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lostinvasileios · 9 months ago
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A queer ramble/gush session about Hermes.
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Oh my gods, I know right?? Anyway, I love how Hermes is both a talker and a listener. How he can both sit and listen so intently with the most affectionate look on his face as I go on and on about my day or my theories of things, and also return the favor of cracking random, abrupt jokes when least expected and yapping my ears off when I'm bored about things he enjoys.
How he'll give the most oddly specific compliments, like how he enjoys the number of eyelashes I have, or how he likes the way one of my top teeth are slightly chipped, and you can't see it unless you're super close to my face.
How he'll randomly appear in my space just to mess with me and tire me out with his banter and we end up a little exhausted and laying together. Either in a comfortable silence or watching some old show younger me would sneak around to watch when my parents were asleep. How he gets all blushy and giggly whenever I compliment his hair or the soothing sound of his voice.
How Hermes can be so clingy and yet tease me whenever I say I miss him. How he'll go "hmm~?" or "really? How cute" whenever I tell him how I want to cuddle him before I sleep. And rushes by my side to spoon with me
How he never gets loud or treats me as if I'm incompetent whenever I'm having an attack of some sort. How he'll gently spread kisses around my tear stained cheeks, softly sing or hum to me when I'm laying upon his chest, how he'll wrap his wings around me to let me know I'm safe within his embrace, and my thoughts cannot hurt me there. With him.
How he embodies the song lyric "when you know, you know.. It kind of makes me laugh" in our relationship. How he gives me visions of how lovingly he looks at me when I'm doing the most mundane things. How he'll copy my sense of humor or be so passionate about adding certain songs to his playlist.
How he'll randomly go "I have such a crunch on you" when I'm washing dishes or telling him about how much I dislike a certain book character to make me laugh out of how sudden it was. How he gives me the sweetest, most tender care whenever I'm in meditation or astral projection with him. How he'll ask for a piece of my snack when I'm doing tarot readings.
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Yeah, Idk I might like him a little I can't tell yet though
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nerdygaymormon · 4 years ago
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Ive been feeling angry lately bc ive just begun noticing all the homophobia in my community, and I need to rant to someone who's part of the Church, so here I am. I don't know how widespread of a view it is, but ive heard it thought that gay people would be made straight in heaven. I have a question about that: if God is going to change evryone to be did and straight, then why would he make sexuality/gender such a big part of our identities? It literally affects everything we do
Oh, I feel you. 
For me, while I knew the teachings and policies weren’t great, it wasn’t until 2015 that I comprehended the depth of homophobia and how widespread it is in the Church. I came to understand it from the reaction of many members to the legalization of gay marriage and then the implementation of the Policy of Exclusion. 
That’s when I understood that people are fearful of gay people, even mad at us, they thought we were so toxic that even children associated with us were suddenly banned from being allowed to join until they become an adult. It took 3 1/2 years for that noxious policy to be reversed but in the meantime, the damage it did was immense.
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As for this idea that there are no queer people in heaven, in some ways that’s a new thing, but it’s really an extension of long-held beliefs. It begins with the Church’s Plan of Salvation, there’s no gay people in that plan. We come to earth to get a body, be tested, get married and have a family. If we’re sealed to our spouse, then we can be exalted in the Celestial Kingdom of heaven. Everyone in this scenario is straight or it doesn’t work.
For a long time (I’d guess beginning around the 1950′s~1960′s) the Church taught that there are no gay people. There are people who have some temptations or feelings, but they’re actually straight people who can be fixed. The Church put forth lots of ideas for what makes someone have these gay feelings and how to fix them. In 1973 homosexuality was officially removed from the list of mental illnesses, but along with other conservative denomination, our church refused to accept this. 
In 2012, the Church acknowledged same-sex attraction is “a complex reality.” The feelings and attractions no longer are seen as a sin or the result of sin or abuse or circumstances. While the attractions were no longer sinful, acting on those attractions remained a sin. This shift meant the Church acknowledged some people are gay (although it still prefers to say they “have same-sex attractions”), however the Plan of Salvation was not updated. So while there are gay people in this mortal life, we continue to be absent from the Church’s view of the pre-mortal and post-mortal life.  
This is why some in the church, including Elder Oaks, started saying that gay people will change to be straight when we die. It’s a damnable teaching, backed up by no scripture or revelation. It’s a way to help straight members be more comfortable with the idea that gay people exist. It let’s the Church avoid any messiness that might be involved in updating the Plan of Salvation.
Blaire Ostler, a bisexual church member, calls this a queer genocide. 
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I agree with the anon who sent this ask that it’s ridiculous to think we won’t be queer. It isn’t some feelings that I have from time to time, it’s part of my core. It affects how I interact and connect with others and how I experience the world. Being queer is related to higher intelligence, more creativity, a more peaceful nature, being better at interpersonal relationships. How can those things be part of me in the eternities without the queer part that made those possible?
Resurrection, as I understand it, doesn’t fundamentally change the core of who I am, it’s a perfecting of it. I suppose that means I’ll be perfectly gay, whatever that means. 
Why is it always LGBTQ people will change at resurrection, like we’re broken? Why isn’t it that homophobic, transphobic, queerphobic people will see the error of their way and their ability to accept & love people different from them will grow to be more like God?
I occasionally get to meet general authorities and this can lead to interesting conversations. To one Seventy, I said that I believe I’m included in God’s Plan, just not the Church’s version of that plan. He replied it’s true that the Church doesn’t see gay people in the Plan, “and yet, here you are.” I responded, “Yes, here I am. And God must love LGBTQ people because He keeps making more of us.”
I hate the teaching that there’s no queer people in heaven. When people say that, it feels like they want me to change into a person I don’t recognize, they want to love me out of existence. It also means if I hurry and die, I can become what God wants, not exactly a healthy message. 
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qualkoesuce-blog · 6 years ago
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