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onisiondrama · 5 years ago

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PART 14 - videos #26 & 27

(Click here for video mirrors) - These are not my words or thoughts, I’m just summarizing what Greg / James is saying in his videos. Apologies for any offensive language or comments that may appear. - I am not repeating stories anymore and will replace these stories with brackets describing what he’s talking about. If you don’t know these stories you’re going to have to go back and read previous parts or watch his previous videos.

the known

- He was just read some texts from Sarah. In them, Sarah said she would know if she was groomed because she was groomed when she was 11 and put that person in prison. He says she also said in texts that Ayalla tried to sleep with her when she was 16 and Ayalla encouraged her to starve herself. He says it’s interesting Ayalla would attempt to take the moral high ground when she tried to sleep with Sarah when Sarah was 16. He would love to show you the texts, but last time he showed texts you guys got his Patreon deleted. He learned his lesson and if it goes to court he’ll have to drop that text bomb. - [He gets a phone call. It cuts to after the call and he says he can get a free beyond burger at Carl’s Jr.] - He says Sarah had a piece of paper that said they had the ability to take her to the hospital or to make life changing decisions for her if they needed. This was because she was going to live with them, but it didn’t work out. Kai remembers Sarah lived around them when she was 16. Nothing happened between them. Billie knew how much Greg hated Sarah at the time. - The texts Sarah sent them are now concrete because they uploaded them to the iCloud. - He says he doesn’t remember Sarah coming and going very well because he didn’t care. He didn’t let himself care about her and he wasn’t interested in her life. She was there to be Kai’s friend. He didn’t show any interest in Sarah besides when they played the game Deadliest Warriors where he would crap talk her when he slashed her up in the game. - Sarah was there 5 months, then three. She went home again after she confessed she loved Greg to another person. That caught him off guard and he didn’t want to deal with it. She got creepy, weird, and crazy in response to his “dat booty doe” joke. Nobody says that, it’s not a real thing unless you’re R&B or Hip Hop, which he’s not. He’s a comedian. - The texts they have go back to 2014. He doesn’t know if Kai was talking to Sarah in 2014. Greg didn’t meet her until 2016 when she was 16. It’s hard to say someone has a parental role when the person isn’t living with you. She was there 5 months, then three, then she came back to visit for an Easter egg hunting party or a Christmas party. He guesses no one wanted to hang out with her for the holidays back home or she wasn’t interested in hanging out back home. He didn’t give a shit about Sarah and she was only around maybe 9 months total. She didn’t visit before she turned 18, especially since they moved into this house and it’s too small to fit another person. People think she lived with them from 16 to forever and he agrees that would be weird. He speculates since Sarah left, the medical piece of paper they signed would no longer be relevant. There was no consistency or parental behavior. The most parental thing he did was drop her off at Target because she worked there. She was home schooled so he didn’t drive her to school. - Says there’s text after text of Sarah telling Kai she knew he wasn’t interested in her and she knows Greg isn’t grooming her. He treated her as shitty as he humanly possibly could. He compares her to the person in a friend group you don’t like. She was a dumb teenager and socially weird. She was always glaring at Billie. She wanted to be Billie and dyed her hair blue to be like Billie. She tried to be cutesy when she was 17, but they wouldn’t bite. It wasn’t interesting and he wasn’t attracted. He’s an asshole and mean. He called her Meg Griffin to her face and laughed. - You guys only believe him when he says something you want to hear. That’s how you know you’re not honest. Reality is harsh truth. - What happened to Kai was a crime. If he decided to press charges Greg would stand by him. but he doesn’t think Kai wants to. Kai doesn’t want to talk about it, like a real victim would do because it’s humiliating. - Sarah was with Kai two times and Kai just layed there. Sarah put her mouth on him. Kai was not comfortable. [Greg only pushed the relationship to help Sarah.] - Sarah later said she was only joking about blackmailing them. He says it’s hard to tell when someone tells a joke in a non-joking context. [NDA/blackmail story] - He recently learned Sarah kept a little book about them the whole time, like she was plotting. She admitted nothing happened until she was 18 so that blows her whole story up. You shouldn’t trust people that change their stories. Only in some instances, like when you realize someone isn’t who you thought they were. - Greg says after he broke up with Shiloh for cheating, she would say she always loved him, she treasured the moments they had together, and one day they’ll meet up again. She was talking about how great he was on her public blog, which you can still access, Draculoh. After she realized she’s not going to get him back she said he was actually terrible. Typical psychotic ex bullshit. - [Sarah kissed Kai and scared Kai story.] Says he told Sarah if she really liked Kai to just kiss him. He was the one that gave her the right to do it. He and Sarah pressured Kai and made him uncomfortable. You can’t call Greg a rapist because Kai wanted to be with him. Out of everything that’s happened, that was the closest thing he did to a crime. If Kai wanted to press charges against Greg for aiding Sarah in what she did to Kai, Greg wold probably be compliant because he was there and it didn’t feel good. The first time it seems ok, the second time seemed a little weird, the third time seemed straight up not good. Seemed like they were trying to trick Kai into sleeping with them. They put Kai through hell. He and Sarah are probably terrible people. If you want to be mad at him, be mad at him for what he and Sarah did to Kai. He only did it because he has a hero complex and wanted to help Sarah. He wasn’t thinking about Kai. That’s why Kai is still silent. You guys still put him through the ringer. If a victim was sobbing hysterically and suffering right in front of you, you wouldn’t see it. All you guys only see people who viciously go after other people and you want to joining the outrage culture bandwagon. The real bad guys are Sarah and possibly himself.

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- Someone who actually listened to Greg wrote him. They say Anonymous Gene DM’d them on twitter. Gene thought they were a sock puppet account because they were defending Greg. This person got 9 out of 10 of Gene’s accounts suspended for spamming, harassment, and doxing. Gene claimed to be working with Chris Hansen and Hansen follows his account. Greg says he’s seen no proof of this, he’s only been told. He’s seen screen shots of Gene’s alleged IP address and they connected him to Vince, then it wasn’t Vince. People keep saying Hasen is paying Gene to dox Greg and his family members. His family members have nothing to do with this, he barely talks to any of them. - Person says Gene posted on reddit, he was the first person to leak photos and videos of Hansen knocking on Greg’s door. Greg asks how this person would have access to that before anyone unless they were working with Hansen. - Person says they found out Gene’s real name. They googled it and saw he was arrested and went to court. Greg says Hansen works with a lot of people who have been to court and Hansen was also arrested. A lot of corruption. - Person said if you google “Lance and Chris Hansen” a page came up saying Chris is working with criminals. Greg says criminals stick together. You can look up Chris Hansen’s mugshot. - He searches for texts from a girl who tells him everything people are saying about them. [He scrolls through the texts.] He says people knew not cropping the top of the Billie text was an accident, but people got him suspended anyway. That’s integrity for you. - [He reads a quote from December that said there’s officially an FBI investigation looking into him.] [Laptop story, chain of ownership.] He says it was an old shitty laptop Sarah bought for $200. - [He responds to quotes from the texts.] Says he hasn’t broken rules. [Lists and responds to Chris Hansen’s financial issues.] - Greg says someone took a picture of him holding a toddler in Dairy Queen. Apparently he can’t go to Dairy Queen without people taking pictures of him and posting it to the web. Very irritating, especially when you take picture of kids. - Reads someone wanted to put wanted posters with his and Kai’s face around where they live. He says that’s slander and posing as law enforcement, a crime. People commit crimes because they think they’re a hero. That’s because they don’t die a hero. They live long enough to become the villain. - He says Real Stream News is upset at Vince. - He says there’s Regina going on twitter rants about seeking plastic surgery. - [He called the cops on Chris Hansen, Hansen released the 9-1-1 call.] That’s not what an innocent person does, that’s what a criminal does. It’s creepy. - He reads officials can’t release recordings without a court order. He says maybe that’s true. - He reads Shiloh got her tattoo covered up and gave the rest of the money to the other victims. Greg says he doubts that. He says covering up a tattoo is $50 and he was told she already had it covered up before the gofundme. He asks where the money went. He says people should step up and publicly admit if they got money from Shiloh. That would prove she did was she said she did, but he has a theory that she did what she did to him. Take the money and run.[Shiloh took his money while she was in Canada story.] She later apologized and said she would pay him back. He wanted the $3,000 or $4,000 back. She gave him a confirmation code. He went to the Fred Meyer in Tacoma to the money tree and they said it wasn’t a real number. He thinks that’s fraud. He tells Shiloh if she still wants to give back the money she promised him, that would be great. [Shiloh took his money story again.] She told lies to get money from him. That’s fraud. - He reads an angry tweet from someone asking Shiloh for receipts. He says “yikes.” - [Lists things Gene doxed.] Greg says if Hansen is funding that, it could be a real legal problem. Hansen is already in legal trouble with trespassing past Greg’s signs. - Says the next part is people being hateful about toddlers in videos. It’s crazy anyone can see tragedy, something horrible that happened to a child and think money. That’s what a lot of Youtubers think. If you want to look like the good guy, you should donate all the money you made off those videos about a toddler getting hurt to a good cause. Profiting off of that is horribly evil. Hansen should donate month off of interviewing “victims” [hand quotes] to a charity or a good cause instead of paying off his debts. If he cared about these people that’s what he would do. - [He reads the leaked texts from Gene of Vince calling Wes the N-word.] He says he can’t show these or he’ll get in trouble. - [Greg reads about the person who tried to get him SWATted, but the 9-1-1 operator knew it was fake because it happens so much they have Greg’s info.] Greg says this is the 19 cases people say there are. There are actually 19 calls. A long time ago someone said Sarah was murdered. When the cops came, Sarah answered the door. Says most of the times the cops don’t show up because it’s so ridiculous. The cops are probably sick of you guys and your false things. - He says when someone sent him powder in an envelope, it didn’t even make it to him. The post office almost shut down. They tested it and it turned out to be food product. They tried to make it appear like they mailed something that would end his life or the life of his family. Everybody thinks they’re a good guy if they do evil things to people they think are bad. Heroes confirm someone is guilty before they hurt them. The people that do these things are the real criminals. If someone gets shot when you get them SWATted, that’s on you. People are doing horrible things and there’s no accountability. The post office told him they were looking into the person that sent the powder because it may have been a federal crime. They told him because it wasn’t a distinguished threat, they are not sure if they are going to pursue it.

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booksbroadwaybbc · 6 years ago

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Wanting to be a happier / more efficient person via /r/selfimprovement

Wanting to be a happier / more efficient person

Hello.

(Before I start, I made the same opener in a recent r/NonZeroDay post of mine. I think it gives a good understanding of my situation)

(A little about myself before I start. In no way is this meant to be a form of bragging / playing the victim. Just factual statements to help you (yes you) better understand me before I start explaining my situation.)

My name is Dylan and I am a 15 year old aspiring esports professional, from NY. I fell in love with the industry 6 years ago. Since then, all I could study / research was esports. I've learned a ton, but still have ways to go. I have gotten to the understanding that when given the choice, playing and pursueing esports as a profession, as well as studying / researching it when I'm not playing, are the two things I love most. If I had a week to do whatever I wanted, I would wakeup, play, learn, anylyze, study, sleep, repeat. Obviously, though, as a teenager who has way more responsibilities (school, family, social, athletics) this is not a reality, nor will it be in the forseeable future. Now that you know my goals and dreams, a bit about my reality...

I was diagnosed with depression and ADD, and have been assumed to have anxiety as well. Depression does not control my life, and I HATE to use it as an excuse for anything, but when things head downhill, it seems to be the label that is pasted on those feelings right away. ADD is a strange thing for me. I do not feel as if it controls my life either, yet I tend to get distracted, off task, ancy, figity, etc. extremely often. (I am a teenager living in a society where such attributes have become more and more common, so I have accepted the fact that it may just be that.) I also CONSTANTLY THINK. I literally do not stop thinking. I have a voice running through my head 24/7. (I do not know if it's because of my apparently high IQ or just because I think a lot but it is so fucking annoying, and I wish I could utilyze it efficiently, as I am not a fast, in-the-moment thinker) This causes extreme and prolonged periods of lack of attention, inefficiencies, and overal procrastination beyond belief. As for my anxiety, I get extremely worked up / tense / anxious / naseous / feel gross whenever something interjects with me / whatever I am doing, ESPECIALLY when I am doing something I do not want to. I have figured out that these are actually greatly controllable, and revolve solely around my general happieness. I am greatly affected by external things, whether it be the current relationship with my family, how school is going, how gameing is going, etc. I find that when I am in front of the computer, many of these life inhibitors are minimized and I feel as if I am finally able to do what I want, which is why I am so emotionaly attatched to gameing and pursueing a career in esports.

I disagree, heavily, with the current school system, as I feel as if it lacks focus on what students actually care for. Although many American schools are transitioning into a more European type of schooling, where specific focuses / pursuits are prioritized, yet balanced with the "normal" school work.

I live in a dysfunctional household, where I argue with my parents on a daily basis, and am currently highly considering moveing out when I turn 16 (May). They are the common Jewish parents (similar to that of the asian stereotype), who value the education system highly and cannot accept that fact that I do not want to go to college, and that it is not a good use of my time. 99% of our arguements nowadays are about the computer / gameing and balanceing it with schoolwork. I used to be told that as long as I did well in school (90 minimum in all of my classes at all times) I could play a lot (only during the weekends). After fighting for about a year to have playing time during the school week, they have finally agreed to allowing me to play, as long as I'm done with all of my school work, am actively social, excersise multiple times a week, and be a "good person." None of these are unrealistic, as I feel like maintaining these is actually beneficial to my health. With that said, they have recently made a restriction that was never part of our "deal", which is that I can only play up to 3 hours a day, during the school week, and have to get off at 10:30pm (previously 11pm). For as long as the original "deal" was in place, I listened to their rules, actively putting effort into all of their needs, whilst being allowed to play basically as much as I wanted during the week. Since this been taken away, many more arguements and disagreements have become abrubt, as I feel like if I can do what they ask, and there is a specific curfue, being allowed to play until then is not unrealistic, by any means. The second that I break these guidelines / do not do what they ask me under the "deal", I can understand why gameing will be taken away. As I begin to agree more and more with them, allowing for such restrictions to take over the "deal", they begin to present more and more priorities that were never apart of the conversation, and have said if I can't live up to the new standards, gameing drops right away.

Forgot to mention my parents...

My mom is extremely aggressive and does not stop at anything short of exactly what she wants. She has mentally and physically hurt me, screaming at me for as long as I can remember, saying lasting remarks like "I wish I never had you" and "You're such a fucking asshole", etc. and has hit me multiple times over the past 2ish years. (CPS actually got involved 2 weeks ago, when I was talking to a guidance counselor at school about her punching me. My mom is furious with me about this, and says she will never forgive me) She controls the household and manipulates everyone, but I argue with her the most because I'm not afraid to stand up against her, unlike my brother (going to college next year) and my sister (2 years younger than me - has been hit by my mom multiple times, and argues with her sometimes, knowing how rediculousmy mom can get, yet still blames me for the arguements between my mom and I). When I am in some of my lowest points, she is not there for me, and threatens me. (The other week, we were in the car and I was at a terribly low point. I was pleading for emotional support, and she honked her car horn for 30 seconds, only to threaten me with throwing me out of the car onto the side of the highway, if I said one more word.)

My dad is a very passive person. He used to argue with my mom constantly, but has since thought that being more passive and just agreeing with her, even when he thinks he is right, is a better solution, to prevent divorce, and arguementation in general. This has lead to him being a "sidekick" type figure to my mom, agreeing with her about everything and creating a team against me. I do not think that parents working as a team is a bad thing, but my mom, being as controlling and manipulative as she is, takes advantage of this, and assumes even more power with my dad on her side.

As a whole, they have become extremely "anti-Dylan" and have turned to being unrealistic and extremely controlling of my life as a solution to our problems. (An example of their unrealisticness happened tonight, when my mom barged into my room and screamed at me to get of of the computer. I asked why and she stared me down and screamed "because you have work to do." I replied with "I finished all my work life you asked me" (I genuinely did all of my work), to which she replied "No you didn't. You have more work to do. Get the fuck off the computer and do you work." She continued the conversation downstairs when I tried to convince her that I had finished all of my work, to which she stormed upstairs and left me with my dad. My dad looked at me and said "This is why I wanna throw that fucking thing out of the window. It brings so many problems to this house." I explained "I just wish you guys supported me more with what I want to do with my life." All he said was "We do."

(tl;dr) My situation can be summed up like this:

I want to pursue gameing as a career, becoming a professional, learning the buisness, and evnetually branching off into owning / manageing my own org / team / company relating to esports.

My parents support none of this and hate the idea.

I am able to manage and achieve all of their requests at the standard in which they ask of me, only for them to go against our "deal" (where if I do those things (90s+ in all of my classes at school, be social, be athletic, be a good person) I can game) and put more and more restrictions on it.

I want them to accept me and my pursuit, and support me in doing so. I think they do care a lot about my future / happieness, and I do think they want the best for me, yet they don't understand that gameing is what makes me happiest.

I REALLY DO BELIEV THAT THEY WILL SUPPORT ME IF I PROVE THAT I CAN MAKE MONEY.

This situation brings me tons of sadness, yet motivation to make the most of my time on and off the computer.

I am seeking advice on staying positive in such shitty times, as well as ways to be efficient and make it to the top with such a lack of opportunity, as compared to those who grind to the top 0.01%. I am open to any advice / system to do so, and would love to hear what you guys have to say.

Thanks.

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