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She's now only on light casual duty until things get sorted out (I tried taking her off duty completely and she got cross so, it's light duty to appease her). I'm going to have to be confined to my room mostly but I'd rather that than risk her getting any worse.
I'm not clear if an x-ray would be covered by her insurance but any treatment afterwards would be so I'm grateful for that at least. If I do end up needing to pay for an x-ray, I'm not sure what I'm going to do since they're bloody expensive.
She gets regular free check ups though and she had one just the other day and the vet said she was perfectly fine, and they do give her extra attention since she's a working dog and they do make a point of checking her joints, so it has to have been something that happened very recently and not an ongoing thing.
Fuwafuwa is injured and I'm freaking out
#it'll absolutely break my heart if i cant afford to give her Christmas this year#i know she's a dog and she doesn't care#but she works every single day to keep me well#she deserves something nice you know?
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yuuta exhibits such previously abandoned, recently adopted dog behavior. incredibly anxious all the time, even though nobody’s out to get him or leave him behind. waits for you to return home or from school or from work excitedly, just to see you when you walk through the door. follows you around senselessly, hovering in your space just for the sake of companionship. initiates affection in prodding ways—starts off next to you, then a hand on your thigh, then deems it safe to lay all the way down, then slowly pushes his head into your lap. gets up whenever you need to get up, and resumes his position as soon as you’re ready. brings you gifts as a sign that he’s thinking of you, and maybe because he likes the affection it brings out in you, maybe because he likes the gentle affirming touches of a hand in his hair or a pinch to his cheek. rests his head on your stomach or his chin on your shoulder when he’s sleepy, stays there, immobile, and will not move unless absolutely necessary. sometimes he gets surprised when he hears you calling for him, there’s a moment of disbelief as he thinks “me? really? you need me?” but it’s very quickly overshadowed by this compulsive need to show up, to please, to do anything for you, which is why he always answers when you call. he doesn’t realize that he has puppygod eyes, especially when he’s excited or confused, but he does and it’s incredible endearing. very reluctant to share your space or attention after a while, considers that to be sacred and he won’t risk being let go or lost again, so as a safety precaution, he keeps himself right by you, waits for you always.
#atp i need to shut and write the omega verse fics that consistency plague my mind#but while im here time for my obligatory megumi mention bc i mentioned dogs teehee#yes megumi attack dog hes megumi grumbly yes megumi bark bark bite bite BUT BUT BUTTTT#megumi is also used to like... hm........ taming? having? caring for? people in his life and also literal (divine) dogs#so for him yes he bites and barks#but he also... he gets confused if YOU dont follow him around like a puppy bc everyone else in his life has so why not you?#gojo's always been the annoying yapping pomeranian chewing on his arm even if he didn't ask#always in megumi's space even tho he didn't ask but he learned to deal with it#won't admit it but knows that too much attention is better than having someone who couldn't give a shit about you#yuuji is the golden in everybody's life and megumi is no exception#unmovable unshakeable and incredibly addictive even if he doesn't mean to be#and very very attached to the people he cares about so yeah yuuji is loud and annoying but he's also loyal and megumi respects that so fine#nobara is like... she decided she liked megumi and was upset about it so she bit his ankle and he tried to kick her off but she has too muc#pride to get shaken off by someone as scrawny as megumi and somewhere along the way megumi became impressed that she was still there even i#it hurt a bit and she was a little rough it's not like he was worse so fine whatever she can stay too#so if you like... if you dont hover around megumi if you dont pry if you dont prod then he has to be the dog smh#now he's gotta bite for your attention and nudge you and how annoying. he's gonna keep doing it tho. as long as he has to#or until you learn to fall in line and accept your leash too whichever comes first n e way.... anyway.............#somebody's pampered omega always gets what he wants megumi complex is showing......#this was about yuuta right? ok i'll put his tags now....#juju#jujutsu kaisen smut#jjk x reader#jjk smut#jjk fluff#jujutsu kaisen x reader#yuuta okkotsu x reader#yuta okkotsu x reader
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I don't know if it's because it's been too long since I last watched Stranger Things, but I genuinely don't remember a happy Nancy scene post Barb...
This is such an interesting thing to think about because it's not as if Nancy looks miserable in most scenes of the show. In fact, she often looks determined and occasionally excited even. She has smiled before, but excitement about progress in a case, something she's passionate about because of Barb, isn't necessarily happiness. So this is something you have to look beyond face value for.
Nancy suffers quite plainly with survivors guilt and with a lot of trauma. She isn't healed from what happened in Season One, and I don't think she even let herself really start until after season three. Not with so much unresolved. She also hasn't had the help she really needs either. However, Nancy has experienced happiness since Barb's death. There are moments she forgets. It’s only healthy that she's not so obessively mired in her misery that she can't have moments to breathe.
It's been a while since I've watched the show, too, so I can't say if there's a Jancy scene where she's just happy. Their get-together scene was very in the middle of Barb trauma, the wake up together scene is very stressed and rushed. Jonathan has been good to her, but all their scenes are a very mixed bag of emotions with happiness not really being the predominant one.
There are three small scenes from season four that come to mind. The first is Lucas's game. Nancy is quite genuinely proud and happy for Lucas in that moment of success. It's such a small shot, but it's one of a few scenes that show us that Nancy cares a whole lot more about Mike’s friends than she ever says.
The second is the scene with the dog, right before the plot plummets Nancy right back into her guilt complex. She's starting to live, and she lets herself be, for just a second, when she steps away from a murder investigation to just play with a dog. This is the first real evidence that her passion for her work is not just about Barb anymore.
The last scene is the officially friends scene with Robin. It's simply a moment of establishing connection, and both girls are just so warm in that moment. It's another sign of Nancy starting to actually heal. She's happy to have a new girl friend, not scared or guilty like she would have been before.
#yeah I gotta be honest I dont know if she had any really happy scenes in season 3#i know season 2 is sorely lacking#as much as I love exploring Nancy’s trauma she is so much more complex than that#she does see the good in her life even if it's sometimes hard for her to accept#you're right though in that the show doesn't really let her be happy the way i wish she could be#thinking of some scenes took a second as i tried to determine when she even could have been during the seasons#the source of Nancy’s worst pain is also the source of her moments of joy#care for other people#Nancy sees the good in the world and she wants to protect it but she doesn't always feel worthy of taking it for herself#she experiences genuine happiness when other people are happy#and she has moments of pride and determination in season three#but season four really feels like the start of her taking some of that for herself#in the form of keeping robin close by#of stopping to talk to a dog#Robin is especially significant because she keeps her grounded in a moment where she very easily could have been pulled under with -#- reimerging trauma because of Fred and Vecna#nancy wheeler#robin buckley#jancy#ronance#stranger things
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you know how Dazai makes references to the princesses? he should now make one about Chuuya and the Little Mermaid:
her natural habitat is water
she's ginger
she lost her voice (and Chuuya is under sb's control now)
she became a different species at one point in her life
she was used for her voice (and Chuuya for his ability)
also Dazai'd laugh his ass off if he called Chuuya 'little'
#also little chuuya didn't know what bread and other such things were#just like Ariel#ariel was curious of the human world and did everything to be a part of it#and when she revealed to eric her real identity he didn't care and loved her the same#DO YOU KNOW WHO THAT REMINDS ME OF? (soukoku)#how dazai didn't look at chuuya any different. even was mesmerized every time chuuya used corruption#in andersen's og story little mermaid wants to marry the man bc only then will she have an eternal soul like humans do#and in sb chuuya said he didn't believe a HEARTBEAT suited him#in the og version the man marries sb else and the mermaid's sisters give her a dagger so she can revenge on him but she chooses not to#in the end she doesn't marry a man so doesn't get an eternal soul#but the spirits? see her selflessness and give her a chance to get the soul changing her to be a spirit#the choice not to kill the prince reminds me of when chuuya had to choose between using corruption or finding out the truth abt himself#(doesn't suit the story but I imagine the sisters as the flags 😭)#back to the disney version:#ariel isn't but wants to be human. eric is mesmerized by her and loves her anyways. both see the humanity in each other#i'll just leave it here#bungou stray dogs#soukoku#chuuya#dazai#additionally: ariel saved eric's life. AND CHUUYA GAVE DAZAI THE REASON TO LIVE OMFG#also the sisters in the og story could be verlaine. yk revenge on the humans#at first i was writing it as a joke#but now if dazai ever calls chuuya little mermaid in the manga you will not her from me again because i will ascend#do other Dazai's princess jokes hide so much meaning? probably yes#mermaid soukoku#bsd chuuya#bsd dazai
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#Yesterday some old lady stopped me while I was walking my dog and she started telling me that I should cut his fur etc#because it's summer and dogs have higher temperature etc etc#and then she told me to cut the hair on his face so it wouldn't go into his eyes#first of all. stopping a stranger and telling them what to do is rude#second. I always have his face 'eyes) as clean as I can#also his usual groomer only had time on Friday (aka today). I'm literally taking him to get a haircut today#he gets to go to the groomer every month during summer and spring and every 1.5-2 months during fall and winter#I try to keep him clean and I brush him regularly so his hair doesn't get matted#anyway. I tried to tell the lady that yes. I'll take him to the groomer literally the next day. she wouldn't listen for some reason#'i had dogs i know' she said. ok? I don't care. it's rude to tell other people what to do and keep insisting#especially after they told you they'll do the thing#I had no control over the groomers schedule. if I did I'd had taken my dog earlier#thats all. sorry for rambling. have a nice day#not art#text#me complaining#personal tag#now that I'm thinking about it I spend less money for my own haircuts in a year than my dog. each time it's like 30€ :')
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What's interesting about witnessing the shift in Tom and Shiv's relationship, is that for the first 3 seasons Shiv got to live in comfort of being her father in the relationship. She was in control. She was the emotionally detached one, keeping Tom at a distance from her inner vulnerable self like her father does to her and her siblings, despite Tom always appealing to that side of her, bearing himself and wanting that intimacy. She held all the power, and in holding all the power she felt secure that she wasn't going to be screwed over (like her dad did to her mum) and abandoned (like she felt her mum did to her). She could escape the fucked up divorce her parents had by being the embodiment of power (her father),,, which, like a lot of children of a messy divorce, she wanted to avoid such a thing for herself at all cost, and pride herself on her marriage and choice of partner instead of getting help for the trauma and damage she'd carried since childhood. Shiv was safe. She was secure. Like her dad, she had her own dog to kick to test its loyalty and feel secure and reassured every time that dog came back to her side.
But then the dog did bite back. Tom did betray her. The man she viewed as beneath her, all worshipping, and in her eyes nowhere near as smart as her, outplayed her and betrayed her and won over the approval of the very man that she'd been emulating. And now she's not her father. She's the last person she ever wanted to be. She's her mother. She's the one on the receiving end of Logan through Tom, making the divorce messy and difficult and painful by using the same tactics he did with her mother, something that gets to her easily and makes her extremely upset to the point where she's verging on tears. Tom is the one at Waystar + ATN. Tom is the one saying "uh huh." To her.
She thought that she could escape her mother's fate by being her father. By being cold and distant and emotionally closed off. By being the one who kicked the dog. She let her trauma and fears rule and guide her into making decisions and behaving in harmful ways (to Tom and herself) that she thought would protect her and never let her be hurt. And none of it worked. Because despite it all, she became her mother.
#became her mum in context of the relationship*#Shiv Roy#tom wambsgans#tomshiv#failmarriage#like ultimately her downfall was how the trauma of her parents messy divorce impacted and ruled her without her even being aware#because she was taught by Logan that emotions are a weakness so you better not get emotional about anything#you better repress all that shit and act like it doesnt bother you#let your subconscious cauterize itself till you can't hear it but you just let it rule you#and so cos she didn't sort of her shit (none of the siblings have and neither has Logan) she was ruled by this trauma#cos thats what happens when you have trauma and you dont sort it out#it lead to her being an asshole to Tom#because in her eyes her getting to be the emotionally absent partner that cares less for the other is more safe#she's in control. she kicks the dog.#and it calmed her subconscious and made her feel safe and at ease#not taking into account how that would wear Tom down over time#esp when Tom had someone like Greg at his side. like i fr don't know if Tom woulda ever betrayed Shiv if it wasn't for him having Greg#basically in short jus cos you're traumatised doesn't give you excuse to be an asshole to others to feel good and safe#it just means you're continuing the cycle#and people can argue that Tom knew what he was getting into in regards to loving her#but she also coulda put a stop to the relationship at any time. she chose to continue it and dish out on Tom#and took his love for granted#anywayyyyzzz#i love Shiv i love Tom#and it's sad#but consequences for actions and all that#succession#succession hbo
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have you ever choked on your own tears because your parent is being a bellend or is that just me
#they know exactly what to say to get me to crumble and this is emotional abuse#like i'm trying to find my own apartment atm to get away from her before i actually lose my sanity completely#first she sent me a shitty message regarding my dog and deeming me as a bad dog mum for going to the concert...#whilst at the concert#and when she saw me earlier she brought it up again and called me the spawn of satan#and now she's telling me that i'm a crappy human being who only cares about herself#she's a bitch who has no life no friends and her sense of adventure has completely gone out of the window#my ex doesn't want to know our dog anymore and has stopped all responsibility for him#i'm trying but honestly the more she puts me down the more i just want to give up#i already feel like a shitty person most of the time and i don't need her to tell me everything i already know
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I just had the horrible thought that I need to fall in love because having devastating crushes on beautiful, competent, authoritative women that I desperately want to please is exhausting and I need it to stop
#this one is straight so there's no room for delusion which is good#but my burning need to be her most favorite is eating me from the inside#it IS making me better at my job though#.......i mean i think so but what the fuck do i know#on friday night amongst the grueling psychosexual chaos that ensued a very smart guy that I LOVE said to me#i have no doubts you're gonna be a great psychiatrist actually#i traded a month with him to have another month with her#he's a phenomenologist she's a psychodynamic....ist? rival theories#I don't like most of psychodynamic theory.......so far#but i love the way she works and i can see how well it fits with her manymanyMANY patients and goddamnit i love personality dosorders#so i made the choice to go with her yes and im very torn casue i LOVE that guy and i wish i could become his friend like my bff from my year#also.......kind of dumb of me since I'd only soend two days a week woth her and the other three with very scary ladies#but I've been in scarier situation i can manage#and god when she praises me (silently obv she's only been forward about my merit ONCE and i almost pissed myself like an overexcited dog)#the endorphin rush is........man#but yes i need to work on this.......idk how to define it. closest i can get to explaining it is professional sub space#with strong aspects of praise kink#pathetic is what it is really#but hey if it makes me study harder who fucking cares right#I'm gonna be the smartest most intuitive fucking bitch amongst my peers so if I can't have her (them) carnally then goddamnit#I'LL HAVE THEIR PRAISE AND RESPECT AND ADMIRATION AT LEAST#........I'll be normal again in a week or two i just need to get over these next couple of days of....idk. inflammation i guess#yeah it's just like an infected wound right now#angry red throbbing hot pain#i know the drill it'll be better in a couple of days you just need to not freak out and let it do its thing#it's nice to be mature-r about emotional impulsivity and the shame that comes after an episode of deregulation#it really doesn't have to be a big deal even while it still feels like it#it still hurts but it's like......hour three of a tattoo. it's a bitch but you know it's gonna be over eventually and wriggling won't work#the only thing left to do is enjoying it all while it's happening or trying to#I don't think I'm doing a great job but what're you gonna do right
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Looks like I just lost another close friend to guy who isn't worth a pile of dog shit. 😊
#my best friend no less#i cried about this shit practically all afternoon but i'm all out of tears and now i'm just pissed off.#this shit has been going on for a long ass time but i've finally reached my breaking point with it#i love her#but she is delusional#and it kills me to say that#but that whole “relationship” (if you even want to call it that) is fake. all he cares about is money not her#the worst part is that she knows it too#oh but she “loves him” and “wants to give him one last chance” girl what the fuck?#oh but better yet he dumped her once 2 years ago already and i've hated his punk ass since#never should've gotten back tother after that and i told her as much even back then#all he does is make her cry#not do anything arount their town house#and sit on his ass and watch tv or sleep when he's not working#that's the tame stuff too i could say sooo much worse but i'm actually not trying to air her dirty laundry out her#i'm just pissed off#but suddenly IM the bad guy when tell her i won't support her or this “relationship” when she told me they were getting back together today#this is after i helped her and her parents ans brother move all her stuff out of the town house last Monday and back to her parents place#after she told me they were done for good#but IM the bad guy for bringing up all of fhe reasons listed above and all of the REALLY bad things about the relationship#when i tell her i won't be supporting her any longer and that i'll be walking away if she goes back to him#best part is her family agrees with me and they tell her all the things i say about him and then some#but when i go out on the line and put my heart down on the table for her and all i get back is a text saying:#“i don't really like how you're texting right now so we'll talk about this later.”#girl#i don't know whether or not i want to cry harder or strangle her#i think it's both#so yeah i think i just lost my best friend to a guy who doesn't remotly deserve her and everything kicks rocks rn#it's just like my other friend all over again#why do my friend have such dog shit taste in men
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life with primitive dogs is me everyday asking my pack: will you be governable today? and they go "only if you provide us with payment good enough to exchange our labor for and our standards for that labor payment will change daily. and if we don't want to do it that day? Even for payment? You are out of luck."
#dogblr#dog behavior#what i'm saying is that malamutes are socialists.#they do work for me but it costs me money lmao. as their 'government'#i provide their medical care good diets and fun#and yet they still know how and when they would like to demand what they are owed#like god forbid i don't KNOW that zombie wants to go outside before she goes to the door#she knocks the first time with such distain and sass i am simply of the belief she wants a dog door so she doesn't have to ask#these silly humans for things#(i will NOT get a dog door bc my dogs would 100% dig up poopsicles that have gone unseen during yard cleanup and bring them inside)
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just remembered that when i was like 8 or 9 i got really really into Warrior Cats. it was little me's special interest and i was like, OBSESSED with Blackstar and Shadowclan so i made an oc to ship him with and wrote this shitty fic about them falling in love and when i showed my mom she told me it was plagiarism to write about characters that already exist and i panicked and i changed every single character in the fic to an oc except for Blackstar so i wouldn't get in trouble for plagiarizing fucking Warrior Cats by Erin Hunter
#psy's no punctuation posts#it is still so funny to me that my mom thought seeing her 9 year old autistic kid writing fanfiction was plagiarism#and that i'd get in big trouble for it. girl what#obviously she didn't know fandom was a thing but it's SOOO funny to me even if she doesn't have the context that fanfic is normal#also imagine Harper Collins being so litigious that they'd sue a child for writing fic#i'm still confused why she cared bcs it's not like i was posting it anywhere. i was 9 and showing it to my mom#did she want me to just be original?#she was always weird about my writing like i remember showing her this original piece#where the mc was a bat furry and she gave me a hard time about it being a bat and said it should be a dog. girl don't compromise MY vision
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T’Nia [Sek’s Wife] and the EMH.
#Sek already doesn't like the EMH bc he knows him as 'That Hologram Who Slandered My Father In That Melodramatic Novel'#but T'Nia likes him v_v she sees him like a yappy purse dog. cute small thing.#both Sek and the EMH are somewhat crotchety but caring short kings#fun fact about Sek is that he's asexual which everyone(tomparis) wants to kill him about when they see T'Nia#they do have a biological daughter though bc he's not sex repulsed#anyway T'Nia likes aggravating the doctor...she's a sort of ambitionless and lackadaisical person#a bit self centered - finds the most satisfaction in her own amusements and so focuses primarily on those#despite this she and Sek work well together <3 he feels complete with her as part of him and vise versa#Doc: blablablabla medical stuff blablabla bragging blablabla#T'Nia: -building a birdhouse in her mind- ........#the doctor is everyone on Voyager's primary care physician and by extension he also sort of becomes their families' as well#T'Nia calls the doc over to come look at her and Sek's 3 kids and he's good with them#[REDACTED] family shenanigans#T'Nia#Sek#goodnight - I hope everyone wakes up to big tit T'Nia#it's threshold day so please allow me to push you to the treshold of your patience with my silliness#we are now aaaat twice removed from Tuvok (son's wife)#st voyager#st voyager art#the EMH#bea art tag#EMH
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Toni had a big adventure leaving her room
At first she didn't even wanna leave and we had to convince her that it was safe but once we did that she was walking up and down the hall not even running to hide under the bed in her room!
We try to bring Gigi upstairs but she was not feeling it so she didn't get to see her baby :( and Toni is nervous about the stairs
Timmy was hanging out with Mackie as he does so we closed the door to that room. Mackie would be too much on top of everything else today.
I brought Grayson into Toni’s room but he just ran back to the bed he and Lillie share.
Lillie was under said bed to start,I called her and she came out and I picked her up and snuggled her.
Toni came in their room and Grayson was afraid she was going to beat him up at first even though I'm pretty sure if he sat on her she couldn't move.
Lily just wanted my attention and watched Tony walk around but was just wanted me to pet her (she doesn’t get jealous either so that's really good)
#Gigi is the one that gets jealous#She has opinions and you will know about them and cannot change them#Like today she was sleeping downstairs#How dare we try to convince her to come /bring her upstairs#Grayson loves other cats once he knows they will be nice#Lillie doesn't care either way if there are cats as long as they're nice but she will also fuck them up#That's why Gigi is afraid of her#Gigi tried to bully Lillie from being in the room with Grayson#Now both Toni and I are done#She had a lot of simulation#And I use my body a lot to play with the cat#So lunch meds and then sleep#personal#so i have cats and a dog#Toni#we found a kitten
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1/3 of the way through the song of achilles and dang they sure do talk about feet a decent amount
#does this change later on i would assume so#patroclus kind of a loser twink but like. who isn't lbr#and achilles seems... nihilistic i think is the right word#he kinda lives life as it is and doesn't seem to care abt certain things#i know thetis is immortal and has a different morality system from humans but she's kinda giving homophobic dog#i get you want your son to be great but what abt letting him be happy. smh#chiron is like the ally they need for their relationship 😭#its certainly well written#books#reading#bookblr#the song of achilles#madeline miller
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"hey HEY what do you have in your mouth!!! sit SIT. SPIT IT OUT GIVE IT—" but instead of talking to a dog it's me about my parents using the word overstimulated as nothing but another way to make fun of our anxious traumatized dog for doing things they find inconvenient or unreasonable or illogical (and, by extension, everyone who uses the term for legitimate reasons). (WHAT IS WRONG WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!! AND ALSO WHERE THE FUCK DID THEY HEAR IT BECAUSE I DON'T USE IT AROUND THEM On Purpose BECAUSE I KNOW THEY'D BE ANNOYING ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
#cannot stress enough that they are ill informed. they do not know what they're talking about and would not accept it if i told them#they're not accomodating to sensory needs and do not fucking know the context of capital o Overstimulation in regards to like. ppl with#sensory difficulties. like. c'mon man. if i told you i was overstimulated you'd tell me it wasn't that bad and i should just sit still and#shut up. but suddenly it's fine when you're making jokes about??? completely unrelated things??? i mean. dogs can probably be#overstimulated. i think everyone can in kind of a general sense. but they act like her getting up from the couch or smth is some frantic#strange action. they're super fucking weird about her actually they'll like. tease(?) her about how needy and pathetic and unloved she is#and how 'traumatized' she is and how that makes her act in ways that bother them in kind of an eye roll-y way which like.#SHE *IS* TRAUMATIZED. WE'VE ESTABLISHED THAT SHE HAS REASON TO ACT LIKE THIS#like 'haha she's soooo afraid we'll abandon her she's so ridiculous' what like how she was ditched as a puppy and lived on the streets for#like a year? you don't think that could've affected her at all#fucking psych major bullshit ass. 'formative experiences actually don't affect you lol' go fuck yourself#im not saying you can't tease your pets but they're treating her like her anxiety and even basic affection seeking is some huge burden#when it's absolutely not. they just want to be mean to her because they don't want her to act that way and don't care about how she feels#because they think they know better and she has no immediate reason to feel that way. god i wonder if THAT has any relevance to how they#raised their children. christ on a cracker man what the fuck#how to create an environment where your children feel safe expressing their problems (a goal they supposedly have):#1) not whatever this shit is. what the fuck is wrong with you#look maybe it doesn't sound that bad but it's been going on for years and it's been pissing me off for years. they're so cruel and for what#it's such a double standard. our other (male) dog seeks affection about as often and they don't ever make fun of him for it#and they've gotten more and more entitled about her showing affection. like it's commanded now. it's gross to me okay i don't like it#she's a sweet and kind and loving girl and i don't get why they feel the need to act like her wanting their love is so horrible when they#literally want that from her and scold her when she doesn't do it#this general attitude that ppl are over exaggerating their trauma or their feelings or their needs/wants/boundaries is so pervasive w them#that complete disregard for/invalidation of how others feel if you can't personally relate to or understand it. the mockery and cruelty#they wouldn't do it if she could understand them. i think they just like having that power over smth small that loves them#so *i* have to be like 'ohhh i love u ur so good!! im so happy ur here' to her to balance it and then thats also seen as ridiculous. wtf#skrunks' parents be considerate and introspective to ppl without risk of rejection if unkind & also don't be ableist challenge (impossible)#they will call low/no empathy ppl frightening monsters and then do this shit. empathy is not necessary for kindness and frankly if that's#your only reason to care about the wellbeing of others i think that's worse. bitch IM low empathy. at least i give a shit#im so glad my mom didnt puruse psychology after her bachelor's she woulda hurt so many people. or maybe she'd be better idk. fucks sake
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uhoh! girl!
#it's her! my sweet cat#but man. i'm thinking abt why i cry over her so much and why i get emotional over how much i love her#first of all she's cute and extremely lovable#but like. you get a pet knowing that you will outlive them and they will die before you#that's a pretty unique relationship#and add this to the fact that she's not very smart and doesn't understand the intricacies of life#but loves you anyway? seeks you out for cuddles? gets happy when you come back home?#and she's really soft#my last living childhood dog just died and i'm upset#and so consequently i'm thinking abt pet death a lot so i'm more upset abt my sweet girl dying than usual (which is still a lot)#i just think the emotional nature of this pet-to-owner connection is really interesting. we love and care for these little guys so so much#i think people are motivated to give their pets as good a life as they can because they know how short it is#and they want to spend as much time as they can just enjoying their presence#maybe#anyway. i cry every single time i listen to a song from the saga of virtute by the weakerthans
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