#i had to suffer from the vitriolic reactionary hatred of anti endos and i will break the cycle here

[v-is-for-vivienne]

I fight for the endos because I know what it's like to be bullied into denial and forced to believe my trauma is something it's not just to be allowed to exist. I don't want anybody with any identity or experience to suffer like that, regardless of their scientific validity. hence why stances like "they're just traumagenic" are just as bad to me as "they're fake". it fucking hurts people. it hurt me.

nobody should ever have to dig up trauma of horrific abuse to be accepted. nobody should ever have to change their view of themselves to be accepted. nobody should ever have to lie about their experience to be accepted. nobody should EVER have to cry themselves to sleep because they will never exist the right way. Nobody deserves that. Not just Legitimate Systems. NOBODY.

I don't care if your experiences are real. I don't care if you're labelling them correctly or not. I don't care if you're in my space or using my community's resources. I really don't care if you actually have trauma or not.

All I will ever care about is that every single person feels comfortable and accepted in the way that they are. and is never made to feel like they are bad for that.

(as always, if you disagree or think in any way shape or form that I am wrong about any of this, just block and move on. this isn't for you and you won't change my mind about shit. I don't care.)