It's time for Secret Satan Tiefling event! Fate has brought me to @kattenkwaad once again lol
loved the vibes of these two xoxo
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"The reason why copperright is so widely agreed upon by the thsc fandom is because how little changes youd need to make in order to make it canon. You can just tell someone theyre married and they will believe it. I once told a friend this and they comepletely believed me. I have never seen them since in a year." submitted by @stilbiesrevivedclone
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Yes it's a response to your last poll reblogged... I try to not care about kudos and comments but it's hard
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sorry nonny my reading comprehension rn is like -50% due to being distracted at all times by the show dropping tomorrow morning, but like, I think it's a matter of like, not necessarily not caring about kudos and comments and such because like, these are nice things to have! We are wired to like it when people go "I LIKE THIS!" about stuff that we make. Why would a person stop caring about that? That seems counter intuitive to me.
But more like, getting stuck on a toxic spiral of "I am creating this so someone will tell me that they like it" -> "I am sad because no one has told me they like it yet" is perhaps, not the greatest use of emotional bandwidth or time.
Also I've seen this happen and like, there comes a point in this spiral where even the biggest numbers imaginable will not fulfill a person who's stuck in this spiral. Think thousands of comments, four or five digit kudos counts, dozens of comments per chapter. None of it actually fulfilled them. They spent so much time obsessing over when to drop a chapter to get the maximum amount of "engagement" that it really sucked all the joy out of like, even getting comments at all. Or writing. Which sucked!
I'm a big proponent of hoarding those good feelings you have about your own work whenever you can, and not letting those good feelings be dictated by stuff you can't control, like other people reacting to it in some way, which is yes, easier said than done.
Overall, sending you a hug Nonny, because I think we all get this way sometimes.
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don't pitch in if you don't want to man. i mean this wholeheartedly. by the sound of it she hasn’t done shit to even deserve a single dollar from your pocket let alone 20 something bucks. i mean in this economy?? instead you should use that money to treat yourself for being able to deal with such pricks on a daily basis. ik the offhanded comments might be annoying to deal with but think in the next 5 years would these people even matter to you? hell no. don’t waste your money just cuz you need to ‘not appear as an asshole’. i mena by what i’ve heard they’re the assholes 😭 so seriously, hold your ground and make an excuse or just straight up don’t pitch in. boundaries are important, especially with people who haven't done shit for you
Okay you know I think I really needed to hear this bc I was debating it like hmmm do I seem like a jerk for not wanting to pitch in to give a pregnant lady a present. But honestly my coworkers make my life so much harder than it needs to be that I’m just so annoyed at the idea of blowing 20 bucks (that’s like 3 matcha lattes!) for them. But this was the push I needed to think yeah my boundaries are not just be being an asshole HAHA sorry I’m a bit of a people pleaser sometimes 😭
But thank you!! I appreciate this ask and the advice I find that in a work setting I always default to trying to be a model employee but I really need to be less of that when these people make this pharmacy so miserable 😭
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hiiii mackerellll good morning gmm <333 did u know. u r so cool & good at writing forever.... ur stuff always makes me feel shrimp emotions every single time & u literally understand every character so good & ive been thinking ab ur ghostknife snippets literally all night.... <- im hitting the fic preview cheat code button 1 billion times but also literally so gensrs ur writing is everything 2 me dude
HI ROS GOOD MORNING YOU GET THE GAYEST BITS I HAVE SO FAR 🏳️🌈‼️🏳️🌈‼️🏳️🌈
PEACE AND LOVE AND BLOOD ON PLANET GHOSTKNIFE 🤞
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