#i saw a post about a husband who mopped all the floors with bleach cleaner

[stephocrates]

women have managed to take the term “weaponized incompetence” and water it down to a gendered term that basically means “everything mistake men make is on purpose to piss you off” which is sooo disingenuous and pathetic. first of all you’ve watered down what it actually means to be weaponizing your incompetence, which is a real manipulation tactic. secondly you’ve created this narrative where even a man’s most innocent mistake implies this man has bad intentions or he hates women or whatever the fuck. and third, you’re completely ignoring that weaponized incompetence is not exclusive to men and in fact I’d make the claim everyone has weaponized their incompetence at some point in their lives whether that be with your parents or your job or whatever.