#i love how ada does approximately two (2) helpful things and then fucks off.

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i can see why people say re6 is bad but honestly i'm having a good time watching these cutscenes

[micropenisunveiled-blog]

SIZE MATTERS

My micropenis is approximately 1 inch long when flaccid and the length of a AA battery when fully erect. It is proportionately thin. Various studies suggest that the average penis is 2.8–3.9 inches flaccid and around 4.7–6.3 inches when erect.

Penis length Nomogram: An erect average penis length is 13cm

For years I was deeply ashamed of my micropenis, and that is largely because of things I hear people say about men who have small endowment. I can only speak from personal experience, but I have heard both gay men and straight female friends making fun of men for the size of their manhood. Movies, television shows, jokes all speak to the popular idea that being small is inferior to being big.  At one time, I actually overheard three or four of my colleagues at work all agreeing that "men with small dicks should be made to wear a sign warning women.

Internet blogs, you-tube videos, and articles i have read time and again that for a huge number of people, tiny penises are simply undesirable. I am 25 and have had my share of gay sexual experience (through personal choice), but have also had sex with one women, which was humiliating, to say the least.  All of the men either wanted me to suck them, or wanted to fuck me. I have learned to be a power bottom.

MY ONE EXPERIENCE WITH A WOMAN

It was more than 3 years ago with Lori, a very attractive university student at ECU in Ada, Oklahoma.  I am somewhat surprised how often women find me attractive.  I have had friends tell me it is because they sense I am not on the prowl.  When I stripped, Lori stared at my micropenis, giggled, and put her hand to her mouth, muttering simply "okay" in a tone that suggested she was taken aback. When it came to actually performing, first I found that the condom wouldn’t stay on, but more frustratingly, my micropenis kept falling out every time I tried to penetrate her. Even when I was inside her, she kept asking me the old joke question, "Is it in yet," except in this case she actually said it to me.  Every time she asked me that, I wanted to die. It was clear that she was getting nothing out of the experience.

I tried my best to make her happy via oral sex, and while men have told me I am good with my tongue, she did seem to enjoy that and had at least two or three orgasms. My mouth and tongue were almost numb by the end of the experience, and my penis, having been completely ignored kept throbbing painfully.  . And that was the end of it.

I can only imagine the level of disappointment and frustration she must have felt. It must have been a horrendous experience for her. Furthermore, a couple of days later, I did something, which on reflection, I now regret. I walked 2 miles to her apartment to leave her a box of Nestle Mint After Eights, which I had bought to show both appreciation for her intimacy and also as an apology. What kind of loser does that? What was I thinking? That she had had sex with a pathetic excuse for a man, but that it was all worth it in the end because she got some chocolate instead? I couldn’t help feel like she deserved better.

MEDIA EXPECTATIONS

Aside from personal experiences, the media doesn’t help micropenis shame either. Movies, TV Shows, our recent Republican Primary, Books, Articles, even You Tube videos, make the message clear: Small cocks are not good enough.

From my experience (having read hundreds of articles, blogs and forum posts, videos, and having spoken to hundreds of people online), it feels safe to say that the overwhelming majority of partners aren't thrilled about the prospect of sex with micropenises. And if we don’t accept that these views are likely the majority, then we are never going to challenge this blatant discrimination.  One of my very close friends offers this point of view:  Should a man be required to be attracted to redheads, or women with small breasts?  Making people wrong for what they find attractive is not the solution.

Does penis size really matter?  It seems to matter more to men than women.  Only 11.2% found it very important, while 67.4% found it “somewhat important”.

Surprisingly, gender made a difference to the results of both average size and ideal length, as women expected less for both sections.  On average, women thought the average penis length was 5.4 inches, with their  ideal size measuring 6.2 inches.

But for men, the average size penis was believed to be 5.5 inches and the  ideal length came to 6.5 inches.

I would like to ask people to think about this: If you are attracted to somebody enough to ask them to bed, and if the guy is kind to you, is it fair to write him off based on size alone?

SURVIVAL

So what do I plan to do about my love life? The answer is nothing. I try to focus my life on my writing and other subjects that interest me. If I started to look for love, it would just make me feel down, and I already struggle with depression and anxiety secretly. I don’t need the humiliation and hurt that looking for love would bring me. Sure, everybody gets rejected, but usually for less hurtful reasons.

SHAME

Guys with micropenises know they are not well-endowed, they don’t need reminding of it. If I’m attracted to a man I know I can be a capable bottom to please him.  What my male friends have in their pants doesn’t matter to me; I am not sure why they might think differently of me because of what i have in mine.  But they do.  It is what it is.  The deep shame I have experienced about my body especially as a teenager made me feel like everyone else's opinion must be right, that there was something wrong with my size.

FINAL THOUGHTS ABOUT OUR CULTURAL EXPECTATIONS

Expectations in different countries are different, as you might expect.  I have copied the table below for you to review which illustrates differences in perception.

Intellectually I know that size has no more meaning than blue eyes or brown.  But emotionally I know that in our culture for most people SIZE MATTERS. The little bit of research there is on the topic suggests less rejection of partners with a micropenis by straight women, than by gay men.  You can have an intact self esteem, and still feel the pain of rejection. Political correctness hasn’t made its way around to protecting the lesser hung.  We have to thicken our skin as another unsung minority.