#i hate social norms
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There's something I need to get out before going to sleep:
I don't like people who always take their stress out on others.
I don't like people who always criticize and don't even try to understand other's choices and differences
I don't like people who only see the bad around them, especially in other people, completely ignoring everything that's positive and just harshly criticizing others
I don't like people who feel entitled to give you their opinion when it has not been asked
And don't like being yelled at because I don't agree or understand a stupid and irrational social rule
#People are stupid sometimes and when its long term it can quickly wear the person out and seriously affect them#i hate social norms#especially the ones that stop me from doing what I want to without a valid reason#i hate people who yell and cant control their emotions#and i hate being hurt and having to endure everything#its not because i dont show it that it doesnt bother me#i may act like one but i am not a robot#feels like people always exploit me yet still complain about everthing i do#sorry that was just a rant#now i feel better#i never complained like that#but it does help me heal a bit#im very patient and always try to be positive to protect my mind but sometimes i just run out of patience
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i want to say "i love you" but i can't
#i hate social norms#how if i told him it would automatically be thought of as romantic#but he's like my brother#my best friend#pg je t'aime
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I love Lucy Maclean, she’s such a sweetheart
#fallout#lucy maclean#I’m just so glad they made a naive protagonist but made her actually likable and competent#like you can tell from my blog that I typically enjoy and relate to male characters more but#I WOULD DIE FOR LUCY#I dunno if I’ll draw more of the fallout show but I’m really considering cause I love all three of the main characters#it took some getting used to Maximus cause I was like BRO JUST STOP ACTING SUS AND MAYBE PEOPLE WILL LISTEN TO YOH MOREEE#But he definitely grew on me#he is also a precious bean that needs to be protected#and possibly taught social cues cause damn did he screw himself over a lot bc of that 😂 😭#OH MAN AND NORM#I LOVE HIM#I know he’s not really a main character but I’m DYING for more of him#I totally thought I was gonna hate norm and Lucy since both are kinda tropey characters but they’re so damn well written#oh yeah and the ghoul is neat 🙂#( just saying this cause I know my sister will read these tags and attack me if I don’t say something positive about the ghoul LOL)#doodle#my art
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"why couldn't shuro have just been honest about what he felt with laios and falin it's not that hard" are you. are you White
#dungeon meshi#shuro#toshiro nakamoto#look you can hate him for other things but this is very clearly a case of cultures (& personalities influenced by these cultures) clashing#shuro is japanese/east asian-coded and laios is european white boy#i am not japanese but i also come from a collectivistic society#pakikisama is a filipino value both prized and abhorred#it relies heavily on being able to read social cues and prior knowledge of societal norms#shuro being from a different country/culture is important to his character#his repressed nature is meant to contrast with laios' open one like that's the point#they both had similar upbringings but different coping mechanisms#shuro explicitly admits that he's jealous of laios being able to live life sincerely#anyway the point is they were operating on different expectations entirely and neither had healthy enough communication skills#to hash things out before they got too bad#re his attraction to falin i personally believe he unfortunately mpdg-ed her#she represented something new & different. a fresh drink of water for his parched repressed self#alas not meant to be#i'll be honest the way ryoko kui handles both fantasy & regular racism in dm is more miss than hit for me#i don't doubt that a lot of the shuro hate is based off of marcille's pov of him#marcille famously racist 😭#characters' racist views don't often get (too) challenged#practically everyone is casually racist at some point#anyway. again if you're gonna hate shuro at least hate him for being complicit in human trafficking & slavery#he couldn't help falling for the wrong woman goddamn 😭#calemonsito notes#edit: upon further reflection i take back what i said about toshiro mpdg-ing falin!#i'm sorry toshiro 😭
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Fuck finally! I am here for Mysaria and Rhaenyra's agenda and now hope they go full-on crazy for each other and be happy in the grimdark world till death pulls them apart. Yes doing art of them as soon as I am able.
#house of the dragon#rhaenyra x mysaria#rhaenyra#mysaria#house of the dragon spoilers#spoilers#I hope Rhaenyra leans more on her gender fluidity#welcome back angry Rhaenyra that hates social gender norms
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hello to like 2 other aries fans
#feat. my FREAK fo76 oc Doc who is a FREAK and should NOT be trusted with doctoral duties#is that a word idk#sorry for switching between interests so often um. i just have 3 different things rotating in my mind at all times#i hate them whatever#oc x canon#fallout 76#aries fo76#fo76#my art#fallout oc#theyre like an old married couple except theyre not married#weird autistic situationship where they both have no concept of romantic social norms
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the thing that i don't understand about how most people's brains work is that, like, for me, making prolonged and repeated eye contact is an unbearably intense, invasive, and intimate experience. the sensation is like putting your hand on a hot stove lol idk like each time i make eye contact i'm immediately flooded with so much painfully detailed emotional information about the other person, i can't help but process it at the same time as i am trying to do something else. it takes conscious effort to not get overwhelmed with that much information, and during an interaction where you're supposed to be answering a question that takes recall and explanation, it's just super distracting and triggers so much anxiety. i get plenty of emotional information from reading people's body language and voice, i don't need direct access to their soul to have a conversation lmao. i know that's not at all how most people experience social interactions, and i just wonder what it's like to actually enjoy or seek out eye contact. how is it not distressing to people lmaoo i can't even imagine
#feeling autistic on main today sorry lol#i wish it wasn't such a strong social norm#like it's not everywhere in the world#hate it here lol#actually autistic
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this is my first summer not shaving my pits tell me i look cool and hot and normal
#it’s literally been so long since i posted my face on here idr if i have a selfie tag#anyway i have the brain worms where i firmly believe that everyone else should get to do whatever they want to their body#but i personally am a filthy and disgusting beast that needs to follow every social norm or else everyone will start hating me#but i hate shaving my armpits i always cut myself!!!#selfie#zoya talks about stuff
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As much as I hate it when my mother forces me to shave my legs, as much as I despise her for it, deep down I just feel sorry for her. Because she was also just a young girl whose mother told her that her own beauty, her own worth came from the perception of others. That she would never find a boyfriend, never have friends, because they would all look down at the hair and her legs and find it disgusting, unhygienic, “masculine”. And so she would shave them. Every few days for forty years. And then she would have a daughter and the cycle would continue. My mum would repeat those words to me. The same words that her mother told her, that her mother’s mother told her, that society had told her over and over again that it become almost subconscious - second nature. They are the words they tell every woman, young or old. They humiliated them and convinced them that they were “ugly” and “unclean” so much so that even women now will still repeat those disgusting words.
So how can I blame my mum when it was never really her fault. The whole thing’s a mess. But I swear if I ever see anyone telling anyone they should shave their legs, arms, whatever, I WILL PUNCH YOU. (I’m half joking)
#rant#rant post#femenism#internalised misogyny#misogony#mother#society#fuck society#fuck social norms#the idea of shaving legs literally came from men trying to sell razors to women#I have to say though#any girl who hates another girl over that fact that her legs are or aren’t shaven can die#like wtf#please educate yourself#before I punch you#women#everyone is beautiful#fuck the haters#women supporting women#as they should#😡🤭😍🥰
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just met some youngins and at one point one of them was so blatantly and hilariously homophobic (whilst playing with toys?) it made me burst out in laughter (HOW does she even know what gay means shes like 5-6😭😭😭😭😭⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️)
...so anyway its now my life goal to make them embrace the gay when they're older to understand :3
#i think its so important to teach children that not everybody fits the social norm#whether it be to teach them about disabled people! people of color and different race! queer people!#teach them to embrace all these very human traits so they dont grow up to be bigoted!#some kids raised in these conditions will grow to shun such minorities and even be disgusted with their existence instead of just...#letting it go and treating them like...humans! some might even be disgusted with THEMSELVES if they started to suddenly question their lives#and i just think...thats so sad to raise such a happy joyful thing to be hateful of something you dont personally stand by#anyway i dont get political like this...like ever!! but this kid really got me thinking about these situations#and i truly wish that i can be in contact with her maybe 10 years for now and tell her that there's nothing wrong with being gay :3#unless she figures it out herself which is also entirely possible lmfao
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olivia is so tfw no gf because shes. awkward as fuck Like That and Crazy. every woman she meets within ten minutes shes talking about something like the politics of fuckin bleaching your asshole or psychologically analyzing them as a person or how the entire whole of existence literally everything IS. a circle.
#olivia: will there be women at the function#aaron: yes#olivia: im not going.#aaron: OLIVIA HW ARE YOU GONNA GET WIFED IF YOU DONT TALK TO WOMEN#olivia: I WILL EMBARRASS MYSELF AARON ITS HIGHSCHOOL ALL OVER AGAIN ALWAYS WITH EVERYONE#pov aaron hates his best friend dumps her starbucks all over her#SHES SO AWKWARD SHES THE AWKWARD QUEEN#she definitely is so autism. she has no care or concern for social norms shes just gonna jump into talking about. fucking something#always something with her#worlds most computer-oriented brain#olivia octavius#useless words
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I like the idea of being a vampire because of the inherent guilt of eating.
Something you must do to survive, yet you have to hurt someone to do it. You don’t get a choice. Even if they let you, even if they give you permission you still have to hurt them. They will still bleed.
You’ll be shunned for this thing you have to do, you don’t get a choice. Their life is more valuable than yours. You are just a monster after all.
#robin rambles#vent blog#tw ed mentioned#does this count as writing?#robin writes#ugh I’m being weird about vampires again#I’m tagging this shit with like Kin and alter human#cause some of yall might get me#and also#I might be#idk#I’m not sure if I fully understand it#but like- man. to be a vampire.#not even in a ‘oooh gender envy ooooh sexy vampire ooooh fuck gender/social norms’ kinda way#but in a ‘isolated hated bu society. there something wrong with you deep down and there’s nothing you can do about it other than die.’#a cursed creature of the night. hurting everyone you meet. your mere existence is a sin and fighting to live is what makes you evil.#ugh- does any of this make sense?#vampire kin#vampire aesthetic#vampire otherkin#vampire alterhuman#otherkin#alterhuman
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when i was young i used to think about if everyone else in the world disappeared overnight, and how nice it would be, because for me, it meant total freedom. i would never have to follow rules for anyone again, i would never have to perform for anyone again, i would never disappoint anyone's expectations of me ever again
#of course that was just a fantasy and today for better or for worse i am a very strong proponent of having a set of rules and norms#-to follow to ensure the smooth working of society which means that i think people should be able to understand and play by those rules#rules that are fair and equitable#even if it means making personal sacrifices#but... i think that's why i wanted everyone else to disappear#i dont think i can exist in a way that doesn't compromise myself as long as even a single other person exists that i am aware of#though im an introvert i am a social creature to a fault.. i meet people in the middle.. im an aggregate of people i know but not *me*#and i think i really hate that about myself.#yap#moodboard#^ INFJ villain monologue#like id slay as a villain i think. i have the fucked up ideals
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public perception on illness has shifted so far that people think i'm insane for not wanting to hug them when they're visibly sick but if they see a medical mask in any context they freak the fuck out
#getting sick every 2 weeks and knowingly spreading it to other people is the norm now i guess!!!#and then there's most liberals who will only mask if they're visibly sick and want to go to a concert or something#being aware of and giving a shit about deadly illnesses should be like a pretty standard position#but it's like crazy radical leftist shit now#i can't correct people when they say 'back during covid' bc it's not socially acceptable to acknowledge that it still exists#and it's considered Too Political to inform people about something that is actively killing them#i hate this reality as if my life wasn't fucked enough in 2019#now everyone's 'moved on' from a problem that still exists#even worse now BECAUSE no one gives a fuck#so those of us who do give a fuck have to work much harder to protect ourselves#while we watch the people around us destroying their health#all bc this hell country prioritizes profit over people#not even to mention the so called leftists who SEE me screaming about this in every platform#and still go 'oh well if you're more comfortable masking that's fine!' :)))#and the continue to go about their daily life pretending we're 'post-covid'#i'm so tired of playing nice about it#vent //#ness talks
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I’m rotating Sophie/Clarissa very hard rn
#the combo of very limited but completely different life experiences#woman who’s desperate to be liked and has little notion of social norms meets woman who’s deeply conventional but hates criticizing others#solidarity over strange relationships with sex#I just want them to kiss and maybe fuck about it all#is that too much to ask#my blather
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you’d think, being the internet veteran that i am, that i’d know how to use this site. but alas.
is the formatting i use okay? is it better to answer asks with my stuff or to post it separately? are the tags im using good, should i use more or less?
any guidance is very appreciated.
thank u for all the asks :3 thank u for liking my writing. im having fun <3
#im not good at social norms even on the internet#the autism cannot transcend tumblr i fear#also like am i allowed to post like this? or will everyone hate me#<- overthinker#ok bye#help pls
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