#i just feel so isolated from the entire group becaus eof this one person that positions themselves as a leader.
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Autistic lateral violence is hard for me to wrap my head around? What do you mean you struggle to recognise social cues but don't struggle to weponise them?
#I'm genuinely so confused this person is a leader in my local autistic space#I've just stopped going to avoid them#actually autistic#autism#lateral violence#be serious#they will wait 6 months to bring up an issue but tell everyone else that theyve communicated with you multiple times#fuck that bullshit id rather be lonely than deal with this.#this person told everyone that i was ignoring their requests for trigger warnings and requests to move on from a topic we were discussing#this was a group discussion on how autistics interract with police in an autistic space#they kept trying to rejoin this conversation and chamge the topic but i kept us on topic#there were other conversations they could have joined but they kept interrupting the small group of 5 of us who discuss social justice stuff#im so frustrated at their paternalistic attitude#they kept interrupting because they deemed it inappropriate for the space#its an over 18s autism meet up where we seperate into smaller social groups#but what really pisses me off is that this person told everyone for months that they had been communicating with me about the issue#but the first im hearing of it is 6 months down the track when other people have tried to call me out on something i wasnt aware of#they covered their ass in their message and its the first message they had ever sent me#but they basically made it seem in the message like this was a final straw#i just feel so isolated from the entire group becaus eof this one person that positions themselves as a leader.
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