#i honestly find anybody/anything nobody/nothing somebody/something everybody/everything etc/etc annoying! i can find them annoying and thats

[venting-town]

I despise when, if you try to talk about depression or mental illness or just hating existence in general, others go:

“ Life isn’t fair, get over it. “

“ Well, you just have to move on! “

“ Oh well. That’s why we change and grow! :) “

“ You just have a victim mentality. Others have it much worse than you! “

“ Stop complaining! Be more grateful for things! “

Those sayings just have toxic positivity/dismissiveness written all over them

Sure. Those things sometimes have good points. However, if I/others want to complain, it’s ok. It’s ok to be grateful/ungrateful/etc

It’s ok to acknowledge others’ experiences/traumas, yet STILL acknowledge this isn’t a trauma competition to see who has it worse. As if “ having it worse “ gives you more validity points to be upset as compared to somebody who MIGHT “ not have it as bad “