#i hate social norms
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araminthe · 3 months ago
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There's something I need to get out before going to sleep:
I don't like people who always take their stress out on others.
I don't like people who always criticize and don't even try to understand other's choices and differences
I don't like people who only see the bad around them, especially in other people, completely ignoring everything that's positive and just harshly criticizing others
I don't like people who feel entitled to give you their opinion when it has not been asked
And don't like being yelled at because I don't agree or understand a stupid and irrational social rule
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none-ofthisnonsense · 3 months ago
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i want to say "i love you" but i can't
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suja-janee · 8 months ago
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I love Lucy Maclean, she’s such a sweetheart
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cinnamonsikwate · 11 months ago
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"why couldn't shuro have just been honest about what he felt with laios and falin it's not that hard" are you. are you White
#dungeon meshi#shuro#toshiro nakamoto#look you can hate him for other things but this is very clearly a case of cultures (& personalities influenced by these cultures) clashing#shuro is japanese/east asian-coded and laios is european white boy#i am not japanese but i also come from a collectivistic society#pakikisama is a filipino value both prized and abhorred#it relies heavily on being able to read social cues and prior knowledge of societal norms#shuro being from a different country/culture is important to his character#his repressed nature is meant to contrast with laios' open one like that's the point#they both had similar upbringings but different coping mechanisms#shuro explicitly admits that he's jealous of laios being able to live life sincerely#anyway the point is they were operating on different expectations entirely and neither had healthy enough communication skills#to hash things out before they got too bad#re his attraction to falin i personally believe he unfortunately mpdg-ed her#she represented something new & different. a fresh drink of water for his parched repressed self#alas not meant to be#i'll be honest the way ryoko kui handles both fantasy & regular racism in dm is more miss than hit for me#i don't doubt that a lot of the shuro hate is based off of marcille's pov of him#marcille famously racist 😭#characters' racist views don't often get (too) challenged#practically everyone is casually racist at some point#anyway. again if you're gonna hate shuro at least hate him for being complicit in human trafficking & slavery#he couldn't help falling for the wrong woman goddamn 😭#calemonsito notes#edit: upon further reflection i take back what i said about toshiro mpdg-ing falin!#i'm sorry toshiro 😭
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grimdarkqueen · 5 months ago
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Fuck finally! I am here for Mysaria and Rhaenyra's agenda and now hope they go full-on crazy for each other and be happy in the grimdark world till death pulls them apart. Yes doing art of them as soon as I am able.
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cannedpeachlover · 4 months ago
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hello to like 2 other aries fans
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intermundia · 1 year ago
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the thing that i don't understand about how most people's brains work is that, like, for me, making prolonged and repeated eye contact is an unbearably intense, invasive, and intimate experience. the sensation is like putting your hand on a hot stove lol idk like each time i make eye contact i'm immediately flooded with so much painfully detailed emotional information about the other person, i can't help but process it at the same time as i am trying to do something else. it takes conscious effort to not get overwhelmed with that much information, and during an interaction where you're supposed to be answering a question that takes recall and explanation, it's just super distracting and triggers so much anxiety. i get plenty of emotional information from reading people's body language and voice, i don't need direct access to their soul to have a conversation lmao. i know that's not at all how most people experience social interactions, and i just wonder what it's like to actually enjoy or seek out eye contact. how is it not distressing to people lmaoo i can't even imagine
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spirograffe · 6 months ago
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this is my first summer not shaving my pits tell me i look cool and hot and normal
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adiresituation · 9 months ago
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As much as I hate it when my mother forces me to shave my legs, as much as I despise her for it, deep down I just feel sorry for her. Because she was also just a young girl whose mother told her that her own beauty, her own worth came from the perception of others. That she would never find a boyfriend, never have friends, because they would all look down at the hair and her legs and find it disgusting, unhygienic, “masculine”. And so she would shave them. Every few days for forty years. And then she would have a daughter and the cycle would continue. My mum would repeat those words to me. The same words that her mother told her, that her mother’s mother told her, that society had told her over and over again that it become almost subconscious - second nature. They are the words they tell every woman, young or old. They humiliated them and convinced them that they were “ugly” and “unclean” so much so that even women now will still repeat those disgusting words.
So how can I blame my mum when it was never really her fault. The whole thing’s a mess. But I swear if I ever see anyone telling anyone they should shave their legs, arms, whatever, I WILL PUNCH YOU. (I’m half joking)
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berry-hwa · 4 months ago
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just met some youngins and at one point one of them was so blatantly and hilariously homophobic (whilst playing with toys?) it made me burst out in laughter (HOW does she even know what gay means shes like 5-6😭😭😭😭😭⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️)
...so anyway its now my life goal to make them embrace the gay when they're older to understand :3
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monsterkitties · 1 year ago
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olivia is so tfw no gf because shes. awkward as fuck Like That and Crazy. every woman she meets within ten minutes shes talking about something like the politics of fuckin bleaching your asshole or psychologically analyzing them as a person or how the entire whole of existence literally everything IS. a circle.
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songs-ofa-dyingbird · 2 months ago
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I like the idea of being a vampire because of the inherent guilt of eating.
Something you must do to survive, yet you have to hurt someone to do it. You don’t get a choice. Even if they let you, even if they give you permission you still have to hurt them. They will still bleed.
You’ll be shunned for this thing you have to do, you don’t get a choice. Their life is more valuable than yours. You are just a monster after all.
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1o1percentmilk · 10 months ago
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when i was young i used to think about if everyone else in the world disappeared overnight, and how nice it would be, because for me, it meant total freedom. i would never have to follow rules for anyone again, i would never have to perform for anyone again, i would never disappoint anyone's expectations of me ever again
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docmerlin · 2 months ago
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public perception on illness has shifted so far that people think i'm insane for not wanting to hug them when they're visibly sick but if they see a medical mask in any context they freak the fuck out
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ego-sum-arbor · 8 months ago
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I’m rotating Sophie/Clarissa very hard rn
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jwisun · 3 months ago
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you’d think, being the internet veteran that i am, that i’d know how to use this site. but alas.
is the formatting i use okay? is it better to answer asks with my stuff or to post it separately? are the tags im using good, should i use more or less?
any guidance is very appreciated.
thank u for all the asks :3 thank u for liking my writing. im having fun <3
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