#i never understood why this was used as a reason to rltreat me like shit

[elektroskopik]

If you've ever treated an afab person like shit because you thought they were flirting with you or other men, or they didn't want to date you or that they didn't even clue in that you thought that they were flirting (i.e. manipulating you or other men)... Then you are a sexist piece of shit and you have no right to call yourself an LGTBQ ally.

Your values are squarely christofascist, sexist, heteronormative, and homophobic.

I have encountered too many so-called liberal-leaning men who claim to support women and people in the queer/LGTBQ community who still think and operate like this. It's gross and abusive. Not every afab/femme/queer person needs to be out for you to back the fuck off and respect their boundaries, especially in the workplace. Women, femmes, and queer people do not owe you their story.