#i literally dont say anything that could be even vaguely misunderstood as guilttrippy | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

ashersbraincell · 16 days ago

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Folks…is it normal to constantly feel like you’re walking on eggshells around a parent even if it’s not because they lash out/hurt you in any way but instead start spiralling into a monologue of how stressed they are and how they “just don’t have any time nowadays” and how they are suffering so so much.

#like dawg #i just asked IF you wanted to watch tv together and IF so when #and its because they then blame themselves for not spending time with you even though like #i literally dont say anything that could be even vaguely misunderstood as guilttrippy #i literally pull out all the stops of #only if you have time #only if you can #only if you want to #its okay if you dont want to or just cant #but it feels like somehow my very existence is a source of guilt trip for them #i just dont know what to do but profusely start repeating i know and im sorry #like wtf else am I supposed to do hearing a whole vent monologue when I just asked a simple question #i have to stress this happens almost EVERY damn time #i just dont know what to do #folks is it normal #is it normal #is this normal #advice pls

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