#i have no more scented candles

[moonmothmama]

i know we just placed the order from mythologie candles yesterday but. i want them now

[chunkecheeks]

people swear the tower of terror has no specific smell to it like they think it's just hydraulic fluid but brother as someone who had to sniff sonny eclipse's fumes for multiple hours a day for 8 months and also rode spaceship earth like 5 times a week that is NOT hydraulic fluid smell

i've also heard it claimed that it's mechanical oil but the smell is specifically in the lobby and in the hallway scene so if that's not a pumped in smell idk what it is. it smells like perfumed mustiness it's absolutely delicious but no one has ever recreated this accurately for a candle or anything

[weatheredcopper]

what do you collect(if you do collect; doesn’t have to be serious or anything), fav piece of jewelry or clothing item, current nail color

i have an extremely normal answer which is that i collect porcelain clowns

my favorite clothing item is probably my dark green turtleneck. its too hot to wear it rn but when fall comes im ready

i dont have my nails painted rn but when i do its always black

[soft-crimson]

There's nothing more frustrating than when you wanted something and couldn't get it

[mrsoharaa]

I'm soo ready for fall! my self ship fall moodboard of me x Suguru! 🥰🍂🍁🎃🤎🧡❤️

🍂🤎 fall dates include; pumpkin patch wondering, crispy fall rainy kisses / dancing, cozy home baking (cookies, pies etc!) / movie marathons, enjoying the beautiful foliage of the bright colors of the trees, backyard bonfire with yummy tea/coffee while snuggled under a warm throw blanket, cute autumn pics / selfies, a nice peaceful walk around town to enjoy the beautiful fall weather, cute little picnic dates, bookstore stops, pumpkin picking + carving, attending to an autumn festival, hay rides / mazes, apple picking. 🤎🍂

[deva-arts]

If you were turned into a candle by a mischievous candle wizard what scent of candle would you be?

Yeah.

(You can make custom candles apparently???)

[rowan-e-ravenwood]

been researching candle making and i can feel myseslf getting less normal about it by the second

[searenbound]

Made my own candle today! I’ll show y’all in a second but it smells so good!

[martyrbat]

getting really into burning candles lately :)

[nexus-nebulae]

i wish bath n body works made like. deodorant,,, like perfume is nice and all but i do not like The Wet

[fireflowersims]

Imagine it's 3:30 AM, you're in bed, sleeping like, ya know, a normal person does, whrn suddenlt you are workn up by noises

Is it rodents? Is it a big-ass freight plane? Is it a disaster? Are sirens foing off? No, no, no and no

IT'S YOUR ASSHOLE BITCH OF A ROOMMATE SLAMMING DOORS, AGGRESSIVELY UNLOCKING HER DOOR AND LEAVING AGAIN!

Oh and did I mention you wake up to the amell of nicotine in your bed?

Your bed that is as far away from he door as possible?

I lid you not I woke up to that fuckign stench IN MY BED

I can't stand this, I should issue a complaint to the landlord. This is incredibly anti-social behavior.

What fucking reason could she have to come in this late/early, WAKE PEOPLE UP, then leave the house again?!??!

I don't know, I don't care, I just want to sleep damnit.

[witchern]

hey guess what i'm doing yet again

2k23 let's write a new book, nerds!!!!

[bluesey-182]

*silently presents a candle to my fiance while he plays video games*

fiance: ooooo that one smells so good!

*silently nods and lights the candle*

[soggypotatoes]

I'm so obsessed with candles I'm gonna be that tweet of the guy spending thousands on candles in a minute

[juicydangler]

oh yeah, foreshortened future is a whole thing with PTSD, can also occur with depression and possibly as a downstream effect of time blindness in ADHD (although find me a person with ADHD who isn't traumatised, we have confounding factors here) and it's why I can get snarly about people telling me to live for today, you could die tomorrow, yolo, live like you're gonna die young, etc. bc worrying about or planning for the future is actually a positive sign that I can conceive of a future at all and I worked really hard on that. Not being able to believe that I might survive has actually had ruinous impacts on my entire life and I don't appreciate anyone trying to undermine my efforts to repair it no matter how well-meaning.

The thing that made a tangible difference for me (YMMV) is writing my tomorrow-self a note before I go to bed every night. It's not exactly leaving myself a to-do list, although it usually includes reminders of things that need doing, and it's not journaling although it often includes reflections on the day I just had, it's more like a short letter addressing myself tomorrow as someone who will in fact exist. Like, my particular case was severe enough that waking up every day was kind of a surprise (at some points severe enough that going to bed was too, like what do you mean a whole day happened and I'm still here) so that's how small I had to start, but over time making regular efforts to see the next day as a reality I will probably have to deal with has allowed the growth of a longer sense of my own existence into the future, now I can almost imagine a whole year of existing, even if it gets a bit blurry after about three to six months. As a result I can sometimes do things like preventative care, maintenance, make and keep multiple appointments, deal with things before they become a crisis, finish projects that take more than a few hours, file paperwork on time, you know, live like I might actually live.

love ppl online being like "ur literally 30" like do u think thats not gonna happen to you??