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rebellum · 1 year ago

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Last night I almost jokingly called my partner a faggot and was like oh shit wait I should ask first, and he explained his boundaries around the term, but anyways the important part of this post is that he said something that's funny but also stuck with me

"I mean... I AM a faggot. Also, I feel like if you're dating a faggot, you have to be a little faggoty yourself"

And that second sentence is living in my head rent free it's following me around like a little butterfly

#he calls me that bc its hot and gender affirming #but during compliments we both often respond with 'no youre ____'#so i was half asleep and was almost like 'no ur a faggot' before i was like. oh shit hes like a real^tm queer man i need to fucking #ask first #i mean obvs u should ask anyone before calling them a slur #but i meant like. i obvs dont have trauma with the slur. cause i dont pass even as gnc at ALL (😭)#but i luckily stopped myself bc i remembered he could have trauma or something

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