#i mean 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ am i wrong lmao

[jimothystu]

me to my non-sporty parents: you don’t watch sports to relax and be quiet. you watch sports to feel something.

[dead-boys-club]

You characterize everyone really great! Except Touya don't you think you write him a little too expressive? it just doesn't seem very fitting.

I'm not sure if I should say thank you or...

So, I'm not going to do what I did with Hawks and write you a whole book ( i lied ) on why I write Toya the way I do. However, I'll give a little piece:

Dabi was a mysterious, sarcastic jackass. Dabi was a cover. A persona. He didn't exist. He was built to mask intentions until Toya got where he needed and wanted to be. It's very simple.

Toya, on the other hand, in case no one's noticed is very emotional, very expressive and talks waaay too fucking much. I mean, we spent like 7 pages with him monologuing. He's not.. some emotionless, dead inside jerk and I also refuse to write him as some overly sexualized nympho - it's kind of tiring seeing all these characters reduced to nothing but sex and bad clichés. I mean - he's a super traumatized, unstable dude with a mental issue here and there, who actually enjoyed hurting people, but he's not a sociopath. However, he's also not in denial about a single thing. He knows what he went through, he knows what he's doing, he knows he's a little unhinged.

However - you're talking about a kid who basically just wanted attention and approval, who wanted his dad to be proud of him. Lmao, I hate to break it to you anon, but half the people I know, including myself, are very familiar with this kind of situation and the trauma of it. ( if you feel the need to come at me for the burning alive part, you can take your smart-ass right to the block button and not waste my time. )

I really, really hate that I have to keep repeating myself about these characters actually having depth and being more complex than you give them credit for.

Do you even understand what its like to be a deeply traumatized person, who sought those things and ended up so fucking disappointed that you became someone else? That you stopped trusting, stopped loving - you just kinda broke? The scenarios and reactions I've written for him with a partner convey someone who finally found someone else that isn't pushing him away, isn't screaming at it and is accepting how he wants to deal with things. And I've also made it clear in my writings of him that it confuses the shit out if him and he doesn't just accept that someone loves him and is proud of him... because how the hell is he supposed to know how to react to something he's never had? I didn't just.. make him into a character that changed over night and is good and happy, etc etc. No. Because I know better and I'm not going to shit on a character with complexities stemming from trauma and mental disorders.

As someone with a handful of mental problems, trauma out of the ass, that relates to this character on a pretty scary level - I refuse to write him on the surface of what Dabi was supposed to portray. I will continue to write Toya the way I always have and if you don't like it, that's perfectly fine. I'm not asking you to like it or change your OPINION, because that's what it is, but you will not come onto my page and tell me it's wrong. Lmfao.

I'm sorry that you want some shitty, second hand surface level Dabi writing that I refuse to give. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Hopefully you find another writer who will do that for you.

( Let me clarify: I am 100% shitting on how this opinion was brought to me. I'm not shitting on people that write him that way, not everyone spends 179395 hours in a fixation obsession over a character; I do. Write how you want. Write how it makes you happy. But don't go to people and talk to them like this.)

You could have easily written something like 'you characterize everyone really great but I don't agree with toya. can i ask why you characterize him like this?' Literally could've just asked. Not 'oh this is great except this one this one is wrong'.

If it doesn't seem fitting to you, that's okay. Then my writing isn't your taste. Go find someone else you enjoy?

[anime-villian-irl]

@simeon-lovergirl you're a fucking moron. Hobie's age is up to interpretation and he's a black teen. We look older than we actually are it's part of the territory.

I just saw this comment you left in the post.

Ok firstly. Why the fuck are you insulting them? In which moment did they spoke bad to someone?

2nd No. Hobie's age is NOT up to interpretation he is literally and officially confirmed to be 19-20.

3rd Wow, you can see that he is black!

4th just read Simeon's comments on that matter.

Here, I'll quote them for you:

@medovzs LMAO the skin color of a teen doesn't define or has anything to do with how that teen acts. If you are talking about those situations of racism which forges their character, then surprise! I am POC myself so i know what does it feels like. I know how any normal teenager behaves, and i know how adolescents who have been marginalized behave, especially for racist causes. And Hobie is seen to be mature, he doesn't act like a teen. 1

2 i get that can happen by a lot of reasons, i also got that "you're mature for your age" but if you check the fandom, they all collectively agree/got from the movie that he's like 19🤷🏻‍♀️

They are also POC. They know what it is to go through racism, and what this racism entails in the personality and maturity of the person who suffers it.

Apart from personal maturity. Let's talk about physical maturity. The fact that you say that all black people look much older than they are is wrong. Why? because you generalize to a group of people, a racialized group on that matter. And that can perpetuate some stereotypes of your own people.

Hi anon

Im sorry for what I said. What I should have said was that we look older than we actually are most of the time not all of the time.

Speaking from personal experience I myself have been mistaken for an adult since I was twelve.

Also just because most of the fandom got something doesn't mean there right. Majority does not equal correctness.

And for hobie not acting like a teen.

He did.

In the way he interacted with pav, his friendship with Gwen , his disrespect for authority, his jokes. That's a fucking teen.

Teens can be mature Babycakes there not all brooding teenagers who don't know shit.

Hobie is traumatized, formally homeless, and killed the president as well as probably several cops. He has been Spiderman Wich is basically being the writers punching bag for three fucking years. He isn't going to act like a normal teenager.

I am not saying anything that has to do with racism so I don't know where the fuck they got that from so I'm jot going to touch that.

I don't care that they are also poc. I don't care if there even black. They are wrong and I am correcting them. And if you dearest anon aren't black don't. Fucking. Comment. On how I talk about my own community thank you doll.

In conclusion.

Hobie browns age is up to interpretation. And it's okay if you anon or Simon or whatever the fuck their name was. Thinks there an adult. Good for you! Just stop shitting on those who don't think the same as you.

[baylikeselephants]

Just now reading Fourth Wing (I know I know I’m behind!!!) here are my thoughts on the first book

Please note I haven’t read Iron flame yet so no spoilers! Oh! And I didn’t take notes until chapter 10 for some reason

EDIT: Sarah is my sister for context, she told me a few things

Fourth wing

Chapter 10

* mentions feather tails abhor violence… will she bond with one?

Chapter 11

* I don’t like Dain. Don’t ask me why just gives me the ick

* “Do something about it” and Sarah’s “lol foreshadowing” is a sex thing isn’t it lol

Chapter 12

* ooo look a feather tail showed up

* A golden feather tail????

* And everybody is calling it a mistake??? Girl like that’s not some wink wink nod nod shit

* Eastern boarder and bloodshot red Sarah? This is where brennen “died” yes?

* Dead dead dead. Everybody dead lol

Chapter 13

* a brown dain??? A brown???? Have you met her????

* Save the little one!!!

* Xaden to the rescue (like they would’ve needed it but nice distraction lol)

* Well actually ~he~ can’t do anything. But his dragon could yeah?

Chapter 14

* ahaha the big one!!!!

* She fell lol we are shocked

Chapter 15

* Tairn is sassy lol

* Lmao “and all hell breaks loose”

Chapter 16

* Ooo so Tairn doesn’t trust Dain??? Not suspicious at all

* Ahhhh bonded pairs ey? Do I think that means xaden and vi are meant to be no, don’t think they’re end game but 🤷🏻‍♀️

* Xaden dies before this series is over doesn’t he?

* WHY WOULD SHE TELL HIMMMMMM UHG NO I DONT TRUST HIM DONT TELL THAT MAN SHIT

* Manipulated threshing???? Like dragons give a fuck what riders think lol

* Now I have reason to hate Dain

* Oh here we go brennens death. He. Is. Not. Dead.

* “Because you put too much faith in him…knowing who to trust is the only thing that will keep you alive” to me = don’t trust Dain (or anybody)

* Uh maybe Xaden doesn’t die because if he dies his dragon might then blah blah blah

Chapter 17

* “Tell him to mind his business” that wasn’t just about that comment either I bet

Chapter 18

* They don’t have the book her dad gave her??? Did he write it? Or is it banned

* Violet has Oooo fancy pants rich McGee over here FUCK YOU energy with the rebellion relic thing and not sitting with anybody with it

* “I knew it would work” from Jack means he killed the rider doesn’t it. He tampered with their stuff or something

* Tairn called her silver one and now I have “silver and gold silver and gold” song stuck in my head

* Tairn growled at dain!!!! The bastard (not tairn)

* Tell him girl go off babes

Chapter 19

* Sarah told me they could talk to each other already but tairn told Xaden she was in trouble

Chapter 20

* “To what they think I’ll be, not who I am” then tairn’s response of “that shows excellent forethought” my guy knows what/who she is.

Chapter 21

* Hmmmm so he didn’t tell them what was in the scroll……. Not suspicious at all.

* Did the rebellion never really die and Devera is a part of it?

Chapter 22

* Is Jack allergic to oranges or making fun of her spiking stuff with poison?

* She’s gunnnnna channnneeeeellllll

* I know she’s Lightning or whatever but the comment saying Xaden’s voice is like a crack of lightning is great

Chapter 23

* Rhi saying “for now” is foreshadowwinggggg

Chapter 24

* what’s up with all the runes?

* Vi’s dad did research on the second Krovlan uprising and feather tails? But there’s no tome on it? This makes me think he’s definitely a writer and he did his own research and stuff and wrote his own books. Did he know what Violet would be?

Chapter 25

* surprise mother fuckers

* They’re breaking into her moms office aren’t they

* They are

* They (scribes) can make or break someone by writing shit down. Likeeeeeeee maybbeeeee her FATHER! Lol no but really I may die on that hill

* Was her dad Tyrrish? Is that why these runes keep coming back? I don’t remember

* Is tyrrendor where a server rebellion or something is happening?

* I love that Violet has a potion for everything lol

Chapter 26

* Don’t “what could possibly go wrong” Violet. What are you stupid

* Mira saw a bunch of dragons crossing????? Like maybe with Brennen??? Is this where he is

* Uh oh xaden. Somebody in troubleeeee

Chapter 27

* where did Imogen go?

* Good for Rebecca for the disability awareness there with “…nothing anyone can do about the way I’m made”

* Was doing what had to be done tairn? Something to do with imogen maybe? Or stalling the gryphons?

Chapter 28

* imogen is back

* “Only fire we’d be taking is from other dragons” like brennensssss??? The rebellion things I don’t know

* Jack is dead- I hope to god for real

Chapter 29

* Fable is underlined….. so the book of fables is more than fables ey?

* So so hear me out, if the fables were written by her dad. Maybe it was written like fables to throw off folks but it was actually a tell all from when her dad was elsewhere (tyrrendor???)

Chapter 30

* Ew lol

* Ah so the scars are for all the kiddos of the leaders

* “Should I get the wing leader” lmao tairn honey

* Also hate how Professor jackass (Carr) is studying her like she’s done case he has to solve

* She can’t aim?? She can when she’s mad enough just sayin

Chapter 31

* Ah she’s got the book of fables good good I wasn’t sure if she brought it back or not with all the chaos that happened there

* He went to an outpost? To fight or for something else?

* AHA HER DAD STUFFED SOMETHING IN THE BOOK

* Hmmmmmm suspicious

* He got cryptic after brennen died? Because it was all true (the fables?) and/or he knew brennen wasn’t dead?

* Oh shut up xaden like you haven’t already fallen for her

* I hate this. Every part of this stupid party is putting me on edge

* Omg does the fucking King pull some shit (besides that stupid convo with Violet and Liam)

* The damn parapet. Of course this comes back

Chapter 32

* Ah fuck. Garrick and Bodhi are gone.

* Can you guys tape it down for two seconds to figure this out please. Some kind of attack or something

* Ah. Am shocked. They are under attack. Oh no. Who ever could’ve guessed. OH WAIT. IT WAS ME

Chapter 33

* Well. I was close

* Athebyne? Again mentioned….. hmmmm

* Just now hitting you that they’ll be separated for 5 days Violet? Lord have mercy

* “She’s safer with me” Dain I swear to god have you learned nothing

* He’d (Dain) be one of those guys to say he LET her go. Like a jackass. Hate this guy right now

Chapter 34

* Little andarna 🥰 sleepy baby

* Oh. So she’s like got this weird feeling. And anxiety. And shit. So yeah this is going to end well

* Annnnnd gryphons

* Xaden knows her but can they be related or something?

* None of them are reaching for weapons except Violet. All the rest are marked correct? I think so.

* This is a rebellion chick or something then ey?

* Seeee they’re early

Chapter 35

* So the pre-chapter thing said there’s potentially a conspiracy??? Maybe to do with the Vyern (spell????)

* YESSSS I WASSSSSS RIGHHTTTTTTTTT

* But why is Xaden so stupid to bring her lol there’s got to be a reason besides her signet and the dragons

* Don’t feel betrayed Violet honey it’s okay. You gonna be on their side in two seconds no worries

* Yup dad spelled it out for ya love

* It’s empty for shits sake

* The dick

Chapter 36

* Liam is dying

* I don’t like.

* Liam is dead

* There are more. Omg how many are there

* Go get ‘em girl

Chapter 37

* fun fun. On his back. Yippee

* Dead. Haha

* She’s got a poison wound now but

* I know andarna lives but I swear to god if she comes

Chapter 38

* Hmmm I wonder who the familiar voice is

Chapter 39

* And mom what Xaden? Did I miss something

* I was right about Brennen (happy dance)

General

* are violet and andarna fulfillment of a prophecy? Because “golden dragon bonds with thought to be weak and pitiful girl” seems like a prophecy

[izacore]

[for context i’m the Louis wants privacy anon] Yeah I mean my opinion is super unpopular but what are we basing his decisions being “wrong”’ on? The success or popularity fans want for him? Do any of us really know want he wants? We can perceive certain choices as making him look bad (yeah, they do), but it doesn’t mean it was bad for what he wants personally (career wise you are prob right but again, does he care? He never needs to work again). What if he doesn’t want to use a past/current relationship to market himself as an artist and sell tickets - ppl already accuse him of Larrybaiting or trying to ride Harry’s coattails. Honestly the man can’t win. I’m just here to observe 🤷🏻‍♀️ real curious how this next red carpet and tour goes…

Oh, he doesn't need to use the relationship to promote himself lmao, he doesn't have any issues with using a child for that tho 😆

Look, at this point I have no idea what Louis really wants besides touring and for how long he'll try running away from his life, but it will eventually catch up to him and it's in his best interest that it happens sooner rather than later. Just like you though, I am here just to observe and laugh at the choices. That doesn't mean I won't be whining, my comments have literally no influence on anything related to L 😋

[pourrrrthetea]

ok I realize this may sound weird but am I the only one that feels kinda bad for Alicia? like yeah shes crazy sure but shes been suspiciously quiet and her TikTok is gone. why do I feel like Joe or his team threatened her legally? how about you just be a better person josep? that way you wouldn't have to worry about girls sharing their shitty experiences with you

Okay so I personally think that he told her from the jump “hey I don’t want anything other than like friends with benefits or just someone to screw” and I think she thought she would change his mind magically and they’d get married and ride off into the sunset and she could then be like “Oh I got Joseph Quinn”. However, we don’t truly know the story and how things went down. He could have misled her and promised her things. I mean with how he’s acting now, would that be so far fetched?

I do think his team threatened her legally with a cease and desist. I don’t know that for sure but I’m speculating since she deleted her Tik Tok where she trashed him and now hardly posts on insta where she occasionally threw shade at him lmao.

He could have very well told her sweet little lies and got inside her head and she really thought they’d be together, who knows? If he did, he’s wrong for that when he just wanted sex basically. Be specific and be upfront with people.

Also, she’s better than the current rumored girlfriend. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I said what I said.

Anyone else have any opinions?

[bisluthq]

I have read extensively on Taylor and her horoscope. She doesn’t know what she wants! I can’t go into it much on here, because it takes years to learn to interpret charts, and there are things beyond my level. Her last three boyfriends are all completely different. I don’t see how they can be more different. It has to do with the placement of planets, specifically something called out of bounds plants. Taylor is grasping for things but she doesn’t have a clue where to start. She is desperately searching for herself as a person, and for someone. I don’t really see her having a life long partner.

lmao I mean I don’t believe this any more than I buy “this person works in the same industry as X in the same city” like that’s… stupid.

I’ve offered for astrologist anons to prove me wrong and do my synestry chart with my bf (I also feel like I offered this before I shared this much about him but even now I am willing to be surprised) and like tell me something profound but y’all just say vague ass shit that I, without astrology or unreliable friends who live in London who told me, could’ve told you too 😂🤷🏻‍♀️💀💀💀💀

[omens-and-more]

https://www.tumblr.com/dontlikejokesstayawayplease/760294403733651456/not-really-bo-related-but-i-just-wanted-to-say-i?source=share

Am I doing something wrong? Or is the fandom really this toxic?

You're definitely not doing anything wrong anon. Is it toxic? Kinda. I've noticed the same type of mean girl and "mutuals only" clique behavior that you've noticed. There were some blogs that used to be my faves and like you I tried to talk and have conversations but I was also shut out and I think even blocked by some LMAO I didn't do or say anything wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

The blogs that say they're inclusive/safe spaces for all are such hypocrites, if they're just gonna ignore and block people that are genuinely and politely trying to engage with other members of the fandom. Those same blogs say people should ignore and block the gossip/tea blogs. Well, it's ironic because I feel like this blog is a true safe space and this is the chillest group of people to talk to.

So anon, don't worry about trying to fit in or being ignored by the other blogs. That clique stuff is irrelevant. You're always welcome here. 🫶🏻

I’m sorry some people blocked you especially if you did not even do anything wrong. I have been fortunate to have had conversations with other blogs before and most for me are pretty chill and respectful and sorry you did not have that same experience.

[wordssricochet]

bro it is not that deep, i see you're very young but telling people to kill themselves over different opinions of fictional characters is just insane

people can hate cameron all they want, it isn't taking anything away from you, you can love him all you want, it isn't taking anything away from them

if you genuinely get that angry over someone having a different opinion than you, no matter how they express it, you need to get off your phone and go outside

sorry for the late answer, i got off my phone and went outside🤷🏻‍♀️.

bro ik, but they can just say "man, cameron sucks" and not tell him to literally die, i mean would've accepted that😱👍🏻👍🏻

calling him a bitch, an asshole, and with no personality is funny though. they're completely ignoring his traits or something, he shouldn't have been included in the pinterest picture if OP wouldn't even say sumn good abt him.

but yeahh, sure dude (or girly, or non binary??)🤝🏻

and it was like 10 pm and i had a bad day (not that it's rly related but it kinda is). they won't see my post anyway so it was just like i let out my anger for the whole day LMAO.

plus, it's really not that deep bro, i can hate on people if i want to yk, opinions kind of exist. i know that what i did was wrong, i am aware of it 🙏🏻, that's why i posted "might delete later" few seconds after i posted it, but i fell asleep so i haven't. i deleted it before i saw ur msg, so don't come after me now saying "you deleted it because you saw my message" blah blah blah.

thanks for ur opinion, i'll do better next time (probably, i hope) 👍🏻👍🏻

[howdon-aldi-death-queue]

Please can you tell you friend @theborders that it’s too late to delete posts and act like nothing happened. Alexa has seen them and is upset. I think she should apologise. I didn’t realise telling her would be so bad considering they were posted on a public website. How can you post stuff about someone on a public blog and expect them not to see? Also she probably told Sam about how she loved country just to be close to him

Okay, this is a late reply considering this was sent to me the other day, but I wasn't sure whether replying or not since I thought this would've simmered down. Well, I was wrong.

Things that drive me insane: a bullet point

• Faceless users on the internet exhorting strangers online to do something.

Going 28 and I usually don't take any advice from people who aren't in my personal bubble, but I'll make an exception today. So, I oblige. @theborders this anon is dying to let you know what they think 👉🏻🥺👈🏻

• Faceless users (omg! once again) not paying attention to the content of the different blogs they dive into.

I don't know if you're new here, but I have said many times that I'm not interested in it, therefore I have never posted any gossip, it's my policy. I don't give a flying sock about it. I don't know why you sent this to me, you would've spared this wordy rant from my behalf. We were talking about gossip, weren't we? Well I don't like it, but other people do and it's fine because it's life. Everyone's different, you know. A blog is like a house; every house has its own rules, same goes with blogs. Everyone's free to talk about whatever they please on their blog and I am nobody to tell people to apologise for things they've said about certain matters (I don't have an opinion about as I don't care about the matter per se). It's not my purpose on Tumblr. I am nobody's mother lmao

• People venting about something they've done and I have nothing to do with. Sorry, but you did tell Alexa and put theborders in a very bad mood and now you're gonna take the consequences that come with it. It's too late.

(For the record, I have just got the gist of what happened with Alexa considering I don't give a shit about gossip - yeah, I think it's good pointing it out every now and then to make it seep in order to avoid the wordy rant mentioned earlier. You say she's upset and I get it, but I mean she's a public figure and people on the internet talk about public figures, that's nothing new. Same thing for what you've said on chatting about what she did on a public blog. There's no difference. So... 🤷🏻‍♀️)

• People thinking they're the good ones for the purpose of """helping""" their peers, but they drag others down instead.

Can you imagine giving away to thousands of bystanders private information, like the place where someone lives just because you don't like what a person has said/done?! Mad stuff that. You doxxed her. I don't believe you realise what you've done. It gives unhinged vibes. You are eligible for a charge. Plus, you cyberbullied and harassed her by leaking her personal info online. I think the penalty for the guilt commited isn't quite right. There's a significant imbalance. We're only human after all, making mistakes is within our fallible nature. Your actions reek of arrogance. You can make mistakes as well, and sure enough you did so I am having words with you. No one is infallible and you're not a judge to decide what to do with people you think they did wrong in your eyes. Believe it or not, she didn't say anything that lousy to give away her info online. Stop being obsessed with this whole thing. We're trying to forget about it but you seem to be relentlessly devoted to drama.

• People hiding behind anonymous asks and not having the courage to come off anon to have a normal interaction with the person everything started with. Do you think that sending anons to every Sam Fender blog related on Tumblr is a clever move? Think twice before you do something.

One more thing before I go, are you trying to plant the seed of gossip on my blog with "Also she probably told Sam about how she loved country just to be close to him"? Anyway, I don't know what you're referring to as I don't know every detail of what happened AND I DON'T WANT TO KNOW.

[parisakamali]

hi, it's the anon again! i totally see what you mean! i feel like just letting tumblr go, at least for a while would be great. and then im doing a new edit instead of disappearing! and then im lowkey sad that people may not like that much and the cycle keeps going. I firstly joined tumblr in 2012 so I know what you mean... i really like your tumblr and you though so... i'd love for you to stay but do whats best for you

yeah exactly!!! even when i remade my blog, on one hand i was like “oh damn, im gonna start fresh, new beginnings, new people whatever” and then i got the same mutuals and people following me (who im very thankful for, don't get me wrong), so it's like,,, i didn't do shit, except complicate my tagging system which i could've done there too.

in a way i think i feel stuck on tumblr, cause i keep asking myself what if i just leave, but i never do. and this is gonna sound bad, but i'm not necessarily staying for the people, i'm just staying cause i have nothing better to do. and because of fomo, big reason lmao

also. i am attention starved and my irls give me as much as they can, but it's different here. and like you said, i post an edit and suddenly im on cloud 9 thanks to all the attention it gets; then the hype dies (cause usually kinda the same people rb my stuff at first) and the like/rb ratio changes and im left sitting there thinking “well, maybe i should've left cause this is obviously not good”

so i guess what im trying to say is that tumblr is the best and worst place to be, for me at least; and maybe i'll leave one day, but that day doesn't seem to be in the nearest future, (un)fortunately

but hey! thanks for being so sweet and if you ever wanna talk, apparently im here anyway so 🤷🏻‍♀️

[keep-your-hopes--high]

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1. You woke up naked next to the last person you texted, what would you say? Good morning babe 😂2. What’s going on between you and the last person you kissed?Nothing 3. If your boyfriend or girlfriend was into drugs, would you care?Yes 4. Is your last name longer than six letters?Yes5. Was your last kiss drunk or sober?Sober 6. Have you ever wanted to have someone but you messed it up?No7. What does your last received text say?🤷🏻‍♀️8. How many times have you kissed the last person you kissed?Let’s not 🤮9. Where was your last kiss at?I don’t remember???10. When is the last time you saw your sister?Today lol11. What do you drink in the morning?Water 12. Where did you sleep last night?In my bed 13. Do you think relationships are hard?The wrong ones yeah 14. If you could go back and change something in the past 5 months, would you?No15. You’re locked in a room with the last person you kissed, any problems?Yes lmao16. Would you rather it be sunny or rainy?Sunny17. Do you know anyone with the same middle name as you?Yes18. Are you wearing jeans,sweatpants,or pajama pants?Pajama pants 19. Do you think you will be in a relationship 3 years from now?Yes20. Does anyone like you?I would hope my girlfriend does lol21. Have you ever kissed someone with a name that starts with an S?No22. Is the last person you kissed gay?Yepppp23. Is there a person you CANNOT stand?Yes24. Have you ever considered getting a tattoo?I have some 25. In the past week have you cried?Yes26. What breed was the last dog you saw? I dont know 27. Do you dry off in the shower or out of the shower?Out 28. Have you ever kissed a football player?No29. Do you think you’re old?No30. Do you like text messaging?Some people 31. What type of day are you having?Horrible 32. Have you ever thought about getting your nose pierced?It is pierced 33. Do you prefer warm or cold weather?Warm34. Is there a person of the opposite sex who means a lot to you?Yeah I have a lot of guy friends 35. Would you prefer a relationship or a fling?Relationship 36. Are you a simple or complicated person?Complicated I guess 37. What song are you listening to?Better off this way by a day to remember 38. When you say you’re sorry do you mean it?Yes39. Is there a girl that knows everything or almost everything about you?Yeahh40. What made you start liking the person you like now?Everything 41. When did you last receive a text message?10 mins ago 42. What is wrong with you right now?A lot 43. How well do you know the last female you texted?Pretty well44. Does anyone disgust you?Yes45. Would you date someone right now if they asked?I’m already dating the most wonderful girl46. Are you in a good mood right now?No47. Who was the last person you talked to in person?My mom but it was a fight so48. What color shirt are you wearing?Grey49. Has someone recently told you something you didn’t want to hear?Yes50. Anyone you’re giving up on?No51. Do you hate the person you fell hardest for?My girlfriend?? No52. Have you ever thought about giving up on someone but couldn’t?No53. Do you like rain?Yes54. Do you care if your boyfriend/girlfriend drinks?Nah55. Have you ever liked somebody and never told them?Yes56. Do you like to cuddle?Love 57. Are you shy?At first I guess 58. Do you get along with girls?Yeah59. Have you dated the person you texted last?I am now 60. What do you carry with you at all times?Phone and wallet 61. If you were paid 1 million dollars to spend the night in a supposed haunted house, would you?Yes 62. Do you think you can last in a relationship for five months?I have before lol63. Think back to October, were you in a relationship?No64. The person you like kisses you on the forehead, do you find this cute?Ahhh yes 65. Did anything “cute” happen in the last week?Yesssss66. How old are the last three people you kissed?Idk idc67. Would you rather pay to get your nails done or do them yourself? Neither 68. Which do you like better- Zebra print or leopard print? Neither 69. Do you have any stickers on your car? What car lol70. Would you rather listen to Luke Bryan or Lil Wayne? Neither 71. Blackberry, Anroid, or iPhone? iPhone 72. When’s the last time you had pizza from Pizza Hut? A long time ago73. Do you like diet soda? Only soda I drink 74. What color are the walls in your room? Purple 75. Are you 16 or older? Duh76. Do you watch Pretty Little Liars? I’ve seen every one 77. Do you have a job? Yes78. What are your initials? E.M79. Did you ever have braces? No80. Are you from the south? No81. What does your last status on facebook say? Idk82. Do you still talk to the first person you ever kissed? Yes lmao83. Are you closer to your mom or your dad? Neither 84. Have you ever done cheerleading or gymnastics? No85. What’s the last movie you saw in theaters? Pitch perfect 3 86. Do you smoke? No87. Would you rather wear heels or flip flops? Flip flops 88. Is your phone touch screen? Yes89. Do you normally wear your hair straight or curly? Curly 90. Have you ever snuck out of your house? No91. Would you rather swim in a river, lake, or pool? Pool92. Have you ever made out in a car? Yes93. …Had sex in a car?Yes94. Are you single or in a relationship?In a relationship 95. What were you doing last night at midnight? I don’t recall96. When’s the last time you saw fireworks? Fourth of July 97. Do you like the camera on your phone? Yes 98. Have you ever had a friend with benefits? Nope 99. Have you ever passed out from drinking? Yep..100. Are you friends with people on facebook that you actually hate? No101. Have you ever had a pregnancy scare? Nooooooooooo102. Name your favorite Kesha song: Praying 103. Do you have any tan lines right now? No104. Would you ever wear cowboy boots with shorts? No

[bisluthq]

That’s kind of where I was going with the skirt being looser. I am curvy and I love the look of straight jeans but I never love how they look on me because they don’t really look straight, since my thighs and hips are a lot wider. In this case, I think the skirt was Taylor’s size and would’ve worked well with other things, but since she’s curvier, the fit of the skirt looked different on her. I also don’t think the model’s look would’ve worked on Taylor, but I think the suit would have worked if the fit of the skirt was a bit different

yeah, I think sometimes BoPo (which is obviously a good thing) has course corrected online discourse to the point of not being able to say some styles don’t look great on some people and like… yea idk lol I find that silly. And again I don’t mean this in a body shamey way or like curvier or plus sized women should dress more modestly or anything. For example, I think the oversized trend doesn’t look great on plus sized women (which Taylor IS NOT but just saying). It often works out to looking a lil frumpy. It also can look a bit silly on very skinny people because it looks like they’re in the wrong clothes lol (unless it’s an oversized top paired with like very skinny jeans/leggings or if it’s big pants paired with a crop top but like a WHOLE oversized outfit on someone who is very small sized tends to look like they borrowed someone else’s clothes lmao) whereas it can look flattering and cool in a dgaf way on mid sized people (Billie Eilish pulls off a lot of fully oversized fits even since she’s glammed up more because that’s the body type it looks flattering on). I have a bunch more of these lol like I think about this a fair amount (normally not even in a judgy way, like more to get inspo for myself).

I also will say if something makes you feel really sexy and pretty and cool, even if it’s maybe not flattering to other people, I’d say go for it. I have a friend who wears a lot of stuff that I think doesn’t suit her, and I’ve kinda tried to subtly suggest other stuff when we’ve been shopping together or like when we’ve borrowed/lent each other clothes, but she likes her style 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ She likes really low cut, cleavage accentuating stuff but her boobies are pretty small so I don’t think it suits her that much but it makes HER feel sexy so I wouldn’t rain on her parade 😂😂

[bisluthq]

Since folklore and evermore came out and I have this feelings they having problems and Taylor did not want to admit in her songs it’s about him. She’s just trying to confused us by changing the narrative of the songs so it would make us believe it’s about someone else or someone from her imagination. It wasn’t the first time she did it if checked on her last three albums you will know what I mean ! We still waiting for her next album to know the reasons. I could be wrong too🤷🏻‍♀️

Taylor has had songs about problems with Joe since Rep lmao. This is what I’ve always been saying and why I both felt really invested in their relationship - because it felt so real and she shared so much good and bad - and why I’ve always challenged people who insisted it’s a fairytale. “But I stay when it’s hard and it’s wrong and we’re making mistakes” is off Rep. DWOHT - about the impermanent nature of the arrangement - is also Rep. “I want to be your End Game” - not I am, I want to be - is off Rep. Lover has Afterglow and False God. They’ve never been perfect, and her music never suggested they are. They loved each other an immense amount but ultimately love isn’t always enough and it can fade and sometimes pass over time. You have to be willing to keep working at it, and they just weren’t.

[bisluthq]

Some anons are so ridiculous trying to drag you, I mean to me Joe is more of an 8 than a 7, but I get your point and I'm not going to compare you to him or say you're a 4, we're normal people with beauties normal, no one on this blog would be "worthy" of inspiring gorgeous, so no one on this blog can judge Nat that way

I don’t mind talking about it like if you can’t take criticism or you don’t yk judge your own looks you shouldn’t imo talk about or judge anyone’s looks ever. Like I’m very harsh and realistic about my appearance lmao so I don’t mind. The anon who was like “you’re a 4” is entitled to think that but is like… wrong… imo. However, 5 is pretty fucking fair take like 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Again like don’t dish it out if you can’t take it lmao and I’m pretty honest about what I look like and who I am because I don’t see the point in hiding behind anonymity to be a bitch like idk.