitchen disaster, but that is so wholesome ...

Nicknames are also always cute!! I usually go with the pretty standard "Haru and Fuu" for what they call each other, but esp Fuuta mixing that up sometimes is such an adorable idea, I like that a lot. And the cuddling and biting, hnnnnngh!! Thank you for sharing these, I'm definitely always open for more!

[nancyxhardy]

Not only do Ingrid and Z have exponentially more chemistry, but they actually understand each other. Their moralities and outlooks and goals really line up. And Z is literally the only one of the three who actually supports Ingrid. Like anytime she is upset (and for valid reasons) the other two are just like 'you're pretty and smart it's fine you don't need to do anything just move on' but Z is like 'yeah you fucked up but if you're serious I will help you fix it'. Like the whole thing where he keeps saying that someone bad wouldn't feel bad about doing bad things. Z really believes in her, but he holds her accountable, and that is what she needs. It's so much better than the way the white men placate her to get what they want out of her.

[boypussydilf]

Can I get a Julian Bashir for any of your character asks

YESYOU MAY. i was gonna do both the bingo and the text game but there turned out to not be many bingo squares thst fit julian (gay person ido not respect, mommy & daddy issues, and genuinely compelling <3) so it was kind of sparse to use a whole image on. so ill just post this one

Sexuality Headcanon: hes bi and for some reason people want him

Gender Headcanon: HES SO TRANS MAN. thats a trans guy right there. i dont think he was intentionally trans coded at all the genetic engineering bit was. something else entirely but “jules-“ “dont call me that” hes trans. him trans

A ship I have with said character: Garashir <3 of course <3 garak looked at this random jumpy kind of insensitive medical twink and went I can make him worse. and i can fuck him too

A BROTP I have with said character: MILES!!!! miles n julians friendship is so fun lol. it can be gay too if u want. theyrejust. theyre besties for real. so proud of them. also jadzia <333 bi+trans solidarity…. the arcs of both these friendships in ds9 r SO GOOD FOR REAL lol

A NOTP I have with said character: dax. jadzia or ezri. its just. its bad from a writing perspective. i dislike julian/ezri less bc as an abstract concept, as just the 2 characters, itd be cute, but. the Context. pleaaase i need 2 attack eberyone in thr writers room who thought it was a good idea. who thought jadzia ever shouldve or wouldve been like Actually i AM interested in julian. He had this whole arc of being into jadzia and coming on way too strong and then eventually valuing their actual friendship more and !!!! making them date each other. invalidates it. bad

A random headcanon: its an obvious one but hes so the autism. also i dont remember if he ever cooks in the show? if sisko makes him assist or anything? I want to think he would be bad at cooking bc. mildly amusing

General Opinion over said character: i like him :) hes just some guy but if just some guy was not just some guy. hed be soooo normal except he was genetically engineered and hes getting dragged into fucking secret dubious starfleet operations and the assignment he decided to take on for heehee funsies and “frontier medicine” turns into a fucking war outpost and an ex spy. is trying to make out witn him. and he goes through So Much Shit. he is no longer just some twink. but he is some twink. i love him

[phopollo]

Listen

No art for this one

Just a ramble

We all know thst I absolutely adore Yulivia, and I love Yunan and Olivia as separate chat as well

However, I would like to bring to everyone's attention a very real possibility about what their Canon relationship may be:

Workplace exes.

I cant really point to any specifics, it's just-- the whole way they interact. The way Olivia cuts off Yunan in True Colors, and the smugness Yunan has with showing Olivia getting past the guards isn't impossible-- the way Olivia insists Yunan puts her down, and-- Yunan just straight drops her--

Just, everything about them implies some kind of history between them, and there's no denying it-- and as much as we try to tell ourselves it is, it's not "old married couple" dynamic

But

It's also clearly not a disliking each other dynamic

They definitely go "it's complicated" when asked about each other

So here's my theory:

Like I said, they're workplace exes who either had a fairly amicable breakup, or a really loud and messy one that they were sort of forced to get over just because of how often they have to interact with each other, and I'm kind of leaning toward the latter

But either way-- no matter how amicable or mutually agreed upon the breakup was, I think that

The reason it's so complicated is because they both still have feelings for each other

The little "oh" from Olivia as she smooths out her shawl(? Poncho?? No clue what thst thing is) when Yunan is agreeing with her, the way Yunan spins Olivia around at the pressumed victory before awkwardly pulling herself away-- the "you goof"?

There's just..... a little too much caring with the two of them in those moments

I wish I could pull more to make my point-- but there's literally nothing else I can

Them being the "It's complicated" work place exes just makes a little too much sense, and I'm desperately waiting for Amphibia to come back so there's more I can break down to explain my reasoning and/or change my opinion

[depressedhatakekakashi]

i just had the weirdest au thought, basically KakaGai but with Kakashi as a mermaid that more often than not stayed on land during his childhood because he was still controlling his lightning powers and Gai with wings but he can't fly (injury or born with it? idk) they're both often excluded even from their own people but also can't really fit in with the humans despite being brilliant in their field but that's ok they have each other

I am so sorry for the late response.

I actually kind of love this and thst’s saying a lot I think cuz i usually dislike mermaid au’s (no reason i just have never liked them)

Kakashi being the first, or maybe a once in a hundred years’ type of baby born of the water with lightning powers. It’s a dangerous thing. This boy is surrounded by people who can talk to the fishes and move the water around them when they want, and he gets lightning

A power that could kill everyone around him if he uses it

Needless to say, he’s not really supported in the use of his powers.

Meanwhile Gai is a Pheonix or type of flying mythical creature, but an accident when he was you g busted his wing and it never healed properly so he can’t fly.

The two of them meeting in this really secret spot where Kakashi can look and act human, and Gai can hide his wings and try to be normal. They could try to live their lives out among humans but they’re both people who want to be themselves. To show their powers.

Or maybe it’s through Gai that Kakashi finds that confidence to be himself. At first he wishes his powers could go away and he could get more ‘normal’ powers, but Gai convinces him to show him what he can do, and oh boy do his eyes light up when he see’s lightning cracking through the sky towards Kakashi’s fingers. This is the coolest thing he has ever seen and he doesn’t want Kakashi to hide it away.

The two of them always coming to that same spot to visit as kids. Dreaming about a better future for them and trading foods and trinkets from their respective worlds. Kakashi having a little feather of Gai’s that molted from his wing and wearing it on his chest, even though it gets wet whenever he goes back into the water.

Gai having a piece of wood Kakashi split with his powers and holding it dear because he’s one of the only people who got to see that moment.

[blakelywintersfield]

Help! Part one: Backstory- when I was a kid I saw love triangles & thought well why can't they just all date bc i was a kid & didn't understand polyamoury so my parents told me that polyamoury is no longer acceptable in today's society. So I grew up in a monogamous society & believed that polyamoury was non existent. Then I thought it was wrong, or at least unhealthy. Then I believed that triangle romances were ok but not Vs or open relationships but I still disliked polyam as an idea

I disliked polyamoury as an idea & didnt support that lifestyle but if any1 hated on my polyams I would defend em. Now Im ~accepting/supportive of polyam bc if they communicate (like any relationship) then itll turn out fine (if all parties are poly, that is.) example- i had a friend whos strictly mono but he dated a poly guy who was abusive& treated my friend like a sidechick. When they broke up my friend put his mono ass into another poly romance &bc of his trauma & bpd he was toxic & trying to make his bf mono & felt like he was the sidechick again despite his bf treating both of His bfs equally. & he also had a bad experience with polyamoury so he knew how my friend felt. (Communication is important) Present day- so here comes my issue. I think I might be poly. But I suck at communication & I seem to have internalized issues & polyphobia & I'm not sure whether I "believe" in it or not. Idk what to do & I don't think my parents would approve esp since I don't even approve. What if it's just romanticized or fetishized & I'm not actually poly? I don't want to be poly. I wish society didn't frown upon it bc thst might help. So here I am, a 17yo on Tumblr, asking an older queer for help.

Hi hun! Hopefully, I’m not getting back to you too late on this; sorry it took me a minute to respond!

Firstly, I want you to know that no matter what you turn out to be -- monogamous or polyamorous -- that the way you love isn't unhealthy. Neither type of relationship structure is better than the other; it purely depends on how you feel during it. I know it may be hard to accept something that you were raised to see as immoral or wrong; believe it or not, I was raised extremely homophobic and transphobic, and accepting I was queer and trans was a big shift for me. Hell, I just came to terms with being grey-aromatic -- and that one was hard as hell, because well. I do like romantic relationships. I love that closeness, that bond. Accepting that it was rare as hell for me to feel that towards anyone else was really tough, but it was also liberating. I realized, wow, I wasn't broken because I couldn't romantically connect with others that had mutual interest in me; it's just my romantic orientation. The same may go for you -- if you end up being polyamorous, accepting it can really free you of guilt you may have felt in the past for having a crush on two people and wanting to date them both, because there's nothing wrong with wanting that.

I'm personally monogamous. I know I am because of a few reasons -- I'm worn out very easily by social situations, and even friendships are hard for me to manage just because my social battery is really low. I don't think I have the social stamina to keep up with multiple partners, and I would hate to neglect one or more of my partners, or make them feel unwanted / unloved. I'm a solitary person by nature. And that's okay! I also do have issues feeling insecure, and while I am working on that, I don't think it would personally be healthy for me if I had a partner who was polyamorous, because I'd worry they would get bored of me / leave me for the other. Which is unrealistic -- in a healthy polyamorous relationship, this wouldn't be an issue, but I know my anxiety and relationship insecurity is bad enough that it would put a polyamorous partner through too much stress. Being on the aromantic spectrum too, I just don't know how likely it'd be for me to find a partner, let alone multiple, so that's a personal factor for me, but besides that, my reason for being monogamous are based on how I know myself to be in romantic partnerships.

One of my best friends is polyamorous. One of her biggest reasons is because she feels the need for a support system that goes past friendship -- partners that could live with her, help her raise a family, make sure she stays safe (she has some physical and emotional/mental issues). It makes her feel more secure to know she has multiple people looking out for her, and makes her feel like she's not putting too much stress on one person. The distribution of responsibility makes her feel much more comfortable than having one person take it all on. In a sense, the reason I'm monogamous is the same reason she's polyamorous -- a feeling of security.

Regardless of what kind of relationship you have, it should make you feel secure. Obviously we all have our moments -- as someone with BPD, I have times where I'm insecure just about my friendships, and even my relationship with my parents. Sometimes we all feel insecure, but if it's a constant feeling and it can't be taken care of with reassurance, then you may want to reconsider the relationship -- be it monogamous or polyamorous. Think about your expectations from a relationship; what would you want the outcome to be? If you had multiple partners, what would that look like long-term for you? This should be based purely off what you want / need -- not based off what others may think of you or what negative ideas others might get, because at the end of the day, those who don't support a healthy path to happiness don't have opinions you should judge off of.

There's also different types of polyamorous relationships, and from what I know, most polyamorous people tend to have a relationship set they prefer -- for example, you mentioned open relationships. That's a type of polyamory where, usually, a couple may have another partner / multiple partners, and their position could be anything from a partner to a friend with benefits; the couple usually sets the boundaries on what they expect (i.e. "you can sleep with other people, but I want us to stay the main couple") and then they explain those boundaries to anyone they may wish to engage with. It may seem strange that a couple committed to each other would sleep with other people, but there's a variety of reasons, ranging from kinks to sexual needs to libido (i.e. a couple with a sex-replused asexual who is comfortable with their partner having responsible / safe sex with other people to satisfy their sexual needs). Some people who have needs like my best friend may benefit from Vs; where one person has two partners, but those partners don't date each other. That doesn't mean they're not aware of each other -- that's NOT polyamory, that's cheating. As you said, polyamory takes communication, and without that, it's not healthy polyamory. There's also Triads (three people all dating each other), Fluid Chains (these tend to end up being two people already in polyamorous couples that start dating each other), and much more! I'd say the judgement of you needs and expectations in a relationship should help you decide what type of relationship you'd want.

As you brought up, there's always a risk of getting into a polyamorous relationship that ends up toxic, but that risk is just as likely as ending up in a toxic monogamous relationship -- neither relationship type is "more prone" to toxicity. I'm very sorry your friend dealt with it firsthand, especially because the first experience being a toxic one can make it very hard to get past that trauma. Getting out of any kind of toxic relatinship can leave you with some trust issues and things to work out; it's just as toxic to force a polyamorous person to be monogamous as it is for a monogamous person to be polyamorous. If you're not comfortable with a certain relationship style, you shouldn't force yourself to comform to someone else's, and vice versa.

I know in the recent years, with polyamory starting to become more talked about, understood, and accepted, that it may seem like it really is the perfect way to date. And for some, it is! For others, not so much. I really recommend making a list of your expectations out of a relationship (as I said before), because that may help you clear up whether or not it's just been romanticized to you, or if you may actually be polyamorous yourself. If possible, maybe try finding some local polyamory support groups / meetups, and seeing if you can find other people who are also questioning whether they're mono or poly -- sometimes what helps is talking to others who have questions, because they may also have answers. It may also end up benefitting you because if you end up dating someone else who isn't sure but is open to trying, you can both safely explore that type of relationship without risking the other not being open to polyamory. Since you are 17, I would highly suggest finding groups geared towards those under 21, because regardless of relationship orientation, an older person persuing you is not okay. Anyone involved in your relationship should be around your age, even if you're not directly dating them.

Sorry if this was a little mixed around, if you need to ask for clarifications on anything, or have any other questions, please feel free to ask! Good luck hun! <3